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RomanceRe: Help My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op): 7:26pm On Jul 14, 2021
SavageResponse:
Sounds like you're living in the staff quarters of the company employing you
Yes I am
RomanceRe: Help My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op): 7:42am On Jul 14, 2021
Generalwoodz:
What's her own on the kind of pussy you banghuh
Now. Let's do this
Try bringing someone way older than you and see her reactions. And don't hesitate to give us prompt feedback
Ok I am working on it
RomanceRe: Help My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op): 3:34am On Jul 14, 2021
Ok I try not to but I hate nagging and small talk easily gets to me
RomanceRe: Help My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op): 10:53pm On Jul 13, 2021
Stupidquestions:
She's missing diick and envying you
Pls don't mind her. And don't ever get bothered by her jealousy laden statement.
.
Try and be comfortable around the babe, I hope the young gal is pretty... intentionally flaunt her...by holding her hands when going out or hold her waiste...ur Auntie is jealous, she one fvck u
Although she been very nice to me until this point.....but I don't think I want any work place drama her husband is also a staff
RomanceRe: Help My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op): 10:43pm On Jul 13, 2021
Stupidquestions:
Go and Bleep that ur neighbor....I guess na woman crushing on u
Person wife huh
RomanceHelp My Neighbor Is On My Case by itswell2019(op):
So everyone in my compound works in the same office My neighbor is my boss in the office. I bought home a fine lady. My neighbor has been shouting that I am following underage. I asked the girl in question she said she is 21years. But my neighbor will not let me rest. The girl said she will be visiting on Saturday I am scared let my boss not embarrass her. She is already catching feeling and I like her to. I don't like drama oo. what do I do please
SportsRe: Victor Osimhen Passes Napoli Medical by itswell2019:
Some people are saying he go chop bench and I am like who buys a player £80m to bench them
RomanceRe: Why Is He Avoiding Sex? by itswell2019: 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2020
she is a man run for your life angry
CrimeRe: Uwa: Police Arrest Two Over Rape & Murder Of UNIBEN Student by itswell2019: 1:32pm On Jul 07, 2020
Neroiam:
When i remember uwa, water runaway my eyes!

When i remember uwa, water runaway my eyes!
cry
Aye Aye water runaway my eyes
RomanceRe: See What A Girlfriend Turned My Life To by itswell2019: 7:24am On Jul 06, 2020
Makavelli25:
Please,how do i become principle centered?
Motive, it's all about the reason and the force that makes you do what you do.if a lady is your driving force and you put all your emotions on her. If she leaves you know d rest. Do the right thing because you need to
RomanceRe: See What A Girlfriend Turned My Life To by itswell2019: 4:53am On Jul 06, 2020
congarts your life is now girlfriend centered if the relationship fail your whole world will will be messed up. Better to be principle centered bro
PoliticsRe: Ajimobi Buried In Ibadan Amid Tight Security by itswell2019: 2:49pm On Jun 28, 2020
ayo2008:
We know what is beyond

Check this Bible passages as promised by Jesus Christ to those who believe in Him.
John 14:1‭-‬3 KJV

Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also.
A book that did not fall from the sky but was compiled in a monastery,
PoliticsRe: Ajimobi Buried In Ibadan Amid Tight Security by itswell2019: 12:27pm On Jun 28, 2020
Righteousness89:


In peace if he Accepted JESUS!

If no JESUS, don't deceive yourself, There is No Peace!
What ever it is you think you know is the truth was told you. You have never left this realm and don't know what is beyond it. You have no prove that all calm to have gone to that great beyond and came back really did.
AgricultureRe: Cucumber Seedlings by itswell2019:
@litigator
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 10:22pm On May 31, 2020
litigator:
Sorry I cannot answer your PM. Paste me your WhatsApp number on a dead topic let me connect you to a colleague of mine practising in Abuja. I practice within Lagos and the South-West. She is one of the best hands you can get. I have explained your predicament to her.
Alright sir
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 7:28am On May 31, 2020
litigator:
@itswell2029

If I understand you correctly, the only reason your sister is being detained by the police is that she knows the suspect and nothing more.

May I ask, what kind of relationship does she have the suspect?

Did she in anyway conspire with the suspect or participated as an accessory to the crime, either before the fact or after the fact?

If yes, the police is well within their right to detain her.

But if they are simply detaining her because she knows the suspect without more, then they have infringed on her fundamental right. She can approach the court to enforce her right for abatement and from further infringement.

Depending on the jurisdiction(state), she can also approach the court with a writ of Habeas Corpus.

