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FlyingMonkey007:
I don't think she's vindictive if she doesn't soften up for him by the end of the year. I think she will but maybe keep being distant or at least less communicative towards him.

You can't begin to imagine the hurt and sadness she's going through. No one knows her life history of rejection and the pain it brought to her. She's probably thinking about her entire life right now and trying to hold and be happy with herself even if it means being silent on him.

The man already suggested her love was undenaibale before they finally married. She probably still loves him and with the blow he gave to her she's trying to figure out where she stands and how she fits in. Not an easy task when hurtful words come from someone your deeply love and cherish.

And another thing - she's s woman. Women can love you to pieces, to the moon and back, and that same love can turn cold becoming unrecognizable as a result of a hurt caused.

If she loved him before she'll love him again, maybe not the same way or with the same depth but she will. It's gonna take time. It's not the same process for a man. Men and women were not built the same way.

~Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus~ if you've heard of the book.

The man was very insensitive with such utterances. He deserves what he gets.. weapons hurt the flesh, words hurt the heart. If it takes her the next 2 years to love him again, so be it.. as long as she's not plotting any form of revenge.

How many Nigeria dey abeg?

I am not saying you should call it quits, but take your mind off that relationship. You don't have any assurances.

jovialswag:
You want to sue your landlord for naija

Is there a law against that?

Nuclear99:
The next club Man City go catch

They'll draw Watford.. I can assure you

It takes real courage to choose this path. Hope she finds the peace she seeks.

Anytime I see two ladies fighting or beefing I always think it's because of a man.. And it's disgraceful

I cover my future daughter with the blood of Zachariah! Upcoming Yoruba demons

Catch-them-young Crew... come and see una colleague

WriterX:
glad I could contribute , the killer (s) will be found, serial killers tend to get too comfortable over the long run leading to their eventual capture.

I wonder how long that is going to take. He picks hotels with less security.. he's sophisticated such that his suspects don't raise an alarm.. and our security forces are sometimes very useless.

tartarus:
Lol you really know nothing about serial killers if you think they operate alone. Research bro! Many serial killers had partners

American couple serial killers.. yep, read of em. But definitely not this one bro... I'm not going to believe otherwise.

WriterX:
please check out my logical conclusion after carefully going through five major cases, hopefully it can be moved to the front page.



https://www.nairaland.com/5419108/white-cloth-killer-what-need#82271541


I am a crime story writer and a freelance investigative report writer , I found distinctive patterns on cases and I believe people are taking it the wrong way at the moment.

Read it. Your theory makes sense and I can go with it.

hopefulLandlord:
what's the man then?

An opportunist. Lol

Kingbarbie01:
so after she forgives, d next quarrel he says something worse, no matter what he should not have said such heart breaking statement to her cos he loves her. probably d guy is feeling trapped ND in d mist of d heat he spoke his mind, a man who truly loves his woman will Neva say such to her. d remorse is just an act from d conscience but I think she got d msg wen he said those awful things to her. she's got her own plan trust me.

Our greatest happiness is usually gained through pain. I didn't say she has no right to be angry, but this could be a turning point in that marriage.. continue with that act and live miserably in a marriage or use this as an opportunity to strengthen their union. Apparently, she's choosing the wrong option.

hopefulLandlord:
maybe she just wanted to have sex without any string attached?

Okay, she's a wh0re then.

I have heard of a young lady who had sex with someone she just met on that day. And that lady wasn’t a prostitute.

Funny. How is she not a prostitute?


I'd rather be addicted to sex than alcohol or anything else. Everyone is addicted to something.. fact.

Communication is essential in every relationship. Imagine your spouse has a need, but won't ask you because he/she thinks since you live together, you are supposed to acknowledge and attend to his/her needs. You'll think it's pride and nobody likes the proud.

I'm not a Liverpool fan, but the last thing I want is Man City lifting that trophy again! You two better get your acts together.

A country where kidnapping is the highest paying "job". If this trend continues, imagine this country in the next 10 years.. Most of these young people will succumb to the pressure because they know there's nothing out there for them. The government has failed the people.

Ogbunigwe2018:
Same here
Just that I would avoid Bet9ja like a plague.
Heineken sounds appropriate

Something must kill a man bruv.. But it shouldn't be a woman

Funny enough, a high-profiled politician may be behind all these. Callous individuals hell-bent on destroying anything good left in this country.

LilMissFavvy:
Some people cannot just heal. Not everyone can heal. You asked if she should sulk all year, left for the lady to answer, but many adults know that words of mouth has destroyed even the best of relationships and marriages.

She can, if she leaves the marriage and find someone else. But that is not the best option. I understand tho, she has the right to feel hurt. What she/they need right now is a marriage counselor. She needs to let out that hurt/pain.

Zita55:

100 virginus

Such a lucky fellow