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I think that relationship problems come from the breakdown of the family unit in which both parents now have to work and the kid is left to be raised by the school system and television. Television provides a false relationship model to be followed where the men beg the girl to be theirs. This false model is further reinforced by the custom of the guy kneeling to ask the girl in marriage. Kneeling shows the male being in submission to his future wife and reinforces the belief that men have to chase women and somehow prove to them that their worthy of their love. It ruins the male-female polarity and it goes against the instinctual programming of the female.


Authority: Maintain Frame.

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. congrats boss.

iykepromotions:
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Congrats boss.

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Gynocentricism is on the rise.
Men are being weakened by the minute.


Women will always court attention. That's a fact. The world has been structured to favour them.

The elites knows that to weaken men, porn must be consumed at a higher than normal rate, Instagram would be heavily sexualized, Twitter trending stories must circle around sex, women, rape stories; whether true or false.


Men are losing their grip. They're doing skits on TikTok and not pulling weights in the gym.
When chaos happens, feminized men look to bring out their smartphones to run commentary when they should be MEN, by stepping in to solve the problem.


Lil baby Said, "53% of these n****s are feminine".

He didn't lie.


Maintain Frame.

My thoughts on maintaining frame:


You can't get it right at once. You must have to be honest with yourself and know when you've failed most of the tests.
You must also celebrate your successes when you pass the test.

Another thing you should note: Try as much as possible to not build your life around women's shit tests.

Get the knowledge, keep it in front of your mind all day long, and try to purposely fail the test so you can understand what it feels like when you're not in sync with your psychology.

Practice meditation and learn to be calm in all situations.

That way, you see beneath the vices that controls the feminine imperative.

Also, try as much as possible to have enough fun.
Party, booze, swim, go to the boat club, do amazing things.

Learn to not take women at face value.
Whatever tantrums they throw should not upset you.

Women are thrilled by men who gives zero fvcks.

Lethal jerks. Try to be a jerk most times.

Like Robert Greene says, "be fluid".

Don't be too nice, don't be too hard.

Punish a woman when she crosses the line.
Keep a straight face and don't show anger.
Let your words fierce like hot knife through butter.

Let it be thunderous yet tickles.



Remember: it's all about you. It should always be about you.

Man up! Do what's necessary. Don't do to please! You'll get burnt.

Waste no time.
Don't sit and listen to her charade.
Let her yearn from every moment with you.


Whenever she gets a chance to be with you, let her enjoy you.
You'll be surprised how easy it will be to remove those panties.

Cos, women love things that mentally stimulates them.

Build yourself. Physically, Emotionally, Mentally, Sexually.

I didn't wake up one morning to choose redpill.
I don't blame the world either.
Besides, why would I?
The world was perfect before evil came in.
Who then do I blame?
I rather choose not to. Blaming situations will make you rot with your problems.
I chose to be redpill, and that's a proactive step to gaining this world.
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HIScraziness:
Spent the better part of last month worrying about funds to rent and set up my own apartment, now I have double of what I needed... domaining, we d!e here

Congrats Boss.
Domaining is very profitable, but one must be ready to pay the price.
Comes with a lot of research, grit and hardwork.
Divine intervention is another thing worthy of note.

cooooooks:
Yes, you can open foreign currency accounts in developed countries.

In Canada, UK, many people, especially if they work internationally, have a USD & EURO account.

Payoneer comes with a designated foreign account for either of euro or dollars.
So many entrepreneurs have been taking advantage of such opportunity.

https://www.nairaland.com/6778402/girlfriend-just-broke-heart





Report Here!
You've simped and you are suffering from onetistis.
Come and drink the redpill.
You will be fine!

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Sexual Market Value - SMV

I know many of you must have heard of the SMV before but some people still find it hard to grasp so I will make it as easily understandable and Nigerianly relatable as possible before comparing it with the West.


Firstly, I did like to appreciate the women who posted beautiful pictures of themselves and those who argued about still being sexy in their 30s. SMV decline does not mean you are not sexy, it means your sexiness is not as valuable as it was for marital reasons – for sex? sure.
Lets go to the root cause of the problem – women thinking they are men. Men are success object and women are sexual object. Men will always be judged by their ability to provide and for women, they sexual attraction is first point of assessment.


