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@bluespice

stanky-breath-self-loathing thing is back
make way

Hmmm. . . Stank Breathe

Loathing Thing

Wow you can really yab someone o! Clap for your self! Hope you had fun saying it. Well i didnt take it personal, so dont take yours personal too because i have a right to reply your insult with insult.

Well i have nothing to say to you than, i hope you get infected by swine flu and really get sick and get erased from the planet! The next cough or sneeze you encounter is a positive sign that it is etching nearer to you! You will probably make history as the first Nigerian or black person to die from it and your body will be used for countless experiments to prevent it from getting to Africa. Mere looking at your picture is as if i am looking at a female fat swine!

Silly thing! I dont know whether your the only one on nairaland i was talking to that you decided to make it personal with me. You think your the only one that has a loose tongue abi?

Pssf!

One of these silly olofofo nairalanders that makes her living gossiping and prowling round the romance section opined that the reason men feel threatened by outgoing girls is because we want our women to be meek, submissive and not opinated. No wonder the strong, loud mouthed and aggressive chicks especially the ones on nairaland are single and will remain single till they wither off the planet.

I hope their loud mouthed strong willed and aggressive nature will help them become aunties to many people instead of somebody calling them wifey or mother. . . Psssf!

I wonder why most of the girls on this romance forum only know how to gossip and insult people? ? ?

They always have nothing concrete to say and instead jump into every thread to deliever their own tafafo journal. In fact some of them are so notorious that you cant help but wonder how nosey they would be in real life. Gossip must really be flowing in their blood!!!

In every thread, they are the same click of amebos and when you look at their contributions in other threads and forums such as health, politics, property and other intelligent and business minded forums, they are no where to be found to contribute something meaniful to benefit others except to yan gibberish and gossip uncontrollably.

Men really pray not to marry these kind of chicks that would stimulate their minds but cause chaos, mayhem and confusion in the home due to these unwarranted gossip mongers!

I really feel sorry for their men They must be doing everything possible to find an escape route away from this gossip mongers that circle these romance threads like Vultures day and night 24/7!

Of course male prostitutes rock!!!

They dont harbour any kind of shame like women or female prostitutes

They enjoy their work. . . 100% satisfaction guarantee

They get paid either through cash or kind from these hormone driven chicks

They tend to dehumanize the chicks by sticking a stiff one up their asses and shooting cum all over their faces for the fun of it

They give the chicks lolly pops to lick all day long

And after they are through, they walk away with no feeling and remorse but happy for being paid for a hard day's work done effortlessly and look for the next cranky, homorne starved tight cobwebbed p***sy chick who is hungry to get a stiff one in her after months of lack of sex

Now tell me, who is really the prostitute? The male or the female?

Damn i love being born a man!!!!

I love stammers. They always crack me up big tyme. Anytime i feel blue, i always look for a stammerer. They provide for delightful entertainment and excruciating laughter that hurt my ribs. When you see them trying to pronounce a word for example "DISINFECTANT", You see their eyes dilate, their chests swelled and puffed up, their necks all straightened out with the veins coming out and their mouths wide open like a mercedes benz drop top and the chhh. . .chhh. . chhh, stammering echo begins to rev up:

"DISSSS. . . .SSSSIIIII, FE. . . . . FEC. . . . .TA. . . . TAAAA. . . TANTTTTT!" and when they finish that long boorish word, they will now reconfirm it again at once without stammering to drive home their speech prowress"DISINFECTANT".

If you really want to laugh out loud, you tell them immediately that you didnt hear what they just finished saying and force them to go through that comedic sequence again of repeating that word in a stammering fashion.

Honestly say the truth, how many of you havent felt like breaking into laughter tears when your conversing with a stammerer? its always a thing of joy and fun, especially those who think they can mask their stuttering by speaking in a fast manner but when the stammering hooks them mid way, chei, the next word that comes out will take an average of 3 minutes for them to pronounce it.

