vr0xen: Propaganda can’t win this war for this guy. Instead of you to be begging for the lives of 173 delta force that were captured by Iran your still forming strong mouth with nothing to show for it.
Joseph4566: I caught my girlfriend cheating, and unfortunately, she confessed to me that she only slept with the guy once. She said she doesn’t know what came over her and that she deeply regrets what she did.
Honestly, I’m completely heartbroken. I was already making plans to marry her, and now I feel like something inside me has changed. I don’t feel the same love for her anymore, and I’m struggling to even see our relationship the way I used to.
To make things even more difficult, she suspects that she might be pregnant. I’m almost certain the pregnancy wouldn’t be mine because I always use protection whenever we have sex.
I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m confused and emotionally overwhelmed. She has been crying since yesterday, and she looks really depressed. I feel terrible seeing her like this, and I still care about her as a person, but at the same time, I can’t ignore how deeply her actions have hurt me.
I was preparing myself for marriage, and now I’m questioning everything. I don’t know whether I should try to forgive her and rebuild the relationship or walk away because the love and trust I had for her don’t feel the same anymore.
What would you advise me to do?
Break up with her for your own good and for her to start afresh with a new guy. Either the guy she slept with or some other man
It doesn't make sense at all to fight over a woman since there are so many other great women who would choose you with no strings attached
When you're secure in yourself the woman will never leave. She will sense that you don't care if she leaves or not.
A lady needs to see you conversing innocently with other ladies to know that you have options which you are choosing not to exercise
It's best to get a feel or a sense for if the lady you're with is naturally attracted to you at all
Choose who choose you o my guy. Though most ladies do initial shakara but once that stage is passed, Does she even like being around you?
If you have to prove yourself to someone constantly, it will never end. A divorced man told me that's how it started with his ex wife and it continued like that in the marriage. He was never good enough for her no matter what he did.
Moreover choose a woman who doesn't define herself solely on her looks. If she's all about her looks, she will invite the attention but if she has a working brain, even if she's very fine, men will know that she has chosen you and that there is more to her than her looks e.g. her Intelligence, her passion to positively impact society
Lalami3232: Marry a working class and respectful virgin, your children deserve a mother who could close her legs during her younger days. You may think I'm deceiving you until my son tells your child that "My daddy told us that he dated your mother before and she was not too tight"
Iamdbull: Please this thread was not created for the slow s!mps that feel everything involved in getting women is money, this thread was made for men with strong games on how to get ladies to come over!
In my years of experience with women, I have realized that getting women is far different from getting sex!
Now I successfully get girls numbers and I get them to respond well but now the issue is getting them to come to my place.
Seems girls don’t like hearing stuffs like when can we see lol.
So my question is OGs in the house which game do I need to get this girls to visit with ease?
Take a lady out on numerous dates, get to know her very well, propose, marry her and voila! She will be in your bed
Focus on learning a skill/progressing at work and learning (and practicing) how to save and invest early.
Then save aggressively and invest in the stock market as well for the first 5 years of your career. By 28, you'll be high value and able to pick a wife for marriage
Press after God so He makes your life beautiful
Your health is your greatest asset so guard it well
Keep the right friends that have direction and are not toxic
To carry woman successfully you need to learn leadership.
spiceadole: And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you. This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband. I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex. Can he? Definitely not!
Won't the marriage die if this continues? #Ragebait
Iamdbull: This life no just balance at all. I use to believe that as a man just get money and be changing women anyhow only for harsh reality to hit me that the money doesn’t just come it comes with a sacrifice and you have to sacrifice something for it and in my own case it was time and energy.
I have close to 200 girls on my contact but once I chat them up it takes forever for me to reply them and now most of them even the ones that are crazy about me before are now loosing interest in me!
Can you blame me? I have four occupations after doing my normal freelance work, I have to visit my factory to manufacture clothes and also sell myself because people that use to sell for me quit due to lack of sales and then after that I have another company I work for as promotion agent and finally I still have to do music and even with all this Person still broke dieee na packaging just Dey even car wey Dey ground I no see money buy fuel. Na to Dey give the girls excuse when they ask me to come and pick them up.
And lastly e get this site too newsspend•com wey I Dey spend all my time because as I Dey use am I Dey earn money
You can just imagine my predicament chaiiii I just had to para below
wow your production and lyrical ability have improved massively! Now you need to tighten up the tone you use in delivering your lyrics as your flow sounds so unexcited and lazy
Once the money is very large, put some of it in a high yield savings or mutual funds account and use the interest earned to settle black tax regularly.
But after a while, tie remittance to projects that will help them start earning for themselves e.g Education, skills training, business funding
Samantha125: A family that doesn't believe in tradition, because I'm from a strong traditional background and last thing I've ever wanted was for the other family to be judging my family by assuming that they're diabolical for being traditionalists.
Because many people associate African spirituality with evil, which is not always the case... In every religious denomination, there'll always good and evil people... And African spirituality raised and shaped me into the person I am today, no matter how much some people might demonize it, I'll forever be grateful of it even if I become a full blown Christian... So if my partner and his family weren't going to accept my background for the way it is, there was no way we'd have worked out.
AngelSlay: **HONOR YOUR PARENTS WHILE YOU STILL HAVE THEM**
One of the greatest signs of character is not how you treat strangers or people in authority, but how you treat the people who gave you life.
It's heartbreaking that today, some people insult their parents, call them names, send abusive messages, or even raise their hands against them. No matter the disagreements, these are lines that should never be crossed.
Your parents may not be perfect. They may have made mistakes. They may not always understand you. But there is always a way to disagree without being disrespectful. There is always a way to express your feelings without dishonor.
Remember, respect is not the same as agreement. You can set boundaries, speak your truth, and make your own decisions while still treating your parents with dignity.
If God has blessed you and you're able to support them, do so with a willing heart. Many people who have lost their parents would give anything to have one more opportunity to show them love and appreciation.
The Bible reminds us:
*"Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the Lord your God is giving you."* — Exodus 20:12
Let's be intentional about showing kindness, gratitude, patience, and respect to our parents while they are still here. One day, the opportunity to say "thank you," "I'm sorry," or "I love you" may no longer be available.
Honor them. Pray for them. Care for them. And where there are differences, let wisdom, grace, and respect guide your response.
May we all leave a legacy of honor that the next generation will be proud to follow. Enjoy your weekend
Say this again when you've experienced having narcissistic parents but still valid points where the parents are very normal
Jman06: I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.
Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.
I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen