₦airaland Forum

generationz:
maybe she dosent like you that much. if a lady loves you she will want to be around you or hear you more often. sorry

generationz:
hmm no offence but I tend to be quite suspicious of people who tell me with their mouths that they are nice people ( bad experiences)

the truth is we can't be too careful

generationz:
the new lady you call once in 50 years

generationz:
did she complain

generationz:
hmm no offence but I tend to be quite suspicious of people who tell me with their mouths that they are nice people ( bad experiences)

the truth is we can't be too careful


what works for A doesn't work for B

I had a room mate very sexy lady
she and her boyfriend could stay on calls for up to 14 hours in a day almost everyday (no joke)

it became quite irritating that even the other roommates her friend used to ask ' what is it you people are always talking about sef'
however the guy has such a hold on this lady. She hardly ever goes out he checks her every move and he isn't even around Lagos sef. when she went for a wedding they quarreled on phone because he kept asking.


However at the initial stage maybe you should try to tone the calls down. don't go changing from being frequent to not being . for example when you call let your missed call be only one. nothing more than that. let the calls be rare.
chat more on WhatsApp.

make the chats very short and precise too
this is for when you have started dating her. not before.


That lady you said she came back was is when you started making cash because the desperation na wa

generationz:
you are almost like the guy?

so has any of your former girlfriends or female friends comeback begging you for a second chance.

ameri9ja:
I agree. And BTW the iPhone is only assembled in China. Probably due to very cheap labour.

ameri9ja:
Not to burst your bubble, but if you Google "where is iPhone made?" China pops up. Lol.

Alvin007:
Easy fam....I use an iPhone. #cheers
Regardless of all criticisms, we die here..#apple#iphone

Alvin007:
This one is strong o!

Magicdon:
my dear, d best thing that can happen to you is to date n marry your best friend. From the story you write down, he is your close and best friend. Four years? so what? You have known each other so well. Give him a try I will say to you dear.Your body language says you have a guy you are seeing. my guess though. Say yes to him. You won't regret it. Forget whether hr took four years to open up to you. He is the bomb for you. Don't tell him you taking him as an elder brother. common open your eyes and see he is your dream man. Don't need any soothsayer. Good luck

Blonchilli:
Bros the guy pocket nor weigh. I could see through her story. She's gushing about the boy's character but can't date him. TF! If that guy has a great car, large money in the bank and lives in a breathtaking apartment she won't need Nairaland advice. That Kanye West and Jamie Foxx song comes to mind

ykalhaji:
Madam, you are young so you won't be able to grab on to this once in a lifetime opportunity. Tell him the truth, he is your bestie, so I am sure he knows already but just wanted to see if tgrir is a glimmer of hope somewhere for him but I will ask you to do him a favor because I doubt he will be strong enough to do it himself, let the friendship die a natural death. Make new friends, stop depending on him, hang out with him in the company of other female friends. If he is a strong guy, he will be able to move on and find his own queen but don't get too jealous when that happens or he starts a relationship with one of your friends that sees the opportunity that your emotions will not let you grab on to. If you guys are meant to be, there is always the future.

generationz:
She already stated how the guy has been there for her through thick and thin in 4years.


Except he has a sinister plan


Kindness and integrity is important

For a Guy that knows so much about you to still be Head over heels in love says a lot.

Odunharry:
Very confused. I'm sure she's very young. Maybe in her early twenties or mayb Teenage sef who knows.

That's how many gals always do. I'm sure she want to have fun and hang around bad boys, then when it's time to settle down, settle for a good guy.

gasparpisciotta:
These guys should be on their way to financial breakthrough if they can obtain these pictures. Clear case of abuse, they need a human rights lawyer ASAP.

Abjay97:
Hello! Igbo Amaka!!
Saving Nigeria's face everywhere..
God bless Ndiigbo
God bless Nigeria

udemzyudex:
Exactly.

udemzyudex:
He has been friend zone and it will be very hard if not impossible to get out of that zone

Ioannes:
Looooooollllll.... If I had a dollar for every time I've seen this scenario play before my eyes, I'd surely be a millionaire by now.

Little girl, what do you know about love?

Move closer let me tell you something... That guy is your soulmate.

What are the chances that you'll ever meet another guy whom you can confide in as much as you do in him? Maybe one in a billion chance.

Are you willing to take that chance?

You are confusing romance with love.

True love has got nothing to do with emotions and everything to do with the will.

There's nothing better than dating and marrying your best friend.

He already sees your weaknesses and still loves you.

You better hold him fast.

Don't wait until you've been maltreated by other guys before realizing your mistake. By then it'll be too late.

All the best.

eunisam:
If you don't take time, you will regret ever saying no to him.

I'm still regretting mine

Aarenasbaba:
My fiancé am planning to settle down with was my close friend of many years. We started as friend from 2007 until 2017. We talked about the feelings and here we are

Throwback:
What was Saraki doing hiding overnight inside the National Assembly parking lot?

Was Saraki as an APC Senator not supposed to be with his fellow APC legislators meeting with the President and party Chairman?

How many Senators out of 108 were present when the voting for the Senate presidency was commenced by Saraki and his gang?

How many APC Senators who were the majority, were present to vote in their very first duty as elected Senators?

Did Saraki not sacrifice the Deputy Senate Presidency to PDP in a bid to actualize his own personal ambitions that were superior to the ambitions of the party?

