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Politics › Re: Ulayi Presents New Book On Social Security To Labour Minister, Dingyadi by J2ff: 7:54pm On Oct 27
Great one kudos to him. Hopefully the recommendation are adopted by plenary, Senate and house of reps.

If passed into law this could provide a safety net to shield the unemployed and vulnerable from abject poverty thus reducing ill vices in society such as prostitution and theft
Romance › Re: Men Suck As.s by J2ff:
How you haven't been banned for spamming Nairaland is a mystery

Romance › Re: Fcck Men by J2ff: 8:50pm On Oct 25
You create/post a lot of threads
Romance › Re: If U Want To Move Forward Avoid Dating Ebonyi Girls by J2ff: 2:26pm On Oct 25
Anyone that made 10m from blood sweat and tears hard work would NEVER... give everything to a woman, even his wife without keeping a huge part for himself no matter the love.

This story can't be true. I call rage bait
Foreign Affairs › Re: Trump Mocks Gays Supporting Palestines (video) by J2ff: 3:09pm On Oct 13
He is very correct with that assertion
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels Celebrate Her 25th Birthday On A Wheelchair (Photos) by J2ff: 8:37am On Oct 11
Before you scroll past, say a short prayer for Regina
Romance › Re: Men, Being A Good Guy Doesn't Mean She'll Want You by J2ff: 5:49pm On Oct 10
Ain't that the truth

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Travel › Re: UK Drops Nigeria, Ghana & India Trained-teachers From QTS-eligibility List by J2ff: 5:50pm On Sep 28
cyberbro:
You didn't read the post. Stop blaming innocent people for everything wrong in the world.

The silly excuses they gave include email references with unofficial email like gmail and yahoo. How many primary and secondary schools have a domain based email address?

No be everthing wey oyinbo talk una go use blame una sef.
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Romance › Re: Nigerian Man Lies Flat On Cinema Floor To Propose To Girlfriend, She Says Yes by J2ff: 8:19pm On Sep 23
Weird
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Travel › Re: UK Drops Nigeria, Ghana & India Trained-teachers From QTS-eligibility List by J2ff: 12:13pm On Sep 22
Sad development that indicates we need to be more honest as a people
Romance › Re: Men, She's Not Always Testing You To Break You by J2ff: 10:16pm On Sep 20
Babatunjo:
Sometimes she's testing whether she can feel safe with you.

And most times, nobody sat down and planned any test. 😂

Small disagreement.

She complains more than the matter deserves.

She becomes moody.

She says, "You don't even care about me."

She pulls away small and watches what happens.

Then oga starts malfunctioning. 😂

Twenty messages.

Long explanation.

Anger.

Begging.

Threatening to leave before she leaves.

Trying desperately to "fix" everything immediately.

Sometimes the real issue is not even the original issue anymore. It's how you handle pressure.

Can she be upset without you becoming unstable too?

Can you listen without defending every sentence?

Can you disagree without shouting?

Can you reassure her without begging?

Can you keep your boundaries without becoming wicked?

That's what being solid looks like.

Not this internet "alpha male" shouting and forming hard guy.

A solid man can feel emotions without every emotion controlling his behaviour.

And when your woman sees that small wahala cannot scatter your centre, there's something relaxing about it.

This explains plenty of those moments where a guy says:

"But everything was going fine. I don't even know what changed."

Sometimes attraction didn't disappear because of the small argument.

What she saw in your reaction changed how she felt about you.
ah women, wonderful creations of God, they are....
Romance › Re: What Every Man Must Learn From Women! by J2ff: 2:41pm On Sep 18
Interesting points made. Not sure where the lie is
Romance › Re: Why Are 18–20 Year Old Girls Suddenly Acting Like Saints? by J2ff: 8:22pm On Sep 11
Marry the one among them which you love and have all the s*x you want. Problem solved
Crime › Re: List Of 5 Crimes That Are Booming In Nigeria by J2ff: 8:18pm On Sep 11
How can this be on frontpage for goodness sake?
Romance › Re: A Lady Can Still Get Pregnant For You Even When You Use Condom. by J2ff: 4:34pm On Sep 11
Samantha125:
Look at this one misguiding people with his ignorance, hopefully you'll be available to help your fellow men unblock those toilets once they start developing some severe clogs from flushing down durable latex.
He is a Pastor so referring to him as this one is inaccurate. We all learn something new everyday. He wasn't aware of the non-biodegradable nature of latex so shouldn't be crucified for that; rather educated cordially
Health › Re: At Above 40 Your Memory May No Longer Be As Retentive As It Used To Be by J2ff: 1:55pm On Sep 10
If they forget the car, did they forget the keys too
Romance › Re: Man Takes Fiancée To See Her Ex The Night Before Their Wedding by J2ff: 1:24pm On Sep 08
Would have said this is content but it's from overseas so likely to be real

