₦airaland Forum

So you follow your wife everywhere? If she gets a man's number and save it with a female name. Do not think you have it handled. That wife you think you have cornered will just be laughing at you with her boyfriend. Or maybe you have her chained in her a garage.

MansoryMX:
You are a very foolish man! Do you know why I call you a foolish man? Okay sit down and listen to what I have to say about your mistakes;

1. A married woman has no business making friend with a male friend. Be it old time friend before she got married, bestie before she got married or old class mate.

2. The moment you saw your wife getting too comfortable chatting with another man. You could have put a stop to it from the beginning but you fold your hands watching.

. The only friend a woman is supposed to have is you, her husband and some other female friend who must be married as well.


I am a married man like you and one principle I gave my wife is never ever give out your number to any guy! Be it old school mate, old friend or past Ex.

And what’s that nonsense of you sending or sharing porn video with your wife? Are you sick or something? My marriage is 6 years old and I don’t do such sick shit! Man! You dey Bleep up ah swear!

I get your point of view. However, elections are not won with rhetorics of equity and justice. Every election apart from 1999 have had people from different zones contesting.

The winner (either by hook or crook) has always been the most popular not based on the zone he came from.

So if Obi will win let it be because he is the most popular not by rhetorics of equity and justice.

If indeed it is the turn of the south east as being touted, then the support should be for a candidates from the southeast not just one man.

gidgiddy:
You got it all wrong. Pa Adebanjo is of the opinion that the tye Presidency of Nigeria should rotate between North and South, and between geopolitical zones.

There over 300 ethnic groups in Nigeria, it would taje over one thousand years to rotate the Presidency amongst them. Thats why the Presidency rotates amongst the 6 zones

When it comes to the South, the South West has had years with Obasanjo, the South South has had 6 years with Jonathan, while the South East has had zero

A Northerner is about to conclude 8 years and power should go back South. If you really believe in justice and equity, which zone in the South should Pa Adebanjo support?

Obi has a right just as you and I have. This is about somebody referencing equity and justice as a reason for supporting another.

Ojiofor:
Peter Obi is strategically fighting for political power or there any other way to fight for it?
Other tribes have the right to presidency too.Ijaws have had it in the past.

The federal character talks about appointments/recruitment to different post in MDAs, ministries, military and others. It has nothing to do with presidency and governorship race. Election is not appointment. If you are popular enough test yourself against others. Appointments has nothing to do with popularity.

OfoIgbo:
Nigerian jaundiced constitution at least still talks about the federal character and the need to maintain it. This clause alone, justifies the need for the presidency to get to the Igbos.

Now getting to Soludo, playing good politics doesn't necessarily mean, denying yourself the chance of running for the presidency.

You can go and advice Tinubu and Atiku. Polls are still favouring Obi in spite of the fact that he is running on the ticket of a #structureless party#

Sorry I did not mean to leave any ethnic group out. Just that I could not mention all. Isoko nation also deserves equity

denko:
Next time add Isoko please dont left it out because is major language by oil. ok

What rule written and unwritten lists the region that is to get the presidency? What process has it in play that the southeast should have the presidency in 2023. Even the party PDP that the southeast always voted for before Okorocha and Umahi's defection did not give the slot to the southeast. Yes it is good to look at equity but in this instance the talk of equity and justice is just playing to the gallery. As Soludo said, the south east needs to play politics right. No body gives power just like that. This is not a class captain election.

OfoIgbo:
Most of the ethnic groups you mentioned are not in the SE.

99% of SE indigenes are Igbos. When the presidency gets to the SS or NC, you can start worrying about the groups you mentioned.

A man from the Angas minority ethnic group from the NC has held the Nigerian executive power for 9 years.
An Ijaw man from the SS has held the executive power of the nation for about 5 years

But the Igbos, who happen to be one of the top three most populous ethnic groups in Nigeria, have only held the executive power of Nigeria for just 6 months.

What this all means is that fairness and equity requires that an Igbo man holds that executive power.

The Yorubas did not support Obasanjo, Falae had the support of most Yorubas. Obasanjo won because the powers that be knew what they wanted. Also other parties also contested. And even if you based it on that, what is the yardstick for this equity? Jonathan was a president and won the next election as a president. He was already in the game.

obyrich:
It was based on JUSTICE! We are witnesses to how the cabals fought hard to block him from emerging president when his principal died. Obasanjo was made president based on JUSTICE. To assuage the Yorubas for the injustice meted out to MKO.

Equity and Justice go hand in hand when we talk of fair dealings. But you are free to promote whatever cause you believe in.

Married for almost 30years and you still come to nairaland for advise. This story can be real but for a man over 50 not to know where he stands is indeed funny. You either allow your wife enjoy herself and you look away or you move on and she still does what she wants. Marriage of over 2.5 decades and you don't know how to act.

Even Atiku is not saying it should go to the north. He is contesting because he feels h e cam win. Nobody will give any body on a platter.

PointZerom:
PDP ruled for 16yrs.
South..... OBJ 6yrs.
North....Yradua 2yrs.
South....HEJ 6yrs.

It is the turn of the NORTH...Atiku.
After Atiku it should go to South East.

President Goodluck was lucky to be vice at that time. Mores, the support he got was not based on equity.

obyrich:
Is Goodluck Jonathan Hausa, Igbo or Yoruba?

Funnily I was in Ibadan on Wednesday, I drove past Adamasingba and there was no traffic. Afenifere members did not come to Ibadan to support baba.

Buccalcavity2:
He definitely has the right. No grudge. But his logic is not flawed. 2 north west Leaders have been president in this 4th republic. If he was really passionate about Equity and Justice, he'ld protest on that basis then. Or is equity only good for southerners?

