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Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 8:57pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
chigoizie7:By their fruit, ye shall know them |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 8:57pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Karlifate:Exactly... The poverty mentality is a serious disease. I came from a home where we had BAD ass money, our home was like market square with so many relatives but at a point, the money left our home and all men left as well. Now, if you eventually find that man who has the money you want and say he loses it due to circumstances beyond his control, what will you do? DUMP him and look for the next available rich guy? 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 8:53pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Walk:No... I am not taking it personal. Why should I? Read my post again.. I am not against turning down a man but when you cross the line by insulting them or using their financial predicament to haunt them, that is the height of stupidity |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 8:25pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Walk:Suffering of their parents being replayed? Is that more reason to go insulting another human? Why don't they insult their parents who brought them into penury? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 8:20pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
Greatzeus:I see. This is more like it. Thanks for the clarity and explanation. It is not my nature to look down on others. Never have, never will. 7 Likes |
Romance / Why Do Nigerian Girls From Poor Home Broke Shame Guys? by ipain: 6:54pm On Jul 26, 2020 |
These set of species are fond of broke shaming guys who develop interest in them. If they want to turn down a guy or end relationship, their most used weapon is to broke shame him. My question is why do Nigerian girls love doing this? You are broke but you find it pleasing to broke shame another person. If it was easy, you father and mother would have had it, which doesn't make sense to me. One positive thing about this event is that in most cases, it pushes the guys to hustle hard to make more money, however it can also have negative consequences wherein the guy goes on to do fraud or he gets it legitimately but start treating girls like trash. My advice is, if you want to turn down a guy or break up with him, do it respectably. There is no point trying to use a guy's present predicament to mock him because you don't know what he has in mind or what God has in store for him. I will give you two scenarios: I go dye was once broke, forking bro, so much that he does some shows for almost free and one of those were my distant cousin's birthday party. Today, we all know where he is. I don't know if anyone here know "the diamonds" who won the star music show years back. Here is the thing: about 3 for them were from my school. Among that 3, 1 came from outside and through a roommate we became friends. What makes this guys story different is that his step mother maltreated him( the guy from outside among the 3 as he was not a student) This very guy's name is Blessed. He used to seek my help to eat food and it got to a point, he started asking me to help him with my shoes to attend shows. Blessed had a good voice and somehow along the line, he got into the show along with 2 other guys from my school. They eventually won, traveled to some countries and back, at that time, I did even have an international passport. Where they are now, I have no idea. Just felt like sharing this story because you Nigerian girls from poor home are so fond of doing this broke shaming on souls you didn't create nor know their destiny. I am not against turning guys down but never make a mockery of them just to make yourself feel good. 6 Likes |
Crime / Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by ipain: 10:36am On Jun 17, 2020 |
m140:North will be better off how? Ordinary corona, u see dem shipping their people down south... |
Crime / Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by ipain: 10:35pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
EliteBiz: What if i TELL you Nigerians are not nationally united by ethnically united? This explains why it is very easy for South East or South West to protest anything that touches their ethnicity than they would for their nationality. Nigeria is the way it is because nobody believes in it or takes it serious but every region believes in their ethnicity more, And guess what, it will get worse until we are all tired and decide to go our separate ways. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by ipain: 10:27pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
EliteBiz:The point I am trying to make is not everything can be solved through prayers because God will never answer a prayer where he knows you can do something about it... This is hard to accept 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Oshiomhole And Obaseki’s Credentials By Femi Aribisala by ipain: 10:25pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
Salvador1:d man don burst tinubu own too just the way he did Osho here. In fact, he did Tinubu own first 7 Likes |
Crime / Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by ipain: 10:18pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
EliteBiz:I no vex ooo... imagine person dey owe me money right now.. him dey insult me ontop my money then i go come go kneel dey pray... lol.. I will be at his house before this week runs out.. him go beat cos i no get time for nonsense. |
Crime / Re: Mike Pompeo Issues Statement About Nigerian Fraudsters by ipain: 10:01pm On Jun 16, 2020 |
EliteBiz: You were making sense until you decided to mar it with religion... since I was born till now, the amount of prayers Nigerians have been praying is more than enough to develop the country IF prayers is what others used to develop their country, Nigeria should be ahead of even almighty U.S by now... make una dey use una head |
Politics / Re: COVID-19: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Hope Uzodinma, Tells Him To Resign by ipain: 11:37am On Apr 01, 2020 |
Ninethmare:You people turned every online platforms into dust pin where you are quick to drop account number like u are the only ones with problem... the ease with which u guys are quick to drop account says a lot about your personality and you are just one of those I have seen today, let that sink in that you and your gangs are becoming a nuisance. Do not forget there are lots of foreigners who visit here. stop being a disgrace please. Yes, I called you a lazy dolt. 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: COVID-19: Kemi Olunloyo Blasts Hope Uzodinma, Tells Him To Resign by ipain: 11:14am On Apr 01, 2020 |
Ninethmare:Seun need to start banning you lazy dolts... 1 Like |
Family / Re: What Was The Most dangerous Rough Play You Did As A Kid? by ipain: 10:49am On Apr 01, 2020 |
I boiled water in a kettle and try to siphon it into a bucket like I saw adults doing with mouth and that was how I SUCKED hot boiled water into my throat and had it burnt... that was one of the most painful injury I ever had. |
Health / Re: Oreoluwa Finnih: Patients With Chloroquine Poisoning Now Being Admitted In Lagos by ipain: 7:38pm On Mar 20, 2020 |
Alimzy20:Meaning what? |
Family / Re: What Was The Most dangerous Rough Play You Did As A Kid? by ipain: 5:53pm On Mar 20, 2020 |
Me? Jumping off a moving pickup truck. Climbing fence that had spikes |
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