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Nice tips from a lady with d big hips dats making some nairaland guys standing on d list to get at least a glimpse of d big hips ...

TrishaP:
Years of practice

exactly

Well... It's only does who can't control their emotions ends up fighting to kip their man.. Being in control of Ur emotions is more like taking charge of a wild animal.. Maturity z needed to kip it in control... Take for instance "someone hits u hard on d bk... Den u turn around.. U look d person in d face .. u think hard "I don't know dis person before wat was his or her reason for such act"... den despite d pains u r going thru from d blow , u still gave d person a chance to explain his or herself... <= dats MATURITY

heaven knows both of em r so off ... Just take a look at d one with tattoos.. Yuck disgusting...

chibwike:
the topic is misleading

Gbam.. u just thought exactly ... dis wud only drive peeps to secure d so called "Fame"... Am wandering y topics r being recycled.. N besides dis place is O.Y.O ..

tosyne2much:
Baba, na Ekiti here I dey ooooo


I no dey far away at all

Lol

Sleekyshuga:
Don't worry.. You'll meet her someday.. All we pray for daily is life..

True sha

Well... for now none.. hoping to meet a lot f em tho... Sleekyshuga,ireneony,ladyboss1(she's actually far away).. nd all does funny guys dem.. tosyne2much,o.p etc.

LadyBoss1:
Lol dont even know self

Lol... evening bae..

LadyBoss1:
Lol u wont even manage one of us .. U cant subdue both.. Its impossible .

Wat r dey subduing?? I hope its not wat I'm thinking??

tobillionaire:
I c u Isaac ma niccur

lol na so bro.. no dulling..

mimiejacobz:
m fyn dear, u?

Gud dear.. We thank God

golor:
Nice post

Thanks. with d proposed rush in d next few weeks as per d post ume exams.. I felt dis is gon be helpful for does writing... let's say FrontPage worthy...

cc lalasticlala

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EnlightenedSoul:
It felt weird to write that out. Pay it forward. You write too. Especially, since you made it permanent by mentioning me. It's a small price to pay.

Lol.. true tho.. Well lemme give it a thought first...

EnlightenedSoul:
You should write too.

oh really? y do u think so?

mimiejacobz:
wow,neva believed nairaland guyz can still atest to the fact that they are nigerian gals with this qualities n majority of them are even dating them

Lol.. true tho.. bn a while I saw u around?... wats up.

EnlightenedSoul:
With beauty, you basically 'have' everything (good or bad) - and everyone (good and bad) - at your fingertips. They're just there. Opening doors, smiling at you, giving you freebies and preferential treatment, turning their heads at you to tell you that you're beautiful, and then hacking you apart by further commenting on their favorite body part and/or feature of yours, telling you what you've only heard half a million times before. You may not even completely see it yourself to the extent that they see it. They tend to express surprise if you display an iota of intelligence. Some may never take you seriously at all. They tend to assume that you're extremely arrogant and/shallow by default, even though it was almost certainly their own shallowness that led them to you in the first place. Cops and what have you practically refuse to give you speeding tickets etc, and men follow you around in malls and supermarkets. Stalkers abound. Your name is used to build the self-esteem of boys and men - boasting rumors spread by faces you've never seen before, or never bothered to note. You lose 'friends' due of the wandering eyes of their boyfriends. Bosses ogle, leaving you to switch jobs because of awkward situations. There are UPs and DOWNs, but there's also a certain power behind it, despite all the negatives.

Possessing beauty has a way of revealing the true nature of people to you. People are quite literally drawn to you, thereby giving you a perceptive edge through the sheer numbers of personalities you're met with daily. I can read most people like a book. I've become my own favorite cynic.

hmmmm... cool .. really cool... nice write up..

cococandy:
She's even two yrs older.

I thought it's a matter of 7-10yrs.

I don't see any reason why you should be concerned as long as you see great qualities in her.

It's not like you're a baby yourself.

Gbam!!!!! I wonder y in our society today... Marrying a lady older dan u(2yrs at most) is kinda rare... To me I feel dating a girl older dan my age is quite cool(lol tho m 74 sha.. as per nairaland).... Interesting let me brandish it dat way.... I feel nd love d maturity... a lady who knows how to carry herself,take care of herself..

Akeelahtunez:
Yeah u sure did help

Definitely...

Oyind17:
No lump

Ok...

0lushola:
DATING TIPS 101..

lol.. just helping a broda...

Geez... Come e neva do for Una.. which one be cum , pre cum nd d rest... dis cold night... Na wa o..

Akeelahtunez:
Don't u tink people arund her wud discourage her frm dating??
Even if she agrees hw do I cope wit her frds and d likes??

Definitely.. pple wud talk.. discourage... It's left to u.. Coping with her frnds nd d loads.. It's a simple tin... U r d one dating her nd not her frnds... Man up.. Be a man.. Wateva u r gud at improve more on it... Take shakira nd pique for example.. I heard she's like ten years older dan him or so.. Buh did pique let dat get to his head? No... Rather he improved on his career.. played good football ... Weneva u see both of em in public its pique dat does everything... Ranging from blocking paparazzi to Answering unnecessary questions ... I even saw wen pique gropped shakira on d waist IN PUBLIC.. it has to do with mentality... BE A MAN.. MAN UP.. I recommend d latest gulder advert on local tv.. Watch d way d guy walked up d d girl.. initially he developed fear.. buh dat Man inside gingered him to go for it.. Watch d way he looked at her,walked towards her... Dats a man for u.. Goodluck..

Akeelahtunez:
So wats ur advice 4mi,shd I just no push furda??

Well.. currently I don't know how u feel bout her.. buh d tin is.. If tins pan out de way u envisioned them nd d bae is someone very patient nd mature enough to handle wateva pressure dat comes from waiting for u to take up role .. den I advice u go for it... Hit it straight on d head.. I wish u Gudluck in Ur endeavors..

Shezhawt:
None...

Really?

* Ur moniker tho... buh wait Over hundred can u rate Ur hotness as per Ur current d.p...

Well bk to d topic... I don't think there's a mistake I have ever made.. Reason is cos

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I don't decide or choose my career ..

God does.. he worked out everything...