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TravelRe: Abroad Guys: Would You Relocate Back To Nigeria If Given $40k by iod69779: 1:25pm On Nov 15, 2022
I have much more than that but I will not, NEVER. I will miss ordering from Amazon, hearing much less honking on the roads, not having a speed dial police number, having a stable job, fewer dust on the streets, more polite people, fewer places to run to and have a quick number 1 and all that

Every country has their issues but Nigeria issues are too basic and frustrating for the average person who has lived abroad so it's a No No
FamilyRe: Marrying A Feminist by iod69779: 9:58am On Jun 25, 2022
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RomanceRe: by iod69779(op): 9:37am On Sep 29, 2021
siofra:
Are you a Nigerian?
Yes living abroad. Why?
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FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op): 2:02pm On Aug 10, 2021
Lamanii22:
Why do you want to end your marriage?
Sorry, may I ask why you want to know? This thread is not about why I am ending the marriage.
FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op):
Realashbobby:
As a man, you got back lively almost immediately after the failed marriage, but as a woman especially when kid/s involved. It may take more than 3 years oo. I have been there for over a year now.
No kid(s) involved. It's also hard when you invested much and have to start all over again esp when you are not getting younger. Wish you strength as you go through yours
FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op):
mariahAngel:
Abegi! grin

Kim Kardashian was almost ready to give birth (to Kanye’s child) before her divorce with Kriss (or is it Chris sef cheesy) Humphries was finalized. cheesy
Kim lives in CA where adultery is not illegal. Every state has its own laws

As of 2017, the US states with laws against adultery are Arizona, Florida, Kansas, Illinois, Massachusetts, Oklahoma, Idaho, Michigan, Wisconsin, Minnesota, Utah (of course), New York, Mississippi, Georgia, North Carolina, South Carolina, and Maryland.

copied from https://www.quora.com/In-which-states-is-it-illegal-to-commit-adultery

cc: crackhaus
FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op): 2:59pm On Aug 07, 2021
crackhaus:
Correction... It's a nonexistent marriage since you can't salvage it anymore, by the looks of it.

So who then are you still trying to impress with this talk of respect & reputation?
Yourself, or your soon-to-be ex-wife?
I live in the US, divorce settlements can get complicated if there is infidelity involved
FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op): 2:44pm On Aug 07, 2021
crackhaus:
If you have checked out emotionally, why then are you waiting for the marriage to end before making moves on another woman?

The earlier the better oo, cos it's so much more profitable to have someone you're already dating while going through a divorce (it's not cheating anymore) — it will also help keep body & soul together as divorce proceedings can be quite exhausting.
You have a point but I'd rather do it the right way at least for respect and reputation sake because its marriage not singles relationship
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FamilyRe: How Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op): 1:57pm On Aug 07, 2021
advanceDNA:
If there’s no violence or infidelity, isn’t there a way to resolve what you have now....??
Many times, we look for reasons we shouldn’t do something while we ignore why it should be done....

Every relationship has got its Wahala...it involves two different people, with different background and ideologies coming together...it’s not a miracle, or a soulmate or God’s will thing that will make it work...it’s patience, tolerance, forgiving and conscious investing in the love that will make a relationship last....because love is just 5% feeling...
Thanks for your advise. No violence no infidelity but it may lead to infidelity if we continue like this and neither of us wants that. I know divorce doesn't sound exciting but I think we all deserve to be happy, if that makes sense.
FamilyHow Long Did It Take You To Get Back Out There After Marriage Breakup? by iod69779(op):
This is one of a series of threads I'll be creating to learn from your personal experiences

