₦airaland Forum

I m not comfortable reading the new,but the truth is that we even have men in Nigeria whose wives have successfully seperated them from their parents and siblings.,worst than the said story.Far long,I realised that male child relationship with his immediate family depends on wife.

While waiting for Governor,Oni and other for quick intervention, I will like u to talk to OPC In the affected area.The problems seem local and those guys can handle that at ease.We shared your pain and we pray for urgent intervention from concern.

Better be careful, God has given you rest of mind ,u want look for problems.

When you become a man,you will understand the meaning of your father action.How old are you?

When last has your mother allow your father to sleep with her?,,,,,,??try to find out..

Telling your mother will only increase whatever pressure currently being internally managed by your parents.Call your father,as a son,not as your mother,he would give u an excuse. Take it and advise him accordingly.

Be a man,not a boy.

A city where no one has ability to get water from well for many years.A man tried very hard,he was able to get a bowl.A villager said it is drinkable but not neat enough.

May be another villager will talk.

Company Mission and Vision defined there route to market,type of customers and mode of sales.The Lady did nothing wrong and the Restaurant shouldn't be blame either.

For you to write on this,someone needs to commend you.And all the comments should be appreciated at least,some have made you laugh.

You needs to believe in the boy that he would change.That is the first thing you need BELIEVE.

Aside,you needs to go deeper in your family and that the Mother history,do you have precedent.If you have it is a matter of time.

Then u can go to hospital for check up to ascertain his well being.

If you are still reading,kindly go through this.

I read one of your inputs,where u said your intention were pure and legit.That I love.Aside that,you need to be 100% truthful,one to yourself and to the girl in question.If u have stated ur age,it would have been a help to give further advise.Mainwhile,find out about the following

1.How much is School fees?
2.Accomodation?
3.Does she has strength to help financially ,since you said she is also schooling.

After that you can REVERT,may be from that point,more chat will come in.

Best of Luck.

I m very sure of one thing.Your type dont take advise ,you only wants to read comments.

When you find your real wife,you dont struggle like this.

Both of you have to align on issue like this to find a breakthrough.The Economy is bad,she may not be the reason for present challenge.That you were told she is behind the problem is a reason I will not agree with you.

Try more, bring the best in her as little as possible,align and face the problem and you will see an improvement.Suppoesd she is your sister,look at her in that way.[color=#006600][/color]

Please let be conscious on issues that affects millions of people,not only Nigeria but the whole world.

In a recent time poor parenting and lack of supervision have contributed immensely to waywardness of our teenagers not adoption.Asides, internet,modern day exposure,peer groups influences in schools and at homes,poor economic,Tv and celebrity have many social vices that influences our kids and these have contributed hazardously to moral decadence in our society.Yahoo is a trend that all aforementioned societal problem brought not adoption.

Many adopted children are doing very well,it is unfortunate that the man in question got negative.Adoption helps base needed couples to have socour when it is necessary.

Just return it.It add nothing to your name.