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EducationRe: Three Nigerian Students Win Gold At International STEM Olympiad In Rome by Ishilove: 9:08pm On Jul 07
Those people primitively shouting Igbo blablabla conveniently ignored the glaring fact that these brilliant children achieved the feat as NIGERIANS and were awarded the medals as same. Nobody outside the shores of the country gives a flying fxxck about your ethnicity. When you win, you win as a Nigerian and when you mess up, you are held accountable as a Nigerian. All this rubbish tribalism is why countries like South Africa no longer respect us because how can they, when we don't even respect ourselves?
RomanceRe: A Single Lady Of 40, Apologize To Her Sisters For Marriage-shaming Them @40 Then by Ishilove: 7:42pm On Jul 07
joseph1832:
Thus, behold, the dawn of the Olodo Uprising.

It is indeed very sad.
And some vapid people are proud of being tagged olodo.
RomanceRe: A Single Lady Of 40, Apologize To Her Sisters For Marriage-shaming Them @40 Then by Ishilove: 2:50pm On Jul 07
Everything is now content on social media. No more innovation or creativity. Every brain fart somehow manages to find its way to our consciousness because unprofessional bloggers are hungry for clicks
FamilyRe: Relationship Dilemma by Ishilove: 3:27pm On Jul 04
SoliBayNG:
So many children on nairaland these days. Back in the days, you will see mature and constructive inputs.

Brah, women are focused on achievements these days. Fulls making someone that's 31 seem like she's 60. Only boys talk like that. New studies even show that men should be as wary, as quality of sperm reduce as they get older.

Brah, the signs are there. In her circles, there are many guys that are more suitable. Just cos someone wants to get married doesn't mean they should settle for someone that lacks focus or doesnt wanna upgrade himself. As a man, I get irritated with directionless women, talkless of being a woman and carrying the weight of the home.

She should not start what she can finish. A man with vision and dreams that isnt well off isnt a problem. But how will a man leave what's giving him money to go run errands? He cant think? Cant tell his mom he will do it later?

What happens when they get married? He would still tell her she's trying to change him, and she saw him the way he was. Motivating him to greatness will be termed nagging.

If I was a woman, I rather get a sperm donor, focus on my career and be happy, than be married to many men these days, that aren't worthy of being called men.

Being a man isnt a title, it's about the ability to lead, command the respect of your wife, not by coercion, but by actions.
No one can follow who isn't more knowledge than them, or they struggle to respect.

This is Africa, men are still providers and supposed to lead. If he cant do that, he's still a boy.

Age is irrelevant. Better to be married to a 45 year old lady that suits your vision and gives you peace, than a 25 year old that still has her eyes outside and leaves you restless, all in the name of marrying young.

Guys on nairaland are super embarrassing. Lots of learning to do. 15 years or so ago, you wouldn't see these comments calling a 31 year old, old. Funny enough, many of these dudes at 35, haven't achieved what this lady has achieved when she was 27.

Girls, dont be afraid to have standards. Stick to it and focus on your personal growth.

There are still fantastic guys out there that age means nothing to.
When a mature adult writes, you will know. You have spoken with wisdom
FamilyRe: Relationship Dilemma by Ishilove: 3:23pm On Jul 04
Bonapart:
you're talking outta your asss
Ignore that moniker. He talks out of his ass 9.5 out of 10 times
FamilyRe: Relationship Dilemma by Ishilove: 3:23pm On Jul 04
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Is your mother aware your sister has already clocked 31? angry.

You see this life angry. Funny life indeed.

