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frozenSun:
If this whole fake story ia true, then Please ask Katherine Jenner to take u to a nice doctor for gender swap. You are need to be wearing g-strings and bra and lipstick and sanitary pad.

but the entire story looks cooked up. I don't believe it

That's your business bro.

Malayy:
you have male cousins, brothers. go with them, and throw that girl out from that house.. remember she's just a woman..she no get gun nah..

I tried. She also has brothers too and uncles who are soldiers.

donbenedict:
and why would he carry four policemen all because of a 23 year old girl? Hw silly dat is.



Op pls lower ur pride and beg her for forgiveness, like stage it as if u mean it. Den once she accepts.. on a nice day wen she is off guard, throw her out.

Hmmm

Sounds ok

goodmorning40:
Go and buy like four police men storm the house with them and let them give her one hour to pack and leave and let her report to the station to sign an undertaking of her keeping away from the house and u r safety .after that vacate the house for some time before u move back in

If you read my previous threads. I mentioned it that her father is a soldier. A military man. Trust me I've tried police. It didn't work. I'd not just leave my house like that. It's after I tried everything I had to do the last thing.

goodmorning40:
Eeeyaaa! U run away to friend for a Girlfriend. That means u will run away to heaven for a wife

Anyway that shows ur a gentle man, but if u value the house u can quietly repossess it from her

How sir?

donbenedict:
U just left ur house? For a lady who isn't ur wife? How dumb is that?



U betta go bak in thr and throw her the fvck out from your house!

I tried to do that but It didn't work. Instead I got more bruises and I tell my colleagues at work it was an accident. So I let go

Following my previous lamentations on my aggressive fiancee.(You can check my profile to follow-up).

it had gotten really worse. When I first made my report on nairaland, it made front page and she is an active Nairalander and she saw it. She knew I was the one and she is the one in regard. And she took it out on me violently which I also came back to report on Nairaland again which she also saw and continued and continued to torture me.

I finally did what Nairalanders advised me to do. I broke up with her and cancelled all wedding plans.

When I told her about it. I was expecting some emotional reaction. But she didn't flinch. Instead, she told me that I cannot break up with her that she will continue to hunt me for as long as possible and any lady I affiliate my self with will be hunted down by her as well. She refused to leave my house and insisted that I "make her leave".

I left my own house for her and returned to my friends place to squat pending when I'm able to travel back to my dad's house as I'm not ready to die.

Life is really an irony. I never for once in my life believed that I, as a man would end up in such situation at the hands of a 23 year old lady. I have decided to leave everything behind especially my house as I believe God will give me another one just as He gave me this past one.

Thanks to Nairaland for saving me as this is the end of my lamentation. Now I shall return to my original moniker

Following this thread: https://www.nairaland.com/2977640/fiancee-very-aggressive-rude

I was thinking it was getting resolved because after tried some solutions shared by some users on the forum, she changed a little and became more fun but just 4 days ago she was surfing Nairaland (she is also a Nairalander but not so active) and one way or the other she dabbled into the thread and after reading she calculated and figured it is I who posted since I'm an active nairaland user for a long time. She became angry.

The next day I realize I was having stomach upset and I went to get some over the counter medications and did a test in those nearby small clinics. They told me I was poisoned. I challenged her and she admitted it. Saying she will do it again that I went on reporting her to Nairaland forum. She was so angry and told me to be very careful that she won't poison me next time that it will be far worse.

I could take it no longer I reported her to her brother who assured me it is under control that he will handle it.

Please I think I am ready 2 call off the wedding bt I fear I will break. Because it's going to be a fatal blow to my heart because I really love her even she knows.

Although some people are saying I should take d fight to her bt I don't think it's a fight I will win because she s way out of my league and stronger.

Is there anything else I can do?

Dammiesugar:
No wonder she's treating you so badly, my dear there are still alot of well-mannered babes out there. Stop fooling yourself cos she helped you. In life some people aren't meant to be married to eachother but they force the marriage and later regret. 'I am talking from marriage counselling that I have done in the past'. Just braceup and be ready to face any consequences afterwards cos it seems your mind is madeup to dine with temperamental lady. (let us know when she beats your mum for eating meat)

I tried what the strahovski man said and the trust fall thing worked. She caught me when I fell and I asked her why she hates me she said that she doesn't hate me that I am only doing things at the wrong time and at the wrong place.

We are communicating now.. for the past 3 months we haven't really talked as much as we talked last night most times she goes out and just threatens me and shut me up but last night was different. I see hope now at least she has given me a reason for 8 months of no reason for her actions.

No true counsellor would ask me to run away.

drmikeadams:
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Yes I won't open another thread if you guys can make reasonable comments. So a lady you encounter who has mental issues you just run away huh? If all guys run away...

Never mind... many of u don't even understand. U just hae friends with benefits called girlfriends who u can replace easily. So thanks. I'll pass

madgoat:
This is very nice to read. The OP knows what to do but he stills comes here to ask for advise.
I am patiently waiting for ur thread again after marriage on how ur wife beats u and ur family members up.
#sipping nescafe and crossing my legs

On second thoughts, i hope it wont be ur graphic pictures on nairaland on how u were stabbed and killed by an aggressive wife. Oh well, we love graphic pictures on NL so go ahead and marry her. NairaLanders get ready for his graphic pictures!

Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.

Thanks.

kpolli:
I disagree with you sir, she might have said yes because everyone of her friends is married and she wants to join the league asap.....

I actually think she doesn't love him and is very frustrated that she can't marry the man of her dreams so she lashes out at him

I doubt it's because her friends are married. Most of her friends are single ladies. She is only 24.

bimbor:
I'm sure its a movie script. If not then u are already on a spell to still be in that kinda relationship by now!! Like wtf!!!

Its not a movie script

sorepco:
May i ask...y is so hard to dump this lafy??
She does not respect nor fear you. She will kill you...

I love her so much and i tried to see if i could contain the situation but it has gotten out of hand.

Touchforfree:
If I may ask, does she fight about or getting aggressive with her neighbours or other pple as well ?.

Yes sir, most of her staff in her office complain about how aggressive she is towards them but she doesnt flow with neighbours she is the solitary type. Unless they talk to her and most times it does not end well

fejikudz:
Oboy u mumu die oo



see how low self esteem has reduced you to a loaf of agege bread.

What would you have me do?

MrCork:
...is her name Kashybaby?

No sir

Taiwo20:
Carry on and sign your death cert. I will gladly attend your potential ceremony. You know what to do....I won't advise u

If I knew what to do I would not have come here. And if you won't advise me why quote me? Why not just pass over the thread?

Thank you all.

I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.