You hear women say your 20s are for living because though they won’t admit it, they are conscious of the wall. In their peak, they have unlimited options of prime male - thanks to sexual attraction, age, fertility, availability and others personal to you.

If she is young, it makes it a big advantage because of biology – fertility and natural sense of submissiveness to older romantic figure.
It is not surprising the desperate pace at which thirst traps and sultry pictures for validation has clouded social media relations.

This explains why many won’t date their mates and brag they don’t date boys but men. Good enough, many marry (and still have a career).
As they hit their 30s, epiphany hits and they suddenly want to have the cake they ate.

Their male age mates who were still finding their feet are now fully blossomed both physically and financially. These men saw their mates leave them for mature guys with whom they could not compete. Uni guys can attest to working class guys picking up their babes on Fridays.

As these guys hit their 30s, power changes hand naturally and they now have unlimited options between young ladies and their unmarried mates. We know who have the advantages?
What do women in their 30s/women who plan not to marry till their 30s for career/wild oats reasons, do?


They try manipulative games of calling you a predator for overlooking them in their winter season for younger ladies in their prime. They flaunt their career and sometimes, money and claim men are afraid of strong, independent women.


These are just shalaye. Note that many of their friends are married and even have kids and career. This is not to shame women nor does it in anyway intend to mock those who genuinely seek matrimony but have been unlucky. I'm just making plain upon tables, age old knowledge.


Men mostly don’t care about your career. That is your personal problem. You are the one who made a choice to chase career at the expense of marriage. You can’t police men to marry you just because you think you are now ready to settle down.
Your options are now limited to older guys who are still unmarried, divorcee, single dads or polygamists except you can date down. There is really no problem is you choose to chase career or hoe away or whatever. Just accept the consequences of the choices when the wall hits.


Social media creates delusions and delusions are comforting. Women claim they don’t need men and men overrate their importance. Yet, half the prayers in church are prayers for husbands. The only gender that testifies about getting married are women.


The gender that demands respect from their single friends for being married are women. The one who loudly shut down social media with engagement, traditional and white wedding are women.
For those who love to say a woman is not defined or limited by marriage, please relax.

Marriage is important to everybody -male or female and family is the most important core of humanity. Enough of the self deceit. Career is good. It is not the ultimate.

When a woman hits 30, family gets worried and even she gets mad and anxious when her partner hasn’t proposed.


When a woman is dumped in her 30s, she cries that age is no longer on her side and female commenters start wishing the guy unimaginable evil. To get the true thoughts of their hearts, look at their reactions to intimate affairs of 30+ women – whether bliss or heartbreak.

In their 30s, they tend to tolerate shit they ordinary may not tolerate in their 20s because – “where do I start from.” Women are more eager to accept ring 2 weeks after the first meeting in their 30s out of desperation but call it “knowing what I want” to control the narrative.

They also praise the man as serious for knowing what he wants. LOOOL. It is just an euphemism for "Thank God it is happening."

Ignore the bullshit of 30+ women understanding men more than younger women. 30+ women are the most vulnerable of all women - Easy peasy.

The biggest problem women have is not accepting the sexual values they had in their 20s has dropped. The sexual market value of a woman is determined by men unless she is gay.
As age goes up, demand drops and so does the SMV.

In their 30s they want the best of men – who are also in their 30s and now hold all the cards. He’s young enough to retain his physique in better part and old enough to have attained social and professional maturity.

Nothing is more threatening, yet simultaneously attractive to a woman that a man who is aware of his own value to women.
- Rollo Tomassi

Women don't want you to see your value even in your prime because your knowledge of that is threatening.

Thus, women have their prime and men have their prime. Life creates its own balance and it is up to you to leverage on your prime for personal goals.

What is not okay is broke shaming the poor/broke men or bodyshaming/marriage shaming the older women.

Western values are different. The women over there don’t mind dating younger men. The system is one that works so you don’t need to be rich to live a good life. Here, men are under pressure to excel financially and most men find their feet in the 30s. Know your environment

It is only naturally for these men in their prime to prefer younger women, who happen to be in their prime too. Biology is real -whether you accept it or not is irrelevant. I won’t push it.

Would the women date younger men still possibly finding their feet? Pride says NO
Secondly, he just might use you for sexual satisfaction. . SMV doesn’t mean you are not sexy. In fact, there are many sexy 30+ women but marital value in the eyes of their peers has fallen.

