jamerflepz: “I should have shared that job opportunity with him oooo, but he's not a friendly person. He doesn't smile at people, he barely talks...”
F... you, bro. 😭
Wait, so because someone isn't your friend, they don't deserve to know about an opportunity that could change their situation?
I've shared job openings with people I'm not particularly close to simply because I know they're competent at what they do.
I don't have to enjoy your company to recognise your abilities.
I don't have to be your friend to want you to succeed.
And I certainly don't have to be interested in building a relationship with you before sharing useful information.
Think about it.
You come across a job opportunity. You don't have anyone close to you who fits the job description, but you know someone who does.
Why should the fact that you're not friends determine whether that person gets to hear about it?
Why withhold information that could put food on someone's table simply because they aren't sociable enough for your liking?
Here's something I've come to realise:
You can be generous with someone without being personally interested in them.
I can share an opportunity with you and still not want to hang out with you.
I can recommend you for a job because you're competent, not because we're buddies.
I can genuinely want good things for you without wanting you in my personal circle.
And I don't think there's anything strange about that.
Friendship is personal. Professional opportunities are different.
Of course, trust, competence and reliability matter. But someone not being your friend isn't evidence that they don't deserve an opportunity.
Omo, when did being friendly become a prerequisite for receiving goodwill?
Must everybody be your person before you can wish them well?
Or is there something you know that I don't? 😂
Hehehe if you knew those kind of people better, you'd be filled with pity for them. They are suffering from the trauma of intense Social abuse. This abuse damages essentially the Emotion, the Ego and the Psyche.
truthera: The Nigerian judiciary is running from the appeal filed by IPOB leader, Nnamdi Kanu, because of irregularities in the judgment that convicted him, a lawyer, Christopher Chidera, Esq, has said.
Chidera spoke amid the controversy surrounding the delay by the Court of Appeal in scheduling the hearing of the appeal filed by Kanu to challenge his conviction.
The lawyer, while speaking on the development, blamed the delay on the refusal of the Abuja Federal High Court presided over by Justice James Omotosho to transition the trial from the 'repealed' Terrorism Prevention (Amendment) Act, TPAA, 2013, to the extant Terrorism Prevention and Prohibition Act, TPPA, 2022, as mandated by the compulsory transition commands in sections 97 and 98(2) of the 2022 Act.
He noted that the judge refused to make the transition even after Kanu, who took up his own defence, made a formal application to that effect in the course of the trial. Kanu's defence team has argued that he would not have been convicted if the trial was conducted under the extant TPPA 2022.
Stating his views on why the appeal is being delayed, Chidera said, "The public and the legal community must understand why the state's legal machinery has gone strangely quiet regarding the appeal. The consequence of Justice Omotosho’s emotional overreach and emotional response to the pro se defense is a state of total legal paralysis plaguing the prosecution's appellate team.
"Ordinarily, a state machinery defending a high-profile conviction would rush to file briefs of argument and push for an expedited hearing. Instead, they are met with a brick wall of their own making.
"No defense for a dead law. How does a state counsel write a legal brief defending a conviction under a statute that has been explicitly repealed and replaced by the National Assembly?
The appellate court cannot cure a trial judge's refusal to read or apply mandatory statutory commands. The official trial record stands as the most damning witness against the bench, capturing word-for-word the moment the defendant exposed the statutory requirement and the judge swatted it away."
The lawyer described the judgment as a landmine for the judiciary.
He said, "To be candid, I do not blame the judiciary for their reluctance to list the case for hearing. Justice Omotosho’s judgment is an uncomfortable landmine that Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is seeking to exploit to blow the entire judiciary out of the water. But eventually, the case must be listed or Mazi Nnamdi Kanu is released unconditionally, and that reckoning cannot be avoided forever."
Chidera further described the judgment as a 'constitutional nullity' which the government cannot defend.
