₦airaland Forum

SafeDavid:
Olodo!
Read the subject again

Thus time s l o w l y .

Caseless:
You can't control the fact that people will annoy you , what you can control is your reaction- buddha

The foregoing quote is set to adress some issues and lay them to rest .

I have come to the realization that pearlescent display does not come , but it's inherent and, this ivvy or her conduct has brought to bear.

Any mind would be deemed fantastically corrupt if it throws away principle and logic into the air in exchange of affiliative politicking and politico. This is a pluscachange , saying I'm not aware of this extant and ugly trend would qualify me to be described as an Alice in wonderland nairaland . But what is more important is how we identify the issue and adress them head-on.

[b]I'm supporting ivvy out of an unflinching conviction and , so is your support for your chosen candidate or contestant, this is the most important thing 'cos it's what we all have in common as far as this contest is concerned.

We're humans(creature of many imperfections) and we are all the same . We sometimes throw away commonsense and allow our emotions to take control of us. When you see this on display by any member of team ivvy, ivvy should not be blamed because she has no control over emotional rage built in people including those in her team.

I'm a staunch supporter of ivvy ...a discerning mind should not judge ivvy based on my cognitive dissonance - my support and that of every member of her team is independent and to a large extent distanced from our individual action. Don't hold or judge ivvy based on those you see fighting in her name - as good christians, Muslims, atheists, pagans etc, forgive and forget the fighter and follow ivvy(Atleast, because of those begging for your votes.[/b]

This is not the first miss nairaland contest and I believe it's not going to be the last . We are seen as opponents today because of our various candidates, and might be seen belonging to the same camp/team because of another candidate tomorrow. Then why the bad blood?
I enjoin all, Let's bury our hatchet and focus on what we have in common and not our differences and the possibility of them .
Avoid brawl , guffaw and heehaw !

'There should be a connection between terra firma and terra incognita'
-#teamivvy

joseph1832:
A question for Ivvy: As a graduate of Communication Art, what do you feel/think is the best way for this current government, to use communication as the focal point, to breach and end the endless chasm (religious and political intolerance) the exist in this country presently. Putting into cognizance, that Nigeria is a country full of diverse ethnic and religious background.

Thank you.

Mediapace:
Lanicky ivyy , what will be the first thing on your mind if Seun walks in majestically on this thread and tells you he loves you and want to marry you and what will be your reply?

Vickyydera:
Ivvy, Lanicky And ChubbyTI


Is CBN devaluation of naira a step in the right direction? Give your reasons.

tosyne2much:

Recently, many hearts were broken when Seun banned Forex Trading as well as Football Betting. What's your take on the people who are addicted to these form of businesses?

People have been bullying our president for his inability to meet up with the educational requirements for a president. Do you believe certificate is a yardstick to successfully rule a nation?

Do you see yourself winning this contest? What gives you the impression that you will get to the final stage

If you won the crown and you were awarded the sum of N50, 000 as promised; How would you share the money among your campaign managers?


Cc
Ivyy,
Lanicky
ChubbyT

joseph1832:
Now the emboldened caught my attention.

tosyne2much:
*Now let's go to next phase of the questions*

These are relationship questions

viii. Broke guys have no business being in relationships. What's your take on it?

ix. What's your definition of a husband material?

x. If you were a man and you discovered on your wedding night that your acclaimed virgin wife only lied about being a virgin. Would any amount of begging make you forgive and accept her back?, and how would you handle the situation?

xi. Can you date a yahoo boy? If yes, why? If no, why?

Cc
Ivyy,
Lanicky
ChubbyT

tosyne2much:
Answer these introductory questions

i. Kindly tell us your real name

ii. What was your moniker coined from?

iii. Your state of origin

iv. Relationship and religion status

v. Your age

vi. Educational background

vii. What are your bad habits?


Cc

Ivvy
Lanicky
ChubbyT

Dygeasy:
Lanicky, Ivyy & ChubbyT

Are y'all here with us?

BossDanniee:
Nice Write-up Ivyy

chachanga:
D kain depression Wey dey floor now, ehn?

Na to marry one of u brilliant ladies on the thread go solve am .

Na Monday morning, I shld be @ my workstation but am here in d break-room typing thrash; I no wan buy market because i know Sandoski don get "keyholder " & Ivvy dey busy dey form Olajumoke Beauty pageant.

You other ladies shld just know dat original Naija "TrueLove Diego " is waiting for ur PM o.

armadeo:
Ivyy how does one help a depressed friend. How does one understand what a depressed friend feels.

How do we cope with depressed people around us, when we cannot even fathom how they feel or think.

You know depression causes undue anger and lashing out. How do we manage this.

Shinyjay:
Hi Ivvy, I really appreciate the way you analyzed this topic. I've kind of been a victim of "depression" for a very long time.... It even goes as far as while I was in primary school and even till now. The only reason I haven't carried out my suicide thoughts is my mother because I love her so much.... I've been on the brink of suicide so many times but people around me do not know. I've just had to keep myself going by holding on to "hope" that things will get better even when they turn out pretty worse anyway that's me...

wristbangle:
Goodevening Ivyy. Can I talk u via pm concerning the upcoming miss NL competition?

Okikiki:
Another like minded Nlander spotted.

Ivyy, The crown fits you.

Cherlene:
Although I am on
- TEAM IVYY

My spirit FELT the DISCOURAGING, LESS HOPEFUL comment/s..

Cherlene

Airforce1:
I can't promise anything honestly

Those your contesting against are my friends.

Airforce1:
you're pretty

PushPlay:
Very insightful post.

I also had long bouts with depression as an undergraduate and it only took the grace of God to get over it.
Its sad that our society don't have enough therapists and councellors to help sufferers get out of it.

It now falls on family members and friends to look out for their loved ones.

lalasticlala you know the drill.

sbabimbola:
well written.........

Eddygourdo:
Everyone is bound to have episodes of depression. Sometimes it has causes that are purely environmental, its agreed that many in war torn regions suffer a great deal from depression, its difficult to not be depressed when the environment you find yourself is bleak. I am of the school of thought that humans need to be taught how to handle depression. Its something that comes and should be managed quickly else it degenerates to more severe conditions of failing health or even insanity.

Man is a very social being, we tend to conform a lot to our environment a lot, depressive thoughts occcur most frequently when people are indoors and alone. Being alone allows the mind to exagerate life's problems and dissapointments which in turn could cause one to be depressed.

Thus I feel people who aren't socially balanced will always strugle with depresion more than those who live more active social lives, they usually never have time to have deep thoughts and thus depresive feelings

SANDOSKI:
Nice one...ivvy...

CountDracula:
Ivyy, befor I read ur post I jus av to say... Lovely shoes girl... I. Just. Loooooooove ur shoes. Ok lemme read

Ok. Read it... We africans/Nigerians know wat depression is, we just like to think its a sign of weakness, so we rather cover it up wit a big fake smile and go abt our daily stuff, but wen we're alone all we can do is wish for death, I made sure I was never alone dat was d trick, I was alone in d real sense of cos, I had no friends really, but I always had my fone, and my fone was always packed wit movies. Dats how I dealt wit it or dats how I still deal wit it. Everybody has issues but not everybody is depressed dats anoda common mistake, d un-depressed people keep yellin and designin pictures dat tell u u don't deserve to be sad or depressed or u shud grow up or u shud just not be depressed... Which jus sends u into a deeper trance

PushPlay:
Oh dear,
You should call me ASAP...Been trying to reach you for days.

naughtynaughty:
fyn geh