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Nairaland moderators need to bring the block button to nairaland. There are some idiots comments I wouldn't want to be seeing

Southernigbo:
after killing innocent travelers who know nothing abt plateau state, and realising that they are under d spotlight, they now organise this phantom claim of fulani attack to cover up their evils.

Aswear you be bastard. When the news of those killed in that village was on air, shebi you off radio abi? Your stupid brain forgot that the news was carried even before the disaster on Saturday? Omo. You people are beasts. E no go better for Lord Lugard

WaffenSS:
Bunch of useless savages.

All they know is alcohol, dog and human flesh, and ambushing defenseless travelers. That's the only expertise of these lazy northern christians.

Face the fulanis in the bush, instead of cowardly attacks.

Nonsense.

You are a mad man. The fulanis that are cowardly killing people in their sleep nko? May thunder strike your useless head

UncleJudax:
what is your minimum wage?

Suffer no de tire you?

Na foolish man him be

Abiboss:
God will bless you for this, I supported buhari in 2015 but not anymore after showing his true color but what baffles me now is the people that are still in support of this evil government... I've been noticing one fool on this forum, "Manabbqgrillz" I think is the oga pata pata of them all here, but my prayer for him and his fellow BMC is that may Almighty Allah rule their lives just exactly the way their Darling daddy is ruling Nigeria Amin.

For you to have supported Buhari in 2015 shows you're no different from these idiots you're abusing. So, if Abubakar Shekau contest in 2023, you will vote him and expect things to be better? Haba mana. No one in his or her right sense should have even thought to voting Buhari. We've heard about his antecedents in 1983. What did we expect to change? Chai

hstar:
He's being paid for what his defending here

No mind am

Beancounter94:
Okay enjoy having your politicians and Buhari oppress you.

I have given you my advice.

K

Joe4real1988:
Bro let me ask you, is it only car that uses fuel? How about Okada(T.F will increase), keke(T.F will increase), Salon(price will increase). Bro the effect is not gonno be only on car owners, but on all of us. Reason am na.

These people no dey reason with their brains, free them

Beancounter94:
That is why you people should put pressure on your leaders

Democracy is not about voting every 4 years.

Put pressure and be shot abi? E be like you just wake up since your nap in 2015

amc:
The average Nigerian doesn’t own a car, so we have been subsidising the rich at the expense of the poor who are denied well needed investment in things like education, healthcare and infrastructure.

It will be hard in the short term but the populace would start to see the many benefits in the medium to long term. We are wasting too much scare resources for on this subsidy and there is too much corruption involved with smuggling of our PMS to neighbouring countries where PMS is sold at higher prices.

Lmao. Una sef. Na same nonsense una talk about closing borders o. When will you people have sense? When will you realize that even with subsidy out of the way, the money will still be stolen and eaten by politicians, all to the detriment of the poor? Guy, suffer no dey tire you? God forbid

Swinger60:
smiles, this your post Sha.

can you please explain to me why Bill gate even with his money still got divorced? (I think I read one time that his wife is dating a high school teacher).

His money couldn't keep his wife.

what one should be praying for In this life..., is that we marry our person, who will love and stay loyal to us through thick and thin.

Money doesn't stop any Nonsense in marriage, trust me. Nonsense bound to happen in marriage will happen. Money or no Money.

Leave Bill gates out of this. Heck, leave the whites out of this. Their marital life is totally different from ours. Once they are not feeling it, they move. Low key, they don't see marriage as an everlasting union. We Africans do. Money stops so many nonsense in African homes. A man is not a man in Nigeria if he doesn't have money. It's not same abroad. Woman go be breadwinner for America and it is seen as totally normal. In naija, the man will be ridiculed, both by his immediate family and the community

Iamhenry96:
Someone should reply this cos it'd also be helpful to me too.

Redmi 8 if person get am

acedsportsng:
Hello everyone, I'm having this itch to sell my redmi note 9s and switch to the Xs Max or iPhone 11. Is it a worthy upgrade?

I initially planned on using the 9s till the next phone in the note series comes out but body dey bite me

You have money, dash me small

MrBrownJay1:
a broke person borrowing money to take care of his kids?!?!?! bwaaaaah, thats exactly what i am talking against!!! if that dude had waited until he was in a better place, none of these would have happened. you still can get married but you have to WAIT before having kids..

Leave this talk of getting married and not having kids immediately. E no dey work like that. Plus, that thread highlighted getting married early so as to pop out kids early. If I no wan born pikin till I dey financially ok, why would I even get married in the first place. Thank God you said marriage and dating na same. We go dey enjoy the dating period till we are financially stable. Then, we'd marry and give birth immediately

That thread is why men die early and women reach old age before kicking the bucket. These women will confuse you to get married, even when they know you're struggling. They'll even deceive you and tell you they'll support you. Na when you enter the marriage eye go clear. For the sake of your mental health, listen to what OP is saying o

phemmyfour:
bla bla bla....Pray that your conviction is not put to test. It is easier to condemn from afar

Either you be prostitute or you be husband to prostitute cause I don't get why you're attacking that lady. Everyone, including myself, have had financially difficult days. I didn't resort to stealing or yahoo

CharisEleos:
Is that enough to justify the act? Hm SMH.