"The public record reveals a stark reality: Justice Omotosho’s judgment is an unconstitutional nullity. By allowing personal animus and a pre-determined desire to convict to blind him to basic statutory commands, the trial judge engineered a self-sabotaged verdict.
"The government’s extreme reluctance to list the appeal for hearing or file a substantive response to the Appellant’s Brief speaks volumes. They cannot defend a conviction anchored on a repealed statute. For all observers of justice and the rule of law, the truth is clear: the conviction is dead and buried on law alone," the lawyer said.
Hehehehe there is only one thing that's above the law: Power. There's no law holding MNK in detention, it's Power that has kept him there and it's also Power that'll free him.
gracias124: Among the worst that can happen to man is being broke and jobless, today I was humiliated. lately things have not been going well for me as I resigned from where I work as laborer, because the job is physically draining me and the place emotionally draining me. so I left with no backup plan. since when I left, I was just struggling, and begging to survive as nobody feed me. there is guy that we attend university together who was luckily get a job as federal road safety officer three years ago, during our university days he was among my close friends, I cant remember how many times he copied my assignments and i did tests for him. Since 3days ago, I have been calling and sending messages to that guy asking for financial assistance and he kept telling me that he is busy and that he will call me. since 3days ago he said I should send him my aza, LAS LAS TODAY HE SENT ME 1K, I WAS LIKE WHAT THE F? WAS HE TRYING TO SEND 10k ND MADE A MISTAKE OR WHAT? anyway its a lesson learned, tomorrow I will go back to my laboring job, where we make concrete interlocks and my back aches as I begin to believe that is where my destiny lies.
you have a very fine job, and you're even working in a mechanized factory. People (labourers) have been established in life through the manual section of that industry. You despise that job, funny enough your financial future lies in that job. You had better sit up now.
Akeemdeco: Boss I’ve checked out every where I can find a butterfly, I can’t find any, pls is there alternative pls
I know. But that task is your sacrifice that will break the curse. There's a reason your own involves the butterfly. All your life, it seems like you've been chasing shadows. Anytime you want to achieve something meaningful, something happens and it eludes you. Even in business, most times you watch as income meant for you slips to another person despite how much you have laboured for it. It is a curse running in your family. This curse affected your father. No need to go into details concerning all that was revealed concerning the origin. What's important is that you are to break that curse and liberate your family. This is why the butterfly was given to you to chase and catch. It is a near impossible thing to do, just like the curse that's fighting your life is there to ensure that it will be impossible for anyone in your family to be established. But with God all things are possible, and by God you'll be able to catch the two butterflies. THE LORD gave you this assignment to also teach you to no longer depend on yourself or man but to depend on him from henceforth for by strength shall no man prevail. You will catch those butterflies, one will be a kind of orange colour with red and black dots. The other one has this dark purplish colour with yellow tinge. You will know them when you see them. And you'll believe that it's THE LORD. Go and succeed. Do not give up until you succeed at the task for therein lies your freedom. And from the moment you catch those butterflies, your reality will experience a shift. You'll notice a change in your being, you'll get this feeling like a bird ,that's just left the cage where it has been, and has mounted wings to soar. And you'll notice it among one or two of your relatives. This will be a sign for you to know that old things have passed away.
As we gear up towards the worth coming presidential election in Nigeria, political thuggery has become a thing among politicians. Daily we see, hear of incidents involving political thugs, it has now become a tool of intermediation, oppression and victimization of the lives of political opponents. Atiku Abubakar, Omoyele Sowore and Peter Obi, The recent incident in Delta state was so bloody that one person lost his life and many injured. Now, we are witnessing political retaliations. The question is....If political thuggery has become the in thing now what would be the tales during the election?
Hehehehe the only card the masses have now is to make sure they end up achieving their goal or else the blood that's been shed, including the ones that'll be shed, will have been in vain and they'll be the worse for it. The stubborn fly normally gets buried along with the corpse.
AntiChristian: Please i would like to know who witnessed these events to narrate them.