Habeas Corpus is a procedure requiring a person under arrest to be brought before a judge or into court, especially to secure the person's release unless lawful grounds are shown for their detention.

You can apply both if need be. Nothing is stopping you.

I appeared in a case wherein the only crime my clients committed was standing as sureties for an employee who in the course of his employment stole from his place of work. My clients were detained for 3 months until we took over the matter. They were released immediately save for the alleged thief.

My point in the preceding paragraph is to the effect that there is no vicarious liability in criminal law. If there is, it does not apply to our Criminal jurisprudence as far as Nigeria is concerned.

Get a sound criminal defence attorney who knows precisely how to apply the above-mentioned procedures.

I wish you all the best.

Shalom.

N.B: Please revert should you need further elucidation.

Cc. Uboma
@litigator thank you sir for your help so far. I stay in Abuja and that where all the incidences occured.
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 7:25am On May 31, 2020
DoubleEngine007:
Which state are you in,so that he can get someone to help you.. That was the last question Litigator asked,can't you answer that?
Sorry did not see that, I stay in Abuja one of the stellite towns
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 4:44am On May 31, 2020
uboma:
You are yet to respond to the question asked by Litigator. He may know someone close to you who may assist you.
I have,he asked what the relationship between my girlfriend and the suspect is and weather she took part in the murder and I have explained both in my previous post you qouted.
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 9:23pm On May 30, 2020
Please guys no fighting please I am really at a cross road. I need all the advice, I can get. I will answer every questions you ask.thanks
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 9:19pm On May 30, 2020
uboma:
The words in bold does not add up.

Your GF dated the deceased in 2018. How can they now be just friends when he is supposed to be late?
He died 4 days ago from stab wounds for which my girlfriend is been herd
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 8:25pm On May 30, 2020
litigator:
@itswell2029

If I understand you correctly, the only reason your sister is being detained by the police is that she knows the suspect and nothing more.

May I ask, what kind of relationship does she have the suspect?

Did she in anyway conspire with the suspect or participated as an accessory to the crime, either before the fact or after the fact?

If yes, the police is well within their right to detain her.

But if they are simply detaining her because she knows the suspect without more, then they have infringed on her fundamental right. She can approach the court to enforce her right for abatement and from further infringement.

Depending on the jurisdiction(state), she can also approach the court with a writ of Habeas Corpus.

Habeas Corpus is a procedure requiring a person under arrest to be brought before a judge or into court, especially to secure the person's release unless lawful grounds are shown for their detention.

You can apply both if need be. Nothing is stopping you.

I appeared in a case wherein the only crime my clients committed was standing as sureties for an employee who in the course of his employment stole from his place of work. My clients were detained for 3 months until we took over the matter. They were released immediately save for the alleged thief.

My point in the preceding paragraph is to the effect that there is no vicarious liability in criminal law. If there is, it does not apply to our Criminal jurisprudence as far as Nigeria is concerned.

Get a sound criminal defence attorney who knows precisely how to apply the above-mentioned procedures.

I wish you all the best.

Shalom.

N.B: Please revert should you need further elucidation.

Cc. Uboma
The man was killed in an open confrontation with another man. Which was in an open scene of which she was not present but with multiple witnesses. However the killer is her neighbor, who had eaten spaghetti with other boys in front of her house cooked by her, this was some hours before the person killed. My girlfriend dated the diseased for two months in 2018. But they are now just friends in the neighborhood. And the argument was not about my girlfriend. The Police is not blaming her for the killing him as it was done in the open.
CrimeRe: Lawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 3:21pm On May 30, 2020
FirstCounsel:
File for the Enforcement of her fundamental human Rights. It doesn't come cheap though. Good luck
Like how much are we talking
RomanceRe: Never Reveal This To Any Babe During Courtship. by itswell2019: 2:50pm On May 30, 2020
You go de threaten her "I go hit you oh."
She go say "try am"
Your nut go lose
Before you know
Gbam on her face grin
RomanceRe: Never Reveal This To Any Babe During Courtship. by itswell2019: 2:47pm On May 30, 2020
Brother undecided
CrimeLawyers In The House: What Do I Do About My Girlfriend's Case by itswell2019(op): 2:44pm On May 30, 2020
I will spare you the details of the whole situation except you need any thing further detail, then I will explain. My girlfriend was arrested 2days ago in a homicide case( someone was stabbed with bottle). The case against her is not killing anyone but knowing the copirit.
The issue is the law says if you don't charge someone to court in 48 hours you release them on bail. Yesterday made it 48 hours and she is still behind the counter.
The Police are saying this law does not apply to homicide case. But my argument is she is not having manslaughter or murder in her charges.
My question is can we go to the court to grant her bail and what else do we do to make sure she gets bail. Note we can't afford a very good lawyer so I am assisting the lawyer.
CrimeThis Must Be The Dumbest Scam On Nairaland by itswell2019(op): 8:30am On May 17, 2020
grin I wonder what type of person will fall for this