I wonder why stammers are discriminated at from saying the news on radio or T.v? If i had only one wish, it will be to watch a one hour news broadcast proffered by a chronic stammer!!! I know that day, i will be due for a rib transplant!!!. . . lol

Do i feel sorry for them? Hell No! Rather i adore their prescence to entertain me beyond my wildest dream. Its doubly funny when its a chick that stammers. Now that one, i cannot pretend and hold the laughter within. After watching her pancake her face and adorned with sexy clothes and she acts like a stuck up snobbish b***tch, its a major relief to see her do the chi. . . chhhh. . . .chhhhhhhhh . . . routine sketch all night!

I heard if you drink Cyanide or Arscenic, it cures stammering? Is it true? Can any stttaa. . . .mmmm. ER! in the House confirm it?

invisible!:
Most babes I heard were raped dont even look it. They still march around in their work or play. You cant pick out one girl from one group and say, maybe because of her composure, she has been raped? Some things are impossible to detect on the outside. If I want to marry and meet some charming babe that looks too happy with herself, of course my first question to her will not be, have you ever been raped?

I can go ahead and roll with her, and we could end in the altre, her past is her past and that is why I support Debosky's position. But if I am privy to the fact that one girl was raped, and she knows I know, it might put her on the defensive about me. And it will be risky fo me to marry her. I will not marry her because she may even take any slight change in my character to be apathy towards her_ because she was raped.

Why are you trying to feel holy all of a sudden? Have you forgotten that you wont marry a rape victim because of the stigma? aka because she is a criminal slave with hysterical diseases?

See Mr. Invincible stigma hating rape victims:

I know i dont have any credibility on nairaland and i dont intend to have anyone as a paddi or ass kissing friend but you that is trying so desperately hard to win friends and paddies to hug you and mingle with you have just tarnished your image brutally and i trust nairalanders, they will haunt you down with this pathetic and shameful comparison to rape victims as people with a stigma. When you think you are getting back to their good books, they will aptly remind you of what a shameful discriminatory goody 2 shoes bloke you are.

Dont try and cover up your f***k up with another propaganda to set the records straight. You stated categorically that rape victims harbor a stigma. QED! No amount of cover up or change of heart or twisting your words will change the fact that you should be tagged as a discriminator, racists, tribalist, anti-semantic, hater of a section of people, believer of placing a mark on people and all other superlatives to compare you hypocritical guy.

I am now a coward to change my words like you this shameless flip flopper. Stand by your words and you will gain more credibility than trying to woo nairalanders who already see you as dark hearted fellow who was hiding under the banner of holy holy and empathy.

Final words to you:

1. You have being weighed

2. You have been measured

3. You have been found wanting

You are a reknowned woman basher and your yansh don open today.   Everytime you type something on nairaland, people will always remember that you compared rape Victims as a Stigma to the society. Try living with that, you this slimy green snake under the grass goody 2 shoes wannabe!

Me , i am a bad guy and i can live with the hate and disgust about my opinions and wont change or flinch but you remind me of a pastor who preaches against fornication and is caught having sex with one of his female church members and when he is confronted, he tries to justify his actions. . . .lol Better go and sit down and stop trying to justify your cruel opinions and covering it with emotional empathy!

Rape Victim Stigma loving Jerk!

invisible!:
Tweed, you were too blunt and such words were so raw. How can you say that to someone hurting. I will not marry the rape victim if I know about it, for the stigma. If you dont then there isnt any probs. Marry her and there will be peace. I know many big people in the society that were raped, my friend married one and they are living happily. Its not about the rape, its the way you make them look, like criminals. It wont surprise me if you are one serial rapist yourself. You sound like one.

You just keep getting better and better at denouncing women sha! Your own kin hypocrite pass my own! Why should you say you wont marry a rape victim because of the Stigma? Do you know what Stigma means? Let me refreshen your knowledge small:

stig·ma (stgm)
n. pl. stig·ma·ta (stg-mät, -mt, stgm-) or stig·mas
1. A mark or token of infamy, disgrace, or reproach: "Party affiliation has never been more casual . . . The stigmata of decay are everywhere" Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr. See Synonyms at stain.
2. A small mark; a scar or birthmark.
3. Medicine A mark or characteristic indicative of a history of a disease or abnormality.
4. Psychology A mark or spot on the skin that bleeds as a symptom of hysteria.
5. Archaic A mark burned into the skin of a criminal or slave; a brand.

