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Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Says Hormuz Blockade Remains In Full Force And Effect; No Talks With Iran by J2ff: 8:31pm On Aug 18
vr0xen:
Propaganda can’t win this war for this guy. Instead of you to be begging for the lives of 173 delta force that were captured by Iran your still forming strong mouth with nothing to show for it.
fake news
https://www.reuters.com/fact-check/images-depicting-capture-us-delta-force-troops-iran-are-ai-generated-2026-03-11/
Car Talk › Re: 15 Mistakes Nigerians Make When Buying Their First Cars by J2ff: 7:53pm On Aug 18
Quite anynoying how much you need to do to drive in this country.

Our processes are over bloated in Nigeria. From tax, to passport, to car ownership etc.
Health › Re: See The Number Of People With Kidney Diseases In Parklane Hospital In Enugu (Vid by J2ff: 5:12am On Aug 10
dollytino4real:
i hardly drink 🍷 water but mineral like coke na my best
I beg you to change this. Please 🙏
Celebrities › Re: Rosemary Adams: Miss Independence 1960 Is 85 Years Today (Then & Now Photos) by J2ff: 10:07pm On Aug 09
ponishah:
You are too negative.
Stop seeing evil all the time, you may become paranoid and happiness may even scare you.
Try and be happy
See as you just assume for me cheesy

You sure say this no be my first time? cheesy

It is a subliminal warning to some people who know themselves who have shown some other people shege
Music/Radio › Re: Rema - TEA (official Music Video) by J2ff: 5:08pm On Aug 09
I was the third to place my opinion in this thread. Rema is international, I hope we can move forward as a nation
Celebrities › Re: Rosemary Adams: Miss Independence 1960 Is 85 Years Today (Then & Now Photos) by J2ff:
Nothing lasts forever. Be wise
Romance › Re: Should I Forgive My Girlfriend For Cheating On Me? by J2ff: 12:25pm On Aug 09
Joseph4566:
I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.

Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.

To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.

I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.

I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.

What would you advise me to do?
Break up with her for your own good and for her to start afresh with a new guy. Either the guy she slept with or some other man
Romance › Re: Does It Make Sense To Fight Over A Girl? by J2ff: 12:15pm On Aug 09
It doesn't make sense at all to fight over a woman since there are so many other great women who would choose you with no strings attached

When you're secure in yourself the woman will never leave. She will sense that you don't care if she leaves or not.

A lady needs to see you conversing innocently with other ladies to know that you have options which you are choosing not to exercise

It's best to get a feel or a sense for if the lady you're with is naturally attracted to you at all

Choose who choose you o my guy. Though most ladies do initial shakara but once that stage is passed, Does she even like being around you?

If you have to prove yourself to someone constantly, it will never end. A divorced man told me that's how it started with his ex wife and it continued like that in the marriage. He was never good enough for her no matter what he did.

Moreover choose a woman who doesn't define herself solely on her looks. If she's all about her looks, she will invite the attention but if she has a working brain, even if she's very fine, men will know that she has chosen you and that there is more to her than her looks e.g. her Intelligence,
her passion to positively impact society
Business › Re: Tony Elumelu To Partner With Delta In Electricity Generation And Distribution by J2ff: 7:36am On Aug 05
Time to invest in transcorp power stock on the ngx
Romance › Re: When Did You Discover You Won’t Marry Her by J2ff: 1:42pm On Aug 04
When she screamed at me in public for no just reason while we were on a date
Health › Re: See The Number Of People With Kidney Diseases In Parklane Hospital In Enugu (Vid by J2ff: 10:21am On Aug 04
dollytino4real:
Wetin Dey really cause dis kidney problems sef??
Dehydration over stresses the kidney. Ensure to take at least 3 medium sized bottles of water daily
Celebrities › Re: I’m An Incurable Romantic, RMD Reveals He Gave His Wife ₦100m Cheque by J2ff: 7:34pm On Jul 29
Impressive
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Celebrities › Re: 'I Am A Nobody without My Native Language' - Rudeboy Shades Brother, Mister P by J2ff: 5:50pm On Jul 29
Quite petty from Rudeboy
Nairaland General › Re: Men In Their 40s, Give One Piece Of Advise To Men In Their 20 And 30s by J2ff: 10:51am On Jul 29
Lalami3232:
Marry a working class and respectful virgin, your children deserve a mother who could close her legs during her younger days. You may think I'm deceiving you until my son tells your child that "My daddy told us that he dated your mother before and she was not too tight"


What do i even know sef?
shocked cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy wink cheesy cheesy grin

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Romance › Re: How Can You Get A Lady To Come To Your Place Without Stress! by J2ff: 6:27am On Jul 29
Iamdbull:
Please this thread was not created for the slow s!mps that feel everything involved in getting women is money, this thread was made for men with strong games on how to get ladies to come over!


In my years of experience with women, I have realized that getting women is far different from getting sex!


Now I successfully get girls numbers and I get them to respond well but now the issue is getting them to come to my place.


Seems girls don’t like hearing stuffs like when can we see lol.

So my question is OGs in the house which game do I need to get this girls to visit with ease?
Take a lady out on numerous dates, get to know her very well, propose, marry her and voila! She will be in your bed
Nairaland General › Re: Men In Their 40s, Give One Piece Of Advise To Men In Their 20 And 30s by J2ff:
Focus on learning a skill/progressing at work and learning (and practicing) how to save and invest early.

Then save aggressively and invest in the stock market as well for the first 5 years of your career. By 28, you'll be high value and able to pick a wife for marriage

Press after God so He makes your life beautiful

Your health is your greatest asset so guard it well

Keep the right friends that have direction and are not toxic

To carry woman successfully you need to learn leadership.