Actually he has a right to support whoever he wants. But to hinge it on equity, that is a false narrative.

Buccalcavity2:
Don't mind baba Adebanjo jor. Was it equity and justice that made him favor Jonathan in 2015 (when power suppose go north), or was it also equity that got him atikulated in 2019. We understand his leaning. No surprises here.

When did elections become a thing of equity and justice. How do you judge what is right here? What will you say is just behaviour?

Moh247:




Equity: the quality of being fair and impartial.

Justice: just behaviour or treatment.


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How will every ethnic group benefit. There is no turn by turn. Even the pdp that said turn by turn, was that not where Obi ran away from? Turn by turn will work if you had like two tribes. It can never work with the myriad of ethnic groups we have.

PointZerom:
Stop shooting yourself on the foot.

Every ethnic group will benefit if greedy people like Thifnubu will agree.

If Igbos do their turn etc, the next time power returns to South south they'll pick outside GEJ'S ethnic group and the chain continues.

Every ethnic group will get their share of greediness didn't come to play.

It takes one to feel another is one.

Tenses:
This our country don spoil finish sote mad people dey accuse sane people to be mad

Your forebears are idiots. Animal

Righthussle:
See this Idiot . who is agreeing or disagreeing with the rubbish you wrote. Just shut up.

Mr Homeworker you are sighted.

Validated:
Good and do your home work. Your last report card was a failure

Old man sorry.

But your medulla oblongata needs to be worked upon.

If the only thing you know how to do is to show your empty skull. Try and use your head. If you do not agree with an opinion you can disagree in an intelligent manner, not an oshodi underbridge manner.

Righthussle:
Shut up ! Small pikin.

Pa Adebanjo, the Afenifere leader within his right decided that Peter Obi is his preferred candidate. But his premise for the support - Equity and Justice - is indeed faulty.

How do you measure equity and justice in a society with several ethnic groups - where only three groups are often mentioned - with the other groups regularly sidelined.

Apart from the Yorubas, Ibos and Hausa/Fulani, we have the Benins, Efiks, Ibibio, Igala, Tiv, Jukun, Ijaws, Itsekiris to name a few. Even within the major tribes there are different groups.

In canvassing for Peter Obi on the basis of equity and justice where does he leave the other tribes. Do those ethnicity not have a right to be president of the nation as well. Are the Efiks, Ibibio, Tiv, Nupe and the rest less Nigerian than the Yorubas, Ibos and Hausas?

Also, political power is not served on a platter, it is strategically fought for. Nobody will give power for the sake of giving it. When President Barack Obama became the president of the USA, it was not because they were trying to repay the blacks. He won because people believed he had what it took to be president not because of equity and justice.

The premise of equity and justice looks like a way to emotionally blackmail and it is not good enough.

Since he knows how to save, Finance ministry should be for him.

Golan007:
Should Tinubu consider Peter Obi for a ministerial appointment and what position should that be if yes?

For a professor to bring up this shows something. Which law states that candidates must attend debate. A prof should not be behaving like a dunce.

Since she wants 3m wedding, let her hustle the money out. Apparently she is thick in the head. How will that 3m wedding affect the home eventually. People you do not know will come and eat and you will never see most of them again. You already know who you want to marry if you are cool go on with it. But choose wisely.

This is preposterous. How did Peter Obi make Atiku garner so much votes? I am not a supporter of Atiku but let us be thinking logically and not with emotions. Gracias

Eriokanmi:
May is consolation. Atiku will lose....He's still banking on the past glory. Someone should tell atikulators that Peter Obi was the reason Atiku garnered so much votes in 2019. His people voted Buhari wey dem trust and respect pas atiku. In malami's words...atiku is Cameroonian

There can be no run-off because the votes between the major two parties - APC & PDP - will be way way above the others. In the region of millions of vote. This is just a pipedream.

Even before the APC presidential candidate picked his running mate, there had been those opposed to the idea of him picking a Muslim running mate. This was not surprising as every human issue will be controversial but to different degree. For example, there are families that will make issues with the religion or ethnic leaning of who their relative wants to marry.

One learning point from this debate on Muslim-muslim ticket, is that it will be difficult for a southern Muslim to become the president of the country if he picks a Northern Christian.

Also, it would even be more difficult for a Northern Christian to win with a southern Muslim if other strong parties have a structure that fits the present narration.

If the mass of the people are enlightened then sometime in the near future, a Northern Christian can run and pick a southern Christian and it will not be a major issue.

At the moment, the northern Muslims are perceived to be less tolerant of Christians in any guise, especially if a Muslim is not the main man. This may be wrong or right depending on who you ask.

Perceptions and mindset needs to change so that we will not come back to this discussions later on in our Nigerian life.

For those who say there is nothing wrong with it, I have this opinion.

Do children also attend the church? If yes, the things they will see from the hotel - if it is the kind of hotel I am thinking- will it resonate more than the word they are supposed to hear?

For adults that are addicted to sexual immorality, will going to such church not stimulate their addictions?

So if it was his brother cheating, will you think he is stupid for not telling the wife? Or if it is your sister's husband cheating you will go and tell her fiam?

SENATOR19:
I think you are stupid your brother wife is cheating and you didn't tell your brother, you are evil brother.

If you want to tell, tell. If you don't want to tell, don't. Even if the husband is in the country if she will, she will. You just need to be in the streets to know how these things go.

You can also share a testimony in church about a debtor that has been shown to you to pay you his debt in the next coming days.

That you still think he is your pastor is funny. Someone is owing you and is not acknowledging the fact and you say he is your pastor. That man is a debtor.

My question. What happened to private security firms for private protection?

This is sexual harassment and should not be condoned. It is atrocious that this is taken lightly.