**Jesus met Matthew and Matthew was calling himself Matthew (Matthew 9:9) **Jesus’ temptation by Satan in the wilderness (Matthew 4:1–11; Mark 1:12–13; Luke 4:1–13). **Satan taking Jesus to the pinnacle of the Temple (Matthew 4:5–7; Luke 4:9–12). **Jesus’ private prayers to God (Matthew 26:36–46; Mark 1:35; Luke 6:12). **Jesus’ detailed prayer in Gethsemane while the disciples slept (Matthew 26:36–46; Mark 14:32–42). **Jesus’ private conversation with Nicodemus (John 3:1–21). **Jesus’ conversation with the Samaritan woman before the disciples arrived (John 4:7–26). **Jesus’ private conversation with the devil during his temptation (Matthew 4:1–11; Luke 4:1–13). **The exact details of Jesus’ trial conversations with Pilate (Matthew 27:11–26; Mark 15:2–15; Luke 23:1–25; John 18:28–19:16). **The tearing of the Temple veil (Matthew 27:51; Mark 15:38; Luke 23:45). **The earthquake at Jesus’ death (Matthew 27:51). **The opening of tombs at Jesus’ death (Matthew 27:52–53). **The resurrection and appearance of the saints in Jerusalem (Matthew 27:52–53). **Jesus’ private appearance to Peter after the resurrection (Luke 24:34; 1 Corinthians 15:5). **Jesus’ appearance to James after the resurrection (1 Corinthians 15:7). **Jesus’ appearance to more than five hundred people, as reported by Paul (1 Corinthians 15:6). **Jesus’ extended conversations with the disciples during the forty days before his ascension (Acts 1:3).
Hehehehe do you believe there's the supernatural side to existence?
Akeemdeco: Good morning sir, please is there anyway I can contact you privately , you are indeed gifted, goosebumps all over me, please let me contact you privately, my number 09126782288 Incase you don’t want to leave your contact on public forum, thanks so much
It's well with you. You can reach me through the email.
Akeemdeco: Yeah I can catch a butterfly, I don’t think anything connected me with abortion nothing at all
OK. Go and catch two beautiful butterflies in the afternoon between 1-2pm, release them in your house let them fly around ( make sure nothing happens to them) then in the evening from 8pm you can release them. Then after 3 days get 2 very young coconuts that contain water, do not let them touch the ground. Drink some of the water, and then pour the greater part into the water you'll use to bathe. As you bathe this is what you'll keep saying; " Water is beautiful and Coconut water is sweet. Oh LORD MY CREATOR YOU are my Shepherd, I shall not want. Have Mercy on me, and make my life sweet and beautiful." When you're done bathing don't dry yourself allow the air to dry your body. Do it at 3pm and at 3am. Anything you see in your dream that day or that night, don't forget it. Then after 3 days go and meet your parents and ask them what they want, whatever they tell you buy it or do it for them (you are going to get the means to do it because you're no longer going to be broke). After doing it stay with them for 3 days. Whatever they tell you within those 3 days don't forget it. Entertain them and keep them company those 3 days. After 3 days, go your way and prosper.
You are going to marry a northerner. You'll know her when she'll come. And you'll meet her in the North.
As you begin to get financially capable, invest in agriculture, therein lies your wealth.
After you have completed the above tasks, stay away from women for 13 new moons. The night of the 14th new moon, get water flowing from a rock (enough to bathe) and bathe with it.
In the future, when your life begins to get sweet, be careful of your way with the female gender so you won't commit the evil of aborting a baby. One will come your way, from the Southwest. You'll make a mistake with her, and it will result in a pregnancy which she does not want to keep.
You'll travel, after you've made it at home.
When THE LORD has shown your Mercy and wiped away your tears, hope you'll not forget HIM? Hope you'll not forget to thank HIM?
May ThE LORD lead you beside green pasture... Shalom.
