₦airaland Forum

[quote author=Mynd_44]I dont think the OP feels anything for his GF. So why delay? Tell her now and be done with it[/quote]i don't think so ,bro. But then its your own opinion.

Onegai: Tell her right now. She deserves better than you and stop using her as your sleeping bag since you already know you wanna break up. Men! Later you'll come and wonder where all the good girls are, after treating them badly.

chill ,tolded her already!

I have told her and she took it badly ,so badly that i had to lie that about the actual time i would be going . I told the day after i opened this thread that i would go this month end b/c of how she took it ,i told her later that it has been postponed to march.but i have resigned from my work,waiting for the futo list and enjoying her company.will tell am going probably the day before, will not want to see her cry,i can't handle it . Would have loved to continue the r/ship after i go,will probably for the first two months but i know that it will die a natural death.

I will not be comfortable with that, not sure that anything good will come out of it. Will try to discourage that alliance.

I have witnessed two census in this nation and both of them says we have more males than females in this country. So where do you get your figures from.

[quote author=e-mail]Hmmm. And your point is? I see you are a critic but for what? To down-cast an upcoming writer? I tell you, she may not be a 'Chiamanda' but she's definately going to be 'Umari' and pls sir if you don't like her write-up, NL has enough space for yours.

My point is... don't kill dreams, nurture talents, encourage skills and promote your own. Except ofcourse you are from Tanzania. [/quote]classic!

Me too, i comment my reserve.

Na waoh ! ,what's going on here. @ op ,i will advice you to bone your girl. She is just your gf and she is dictating for you ,

Just manipulated my name a little.

rokiatu: You can't tell a woman you love her are you stupid
Words don't express you love you got to prove it

[Papoose]

how ?

olabiz2010: Are you saying true love never break up?

good question ? What people fail to realise is that sometimes even love is not enough to sustain a r/ship. And if i may ask how long can lust sustain a r/ship and which time is it love and no longer lust. All my relationships has started from lust / physical attraction and depending on other parameters it can go on or not. For me its lovers first then we see if we could be friends

Will ba follow? Unlikely

Yohan cabaye is a gunner !

vivian chinaza: Onye nke a osikwenu ebee puta bikonu? Abeg make we hear word jare! Nigerian girls cheat? Why won't they cheat? Why are u guys complaining when u are their motivating factor? When a girl is her natural self, uses the things she can afford herself u tagged her classless and not ur standaRd. When she steps up her game, wears bRazilian hair, uses bb bold 5, wears expensive perfumes and accessories she becomes classy and ur standard! Then u go for heR?, how on earth do u think some of them make the money to afford all these? Most times are u not the ones they cheat with? Most NigeRia men are hypocrites! Nna u people should get out and get a life joor, if a Nigerian woman is not good for u, pls marry Asians. Everytime Nigerian girls this nigeRian girls that? Ma nke no obodo oyibo na aru agboro agaghi ekwe anyi nuo mmiRi togbo iko!

nne , iwe ana ewe gi. Jiri ya nwayo oh!

freecocoa: "I think its a mistake to have asked you out but that doesn't mean i love you any less"

Now you are having a conversation with your partner on how you think the relationship is boring and he just blurts out the above lines after taking a long look at you.

Ladies, how will you react to that?will you pick offense and feel insulted?heck will you call it quits?

Guys, if you were to be the one that said that to your girl, how best can you explain what that means?does it mean you are tired of the relationship? Discuss

IMO , it Means that even though he has grown to love you and still do,that the r/ship is costing him and if he had known that it will be like this he would not have entered into the r/ship . In otherwords he was not ready/ prepared for the r/ship and its responsibility and now in,he does know how to stop without hurting you and hurting himself in the process. If he didn't love you ,he would have ended the r/ship .

I ve learnt from my experience and those of my friends ,my ex ,their ex and my lady friends that when a girl says that a guy is caring ,it means he makes is finance available for their exploitation .