Quite pathetic actually
Romance › Re: Was l Wrong In Blocking Her? by J2ff: 11:59pm On Sep 07
Tefl her she was running down your battery with the calls and you needed your phone for the work
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Shell Petroleum Development Company (SPDC) Job Recruitment by J2ff: 5:57pm On Sep 07
Hahaha at the guy that's first to comment
Romance › Re: One Of The First Times A Woman's Image Of You Gets Tested by J2ff: 8:33pm On Sep 03
Pretty much. God created very special creatures
Romance › Re: Lessons From Tonto Dike - Churchill Reunion by J2ff: 9:25pm On Aug 30
What about roseline meurer?
Romance › Re: Stop Trying To Lock Every Girl Down by J2ff: 8:24pm On Aug 30
This was artistic yet insightful
Romance › Re: The Kind Spending You Go Do When Woman Dey Your House Enh, Them No Sabi Manage by J2ff:
Women lose a lot of blood and energy from their periods (monthly flow) which needs to be replenished through eating
Christianity Etc › Re: "Nigerians Are Already In Hell" - Pastor Ibiyeomie (Video) by J2ff: 6:49pm On Aug 30
Imalwayshorny:
Yes he's right ooooooooo


If you travel out of the country you'll understand
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnn
Romance › Re: Have You Ever Met Someone You Love So Much That Loves You So Much? by J2ff: 4:54pm On Aug 30
It's possible but sometimes you would be shy to take action
Christianity Etc › Re: The Many Controversies Of Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo by J2ff: 3:47pm On Aug 30
Oracleee:
Pleaee don't address the man as a pastor, he's a motivational speaker.


The body of Christ should regulate titles been thrown to dogs.
This is disrespectful
Christianity Etc › Re: The Many Controversies Of Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo by J2ff: 4:36am On Aug 30
Esthered:
I'm waiting for his reply justifying the pricing but he may never address it.
The reply
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DcnvK1KoaLq/?igsi=bnNndzJlOHp6OWZk
Family › Re: Free Online Marriage Seminar - Parenting Focus by J2ff: 3:03am On Aug 28
Oshey

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Romance › Re: My Friend Thinks That I Am Docking Wife by J2ff: 10:48am On Aug 23
dormenedynasty:
My friend and I are having a cold war, and I want to know if I am the one at fault.

We used to go out together almost every time, but one day, he suddenly stopped taking me along with him. His wife gave birth, and he didn't tell me until two days later. When his wife returned from the hospital, he still didn't tell me. I only found out because a mutual friend, whom he now goes out with, told me.

I decided not to go and see his wife, and since then, we haven't been talking. We live in the same estate.

The reason I chose not to visit his wife is because I know he suspects that I am planning to sleep with her. He has even told me that he is a dangerous and bad man.

I had already told him before now that I don't really know how to relate with women. I also find it difficult to look directly at his wife's face. When I try to look elsewhere, my eyes sometimes end up looking at her legs. I know he has noticed this.

Honestly, I am confused. I try to avoid making eye contact, but then my eyes may wander elsewhere, and sometimes they end up on her legs. I have this habit where the way I look at people can make them uncomfortable, and it isn't limited to women. It happens with both men and women.

There is another aspect of my behavior that concerns me. For example, if I give someone money or help them with something, my behavior afterward can sometimes be strange. I may eventually say something that makes the person remember what I gave them or did for them. I don't necessarily plan to make them feel bad, but I often feel hurt when these situations happen.

Also, if someone asks me for something and I only have a small quantity of it left, the way I react or the way I respond can sometimes make the person uncomfortable.

What worries me is that this uncomfortable behavior isn't limited to outsiders. It can also happen with my siblings and even my parents.

I honestly don't know why I behave this way sometimes, and I want to understand whether I am actually at fault in this situation with my friend and what I can do differently.
You're not alone. I won't say more than that
Family › Re: Family Came For Property 2 Days After My Husband Died - Widow by J2ff: 10:32pm On Aug 20
Make sure you create a trust account for your wife and kids if you're from the east before you die.

Speak with any of the asset management companies like stanbic, afrinvest, FCMB, FBN Asset Managers etc as soon as you can
Romance › Re: Shyness Is A Curse!! Is There Any Advantage To Being Shy? by J2ff: 4:20pm On Aug 19
Iamdbull:
Is their any single advantage that comes with being shy apart from robbing you of the treasures that lies underneath a vociferous aptitude!
You don't seem shy. What is the solution?

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