RomanceRe: 10 Signs That Shows That You Are In The Friend Zone by itswell2019: 4:41pm On May 08, 2020
Yea
RomanceRe: 10 Signs That Shows That You Are In The Friend Zone by itswell2019: 4:20pm On May 08, 2020
L0ve:
As a young guy, I was in the friend zone for many years that i got use to it. To me that is how a normal relationship should be. but a close look at my present relationship and that of others around me, I decided to give back. Here are my top 10 gestures that shows you are in the friend zone or at least an assistant boyfriend. Note having a few of this signs is not enough to conclude because different people have different ways of expressing love but chaces are if you get up to 50 present of this types of behaviours then you should be shopping for a new lover.


1. She calls you a good guy and praises your good qualities
Lets face it, nobody is good. We all have our faults. This does not mean we are all on the same level when it comes good behaviour. But for most girls "good" is another name for boring, not adventurous and monotonous. Humans love emotionally and not logically. a girl who is always praising you is subconsciously giving her herself a reason to relate with you. It like you need her approval that is why you are always nice to her.

2. She rarely or does not fights with you
If you are in a committed relationship, it doesn't take too long before you both begin to disagree. If you are not having misunderstanding then, it's either you guys are not spending time together or one person is being too nice and has to be put in the friend zone.

3. She does not play dress-up on you:
Girls are generally neater than guys, given the fact that you are the most important man in her life, she will always want you to look clean and attractive. In those days in secondary school the first thing that changes when a student is dating is their dressing. If you calm to be dating and your woman does not corrects your fashion mistakes my brother you are most likely dating yourself

4. She does not fill your dialed register on your phone.
A girl who loves you will call you frequently. All this I don't have credit or data is finished, is all a gimmick to extort money from you. Girls are naturally clingy and want to always feel loved. If you are the one always filling her chats and she replies ones in a while, you better consider looking else where.

5. She misses your birthday:
This is a big red flag. Ladies are always conscious of birthday dates, even the every busy once set reminder on their phones. If you have been with a lady say two years and she has never bought you any thing on your birthday my brother run. There is always money for what is really important. The quality is not the focus here but the gesture.

6. She is not intimate with you:
it might not be sex but most ladies will want to atleast kiss, hug, hold you or sit on your lap. Except, she sees you as a brother meaning you have been zoned. If you watch ladies they are of the habit of always touching each other. Therefore if she is free with you, she will want to express it with a touch. Chances are if a girl is not a virgin and she does not want to have sex with you given that you both are friends or even worse close, that you have been friend zoned.

7. She does not fantasy or daydream with you in mind:
Now you are not in her mind to know her thoughts, but what she is saying can be a pointer. Does she take about marriage as it concerns you both? What about having kids for you or Sharing important events with you. If referring to a distanant event, she uses the phase" if we are still friend by then " watch your back she may be planing to show case her main man.

8. She is not proud of you.
Different ladies show this in many ways. For instance dp, chance are if other guys are on her displace picture and you are not one of them, you have been zoned, You can't come and be spoiling market for her. You are not introduced to her friends and family. She does not celebrate you on her status. invite you to important event such as weddings. What about pictures? Does she delete pictures, you to snapped together. is there a guy whose picture is everywhere on her phone such, acts should not be overlooked.


9. She does not invest in you or spend time with you.
A girl that likes you, always wants to spend time with you. weather is over the phone, chats, date nights, hangouts. She will ignore every other chat and give you attention. She will cook for you. Buy you cloths, give you gifts. If you are sick she will travel down to see you. She will attend your special event. If you claim to be dating and all you have gotten from you girlfriend is body spray, on your birthday for that matter, brother run for your sanity.

