| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Chinonye2022(m): 5:08pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
jeromestarks:
The guy have fvcked her before. He will fvck her again whether Tinubu wins or not.
You're a fool for marrying a woman you did not disvirgin.
Divorce her and take your children for DNA test. wow but do people marry virgin nowadays and if u married ur wife as virgin will that mean she won't cheat?plz educate me small abeg 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Biafraaa: 5:09pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Urheadmaster:
This your story sweet and long like an India film.
I can't wait to read the part 2  . Tag me when he releases the part2  |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Eteka1(m): 5:09pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
From what i have read, your wife has discipline. The guy almost influenced here totally but your discovery has nipped it in the bud. Don't throw her out. Start tactically reminding her of her principles,Monitor her and you will find out she won't do it again. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Savvy19: 5:09pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Never get married in this life 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Unrated900(m): 5:11pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Am
Disappointed in ur wife’e Attitude.
Call her attentions to all you have seen.
Tell her to call it off ASAP
Tell her how a grown up woman like you would be doing this shit.
Tell her what do you expect from our kids to be doing
This is irritating
If she continue doing the flirting
Sir with due respect
Safe all the fact you got about her and send her parking
Me I can’t tolerate this shit long than you are doing.
This is why some men don’t want their women to be rich in life.
But sir I trust you would handle this maturely
If not
This guy might even use juju to kill you and take over what you have built for years.
Act fast sir
If you can’t call me I will tell u what to do
I hate it when women plays shit on men.
If my wife tried this
Me solar@autos I kick her out instantly
Me no get time 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by yahoodetector: 5:11pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Your first mistake is trusting your wife so much! The guy has started building sexual fantasies in her mind and she is slowly falling for it. It's only a matter of time for her to sleep with the guy. Don't be surprised that the recent times you have been making love to her, she closes her eyes and fantasizes it's the guy on top of her!! Women cheat more than men but codedly (a known truth Siofra and Candidlady won't tell you) ...know this and know peace! 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by israelmao(m): 5:12pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
I will stand and watch my wife making or answering male childhood friend's call continuously even at night?That's how some men give room to the devil. 6 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by oneMalik: 5:12pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
call your wife attention to your feeling .
if she continue , don't report to nobody .
File for divorce and get her off your way without wasting time.
you know why ? 2-decades of marriage ain't joke , you've tried and don't deserve to die just like that.
with the way you're feeling right now you tend to die of high bp b4 your time and she will still have her fun while you're in the grave . 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by jagtinic: 5:13pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Married for almost 30years and you still come to nairaland for advise. This story can be real but for a man over 50 not to know where he stands is indeed funny. You either allow your wife enjoy herself and you look away or you move on and she still does what she wants. Marriage of over 2.5 decades and you don't know how to act. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by fof1: 5:14pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Stories from the Garden of ... So Who are You asking, Pls? Na Nairaland.com Marry Your Wife for You? Pls Get Sense and Reconcile with the Wife of Ur Youth...You Want to Throw Her Out like Football to the Same Childhood Friend helping You? Reconcile with her...Don't Divorce her no matter the Advice, Pls. DO YOU KNOW WHAT WILL HAPPEN TO UR NEXT IN LINE? |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Uptheante(m): 5:14pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Flora2Sweet:
Be happy you where smarter than her, if not ..... na for hotel room u for see them..
Never ever trust a woman.. How are sure the guy has not fuccked his wife already?  |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by HEBEI: 5:17pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Don't you have someone else to flirt with Don't give yourself a high blood pressure over a woman. Women pretend alot. She loved dirty and lewd words. You probably started your relationship with her by presenting your churchy side to her. Women love randy men but never want their husbands and boyfriends to be randy. It's sot of confusing,but it's true. Ignore her completely. Stop having any sexual contact with her. When she reacts, tell her to let you know when she is done with her boyfriend. Don't kill yourself over a woman. This man may not be the first person she was doing this with since you married her. Get yourself some chilled palm wine and stay cool. Life na once, bro. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Firstcitizen: 5:17pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
OP she got carried away without knowing the implications due to excitement that may have been caused by the absence of same over a long period of marriage. I do not think it is a deal breaker since it stopped at chats. The man is evil. Tell her off in strong terms and report to her relatives. Let her cut him off and you remain vigilant. Any woman can make same mistake. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Revolva(m): 5:18pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Chloraseptic:
Phone and social media are the greatest barriers to successful marriage..
