yarimo: Obi the pretending scammer of the year yes daddy's boy
omo you need to get a life. 2 am and you are here carrying Obi matter for your head. Give yourself brain nah. Sit down and think about your future, ur own personal future. Ask yourself where you will be in 5 years time and if you are currently on the right path
Kalatium: With another year almost gone, it’s time to reflect on what you accomplished and what you couldn’t and what to do better in the upcoming year.
If you’re like any other ambitious man out there, you would probably have a lot of regrets on the opportunities missed and things you wish you had done better.
Before you start planning yet another new year’s resolution, let this guidelines help you make next year even better.
1. TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY Assume that you have full control over everything that matters in your life. No more excuses, no more blaming, no more complaining about how the world is against you.
It’s not easy, but it’s quite simple: change yourself and your environment to suit your needs.
Stop trying to change what you can’t and accept them, and adapt to your situation as necessary. If you want a better life, hold yourself totally responsible.
2. SPEND LESS TIME ON POLITICS I realized this more this year than ever before: people spend way too much time reading and talking about politics instead of doing things that bring value.
People either go on the Internet to complain and whine about what’s happening around the world that they don’t like, or, boast about how the world will be better because X happened or if only their vision for a better society came true.
All this political nonsense has become no different from women gossiping about celebrities’ lives or boring people talking about their favorite television shows as if any of it is real.
Another thing that runs hand in hand with complaining is arguing. Arguing is a dumb waste of time that gets you riled up for no reason. It just keeps you busy not really doing anything tangible.
If you value your time, don’t do it. And always remember: Action > Words.
So, if you want next year to be better for your life, either: take active part in making political change (online activism doesn’t count), or, don’t read anything and don’t say anything about politics and focus on yourself.
Put more simply: Do something about it or stop reacting.
3. PRACTICE GRATITUDE No matter what you may accomplish in the future, no matter how much of what you think will make you happy, your level of happiness in the future will likely stay the same.
Most people don’t realize how great they already have it until they lose it. Instead of waiting for that eventuality, try to appreciate what you already have by practicing gratitude. I know it’s not easy if you’re ambitious, but try.
4. SYSTEM OVER GOALS Some of you may disagree, but I believe having vague goals with solid system is better than having solid goals with vague plans.
Goals often change and evolve over time as you gain more life experience, but the path towards accomplishment is usually solid and requires your dedication.
So, if you’re planning to create another new year’s resolution that looks more like a wish list of things you want, scrap it and look for ways to engineer your lifestyle by planning a system for development instead. I have written a book now published on Amazon on how to use systems to accomplish your goals.
5. CULTIVATE DISCIPLINE You’re a slave to your circumstances and weaknesses until you have the necessary discipline to be steadfast.
My biggest regrets of this year happened because stress and emotional disturbance destroyed my productivity and mental frame.
I lost countless hours that could have been put to work by being wavered by mere feelilngs. If you want to do anything better next year, learn to cultivate discipline first and foremost.
6. ALWAYS DO SOMETHING WORTH WHILE I’ve noticed that all the guilt I have about having wasted my valuable time comes down to the fact that I gained no lasting value out of it.
For example, I feel bad about all the time that I wasted watching unnecessary movies because I gained nothing worthwhile out of them, only momentary pleasure.
On the other hand, I have no guilt associated with all the time I spent working out or learning something valuable—even when I failed and even if they were painful—because what I gained from them still stays with me.
The key to having a better life is to do what will benefit you over time with and not be caught up by instant gratification that is usually short lived. Aim long-term and learn to enjoy the process.
7. RENEW YOURSELF It’s easy to get stuck in a loop in our modern world. If you feel bored or unmotivated, try something completely different to shock yourself alive.
Self development is not always about adding you also need to substract. Sometimes, it’s more important to cut out the bad activities than to do something good. If you’re serious about making your life better, the time is now to stop the thing that’s holding you back. Shed the old you to renew yourself.
8. BE CONTENT By far the most important lesson I learned this year was that nothing matters if you’re not content. Sure, you could potentially devote yourself to a higher meaning or purpose to forget about how brief and insignificant your life is in the grand scheme of things, but why not do it in a position of contentment?
Why live a life of perpetual frustration and longing where you constantly chase things that you think will satisfy you?
Whatever you want in life, they will not go away just because you decide to be content with where you are now. In fact, contentment may even help you achieve your goals better as you won’t be as outcome-oriented, allowing you to focus more on the process instead. No amount of money, sex, and “success” is worth grinding your life away.
9. GET REGULAR SLEEP As someone who gets completely derailed if sleep is delayed by an hour or if I have to wake up earlier than usual, I don’t know how others manage to function with irregular sleep patterns.
Sleep is a vital aspect of your health and you should aim to prioritize it as much as exercise and diet.
10. THERE IS ALWAYS A SECOND CHANCE I see a year as a microcosm of life. You make plans, you have expectations, but things unfold in ways you didn’t expect at all.
My principle in life is to expect the best but always prepare for the worst. As Mike Tyson will say, " Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face."
Just because your plans didn't work out due to the vicissitudes of life doesn't mean you give up on your goals and life in general.
Unlike the one life we have, you get another year, another chance to do better. We shouldn’t take such an opportunity so lightly.
Plan your 2024 well, 2023 is gone.
Make use of your time wisely for at the end of it all, you will look back and reflect on what has come to pass and realize just how fast time goes by.
thebestprice: Everywhere literates are the majority , Peter Obi won.
That tells you a lot about the APC. don't it ?
Not really o. Ekiti is said to be the most educated state in Nigeria owing to the number of professors per household there but see the results. APC won
DaCharis2016: Pls can I get the link to print my paper copy for collection?