My name is Chiwendu Joseph, and I am making this appeal because I have reached a very difficult point in my life and genuinely need help.
I am currently stranded in Eleme, Rivers State. I have no accommodation for tonight, I have not had proper food or drinking water, and I am physically exhausted after walking around for hours trying to find help.
I have approached several people, but unfortunately, nobody has been able to accommodate or assist me. I understand that people have their own challenges, but I am still hoping that someone here may be willing to help or connect me with someone who can.
What I urgently need:
1. Drinking water and something to eat. 2. A safe temporary place to stay, even for a short period. 3. Assistance connecting with a genuine humanitarian organisation or someone willing to help me get back on my feet. 4. An opportunity to work and earn an honest living.
I have over 10 years of experience in Information Technology, including computer networking, website development, graphics design, IT support, CCTV installation and other technical services. I am willing to work and provide my services in exchange for an opportunity to rebuild my life.
I am not asking anyone to pay my debts or make me rich. I am simply asking for a helping hand, basic necessities and an opportunity to start again.
If you are in Rivers State or know a genuine person, organisation, church or humanitarian group that may be able to assist, please kindly send me a private message through this forum.
Thank you for taking the time to read my appeal. Any genuine assistance, advice or referral will mean a lot to me.
Blue86: Pau told Timothy, to use a little wine for his stomach’s sake and for his often infirmities. ( 1 Timothy 5:23 )
Any drink or juice that underwent fermentation has alcohol in it. For alcohol is a by product of fermentation. The only difference is that probiotic drinks or juice contains alcohol that do not intoxicate, with beneficial microbes for the gut health and nutrients.
That’s why kunu, ginger bug, the water from pap, fermented banana drinks and many others are very good for your gut health.
They all contain alcohol but no intoxication with it, and beneficial microbes for your health with nutrients to bless your body.
A probiotic drink is a little wine for stomach health
Hehehehe but your explanation and the biblical example you used are going separate ways. Why?
Dalohad: If you are not an errand boy, who sent you to create the thread?
You lied that she accused Yorubas of losing her election just to create sensationalism and press the mumu buttons of your fellow APC anti-Igbo goons from the SW who will readily lap up the falsehood without verifying the authenticity of your fakery.
I know how you think like the back of my hands..
Hehehehe first & last paragraphs things on things...
Zorn: What you could be to warrant being killed by first world country is a double agent and not an innovator, because that is what keep them ahead. I will never buy into delusion that because you are great engineer, scientist, inventor then american government will want to kill you. You will be charged if you sell a clasified information to the competitors and any other nation can do that. So get off your delusion. The siencetist and the engineer that put together their first ever nuclear war head were mostly immigrants some were even german scientists. So get off your delusion mr know it all.
Hehehehe well this even buttresses the fact that you're only ignorant. You don't understand the reality of life yet. There's no point in explaining things to you, your type learn by experience. And it will happen to someone close to you, someone you know. Just keep this reply of mine, for it will be a witness unto you in that day to bring you to remembrance concerning the convo we had over this matter.
fattprince: Oh! Thank you so much. I've read just 2 paragraphs but what I read already shows an accuracy that wowed me. So I'm going to calm down and read this patiently and follow any instructions you might have given. Thanks so much, I really appreciate so much.
Then here's a message from our sponsors at Panadol extra to help soothe the pain.
Hehehehe it's good you're concerned about your health, pls don't stop taking it we need you fit to get more news and broadcast to us or we'll get bored, and you know what that means for your pittance
Your deputy PM and chief of staff to Simon Ekpa the incareated PM of United State of Biafra , contested an election in the US in a blue state and when she lost woefully, she began blaming Yorubas for her loss.
No be madness be this ?
Hehehehe we know, Radio Die-On-Igbo-Affair 4.4 Fm . Any more news?
Nairaland General › Re: I Shared Updates With My Enemies by itzadorable333: 10:24pm On Nov 09