A well educated man will marry a stark illiterate woman and upgrade her angry. But once reverse is the case, it'll look as if the whole world want to crash angry

Your family should be grateful to that man for at least agreeing to even settle down with someone whom menopause is already smiling at
So women in your village become perimenopausal at the age of 31? If that is the case then a platoon of gynaecologists need to visit your ancestral home in order to investigate. As a matter of urgency.
CrimeRe: 35-Year-Old Nigerian Who Raped A Child In Canadian Store Arrested (Photo) by Ishilove: 3:17pm On Jul 04
There was a story sometime back about a 15 year old autistic girl being assaulted in a store when she went shopping with her family. I don't know if this is a follow-up of the same story
CelebritiesRe: Meet The Okolie's; The Little Unknown Siblings Of Nollywood Teen Star Kam Debbie by Ishilove: 3:09pm On Jul 04
TunezMediaBlog:
They are, Pharm Muna, her big sister, Dera who recently tied the knot and her baby brother, Emma 😭


https://www.tiktok.com/video/7658270014746709255?_r=1&_t=ZS-97kd2Mzkgz6

Lalasticlala Ishilove MissyB3 Fynestboi
Okay... I don't know them though. I don't even know the Nollywood 'star' they are related to undecided
SportsRe: Happy 69th Birthday To Bret Hart 'Hitman' by Ishilove:
Axis313:
"Hitman"
He is one of the wrestlers that makes my childhood fun alongside the likes of Shawn Michael,Hulk Hogan, Edge, Batista, Rey Mysterio, Triple H, Steve Austin "Stone Cold", Bill Goldberg.
Happy birthday.
These men are not in the same generation.
BusinessRe: Dangote Crashes Petrol Price To ₦1,075/litre, Opens Sales To All Marketers by Ishilove: 8:41am On Jul 03
Which nonsense crashing did he crash? How is selling fuel at 1k plus crashing??
RomanceRe: Daredevil Couple Climbed Empire State Building For Marriage Proposal, Arrested by Ishilove: 9:42pm On Jul 02
GloriousGbola:
A drunk does not have the coordination to climb the empire state tho

You are just jealous because your center of gravity will not allow you to pull this stunt tongue
Mscheeeeeeeeeew

RomanceRe: Daredevil Couple Climbed Empire State Building For Marriage Proposal, Arrested by Ishilove: 2:33pm On Jul 02
With a name like 'Beerkus', why won't they behave like drunks?
Foreign AffairsRe: US Supreme Court Bans Transgenders From Women's Sports by Ishilove: 2:30pm On Jul 02
If not that Americans are overfed and spoilt, and thus have lost their common sense, tell me why it has to go all the way to the Supreme Court to be affirmed??
FamilyRe: A Would Be Bride Shows Off Her Family's Bride List by Ishilove: 6:20pm On Jul 01
Still on the high side
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Usernames: Chat Without Sharing Phone Numbers In Upcoming Update by Ishilove: 3:26pm On Jun 30
190:
who ask you undecided
Ask the gods grin
NYSCRe: NYSC: 6-Week Camp, No More Military Drills - Tinubu Makes Major Changes (Video) by Ishilove: 1:25pm On Jun 30
About time. The military drill was as useless as the 'p' in 'psycho'.
PhonesRe: Whatsapp Usernames: Chat Without Sharing Phone Numbers In Upcoming Update by Ishilove: 1:13pm On Jun 30
I have already reserved my username grin
Foreign AffairsRe: South African Activist, Phakelumthakathi, Confronts Nigerians (Video) by Ishilove: 11:44am On Jun 30
GloriousGbola:
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Let us pretend that we don't know...

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Foreign AffairsRe: South African Activist, Phakelumthakathi, Confronts Nigerians (Video) by Ishilove: 11:43am On Jun 30
Nword22:
Just an honest and intelligent conversation.

From Ngwaland we support this man effort and want replicate in Nigeria.

God bless us.
Indeed. The OP heading is a clickbait because there was no confrontation, but rather a civil monologue addressing some genuine concerns.
Foreign AffairsRe: South African Activist, Phakelumthakathi, Confronts Nigerians (Video) by Ishilove: 11:41am On Jun 30
The man raised some genuine points though. Who are those abusing their hosts and saying they will rape their women and seize their lands? Those are the few bad eggs causing problems for the majority of the hardworking Nigerians.

