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theButterfly:
You should be empathetic to her b/c the things he said were too much /incredibly hurtful, and shows he doesn't love her that much.

How would you feel if your own so-called spouse tells you

1. You were never who they wanted to marry
2. You weren't their specs
3. You were/are too old for them
4. If someone younger was available you wouldn't have blinked twice before marrying them

She is never going to forget these words and it's going to affect their marriage henceforth. He shouldn't have married her if these were his feelings going into the marriage. Anger typically exposes hidden feelings / things you've been bottling up, so I do believe he meant them.

Okay.. If it were you, what would you do?

Doesn't make it less of a zoo. Welcome back to hell amigos!

At least the lecturer had the boldness to admit he was useless. Most of them are useless anyways.

Stop writing long epistle coz I didn't read that.. Solution is simple, you kick her the fvck out!

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Hey, make sure you kick her where it hurts

Most of these pretty girls are just bimbos. If I had a sister like this, I'd disown her. Imagine this fuckery!

Good. Virgins await him. Allahu akbar

LilMissFavvy:
You are 100percent wrong. The woman might have forgiven her, but those words has left a wound in her heart. When the people we love say horrible things that breaks the heart it can hurt badly, even after forgiving the person.

Listen, I've had firsthand experiences. I've said horrible things to my gf and she's said unbelievable things to me as well... All in moments of anger. My mum has said things she should never say to me before, she was very angry. But beyond all of these, I know these people love me because they've proved that.. And I love them as well. One moment of unwholesomness is not enough to wreck a relationship, not to talk of a marriage.
So her husband got angry and said bad things to her, what is the best thing for her to do? Sulk over it all year?

Now I see why you "repented" and became an evangelist. People always seek succour in religion after living a wasteful life. I'm not judging tho.. Just stating a fact.

I'll rather use my money and play bet9ja than send a kobo to a girl. My orientation is way different.

Everyday you guys wake up and give us reasons why we should disregard religion. It's really working.

ashewoboy:
where are the moderators?

You want them to delete the thread? Don't see why else you'd call them

Imagine what happens when we all die... Silence, loneliness. Whatever makes her happy..

What else other than money? Even death or dying doesn't bother me.

Baba dance o.. Life is short, especially for men of your profession

I need to work on my sense of humor

professorval1:
Life is short.
You've got to enjoy it as much as you can,

While ensuring you affect other people's lives too.

We dont know for sure what's waiting for us over there..

Eternal silence awaits us

And this doesn't happen in Nigeria? Okay, we wanna go judgemental on them now coz we holding grudges? Lol

Please let's blame the Nigerian that sold him the gun and drugs

Common Borno state military never intervene finish.. You want them to go to South Africa and get slaughtered some more.
Tell your dumb government to extract its citizens from that country... That is the smartest move they can make right now. That is what America would do.

This is where being good looking and cocky becomes a serious advantage.

I wonder why you'd feel comfortable sharing this. People dey get mind sha... Zero conscience!

I don't support jungle justice but mehn.. When you accidentally become a victim to these guys, your heart go black. Especially those calabar south boys.. Imagine cutting and stabbing someone because of Nokia torchlight

He should have stabbed the demon