Here IMPORTANT INFORMATION
Please if ur slip is missing or the information on the slip has been wiped off, kindly use this link to get your slip and go to INEC office in your LGA to collect ur PVC
Did you do double registration? Heard those that did had both the old and new records wiped out, as double registration amounts to electoral fraud.
Dont know how true this is though.
anadozie1: The people working at inec offices are confused. I have been there several times but I can't find my card. I tried using the online PVC registration status. I get the feedback that my records can not be found.
Many people are having the same issue. They are trying to frustrate people into giving up collecting their voters card. I don tire sef
gloryhomemaker: Ewa Agoyin is a delicious beans and stew recipe, where the beans is cooked tender enough that it melts in your mouth. The stew is so delicious and can be eaten with bread, boiled yam, boiled potatoes, fried plantain, etc.
This video gives an easy to follow steps on how to make the tastiest Ewa Agoyin stew recipe.
Ingredients:
Glory can you help with any recipe that contains mushrooms? Wanna try something with mushrooms.
Dried bell peppers (Tatashe) Dried peppers (Ata Dindin) Palm oil Onions Ginger Crayfish Seasoning Cubes Salt to taste
STEPS: Select the beans of stone, dirt and chaff. Soak in cold water for up to 2 hours. Soaking the beans helps it decrease flatulence, bloating, drains out any insecticide used in preservation, cook faster. Cook the beans till soft and add salt to taste before mashing it. Soak dried peppers and tatashe in hot water for up to 20 minutes. Wash and blend the peppers with crayfish, ginger and onions. In a dry pot add in palm oil, bleach it and add chopped onions, fry till the onions turn golden in colour. Add in the blended ingredients and fry till very dry without burning it. Add in seasoning and salt and fry a little more. Serve and enjoy your Ewa Agoyin. I eat mine with bread, what do you eat yours with?
Great review @safarigirl. Thoroughly enjoyed the series. And to think I was forced to watch it by my wife. The characters came to life particular mentions are Oga Rambo, Ishaya, Michael and even Derenle too. Zina was also great.
Stevo35: In churches, especially down here in the east, I’m sure seeing couples with their little helps saddling big big bags and babies during service, isn’t new.
My parish, a lot of families come to church with their helps…how do i know they are helps?
Their outfit, carriage and responsibilities, gives them out godu.
The couple usually dress to kee na impress. Their children dresses sweetly as well; pretty hairdos and nice haircuts mana their helps…
They are clothed in drab cloths and most of the time, spot freshly shaved bololo instead of a hairdo.
As i was putting finishing touches around the altar steps, a couple stepped in with their kids…one look and i knew who the help was.
They located somewhere and sat…kids from ages 3 to 9 go upstairs but since the help was carrying a toddler, she had to sit with her guardians.
The bigger child, went upstairs to the kids department. I didn’t think much about it…I see such, every Sunday at Mass.
Now when Mass started proper, I went upstairs to sit with the kids…i like going upstairs because i get to see everything happening during Mass, at once.
That particular help, started going in and out of the church…they stayed just close to the side door.
Now babies cry in church…not new but each time the toddler cried, the help, takes her out then comes back in when she has stopped.
The toddler would always want to come down from the helps laps but she’d grab her to sit…toddlers don’t like sitting still.
I watched keenly like say na wetin dem send me go church go do…i am a very curious person.
Now when the toddler tried to get down again, she missed her step and since the help couldn’t grab her on time, the pretty baby landed on the floor, on her face.
She wailed and everyone at Mass paused.
Her mother got up, carried her and signalled for the help to follow her…they went outside.
Something told me to go straight to the window and what i saw when i looked down, made my blaad run cold.
As she was rocking her baby with one arm, she used the other hand to lift the helps ear, to the high heavens.
Bent her over, locked her head in-between her thighs and in quick succession, land three slaps to her back.
The help came up for air, writhing with one arm frantically massaging her back to meet another uppercut, to the face.
Me: I was like holy mary!
Do you know why i found what she did nauseating?
She Beat that child then rocked hers sweetly till she stopped crying.
When she came into the church, that is, when she passed the door into the church, she genuflected!
Catholics genuflect to the crucifix when they step into the church!
This woman genuflected after almost splitting a poor girls back!
Jesu Ovie!
. Quite sad and unfortunate. Happens a lot though. I pray these girls get help.
On another note. You actually write very well. Try writing a book
Hes not serious with US and hv no solid plan to be with me
Then you are fine without him. People are like leaves, branches and roots. He has chosen the one he wants to be your life. Accept it and move on dear. You will be fine.
I sincerely wish i had shoulder to cry on, but i dont have a single friend, i only have ppl i talk with on the random. And im not interested in having friends either, I will go through my pains and hopefully would be fine. Writing here helps
You are a great person keep praying..But Try something fun. Maybe it's time to build on your self and take up some of the things you haven't been able to do while you were dating .
Please anyone know anywhere where I can get or do mobile marketing (sms marketing in particular or whatsapp marketing) for nursery, primary or secondary school proprietors, headteachers or owners? I need between 5k - 10k of them. Anyone know any service or available directory?
1. Get an accountability partner(s). Someone who can help or keep you accountable. Porn habits thrive in shame and secrecy.
2. Replace the Habit with something else: reading, gaming, going out with friends, etc..when you have the desire try those new habits.
3. Get help and resources;. Stop M app, iron will app, husbandmaterial.com, Google articles about masturbation and read, etc
4. Get a girlfriend to keep you emotional balance.
God will help you overcome.
Kipling: Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.
I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.
I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.
Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.
Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.
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