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[Middle English stigme, brand, from Latin stigma, stigmat-, tattoo indicating slave or criminal status, from Greek, tattoo mark, from stizein, stig-, to prick; see steig- in Indo-European roots.]

So lets see: emm. . . You see rape victims as:

a. A disgrace or a token of reproach (Ouch how horrendous and blunt)

b. A mark or characteristic indicative of a history of a disease or abnormality (Now that's what i call deep insults. . . .Damn your good)

c. A mark or spot on the skin that bleeds as a symptom of hysteria (Rape Victims Hysterical? (Damn, Your really good) I never knew that one

d.A mark burned into the skin of a criminal or slave(Now apart from saying they are stigmatized people, you also refer to them as slaves and criminals? And you said it was i who made them look like criminals. . . Haaaaaaaaaaa. . . What a Cliche!. . .lol)

Men your choice of words are too good to be true. I know i am blunt but kai! You harsh! So according to you, the next time i see rape victims, i should just think of them as slaves, criminals, people with hysteria and with a history of disease or abnormality

Way to go invincible!

Now your no longer a hypocrite for fully explaining why you will never marry a Rape Victim but you score major brownie points for beating me to use these exact phrases to classify them. You be my Oga o!

Rape Victims as a Stigma?   Damn You Nasty Bro! Keep it up! I will be sure to refer other people to you to give us better vocabulary when bashing rape victims!

What a Jerk!  

invisible!:
@jack tweeter, must you be so insane? I am not saying I will marry them, but your tone is so ugly. You were so insensitive and you were blaming them. I will not marry someone confimed to have HIV, but I will still talk, work, and play with them. Rape victims are humans, live with that.

Your still a hypocrite. Tell us why you wont marry them? At least i gave you a million and one reasons why i would never touch a rape victim with a 10 foot pole and y'all began to reverbrate caterwauls at me, which i humbly accepted. At least i am no coward hiding under the banner of looking for friends on nairaland to be my penpals and for them to hug and give me sweet kisses for supporting their views.

Once again, why can't you marry a rape victim? Are you that insensitive to their plight to openly say you cant marry them?

How would you think these rape victims will feel after reading what you posted and still feel they wont get hurt because you have actually stated it loud and clear you can't marry them?

At least they know i am blunt and will curse me under their breaths but you, the kind, loveable, friendly paddy of all the nairaland chics wont marry a rape victim How sad!

And i thought you were one of the good guys. . . What a shame

Anyway, its good to know that both of us will never marry a rape victim

We should form a club or group or something now that we are two that will never marry a rape victim. . . . .lol

Maybe we should start collecting signatures or something? What do you think? My Fellow I will never marry a rape victim!

Haaaaaaaaaa. . . . Hypocrites! Dont you just Luv 'em

LadyT:
You are so sad honestly. Pathetic

Yeah Yeah! Whatever

My choices are my choices. I dont like rape victims. Never have and never will and if that makes your tummy churn, go drink a laxative.

If rape victims were so popular, how many men can tell the world that they are husbands to rape victims? How many men can validly look into their eyes every night till death do them part that they love them without having such thoughts of the rape that will ruin their marriages? How many Nigerian families will willingly admit a rape victim as their daughter in law? mention famous rape victims in Nigeria who have weathered the storm to become heros or role models for other rape victims?

Its easier to be branded an atheist and scorned at than to be tagged a rape victim in this country, so therefore, was is termed as a taboo, would remain a taboo in my own books and i dont have to flinch to change my ways and beliefs because you empathize with them.

Maybe in the next next life!

invisible!:
If I know the girl has been raped, I may not marry her, but I will never make them feel bad. It may not be her fault, and she should not be ostracized just because of that. Another person will find her attractive in another location and marry them, even ashewo dey become new chasis when she change location.

Haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

First class Hypocrite. . . lol

From your previous insults at me, i was thinking maybe you would gather all the rape victims and marry them, but you sneaky lil devil, you just hid under the banner so that the girls on nairaland would still be your friends. . . lol

By not marrying her, you will not make her feel bad abi? Pray Sir, Can you tell us the reason why you will not marry her? Give us just one reason since obviously you wont make her feel bad!!!!!. . . lol

What a Hypocrite

Oh please lay off the moderator!!!