Now, apart from those who were forced into prostitution unknowingly in foreign countries by bad guys, no body should use frustration as an excuse to go into prostitution.

Everyone including me has passed through one form of hardship at one time or the other but we didn't resort to prostitution.

Now I'm not talking about situations where a man wants to take advantage of you because of what you're passing through. I'm talking about you deliberately throwing caution into the wind and going full time with your two eyes open into prostitution as a means of lively hood. No now.. how about doing other menia jobs?

Ill tell y'all a little bit about my past.

I've had my fair share of frustration sometime after the global meltdown.
At some point, If I'm going on the road, I won't board a bus just to sight a vacancy anywhere and that was after expending the little money I had, going to the island to submit CVs and not getting any response.
In the process, I saw one at a total filling station with a couple other youths waiting for them to open. So, I joined the queue. This was in 2010.

From nowhere, a woman just came and called me. I followed her to her car and she said she likes me and there's a beauty outfit in ikoyi that needs a cash till manager and she thinks theyll like me too because they want beautiful ladies there. That was how I got a job in a BSS supply store better than the total filling station we were all queuing up for.
That was where I picked up the interest to go into formulation of skincare and commetic products; also did my makeup training.

Another worse scenario was when I earned 230 naira per day. Then I had men telling me, "Chi baby", just be mine and I'll give you heaven and Earth ( these were returnees from yankee) but I refused. I rather settled for that job just to eat. 230 everyday. And I kept praying. From there a friend connected me to one Judge. I would prepare breakfast for him any day he's going to court and he pays me 700. Later he increased it to 1k per day. His family are based abroad.
When the judge started pestering me to marry him, I left the job.
That's how low I've gone just to shun indecent lifesty. And I'm not ashamed to say this anywhere because it's serves as an encouragement to who ever is going through hard times now and is thinking of going the wrong way.
Life is full of ups and downs but God always makes a way.

So what hardship will now make a girl to go into prostitution instead of looking for something decent to do pending when a bigger one comes?

We need to encourage the ones coming after us to be resilient to be able to keep a clean record.

Babe wey get sense na im you be. These people justifying prostitution. It's just like me justifying armed robbery or Yahoo because I'm struggling. That's stupid

CheerfulGiver:
Prophet Hosea in the Bible married a prostitute. Make of that what you will.

And she was knacking other men in Hosea's house. If you can take that like Hosea, go ahead and marry a prostitute

djon78:
The woman coming into your life unlocks that favour

God that made it did it for a reason

Like I said
I have seen this scenario many times without number

There was this dude unmarried and he was well advancing in age mid Forties
He was from the East living in Lagos
Things where very tough for him for over 12 years
Never went home

His people were begging that he should come and find a wife
After like some years he traveled back and took a wife

Few months he came back to Lagos after marriage he got a major contact that opened mega door of business for him


I have seen this play out times and times again
So enough of this argument

The richest man in the world Jeff Bezos is single. Also, I know so many men who, despite the fact that they were struggling and hence not ready for marriage, because of strong head, went and married, na so so garri they and their family dey chop. One of them, his first son, who is barely 12 don become bread winner. His siblings are following suit. Na that kind life you dey encourage people make e live. Una wicked

djon78:
Jesus and Apostle Paul were exceptional because they had very unique ministry

Everyother person in the Bible married

If you don't want to marry it's ok for you

But don't come and be spreading deception

God created marriage
It was not man that created it

But even the apostle Paul actively promoted singleness, not withstanding anyone's unique ministry. I no argue say na God create marriage but to paint singleness as something "not of God" is so out of place. Make Una no dey quote Bible anyhow

wyt:
We have being in talks since January. We met in late February, then she visited me in late March. We started talking of marriage.

Now she is in my house for 4 months as she is doing her IT here. She found out I am not as buoyant as she wishes, as my business is dragging due to stuff I ordered that is coming through sea hasn't arrived, in fact, will arrive in late October or November.

We scheduled to get married last July but due to the financial issue and her parents saying we have to wait till she is done with school we have to change our plan but she is so bitter that she is not getting married as she planned. She will be going back to school in 2 weeks' time. since

Now, I have discovered that she hardly cum during sex, in fact, she hasn't cum while we make love. She once told me she makes herself cum that is before we met in person around February which she promised to stop.

After she found out my finances is not strong, she got back into chatting with men for cash, yes she told me that is how she makes money to survive in school, that she presents an aura of relationship to men and they will be giving her money, and when she is tired or when the person insist in seeing she will block or just fisle out.

Now she just told me she is lesbian, she is cos she can't get pregnant as her father is a pastor and can be satisfied without the risk associated with men/woman relationships. That she is attracted to women though she hasn't done that for a while as she has prayed against it. She still masturbates while in my house.