I may end my marriage and put myself back out there soon. Emotionally checked out. When you ended your last relationship, how long did it take you before going back on a dating website or making your superman moves on a woman?
FamilyRe: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by iod69779: 7:56pm On Jul 08, 2021
Ishilove:
The studies conveniently failed to tell people that masturbation also causes quick ejaculation, low self esteem, reduced IQ etcetera etcetera. That's how the devil deceives people by listing out imaginary or short term benefits in order to encourage people to keep digging themselves into deep pits.
Maybe you could share your research, but many doctors actually recommend masturbation as a way to help with premature ejaculation. Check out these two articles:
US National Library of Medicine: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6859670/
Mayo Clinic: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/premature-ejaculation/symptoms-causes/syc-20354900

Notice the Mayo Clinic or the NCBI does not list premature ejaculation as a consequence of masturbation

On the issue of low self esteem, studies actually show premature ejaculation help to improve self esteem. Check out this article by the Planned parenthood:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation/masturbation-healthy

Just to be clear, I am not personally advocating for or condemning masturbation, just stating facts.
FamilyRe: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by iod69779: 5:26pm On Jul 08, 2021
Ishilove:
The US is quite a cesspit, isn't it?
Depends on the lens you're looking from. Religious people and doctrines have their views while health professionals have theirs as well. Some studies suggest masturbation offers mental health benefits. Also, if it prevents men from seeing women as sex objects who's job is to satisfy their sexual urge, prevents men from lying to women about their feelings in order to get them to bed, prevent various forms of rape, prevent men from marrying for the wrong reasons (like only sexual satisfaction), and prevent married men from being unfaithful, do you think a society that encourages it is so much out of place?
FamilyRe: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by iod69779: 5:25am On Jul 08, 2021
PrimadonnaO:
Most single men in their 40s have issues... I'll personally be weary of attempting to date one.
Not entirely true. Come to the states and see many single men and women in their 40s who are single by choice or because they were focused on their careers
FamilyRe: Can I Get A Good Man/ husband From Nairaland by iod69779: 5:22am On Jul 08, 2021
Ishilove:
You are a proud masturbator, to the extent you even gave yourself the nomenclature. Oga carry your wahala and well serviced preek dey go.
lmao males are expected to be masturbators in the states o. Many women see it as strange if a man doesn't masturbate, they won't believe you
FamilyRe: Difference Between Nigerian Women & Western Women by iod69779: 1:35am On Jul 05, 2021
OP other than the typos, you nailed this post with a good degree of precision. I have to admit I am one of those thinking about coming back to marry a Nigerian woman because of food, culture and language. Some people tell me its not worth it but a stubborn part me still hopes to find her. Apart from the food, culture and language i stated above which are important to me, I think oyibo beat Nigerian women hands down
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FamilyRe: Entitlement Mentality By Friends And Family Members by iod69779(op): 5:42pm On Mar 17, 2021
phorget:
You did well my brother.
grin
FamilyRe: Entitlement Mentality By Friends And Family Members by iod69779(op): 5:42pm On Mar 17, 2021
ThiagoKid:
Nice one you did there...
cool
FamilyRe: Entitlement Mentality By Friends And Family Members by iod69779(op): 5:41pm On Mar 17, 2021
mariahAngel:
The stupid guy be wan GBA you.

I felt therapeutic when I read the last part.
Seriously he felt entitled to my money
FamilyEntitlement Mentality By Friends And Family Members by iod69779(op):
A friend decided to buy a laptop from the US so he asked me to help him buy and ship to him in Nigeria. He would then wire the money back to me. At first i asked why he could not buy it from Nigeria and he said they sold fakes there. That sounded strange because I assume there are reputable stores there in Nigeria, but anyway I order the laptop from Amazon, it arrives, I go to the courier to ship it because he preferred Fedex and not the cheaper shipping options available. The cost to ship was about $500.

Guess what? He told me he didn't budget for shipping and thought I would help him do that. He was telling me this at the point of shipping. What made this an unpleasant surprise was that I informed him right from start to add about $500 shipping cost to the cost of the laptop and compare that with the cost of the same laptop in Nigeria and he said he was fine with that.

I returned the laptop and got my full refund from Amazon.
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