Bro, if I can call u dat, its obvious u don't plan to leave dis vixen. But u ought to have a major rethink or better still post pone d marriage indefinitely...........
Until u sought her temperament out!!!!!!
It could save u from an early grave.

My broda u r lik all dose traditional gods wey get eyes wey no dey see and get ear bt dem no dey hear. Hw can sm1 u wnt to marry beat up ur sis b4 ur wedding and u r here asking wat to do. If u marry dis aunty,walahi if ur mama no chop confirm mending, mk I knw wetin cause am.i am nt here to insult u bt I am suprised @ wat u r asking. Pele

Kondomatic:


If she eventually comes back later to apologise, it means nobody loved her like I do so I will let her go again.

Epic..
Like checking out when they about checking in..

A girl u have not even seen her pants touched ur blood sis at ur presence while all you could do is beg n plead..
She will soon torture ur mum when u marry her..

I would have disowned u if u were my son..

Inspinia:


Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.

Thanks.

Okay bro, we are just concerned about ur safety. Death frm an aggressive spouse is real bro.

Inspinia:


Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she

donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.

Thanks.

No wonder she's treating you so badly, my dear there are still alot of well-mannered babes out there. Stop fooling yourself cos she helped you. In life some people aren't meant to be married to eachother but they force the marriage and later regret. 'I am talking from marriage counselling that I have done in the past'. Just braceup and be ready to face any consequences afterwards cos it seems your mind is madeup to dine with temperamental lady. (let us know when she beats your mum for eating meat)

Dammiesugar:




No wonder she's treating you so badly, my dear there are still alot of well-mannered babes out there. Stop fooling yourself cos she helped you. In life some people aren't meant to be married to eachother but they force the marriage and later regret. 'I am talking from marriage counselling that I have done in the past'. Just braceup and be ready to face any consequences afterwards cos it seems your mind is madeup to dine with temperamental lady. (let us know when she beats your mum for eating meat)

I tried what the strahovski man said and the trust fall thing worked. She caught me when I fell and I asked her why she hates me she said that she doesn't hate me that I am only doing things at the wrong time and at the wrong place.

We are communicating now.. for the past 3 months we haven't really talked as much as we talked last night most times she goes out and just threatens me and shut me up but last night was different. I see hope now at least she has given me a reason for 8 months of no reason for her actions.

No true counsellor would ask me to run away.

Inspinia:


I tried what the strahovski man said and the trust fall thing worked. She caught me when I fell and I asked her why she hates me she said that she doesn't hate me that I am only doing things at the wrong time and at the wrong place.

We are communicating now.. for the past 3 months we haven't really talked as much as we talked last night most times she goes out and just threatens me and shut me up but last night was different. I see hope now at least she has given me a reason for 8 months of no reason for her actions.

No true counsellor would ask me to run away.

Chai,your mumu no be from dis planet walahi.

omoelesa:
Chai,your mumu no be from dis planet walahi.

I concur.... when your destiny isn't tied to her o.. Anyway the babe is now trying to hide her attitude for sometime. I am patiently waiting for new episode.

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

I believe you don't need any help cos you know the what to do. If all have been well you will not come here to tell us. I have been in similar situation before [/b]when you are so obsessed about a lady who care nothing about your well being. My brother wake-up before it is too late. Gone are the days men kill women these days women kill men any how. [b]Free her and ask God to give your own wife which will come with ease (talking from experience). My brother she doesn't love you or you are not up to her standard. She is just managing you hence she is upset at every instant. Then you spend most of you time begging God to help you keep her in the relationship instead of praying for your progress. Leave her, work on yourself become rich she will run back to you but (still don't marry her). Bro she is not your wife you don't need any prophet to tell you this. She will beat or kill and your family members since she is even richer than you.

Ran for your dear life, call me later to thank me.

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

Girlfriend Training Rule #1: Do not reward bad behaviour.

If you want any unwanted behaviour to stop, punish it.

Your attention is the ultimate reward. Give it when she does things that please you, and withhold it when she doesn't.

Why do you want to marry this girl by force? The only condition that should earn your commitment is that a woman is superbly well behaved.

Your behaviour is the cause of her shitty behaviour.

Treat her how she deserves to be treated.

[b]Lolz....RUN FOR YOUR DEAR LIFE OGA MI[/b]

Inspinia:


I tried what the strahovski man said and the trust fall thing worked. She caught me when I fell and I asked her why she hates me she said that she doesn't hate me that I am only doing things at the wrong time and at the wrong place.

We are communicating now.. for the past 3 months we haven't really talked as much as we talked last night most times she goes out and just threatens me and shut me up but last night was different. I see hope now at least she has given me a reason for 8 months of no reason for her actions.

No true counsellor would ask me to run away.

When your life is in danger a true counselor WOULD ADVISE YOU TO RUN AWAY!!! That is what everyone here is saying, but you are HELLBENT on sticking with your violent and abusive fiance even to your own detriment.