Run from fornication as it causes poverty

Get a good mentor
TV/Movies › Re: Meet The 12 Female Big Brother Naija 2026 Housemates — Photos And Profiles by J2ff: 12:40pm On Jul 28
Freshtruth:
Na wowr wor females them park full here this season Bigbie no try at all
they might just be not photogenic
Romance › Re: Ladies Choose Who To Sleep With, But It Is Men Who Choose Who To Marry. Wisdom! by J2ff:
spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!
Won't the marriage die if this continues?
#Ragebait
Romance › Re: See The Reason Women Are Now Breaking Up With Me(pics) by J2ff: 11:05am On Jul 18
Everyone is making fun of the man but he has japad
Romance › Re: See The Reason Women Are Now Breaking Up With Me(pics) by J2ff: 9:34pm On Jul 15
Iamdbull:
This life no just balance at all. I use to believe that as a man just get money and be changing women anyhow only for harsh reality to hit me that the money doesn’t just come it comes with a sacrifice and you have to sacrifice something for it and in my own case it was time and energy.


I have close to 200 girls on my contact but once I chat them up it takes forever for me to reply them and now most of them even the ones that are crazy about me before are now loosing interest in me!

Can you blame me? I have four occupations after doing my normal freelance work, I have to visit my factory to manufacture clothes and also sell myself because people that use to sell for me quit due to lack of sales and then after that I have another company I work for as promotion agent and finally I still have to do music and even with all this Person still broke dieee na packaging just Dey even car wey Dey ground I no see money buy fuel. Na to Dey give the girls excuse when they ask me to come and pick them up.

And lastly e get this site too newsspend•com wey I Dey spend all my time because as I Dey use am I Dey earn money

You can just imagine my predicament chaiiii
I just had to para below



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f1qAk5ylVpQ?si=Y43w9eHxhIKajmgv
wow your production and lyrical ability have improved massively! Now you need to tighten up the tone you use in delivering your lyrics as your flow sounds so unexcited and lazy
Romance › Re: Women And Mercy by J2ff(op): 9:07pm On Jul 15
Brandiebird:
We want good things for our friends so why would we introduce them to someone we deemed unfit 😩
wow
Family › Re: Mikel Obi Speaks On Family Financial Pressure Faced By Successful Africans by J2ff:
Once the money is very large, put some of it in a high yield savings or mutual funds account and use the interest earned to settle black tax regularly.

But after a while, tie remittance to projects that will help them start earning for themselves e.g Education, skills training, business funding
Romance › Re: Lady Cleans Talking Stage Guy's House, Gets Unexpected Introduction by J2ff: 10:32pm On Jul 13
Should we tell her? grin

Nawa
Romance › Re: I Need Your Advice, Guys by J2ff: 10:38pm On Jul 10
Find a better man. You can find better
Business › Re: Exxonmobil Returns To Nigeria With $1Billion Investment After Nearly A Decade by J2ff: 3:29pm On Jul 09
Cool.

Nice development in my opinion
Romance › Re: How To Catch Older Women by J2ff: 9:06am On Jul 05
Dtruthspeaker:
It is no debate. Married women are sweeter. It is just a known secret nobody wants to talk about.
wickedness to take another man's partner. We receive grace to avoid such in Jesus name. Amen
Romance › Re: A Good Woman Will Not Make You Question Whether She Wants You by J2ff: 6:41pm On Jul 04
It's poverty in the environment and false narratives on social media that made most of our women lose their humanity
Romance › Re: How To Catch Older Women by J2ff: 6:35pm On Jul 04
No thank you.. I'll pass
Family › Re: Mention The Type Of Family You Will Never Marry From by J2ff: 11:50am On Jul 04
Samantha125:
A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.

Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.
Are you a Christian?
Celebrities › Re: Ooni Of Ife Joins Baba Ijesha And His Wife Together by J2ff: 9:23am On Jul 04
AngelSlay:
**HONOR YOUR PARENTS WHILE YOU STILL HAVE THEM**

One of the greatest signs of character is not how you treat strangers or people in authority, but how you treat the people who gave you life.

It's heartbreaking that today, some people insult their parents, call them names, send abusive messages, or even raise their hands against them. No matter the disagreements, these are lines that should never be crossed.

Your parents may not be perfect. They may have made mistakes. They may not always understand you. But there is always a way to disagree without being disrespectful. There is always a way to express your feelings without dishonor.

Remember, respect is not the same as agreement. You can set boundaries, speak your truth, and make your own decisions while still treating your parents with dignity.

If God has blessed you and you're able to support them, do so with a willing heart. Many people who have lost their parents would give anything to have one more opportunity to show them love and appreciation.

The Bible reminds us:

*"Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you."* — Exodus 20:12

Let's be intentional about showing kindness, gratitude, patience, and respect to our parents while they are still here. One day, the opportunity to say "thank you," "I'm sorry," or "I love you" may no longer be available.

Honor them. Pray for them. Care for them. And where there are differences, let wisdom, grace, and respect guide your response.

May we all leave a legacy of honor that the next generation will be proud to follow.
Enjoy your weekend
Say this again when you've experienced having narcissistic parents but still valid points where the parents are very normal
Sports › Re: Happy 69th Birthday To Bret Hart 'Hitman' by J2ff: 10:16am On Jul 03
Truly one of the best of his time
Romance › Re: I'm Beginning To Believe That Marriage Brings Good Luck To A Man! by J2ff: 9:25pm On Jul 02
Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen
grin

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