saphiere:
[s][/s]The Bible said so and not a motivational speaker.

djon78:




She brought him luck

You can speak all the grammar wey you want

The lady carry Grace simple

You may Talk wetin you want talk or chose what you want to believe

There are women that carry Grace simple

Like I have said
I have seen it Times without number

In addition no one is hyping the female gender
But building a stable prosperous home you must have a willing female
If a man is favoured and marries a bad Luck woman he is still doomed

Proverbs 14 vs 1 says a Wise woman builds her home while a foolish one tears it Down with her hand

A conformed woman is key to building a successful homes

Austineva2:
womennnn! But u are advising broke guys to go marry that women bring luck in marriage . Am just looking u with side eye

saphiere:
Facts.

Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners ���

I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners.

Indeed women are blessings.

Arda1000:
may u walk and never kpebie ukwu

flokii:
So a guy that is still struggling to stand should go and marry just because a motivational speaker said so?

He won't do wedding, won't feed the wife and babies when they start coming? or how many people will you turn to for help today that'll readily assist you?

I feel it's when a guy knows he can handle responsibilities that he should think of marriage (not necessarily rich) and he should make sure the lady is ready to work and not a liabilty that put too much value on material things.

Hassanmaye:

I should not marry my mate will she not be obedient

Ladylawyer:
I have a question for those against the poster. What if you never make money and you are approaching 50 what should a man do? Wait a little further or get married and have a family?
My point is this, you must not be wealthy before you get married. Also wealth is relative. But a man should have skill or a certificate anything that can actually fetch him something from time to time and also your partner should also have a skill or a job. Hope i made sense.

Gaddafih001:

She can never be loyal to your authority.
She fit chop your shit just because she wan enter.
You will see this as the days roll by.
This is my ten years in this fu***ng mess.
Don’t try this road, you will get burnt.
They are susceptible to use jazz on you bro just to keep her home.
Look for someone that looks up to you as her senior and not someone that will be going to older men for advice because technically,she senior you (LOL).

Arda1000:
U never see one who be get money marry wrong wife,em life finish, don’t get married because Ure poor or rich,marry when u have thought about it well enough,a wrong woman is worse than poverty

Nauttyprof:


So, men don't carry favour right?

We twist the word of God to mean something else when in the real sense favour comes from God alone and is not from anybody. Bible says .... and obtains favour from God. Did you see the God part and not the woman?

The essence of that verse is getting a (good) wife and seeing the hands of God move in such Union with favour and not the nonsense we teach today in the name of preaching messages to elevate the women alone.

That is why many Christian home have problems today. Teach the balanced truth that comes from the word of God, No, they bring in all sort to elevate the female gender without also talking about the male gender. Whereas the Bible addressed both the male and female gender.

We just need to correct these wrongs. It has been on for too long.

Back to your example, she didn't bring him luck. God favoured him because he found his wife.

djon78:




She brought him luck

You can speak all the grammar wey you want

The lady carry Grace simple

You may Talk wetin you want talk or chose what you want to believe

There are women that carry Grace simple

Like I have said
I have seen it Times without number

In addition no one is hyping the female gender
But building a stable prosperous home you must have a willing female
If a man is favoured and marries a bad Luck woman he is still doomed

Proverbs 14 vs 1 says a Wise woman builds her home while a foolish one tears it Down with her hand

A conformed woman is key to building a successful homes

ityP:



Nowhere is it stated that a man or woman must get married. Before someone gets married, he or she must be emotionally, physically and financially ready to bear the responsibility of marriage. If at 50, a man still struggles to feed himself and cannot assist his relatives once in a while when they ask for help, he should die a single man. If he is also emotionally or physically not ready, he also needs to take a chill pill. Marriage is not for everyone. And no one is saying be Dangote before getting married. But to be struggling financially and still contemplating marriage is something I find very foolish. That's how boko haram started. Children given birth to by foolish parents who knew they don't have the resources to cater for them, only to send these children out at tender ages to fend for themselves

Nwaezehopr:
I pity any unemploy or underpay guy who will try this. Things are too cost. 10 k is not enough for me a week as a single guy talk more a married unemployed or underpaid guy. Never allow anyone to advise you about issue of marriage. Even your parents can't decide for you. A friend of mine who married immediately after servicing with a teaching job is seriously regretting it now. This guy hardly take 3 square meal a day. For how long will he continues like this? Marriage is not a competition. Make sure you have a consistent daily or monthly income before entering into it .Cooking gas is now #550/kg.

guuudy87:
As if to marry is free

Taywon:
I pity who follow Op advice....


Is like i need to personally meet those supporting Op... To share some real life situation....

Two things are involve
1. Its either you rush out the same way you rush in
2. One might eventually kill the other(domestic violence) as a result of frustration ...

this past week we settled more 3 three Marital issues....

Fear grip me oooo.... Forget those mumu smile you dey see oo... Things dey happen... I have some graphic pictures i would have love to share.... Maybe latter

ityP:



Stop deceiving our young men. This here is a reason why Nigeria is the world capital of poverty and will continue to be the world capital of poverty. We see many parents giving birth to children and not being able to cater for them. See the northerners. Their kids liter the streets begging because their foolish parents had this mentality. If a man does not have the means to cater for a family, he should never near the institution of marriage. And oh, see you quoting the Bible like you even know what's written there. Let me school you a bit. That same Bible you quoted also says in 1 Timothy 5:8 (NIV): "Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever". Foolish Nigerian youths, take this foolish advice at your peril

ityP:



No woman is the source of my favour and blessings; not even my mother. God alone is the source and whether or not I get married, if he so wishes, I'd be successful. Heck, even the greatest man who ever lived didn't get married and he encouraged others who can to follow suit

Hassanmaye:

Who is the greatest man??

ityP:



Jesus

Hassanmaye:

Blood of Zachariah! You just replied me in the blink of an eye

saphiere:
Rotarian advises broke unmarried guys to get married. According to him, "some women hold the key to success".

He quoted a Bible verse which says; "He who finds a wife finds a good thing".

saphiere:
Rotarian advises broke unmarried guys to get married. According to him, "some women hold the key to success".

He quoted a Bible verse which says; "He who finds a wife finds a good thing".

ityP:



Thank you. I see so many people misquoting that Bible verse and it pains me to the bones. If the lady was such a blessing, why she no make am before I marry am? Why must she wait to enter husband house before blessings would be activated? They talk like single men aren't blessed. Heck, Jesus was single and he is the greatest man ever to walk planet earth. I keep saying it, no woman holds my blessings. Any woman who comes with that mentality into my home would need to have a rethink

kay29000:


Hahahaha! This guy you made me burst out laughing