I am glad that you have spoken to her but PLEASE POSTPONE YOUR MARRIAGE INDEFINITELY!!!
If she changes (remember people almost never change) then you can set a new date for the wedding, if she does not then you end the relationship. The ball is in your court

op u are acting like a pvssy, u showing signs of desperation, being too clingy and needy dats why shez gettin mad at u with ease. u cant force ursef down a lady's throat just cos u wana make her happy. u are only giving her reasons to hate u. no girl likes a guy who acts lyk a pvssy n begs for attention.

First of all, YOU DO NOT MARRY A WOMAN QUICKLY. They are not commodity that has expiry date, you take ur time and make the right choice.

Secondly, run for your life or you end up like Lowo (RIP), he sacrificed his life for the love of a violent woman.

LastSurvivor:
A girl u have not even seen her pants touched ur blood sis at ur presence while all you could do is beg n plead..
She will soon torture ur mum when u marry her..
I would have disowned u if u were my son..

;

Bro, God is love n love is God. God dosent hurt so love shouldn't hurt as well.
This love will kill u. It's better u let go now that u can. We don't want to hear ur story in Linda ikeji blog.
A word is enough for the.... choose d one u are.

Inspinia:


Excuse me what's with you guys? I came here seeking for advise on how to repair my woman who is broken mentally not to hear 'run away', "the ibadan man" and so on..

The only sensible comment I have seen so far was the second one from strahovski. And I have tried what he asked me to do and I plan on updating him tomorrow.

This is someone I love unless she is dead I cannot be with another person knowing fully well that the one I really love since I was 6 years old is out there. Don't you get it? I did not pick her on the street she is not some girl I met at a club that I can just drop easily. Not so easy.

Indeed I see she is mentally broken and I'll fix it. Many of you don't know what it feels like to love someone for real. I was 12 when she donated blood for me back then. So I cannot just run away.

Thanks.

You feel connected to her because she donated blood for you?

What's the point of being married if you don't plan to have peace of mind.

She needs therapy and an outlet to vent out her anger. Writing? Dancing? Gym? She needs a psychiatrist to help her figure out what's wrong and possibly put her on medication.

Unless she gets professional help, i don't see things getting any better.

But Men like you are rare and thank you for your patience, just don't end up 6 feet under.

visitmanchild:
Bro, God is love n love is God. God dosent hurt so love shouldn't hurt as well.
This love will kill u. It's better u let go now that u can. We don't want to hear ur story in Linda ikeji blog.
A word is enough for the.... choose d one u are.

Unfortunately, love hurts for many people.

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

in COMMANDO'S voice.... RUN

Live An abusive relationship alone

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

Dude I know exactly how u feel although mine never tried to get physical,... u can't hit a woman as it is wrong but I will tell u this, going into a marriage with someone who obviously has no respect for u is a no no... If u think because she's ur childhood crush it's ok to take her bs then u r wrong... she won't change and I can bet it with u she behaves like that cos she's shagging a few other men... It will not end well if u force urself into that marriage... call it off...

It is better to sin against man than to sin against God. If u marry her, you will be treated like a second class citizen in ur own home... Love ain't blind... she wears guide shades... be wise... don't let ur heart lead... use ur head...

this sounds like a joke.even if is a joke.im sure someone feels the scenario painted.aggresive,bad tempered women that goes to the exent of belting your sister needs help.not a husband.pray till kingdom come,u will never be hapi with her if u marry and both of you may one day end up murdering each other.

Sonnynebis:
She needs to visit a psychotherapist

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Stupedinluv:
Marry her, she may change later.

Am not sure u are alright

Inspinia:
I no longer know what to do. We have been together for 8 months and I want to marry her quickly. I have my reasons. She has been my childhood crush for years and now that she gave me a chance I don't want it to slip away. Many guys flock around her so before one asks her to marry him I had to do it first. And she is very responsible and definitely not a fling.

But I have problems with her aggression. A little thing she picks an issue with it and starts dishing out hurtful words to me. I always try to apologise and make her happy even when she is wrong not me just so she will be calm. It was working before now it no longer works. Whenever I try to make her happy she gets more angry and tell me I'm trying to patronise her. If I take her out on shopping she will be so angry that I'm trying to buy her with money that I don't love her.

My fellow brothers, what do I do? There was a day I had to invite my sister to come talk to her as woman to woman talk this lady pulled the belt on her jeans and began to assault my sister I'm grateful to God that I was there even my left eye is still bruised wth the way she hit me too that day. And the worst of it all is everytime she gets more angry and more violent.

I threatened to call off the wedding thinking it will make her rethink but it didn't instead she got angry that day and pushed me against the wall. God saved me beause if there was knife or bottle around that day with the way she was angry sh could have used any on me.

Please I need assistance from matured minds. I love her so much that I don't want to call off the wedding I want her to be wife but her aggression is too much. She get angry easily. She outrightly told me no sex till marriage and I can't do anything about because she seems stronger than I am (Yes she works out alot. Perhaps because she is a model or so i don't know)

I need help.

wetien they worry u self how she go act like maniac. and at the end of the day u go con say na love push u
Bleep love,it has gotten many good men killed