For you to write on this,someone needs to commend you.And all the comments should be appreciated at least,some have made you laugh.

You needs to believe in the boy that he would change.That is the first thing you need BELIEVE.

Aside,you needs to go deeper in your family and that the Mother history,do you have precedent.If you have it is a matter of time.

Then u can go to hospital for check up to ascertain his well being.

If you are still reading,kindly go through this.

I read one of your inputs,where u said your intention were pure and legit.That I love.Aside that,you need to be 100% truthful,one to yourself and to the girl in question.If u have stated ur age,it would have been a help to give further advise.Mainwhile,find out about the following

1.How much is School fees?
2.Accomodation?
3.Does she has strength to help financially ,since you said she is also schooling.

After that you can REVERT,may be from that point,more chat will come in.

Best of Luck.

I m very sure of one thing.Your type dont take advise ,you only wants to read comments.

When you find your real wife,you dont struggle like this.

Both of you have to align on issue like this to find a breakthrough.The Economy is bad,she may not be the reason for present challenge.That you were told she is behind the problem is a reason I will not agree with you.

Try more, bring the best in her as little as possible,align and face the problem and you will see an improvement.Suppoesd she is your sister,look at her in that way.[color=#006600][/color]

Please let be conscious on issues that affects millions of people,not only Nigeria but the whole world.

In a recent time poor parenting and lack of supervision have contributed immensely to waywardness of our teenagers not adoption.Asides, internet,modern day exposure,peer groups influences in schools and at homes,poor economic,Tv and celebrity have many social vices that influences our kids and these have contributed hazardously to moral decadence in our society.Yahoo is a trend that all aforementioned societal problem brought not adoption.

Many adopted children are doing very well,it is unfortunate that the man in question got negative.Adoption helps base needed couples to have socour when it is necessary.

Just return it.It add nothing to your name.