My opinion no matter how disgusting to you, is still my own opinion and i will not fall for your brainwashing to jump to the other side when clearly i choose to state that i cant marry a rape victim and my attendant reasons. Because you cannot argue validly to state the contrary why you can marry them, the next thing is to cast aspersions on the moderators and calling out the admin to delete the topic, but you have forgotten that when you and your cabal were busy using derogatory words to insult me for my opinions, i didnt ask the mods to delete your posts or rebuke you.

This is Nigeria Jack and its your right to express your self the way you want it whether it makes you happy or not as long as you conform with the rules of the forum.

Its not my job to make you happy!

So y'all will be much happier if i state that i love rape victims and i will marry them over and over again and form some form of political party to support rape victims groups?

Hello, in life, there is negative and positive. All along, you havent heard me say anything about the rapists themselves and because they are not the issue at hand. You asked whether i can marry tham and i stated my reason. All of a sudden, because my opinions differ from your hypoctical emotional views, you need me to be banned! How hilarious.

I dont feel sorry for them, i dont feel pity for them, i dont care about their welfare, i dont need to support a charitable group for them, i will not be involved in counselling for them. In short. I have nothing to do with them.

Now if the topic was about marrying a HIV infected person, its my own opinion that i sympathize with them and my own person views will be heard. Its my choice and i dont have to follow the crowd by insulting you guys or vexing. In fact if you like vex, na your wahala. I will state my own opinion within the rules of this forum by not insulting you directly unlike some of you.

What about people that were bullied in school or people with severes traumatic depressed syndrome? Are they not victims too one way or the other? Do all of us share the need to be sympathetic with them? All i hear is about tough love and what i am stating is tough love for them.

Go get a life and stop hatin'


Bottom line i dont give 2 about rape victims and i will never marry one in this life or the next . . . .signed Jack Tweed

Simple;

Woman rains insults, Man rains constant and continious blows and slaps until she turns catatonic!

We are all happy and same time same place tomorrow, we repeat the game again to see who wins and who will finally get tired of playing the game of Insults and slaps.

I know i will never get tired though Its too enjoyable a game to ignore and forget in a hurry!

I will only forgive her if she promises to play the game with me next time, maybe hopefully tomorrow! With that i can forgive her a million times, as long as i am having my own share of fun sha!

Oh Please !

Y'all get a life! Why are you all getting Gung-Ho about my own opinions about rape victims? Was i the one that raped them? Is it a must to feel sympathetic or emotional about rape victims? Do i get a Purple heart or federal award for being emotional and having some form of empathy for them? Whats my own?

They were unlucky and someone banged the sh**t outta them. End of story! They will continue to carry that scar as Rape victims for life till they die? Will omo or detergent wash away the fact that they were raped? All the sympathy and hypocritical sorrowful talk and words of consolation will never equate them with normal human beings afterwards. They belong to their own colony of rape vctims and thats the way i see it. They are dregs of the society and no man in his reasonable sense will feel attracted to a rape victim because his mind will always wander to that faithful day and imagine other men who are with girls that are rape free.

What about the potential diseases they might have accumulated? Most of them ie the rape victims are future killing machines looking out to infect other men with the Disease because they harbour some kind of grudge against men. Who cares. Once raped, forever raped. I dont have to empathize with you lot. I despises rape victims and they shouldnt be touched with a 10 foot pole.

Men who date them, do so at their own risk, emotion and life. I have said it before, if my wife gets raped, its over. No begging, no remorse, nothing whatsoever because i cannot love her anymore and if she is looking for self pity, she can go hug all of you. I'll rather feel happier being with another rape free chick to be a step mom to my kids and wife than harbour the shame and embarrasment of having a rape victim as my date or wife. If also my female child gets raped, well, thats her headache and the problem of her future husband not mine. I came to this world alone and i am dying alone. I only came to fulfill nature's quest to populate the world and continue the cycle of human DNA. Apart from that, its none of my business to worry about a rape victim and her impending calamities.