However, this one sounds reasonable and enlightened, unlike the rabid xenophobes that have been looting and harassing people in the country.
CelebritiesRe: Peller & Jarvis’ ₦1M Asoebi Price List: Jide Awobona Reacts (Video) by Ishilove: 11:20am On Jun 30
cuffee:
at what age did you get married?
Ask the women in your family.
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Ishilove: 12:24pm On Jun 29
Illusioneffect:
Anyone who rewatches that film is sadomasochistic and the devil
What is the synopsis of the movie?
CelebritiesRe: Peller & Jarvis’ ₦1M Asoebi Price List: Jide Awobona Reacts (Video) by Ishilove: 11:15am On Jun 29
Engagement farming is a menace to modern day social media.
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 7:22am On Jun 29
Brendaniel:
Apologies for the earlier remarks I made about you, I just got really provoked with your topic and comment... the message could have still been passed without the insults 🙏
No issues.
TV/MoviesRe: What Movie Are You Watching Now? by Ishilove: 3:56pm On Jun 28
Samuell2019:
Voicemails for Isabelle 8/10
Loved it. Highly recommend
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 3:27pm On Jun 28
GloriousGbola:
this post is spambot compliant
I chose my words carefully 😂😂😂
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 3:26pm On Jun 28
The post has a source which I posted there, and I also made the observation that history in many forms can not be fully objective. Most students of history know the remote and immediate causes of the Crusades. There are several sides and each side will narrate events coloured with their own bias. This is the Islamic side. Anyone is free to disagree. It is your prerogative.
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 2:36pm On Jun 28
FreeStuffsNG:
There are some very interesting account in the "The Silk Roads: A New History of the World" by Oxford historian Peter Frankopan.

It will make you see the current crisis in modern day west Asia and the role played by China, Turkey, Russia, Italy and India/Pakistan as a cycle of history that goes way back.

Below is pix of my hardcopy of the book.
Thank you. I'll search out the hard copy.
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 2:33pm On Jun 28
sweetjohn:
Nonesense post. The crusade was formed as a reesult of the Muslim Ottoman Empire that were killing millions of Christians and jews in Europe and around the world. The European Christians then formed the crusade to teach Muslims a lesson and defend Christianity from extinction[s][/s]
You're missing the point. Yes, the Crusades did not arise in a vacuum; They were, in part, a response to years of conflict and Muslim expansion into Christian lands. But that doesn't mean they should be seen as some glorious or heroic campaign. They also involved massacres, brutality, and the suffering of countless innocent people. History is best understood with all its complexity, not through romanticised stories.

Like HeatSeeker pointed out up there, blood curdling, hair raising atrocities were committed on both sides.
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op): 1:25pm On Jun 28
Kobojunkie:
The Crusades did not begin in the first century AD. That's almost 10 centuries(1000 years) after the first century. And the crusades came after the Islamist warlords of Arabia had invaded and colonized the following lands, reducing much of the population to slave status:
Christian Egypt(Conquered between 639 - 642)
Christian Italy(even attacking Rome in 846)
Christian Libya (647 AD - 742 AD)
Christian Tinusia (647 AD - 742 AD)
Christian Algeria (647 AD - 742 AD)
Christian Morocco (647 AD - 742 AD)
Christian Cypress(even attacking Rome in 846)
Christian Crete (even attacking Rome in 846)
Christian Armenia (638 AD - 639 AD)
Christian Spain ( 711 AD - 714 AD)
Christian Portugal ( 711 AD - 714 AD)
Christian Byzantine/Turkey (Circa 8th century)
Christian Syria-Palestine( 634 AD - 641 AD) . undecided

All of the above were regions that Islam invaded and colonized, enslaving and massacring its way through the Christian world. All of the above took place before the Christians, who then decided it was best they fought back if they were to survive the scourge. undecided
I know when it began. That century thing confuses me a lot. 1095 is the ELEVENTH century, not FIRST 😂😂😂😂
Christianity EtcRe: The Dark Side Of The Crusades: Massacres, Cannibalism, And The Fall Of Jerusalem by Ishilove(op):
HeatSeeker:
This comment was unnecessary undecided
Actually, it isn't. I don't want anyone to start spamming the thread with "plz summarize".

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