₦airaland Forum

Dogalmighty17:
That dude appears higher than Nigeria's entire power generation capacity from the looks of it. I wonder wetin him take like dat.

Quite the example used there

I'm wondering if there's a reason to care. Your reward is from God so focus on that; and the real question should be:

"what lessons can I learn from what happened in this experience?"

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

propose and marry her then you can nack freely. Watch wholesome sexuality YouTube channel for tips on how to nack


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyZryTGew-Q?si=vshOItP2_DktMxqo

They need to reduce their reckless knacking going forward

Cold weather caused your skin to rise

pappilo:
My Kenyan babe is a ride or die but I still no fit trust woman fully again.

She earns well and in 7 years has never asked me for 1 penny. Stayed by my side throughout my trial in the crown court (found not guilty) and my cancer treatment.

Even during my court case this lady offered to pay for my defence but I refused because I no want any woman to talk say na she save me. Instead I pick overnight shift in a factory after my full time job to fund my defence. 9am to 5pm day job, 6.30pm to 5 am in factory for 1 whole year.

If no be wetin my ex wife show me I for don marry am but I no fit marry again. The girl too real. God bless your Juma. Na woman you be!

How you did not die running that kind of shift is a mystery that should be studied in all universities worldwide

effixxyguy1:
Give details with your context

Exactly. It will be good to know why

AngelicBeing:
Pastor Adeyemi dey Canada na, are you saying that there's succession problems with them already?

I don't understand

he's speaking about the USA ministry Daystar television of which both founders husband and wife have now passed away

Once they have long sharp fingernails like hers, run ooooo 🏃‍♂️

Beautiful one rewarding value creation in this manner

Now we need startups that tackle challenges such as scarcity of affordable real estate rental, flooding, and waste management

100% true. Keep up the good work with this vlog

This is getting seriouser than I thought whoops

The hate for women is strong o ah ahn. Women must have shown Nigerian men shege pro max in the streets

Not many folks in this thread even condemning the violence and toxic evil dominant control of not allowing her to leave the relationship

Bobloco:
https://www.gistreel.com/my-husband-earns-n280k-gives-his-parents-n80k-gives-me-n150k-but-refuses-to-give-my-parents-money-pregnant-woman/

Poverty mindset is a curse. What happened to parents and siblings having investment or business mindset/mentality to support themselves with what they have received in the past from their work. Or did they never work? Smh

Samantha125:
This means you can't regulate your feelings anymore since you're no longer fasting?

Nope regulating beautifully since then . "The gift of God is without repentance"

Babatunjo:
The irony is plain for those who can see it. The men who chase rarely get the woman. The men who are simply too busy building themselves to chase are the ones women find a way to reach.

They know it's the truth but are just being mischievous

Samantha125:
How often do you go on fasting?

Haven't done it in ages (years). But when I did, I got some secret insights. Didn't go to extremes while doing it though. Less than 12 hours is a safe limit

Samantha125:
So you also do men?🤭🤭🤭

Ha he never said that lol

Kennitrust:
Good day my follow Nairalanders.

Everyday, life opens a new chapter of life to us. My own chapter had been opened and and it read... "it time to get married.

In the church I attended, there I met this girl so mature enough to be taken in as a wife. I approach her for the first time and I started asking her out. Seem she knew my intention, she started asking me about my church life, my family, my business and all that not.

To be honest with her, I did my best to answer every question in the language she could understand.

She seems not still satisfied with my account, she sent me this message at about 5am.
Said until I respond to those questions, she won't have anything to do with me again.

I'm truly confused on wether everyone that finds love 💕 really goes through this rigorous question.

And more about her life, she spent almost everyday in church after work. She said if I'm truly serious, I should also be as serious as she is in going and participating in all weekly activities in the church.

Please help, how do I answer this questions, since it the only options she said can bring us together?

You too draw up your own list of questions and send to her

Samantha125:
In my language there's a proverb which says "tšhwene ga e ipone makopo", meaning it's easier to spot other people's flaws while rarely noticing your own.

There are some things that are so beyond your control as men that you might rarely even notice them while we ladies do, because tell me why the tone of a typical man's voice generally changes from when he's talking to his fellow men to when talking to women? It doesn't matter whether the discussion is work based or just general... Someone would just be talking to you in his bedroom voice for no particular reason...😒😒😒

And if a man is not seeking validation from his girlfriend, wife or FWB, he's seeking it from either his mother or sisters.

There are some of us men that through fasting learnt this secret and regulate it as necessary

There's even the pull women feel when an aroused man is near her. We've learnt to regulate this as well

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. A time is coming when women would be the ones doing the chasing or hunting for men, and not the other way round. You see most of these ladies saying that they don't need any man are only deceiving themselves. Their ego, beauty(which they claimed they have and have prided in) and their achievements, won't let them admit it.

Even if that time comes, men without game will still be at a disadvantage in getting their desired woman

It's just the law of the jungle unfortunately

Imindmybusiness:
I beg to differ. He is the biggest loser of all times. Nobody will ever take him serious again. He might have enjoyed few minutes of pleasure with another man's property but no serious business minded person will want to associate with him after this saga. If eventually he gets married, the stigma will be transferred to his wife and children also. Sometimes, some things are better avoided when you have a brand that needs to sold and resold. The name Chike is now a household joke.

You should go check his Instagram and see the massive support for him in the comments section

@op
Regarding your comment on how side chicks compare to main chick;

Your wife can floss in between her teeth and gargle salt water before bed to avoid smelling mouth in the morning.

She can do the stink with coscharis organic air freshener to cover the smell then rinse her arse with water and soap to take away sediments of poop

She can practice good hygiene while on her period

You can buy her the kind of clothes and underwear you want to see her in

You can vet the woman you are marrying to check for good character so you don't go with one that will nag you to death

Natural look is better than over made up face if you pay for skin care. You can also throw in hair care for her if you work on getting a big bank account or get a woman who is financially well off

Wow that's a serious observation

Nigeria what about us? Wonder where we would be

USA not on this list. That's surprising

BrickandLace:
You know they already admitted the vaccine was bio weapon and that COVID was just to see who will "comply".

Yet no one has been sent to jail.

God Abeggggggggggggggg

Noticing ftc is getting easier to win nowadays.....

ohajame:
Even with the slight unusual body hair he has noticed in some places that occasionally makes him wonder about long-term physical attraction?

YES

Why is he meddling with (even smashing) so many at once in the first place?

drstranged:
Disvirgining a girl shouldn't be a criteria for marriage

Disvirgining a girl shouldn't be a criteria for dating her in a relationship

It's true. Floss in between your teeth if not your mouth will smell