Most of you dont want to even talk about the silly women that put themselves in this position to be raped but when they are raped you begin to cry fowl!

So bottom line, i cannot marry one in this life or the next and if we were married and she gets raped either through her fault or by accident, she will be shown the door. Thats her wahala not mine. Men dont get raped and in Nigeria its almost unheard of to her a man raping another man, so all you haters wishing that for me should try and be more original next time

As for you all that stated that maybe my mum was raped, well thats her wahala if she was raped and it has nothing to do with me. Its her husband you should forward all your inquiries to and if he chose to stay with her after the alledged rape, its his wahala not mine.

Finally, i am not a product of rape. More like a very happy union. You need to see the baby pictures of me with my parents from the moment my mum was pregnant for me till my first birthday. Joy unlimited and pictures say a million words. As for you products of rape, well. . .I cant shout and i hope the stigma would continue to haunt you that you are a products of rape and everyone would know that your mom was raped

You guys dont get it?

A rape victim is just as bad as the rapist. They are both disgusting. You cant stand both of them. They are irritating to the core and you need be someone that has to get away from both of them fast!

Whether i have 30 girls as children and 44 wives, once they have been raped, they no longer become a part of the family, because i cant stand them and there is no need to be moralistic and sympathetic. They were foolish enough to get raped and thats their wahala. I dont even know he difference between rape and prostitution? Maybe the rapists should be dropping some spare change after they have had their fun but the end product is that they are all disgusting to be around with.

Then again, how will i know Dont have a sister, not close one bit with my female cousins, i dont give a damn about the lifestyle of my exes or worry about such emotional crap about them, so it doesnt bother me and i dont see how it will affect me.

Yes i remember i once had this chick that i was this close to dating and before you knew it, she started telling me about her almost "rape incident" in University and how she was lucky to survive it. The moment i heard the synopsis of the story, i knew we would never go out for nothing. All of a sudden, she looked so ugly, revolting and disgusting to me. Imagine someone pukes bile and blood on you, ewwww!! thats how i imagined her from that day. Immediately i stopped calling and walked out of her life. I was glad i dated a rape free chick afterwards!!!

Men follow my advise and dont fall for the dregs of the society aka the raped ones. Go for the clean fresh non raped chicks. Your lives will be much happier!

Theory!

A solid relationship is built on lies and secrets and the ability to contain them secretly. How many women tell their b/fs or husbands how many abortions they have had or how many men they have slept with? How many women would openly talk about their feelings they have for another man or that they are in need of a more expensive shoe that the husband can't afford? How many women would tell a man they have been raped before they married or spill out some form of dangerous secret that could end the relationship? How many men would tell women about their infidelities or secret bank accounts or love children?

Pssf! The key to every sucessful relationship is by being quiet and a hypocrite. You Would be amazed how long you will last!

Its because they are generally indisciplined and believe with their marriage they can do whatever they want by becoming fat, obese, rotund shapeless amoebas hiding under the guise of cooking and having kids. Shey Michelle Obama no de cook and born pikin for her husband? Is turai Yaradua not cooking and having kids for her husband that she still looks slim and sexy even in her old age?

All these fat f***ks just know how to wear their tight jeans and hide their protuding shapeless bellies for men before they marry and after marriage, they remove their girdle instead of G-strings to expose that mass of disgusting and irritating fat to flaunt into our faces. Honestly, no matter what, if i get married and my wife exceeds a particular weight scale,Its over.

i cant mule over a shapeless amoeba as my wife and feel sexually attracted to that revolting thing. Its good there is always a back up to do aristo to follow young, sexy and slim campus girls who can take my mind off that revolting blub before i divorce her!

Before you marry them, they will be forming that they only eat low fat foods, drink skimmed milk and claim to watch their weights so as to attract the man to marry them. The moment you marry them, fufu, amala, akpu, starch and every concievable fatty food becomes their staple meal and even midnight afters and you start to wonder where you went wrong to marry this fat revolting shrek like ogre!

Men!!!