Note: she has gone to see my parents and I have met hers.

pls i want to know what i can do to stop her all these social immoralities.

Some men no get common sense. When you marry now and your eye clear for marriage, don't also come here to disturb us

djon78:
It is not good that a man should be alone, I will make him an helpmeet
Thats What God Said in Genesis

Woman was created with a purpose by God

Woman was made for man as. Put by Apostle Paul

There is a value a true woman brings To a Man's life

So, your Lord and Saviour that was single till death is a fool abi? Or the apostle Paul that actively encouraged singleness no get sense abi? Stop quoting Bible anyhow

Revelation4:
lol. Waste of money. Umidigi needs to wake up. I'm tired of all these Helio

Lol. Umidigi is not going to wake up o. Their competition na cubot, doogee, maxfone etc and they are ok with it

Hassanmaye:
Blood of Zachariah! You just replied me in the blink of an eye

Lol

Hassanmaye:
Who is the greatest man??

Jesus

djon78:
She brought him luck

You can speak all the grammar wey you want

The lady carry Grace simple

You may Talk wetin you want talk or chose what you want to believe

There are women that carry Grace simple

Like I have said
I have seen it Times without number

In addition no one is hyping the female gender
But building a stable prosperous home you must have a willing female
If a man is favoured and marries a bad Luck woman he is still doomed

Proverbs 14 vs 1 says a Wise woman builds her home while a foolish one tears it Down with her hand

A conformed woman is key to building a successful homes

No one brings anyone luck. Stop deceiving yourself. When Prov. 14:1 says a wise woman builds her home, it didn't even connote financial building. No woman is tied to my financial success. There are so many single men who are financially successful. You people should stop misquoting the scriptures

Nauttyprof:
So, men don't carry favour right?

We twist the word of God to mean something else when in the real sense favour comes from God alone and is not from anybody. Bible says .... and obtains favour from God. Did you see the God part and not the woman?

The essence of that verse is getting a (good) wife and seeing the hands of God move in such Union with favour and not the nonsense we teach today in the name of preaching messages to elevate the women alone.

That is why many Christian home have problems today. Teach the balanced truth that comes from the word of God, No, they bring in all sort to elevate the female gender without also talking about the male gender. Whereas the Bible addressed both the male and female gender.

We just need to correct these wrongs. It has been on for too long.

Back to your example, she didn't bring him luck. God favoured him because he found his wife.

Thank you. I see so many people misquoting that Bible verse and it pains me to the bones. If the lady was such a blessing, why she no make am before I marry am? Why must she wait to enter husband house before blessings would be activated? They talk like single men aren't blessed. Heck, Jesus was single and he is the greatest man ever to walk planet earth. I keep saying it, no woman holds my blessings. Any woman who comes with that mentality into my home would need to have a rethink

Ladylawyer:
I have a question for those against the poster. What if you never make money and you are approaching 50 what should a man do? Wait a little further or get married and have a family?
My point is this, you must not be wealthy before you get married. Also wealth is relative. But a man should have skill or a certificate anything that can actually fetch him something from time to time and also your partner should also have a skill or a job. Hope i made sense.

Nowhere is it stated that a man or woman must get married. Before someone gets married, he or she must be emotionally, physically and financially ready to bear the responsibility of marriage. If at 50, a man still struggles to feed himself and cannot assist his relatives once in a while when they ask for help, he should die a single man. If he is also emotionally or physically not ready, he also needs to take a chill pill. Marriage is not for everyone. And no one is saying be Dangote before getting married. But to be struggling financially and still contemplating marriage is something I find very foolish. That's how boko haram started. Children given birth to by foolish parents who knew they don't have the resources to cater for them, only to send these children out at tender ages to fend for themselves

dunsin125:
Ebonyi State, Nigeria...... Good evening guys.

Beautiful

bukatyne:
You do you

They are Biblical principles.

Not able to explain in details now.

The problem is that poor people have too many kids.

If they have just one kid in addition to themselves, they will do very fine.

No biblical principles say if you're struggling, go and marry. You people should not be turning Bible upside down. That same Bible gives special counsel to family heads that if they don't provide for their families, they are worse than those without faith. It's a cautionary statement that marriage isn't child's play. It's understandable to say a man who as money but mismanages the money as a single person should get married. At least, because he now has responsibilities and a responsible wife, he will better handle his resources and grow. But a dude that struggles to even feed himself, you're now advising him to marry? Haba na

bjtinz:
However is this not the same governor that was allegedly sleeping when some one elders came to see him few days ago when indigenes were being slaughtered?

So he's suddenly woken up

Lol. This life eh

eburuu:
my cousin an half brother is part of them we confirm that my half brother is dead among them but my cousin is not were to be fund mahamadu jamiu

Except your brother is the driver of the bus that was burnt down. He is the only Yoruba in that bus and he wasn't hurt. Like I said, so many Yoruba Muslims live in rukuba road. No one hurts them even during crisis. They prefer to stay here than in angwan rogo