Thirdly, your folks may not be glad you are with a younger guy but would be grateful you found somebody at least. His folks knows he is the catch and may not allow their son marry someone past her prime for biological reasons – when he has unlimited option for the next 20 years.

There will always be option of unmarried oldies, single fathers, polygamists, age mates unaware of their SMV or possibly the guy who just loves you - Life happens.

I will stop here so as not to digress or unnecessary make it longer than necessary.



Credit: Sir Dickson (Twitter Masculinity Influencer)

spiceadole:
Can he fvck his family members and fellow guys?
He did what he did cos he thought finally, the kpekus he has been chasing will finally be opened for him

He who controls his sexual urge has gained the world.


Your family or fellow guys would stand by you when things go rosy.
Until you understand that an average woman is inherently selfish, that is the moment you've solved half your problems.

CaveAdullam:
1. Stop investing in a woman that's not procreating for you.

2. Before any woman gains your commitment she must be thoroughly authenticated.

3. She must be highly invested in the relationship before commitment.

4. Never apologize.

5. If she ends the relationship, never apologize. Best: end the relationship virtually before it does.

6. Accept back no cheating woman. Cheating is a sin!

7. Learn your lessons and move forward. Because the more you beg for her return, the more she gains power over you. Let her go!

8. Always be in control why you lead. You take her advice whenever it makes sense, but lead you must. If you are in control, you will not feel too bothered when she exit.

Now, she enjoyed a married woman's benefit without you enjoying yours(passing your genes).

Lastly, sex is reciprocal!

I was expecting your response boss.

Rubbish.



When you have emotions littered all over a post, that's what you get..
When you also have a feminized internet space, that's what you get.

It's just emotions. It'll fade.

Here are excerpts from the thread.
Women will be the dearth of men.
Wake up!

You kings are sleeping.

Faiththatworks:
Mr Emefiele should do the needful and declare bureau d change as an illegal business. Anyone buying or selling forex outside the banks should be treated as a criminal.
To all.those who have made their mind to always criticize Me Emefiele can you please allow the man breathe.
This crazy parallel illegality was established by Gen Babaginda to siphon money out of Nigeria,and closing it down will take some time and balls from any CBN governor.
We all need to support the CBN governor as he cleans the Agusean stable. Currency speculation,Currency trading must be declared an economic crime and anyone caught doing it must be sent to jail.
The CBN governor declared only banks will sell forex in Nigeria some months ago and the heavens didn't fall,even to my suprise,Gen Buhari didn't reverse the decision,that shows the Governor was right in his decision.
For those who are trying to beat the system by using illegal visas to purchase forex,Mr Emefiele must force the embassies to open an hotline or a web portal where the banks can confirm people's visa before selling forex,anyone caught using fake visas to buy forex should be treated as a scapegoat,and charged with currency speculation and fraud.
God bless Nigeria.

Sense Is far from you.

Dear men, always put yourself first.
Your self interest should come first before anything.
HODL commitment, don't be cheap with it.
Same way a woman would want you to wait till marriage before you sleep with her.

#masculinitysaturday

CAPSLOCKED:
+ 5.

Boss, so you dey here.

luminouz:
I really don't have many stories on helping women because I rarely give them anything like money or gifts,unless you count dicking.

I have heard men talk of how some women trivialised their help with the "what have you done sef"

Honestly, this is enough to break a man to shreds.
That statement alone can come with a barrage of slaps, punches, and what not.

It's sad seeing someone who works different jobs in a third world economy, and gets home to find his wife dicking a neighbor.
On the freaking matrimonal bed.

And this man thinking about all the stuffs he has gone through just to give this woman a good life, and he reiterates, "after all I've done for you and the kids".

Then, she retorts, "what did you even do for me"?.

They say ladies are emotional, but in this case, being emotional can cause her her life.

Men, what a world!

Fiscus105:
Immorality is at peak in naija, i doubt if West involvement in Immorality can match naija own, the level of sexual weirds that are going on among 14 -21 teenager of recent is unimaginable! Thou only few who open eyes wide can see it.

Honestly speaking.
It's beyond what you think it is.
It's far worse.

I've seen the world and the power social media has given to so many people.
That space has consumed us and reduced us to bots and stooges doing the devil's bidding.

Do you know that the advent of smartphones made cheating more prevalent?