10. hardly gets jealous:
every human being want to keep what they consider as valuable all to them self. She will monitor your calls. Check your frequently dailed calls and chats. She will take note of your free time and call to know who you are hanging out with. If you are laughing with a girl you both met at an event, her mood will change and she will look for an excuse to get you out of the conversation. But if you claim to be dating and your woman don't frequently ask questions about your whereabouts, have a rethink.
RomanceRe: 10 Signs That Shows That You Are In The Friend Zone by itswell2019: 4:16pm On May 08, 2020
Friedturkey:
Hmmm, these are all good tips.
I'm of the opinion that deep down, most guys in the friendzone actually know that they're in the zone. The problem is that they're just too weak and powerless to escape that zone of perpetual despair.
OP, kindly make a list outlining how our lost brothers can find their way out.
Ok, I will do an article on that next
Nairaland GeneralRe: I Just Attempted Sucide.... by itswell2019(op):
ReneeNuttall:
Everything u av mentioned is nothing new,and definitely not an atom of reason for u to end ur precious life.Believe me she left ur life so a better person can come into ur life.As for ur other reasons,u can make adjustment and correct those bad habits..........Have u thought about the untold pain ur demise will cause ur loved ones?
A year after. Things are better for me thank you!!
Two years later I am a lot better now
Have a new girlfriend (a year ago) and a very good job thanks all
RomanceRe: 10 Signs That Shows That You Are In The Friend Zone by itswell2019:
L0ve:
As a young guy, I was in the friend zone for many years that i got use to it. To me that is how a normal relationship should be. but a close look at my present relationship and that of others around me, I decided to give back. Here are my top 10 gestures that shows you are in the friend zone or at least an assistant boyfriend. Note having a few of this signs is not enough to conclude because different people have different ways of expressing love but chaces are if you get up to 50 present of this types of behaviours then you should be shopping for a new lover.


1. She calls you a good guy and praises your good qualities
Lets face it, nobody is good. We all have our faults. This does not mean we are all on the same level when it comes good behaviour. But for most girls "good" is another name for boring, not adventurous and monotonous. Humans love emotionally and not logically. a girl who is always praising you is subconsciously giving her herself a reason to relate with you. It like you need her approval that is why you are always nice to her.

2. She rarely or does not fights with you
If you are in a committed relationship, it doesn't take too long before you both begin to disagree. If you are not having misunderstanding then, it's either you guys are not spending time together or one person is being too nice and has to be put in the friend zone.

3. She does not play dress-up on you:
Girls are generally neater than guys, given the fact that you are the most important man in her life, she will always want you to look clean and attractive. In those days in secondary school the first thing that changes when a student is dating is their dressing. If you calm to be dating and your woman does not corrects your fashion mistakes my brother you are most likely dating yourself

4. She does not fill your dialed register on your phone.
A girl who loves you will call you frequently. All this I don't have credit or data is finished, is all a gimmick to extort money from you. Girls are naturally clingy and want to always feel loved. If you are the one always filling her chats and she replies ones in a while, you better consider looking else where.

5. She misses your birthday:
This is a big red flag. Ladies are always conscious of birthday dates, even the every busy once set reminder on their phones. If you have been with a lady say two years and she has never bought you any thing on your birthday my brother run. There is always money for what is really important. The quality is not the focus here but the gesture.

6. She is not intimate with you:
it might not be sex but most ladies will want to atleast kiss, hug, hold you or sit on your lap. Except, she sees you as a brother meaning you have been zoned. If you watch ladies they are of the habit of always touching each other. Therefore if she is free with you, she will want to express it with a touch. Chances are if a girl is not a virgin and she does not want to have sex with you given that you both are friends or even worse close, that you have been friend zoned.

7. She does not fantasy or daydream with you in mind:
Now you are not in her mind to know her thoughts, but what she is saying can be a pointer. Does she take about marriage as it concerns you both? What about having kids for you or Sharing important events with you. If referring to a distanant event, she uses the phase" if we are still friend by then " watch your back she may be planing to show case her main man.

8. She is not proud of you.
Different ladies show this in many ways. For instance dp, chance are if other guys are on her displace picture and you are not one of them, you have been zoned, You can't come and be spoiling market for her. You are not introduced to her friends and family. She does not celebrate you on her status. invite you to important event such as weddings. What about pictures? Does she delete pictures, you to snapped together. is there a guy whose picture is everywhere on her phone such, acts should not be overlooked.


9. She does not invest in you or spend time with you.
A girl that likes you, always wants to spend time with you. weather is over the phone, chats, date nights, hangouts. She will ignore every other chat and give you attention. She will cook for you. Buy you cloths, give you gifts. If you are sick she will travel down to see you. She will attend your special event. If you claim to be dating and all you have gotten from you girlfriend is body spray, on your birthday for that matter, brother run for your sanity.

10. hardly gets jealous:
every human being want to keep what they consider as valuable all to them self. She will monitor your calls. Check your frequently dailed calls, chats. She will take note of your free time and call to know who you are hanging out with. If you are laughing with a girl you both met at an event, her mood will change and she will look for an excuse to get you out of the conversation. But if you claim to be dating and your woman don't frequently ask questions about your whereabouts, have a rethink.
Nice one OP, I am impressed.

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