Christians are the most deluded set of creatures on this planet

How someone or a group of people implanted the existence of a god and satan and the chess game they play to rule the world never ceases to amaze me. The constant hallucinations by these christians over this religious crap is bewildering to say the least. Not one freaking soul has seen a god or a devil and here you are asking whether the devil should ask for forgiveness when you dont even know what happened but disjointed stories and fables that have been passed on from generation to generation.

Anyway for my 2 cents, i wonder if the devil will forgive god if god apologizes to him or her for all the distorted lies and fabrications heeped on this poor soul who hasnt commited 1billionth the crimes your god has commited!

Anyway Atheism rocks. . .You dont have to fall under the hypnotism and fatal brainwshing of these hypocritical christians and their totally immoral bible that promotes death, sacrifice and sacriledges preached to under aged children!

Ewww!

Forgive Fire!!!

Wo! I would beat the living crap out of her before she even finishes her caterwauls! If she has a loose tongue, the best way to zip it back is by reminding her with a huge fist everytime her mouth opens and i wont even feel one ounce of remorse for my actions. Action speaks louder than words and as she words, i reply with action. No dulling!

Dont mind what these jerks are saying that your not smart for still wanting to go ahead to marry him. You obviously know that you derive some form of pleasure from the beatings which these nairaland jerks will never comprehend. I am sure you like it rough and nasty and your guy sure does a number on you by beating you blue and black to evoke a sexual release.

I admire your bloke and he is my hero. Dont mind all these people here. If you love him and when he pounds the shit outta ya, just assume its part of the love that we UN-SMART nairalands cannot comprehend.

Sleep tight and dream of one very powerful upper cut from your bloke this night

Marry him ASAP. If i had a sista, i will surely advise her to marry such a role model; but then again, i dont have one, so temporarily your my adopted nairaland sista, so follow your senior brother's advise sharp sharp!!!!

sista-jay:
@ Jack tweed

E bi like say you don taste sour puss!!! you see wetin woman don turn you into, you dey very bitter. Oya make you look on the bright side at the end of the day you go still end up with a woman, unless you be. . . . . . . . . .

Of course the bright side is that i will never marry an old agbaya. I dont need those senile, old lonely, depressed cows above 25 as wives. I deal only in sweet 18-24. Even if i get married at the age of 59, i will not marry an expired old tired assed lonely single 25 above nightmare calling herself a babe when she is more of an aged female billy goat looking for anybody to just give her a ring!

Like i said earlier, they should all die of cancer and leave the world for younger, cuter and less egoistic chicks for men to marry!

biina:
Your post just reeks of ignorance and self righteousness.
I wonder what you would do, if armed robbers came to your home and raped your 'smart' wife in the presence of your smart ass, while you fan them like a human air conditioner? They might even sodomize you as well, if they feel your wife doesn't have enough orifices to go round.

Of course, the marriage is over! What am i doing with a woman that has been raped? What do i stand to gain from her except shame, embarassment and humilation. I dont need that kind of drama in my life or feminine waste around me anymore. After a week of feeling blue, the process of separation leading to a divorce starts immediately and i look for another rape free chick.

Now that wasnt so hard to grasp. . .Was it?

Tell her to F**k off!

It works all the time for ladies! Dont be polite or diplomatic with her. Tell her what she needs to hear. The ruder the better. No sympathy or remorse. They were born for these kind of words unless if you go soft with her, she could mess you up, be extremely aggressive and condescending.

Give her no breathing space. if you cant do it, i'll do it for you for free!

Iyama

Someone that has been mentally and physically abused? Tufia Kwa! She should go and look for her rapist to marry her! How can such a thing be a mother to my kids

She was foolish enough to get raped, so she should stick with the shame and search for her one true love who coincidentally is her rapist and she might be lucky to be carrying the pregnancy of the rapist!

Sometimes i dont know why i am so blessed that i dont have a female sista The sh**t women go through sha!

Ewwwww!

Its their punishment for all the bad things they have done to men in the past and i hope they grow old, single, lonely, depressed, demoralized and die cancer stricken. . .(All of them above 25 and single!)

All their unecessary forming and snobbishness should come back and hunt them till eternity. No wonder you see them in churches doing night virgil searching for a Mr Right after they have turned away potential good responsible men during their youthful bliss!

Agbaya's!