Did Sen. Lawan who was the APC favourite not have his own supporters too in the opposition parties, but who were now forced to vote for only Saraki, who ensured he began the election of the Senate leadership while Sen. Lawan was at a different place that Saraki also ought to have been?

Did you and Saraki then expect to have a peaceful Senate after such unfathomable treachery and deliberate disenfranchisement of his major opponent and fellow APC senators?

Dogora who won as speaker did not deny any member of the HOR their voting rights even if he was not the party favourite. His tenure remains at peace with all HOR legislators. He did not hide overnight in the parking lot to ensure he was the only candidate with supporters present, nor did he sacrifice the position of Deputy Speaker to the opposition PDP. He only chose to contest fairly and won despite the APC already having an anointed candidate.

Compare Saraki's greed and deviousness to Dogora's right to participation, then see why the Senate is rancorous and HOR is united.

azpekuliar:
There is nothing whooping about this. N10m in 3 days is still slow out of the starting block.

IamPlato:
...


Take It Easy. E never Reach like This na

generationz:
please stop telling anybody everything about yourself. its dangerous.



aren't we told to marry our Best friends?



I see this as a result of your immaturity (no offense dear) you are still in the university , by the time you graduate and date more guys you'll realize that not all that glitters is gold.


There's a difference between an Hollywood movie script/ mills and boons novels and reality

this. my dear is reality


when a person becomes too available and ' too there' for us they become undesirable

The guy made a mistake in the art of seduction 101


Right now because of the love he has shown you and his over availability there's nothing left to the imagination again instead of seeing him as Romeo you see him as the elder brother you never had.

if a man can know all your trash and nonsense, good and bad , and after four years still say girl I love you then that man truly loves you.



tell me dear


his he ugly, perhaps you are attracted to handsome guys

his he short? perhaps you are attracted to tall guys

his he poor ? perhaps you are attracted to rich guys

his he soft ? perhaps you are attracted to bad guys.


during those four years has he had a girlfriend? because I know we ladies love guys who many
girls want for one reason or the other. its not our fault but a thing of genetics and desirability.




I know your dilemma . He doesn't fulfil your desire in a man.

Seriously how couldn't you see a guy likes you withing four years of knowing him. if its me within a few days of knowing someone I'll know if he likes me,is a players or doesn't even like me.


its in the words, the extra care, the eyes ,the body language etc.



please don't date anyone out of pity


with the time you are taking to think about it , change your thinking pattern . Ask for more time off if its possible. Tell him the time off is for you to make a sound judgement devoid of emotions.



maybe it will even be all through his exams and his final year project so he can focus on that.


not seeing him can make you desire him more.

now reconfigure your brain. start seeing him as a man you can spend your life with . think of how good he has been to you and compare him to your exes in each aspect. see him as desirable too.


If you both were lost on an island and he was the only man there for you to procreate with will you do it? your first reaction to this (in your brain) will tell if there's even a slim chance of being with him.

love isn't a mushy feeling o


love is in action. The mushy feeling you have for someone you just met is infatuations.

eg we love our parents a lot and appreciate them. that doesn't mean every time we see them we have butterflies in our bellies.


so to help yourself you must reconfigure your brain.


it would be a shame if after rejecting him you realize after many years that you should have accepted him and it's too late. I've heard too many stories like this.


trust me attraction is secondary when it comes to choosing a life partner.

the important things include

His spiritual life ( if you are spiritual)

can he take care of you (not only materially ,but emotionally and maybe spiritually ,)

his genotype

his family background . this is very important because if at the end of it all both families don't approve then relationship don scatter be dat. you must know if his family is one you can be married into.


If he ticks all these buttons please hold on to him o finding someone that meets everything like this is rare.

HigherEd:
If the quality of people governing our churches were able to govern our nation then Nigeria might just be glorious.

Enenche: Medical doctor became pastor
Adeboye: First class Mathematician abandoned academia for the clergy
Oyedepo: Architect turn pastor
Olukoya: First class scientist turn pastor
Faith Oyedepo: First class graduate turn pastor
Kumuyi: First class graduate turn pastor
And the list goes on...

Yet you wonder why the Churches are growing in leaps and bound yet the nation is struggling. It seems the best of the best of university graduates are manning the churches while those with dubious qualifications are manning the govt, yet some thoughtless, senseless and directionless people would attack pastors for doing what pastors are meant to do - grow the church! They aren't meant to grow your economy or your education sector but the mandate of the church(whatever that means to them)

When they build universities they build the best!
Majority of them don't take loans despite having a less rigid source of income yet they complete projects in record time.
Most of their 'cities' are electrified 24/7. Many of them are now building huge sustainable cities for their members.

Show me anyone in your presidency with the Adminstrative prowress of Oyedepo, or anyone in your National assembly with the Integrity of Kumuyi.

But no keep blaming churches for your troubles! Let's see where that would take you all eventually.

Congratulations to Dunamis!

Lalasticlala here is the source
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=1430413790435821&id=444807728996437

ritylove:
the only thing i feel here is pity i feel he wasted his time and resources on me but still i dont want loose a good friend

NgeneUkwenu:
Where is the defence? PDP and their ipob foot soldiers are chronic liars....Useless pigs!

Mynd44, the op mischievously twisted the headlines to suit their devilish agenda.

The main Headline from many sources read: APC Accuses Saraki Of Masterminding The NASS Siege.

milemimi93:
Yep! I'm gettin betta. @d rehab presently. All the best homie.

milemimi93:
Hey! wadup?