There are old flames that would never have crossed path nor reignited again in this lifetime if phone and and social media weren't available.
Just watch how redpillers will rush in to tell you to leave your wife of 25 years as if it's as easy as leaving a relationship of one month. They don't know or believe that anything marital issues can be fixed.. True smartphones and social media have exposed these ladies a lot But it has also helped us to know the whores around Those days when there were no smart phones and social media these things happen only that it was not rubbed on our faces, but today you go date gal and she go de chat with someone else on d same dating table una de drink and eat while you are spending . As for the op bro your wife is a goner dem go still nak her 2nd round over 2 decades she is tired of ur dick Women ehnn forget them , they sabi lie 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by IamGreen1(f): 5:18pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by emerged01(m): 5:18pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
zexy2030:
If the devil wants to destroy you, he enters your woman. Devil doesnt need to enter,he is always around them. He uses them at his will when necessary. As a man you are suppose to know those times so that you can seek God for divine intervention. Adam and Eve story. Adam had been in the garden but devil didnt approach him not until Eve came in. When Eve was used,Adam failed to recognize that moment he also fell yakata. We all could see the result. Moment you are with a woman,be watchful. They can be a blessing,the next moment a curse. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Awoleesu(m): 5:19pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Sir, the bolded is where your problem lies... |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Uptheante(m): 5:20pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
peepydelano:
Married women and cheating these days, what is wrong? That's the result of giving women too much freedom & soft-pedaling on them under the guise of being civilized or 'woke'. Conservative societies don't experience this 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by efuro(m): 5:20pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
obviously ur a good man and ur wife loves u. it is obvious ur wife is also faithful to ur marriage otherwise she would have been clearing her chats.
i know ur angry as am i now.. but sense should prevail...call her and her elder siblings to a round table discuss and rules...to which if she desire u she will obey, if she desire her media husband she disobey u..
good luck! 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Nobody: 5:21pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Firstcitizen: 5:21pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Savvy19:
Never get married in this life 5 bottles of star for you bro 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by MansoryMX(m): 5:22pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
You are a very foolish man! Do you know why I call you a foolish man? Okay sit down and listen to what I have to say about your mistakes;
1. A married woman has no business making friend with a male friend. Be it old time friend before she got married, bestie before she got married or old class mate.
2. The moment you saw your wife getting too comfortable chatting with another man. You could have put a stop to it from the beginning but you fold your hands watching.
. The only friend a woman is supposed to have is you, her husband and some other female friend who must be married as well.
I am a married man like you and one principle I gave my wife is never ever give out your number to any guy! Be it old school mate, old friend or past Ex.
And what’s that nonsense of you sending or sharing porn video with your wife? Are you sick or something? My marriage is 6 years old and I don’t do such sick shit! Man! You dey Bleep up ah swear!  3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by DriveByKiller: 5:22pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
immortalcrown:
More than two and half decades and your marriage is still like this?
What led to your friend sending you porn?
He that comes to equity should come with clean hands. Quack mumu lawyer. Same porn he showed to his wife even without her knowing or asking. Oversabi daft |
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Firstcitizen: 5:24pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
I dey shame say man wey know say woman don marry dey try tempt am like satan. E no go beta for dat man. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by CaptainFM1: 5:26pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
Otilo! Your wife don go be dat! Wetin smart phone and social media go cause we never even see 10% of it. Lemmie teach you a simple trick if you don't already know anyway... Mirror your wife WhatsApp on WhatsApp web. Any messages going in/out you will be reading them in real time. Warning: They may share obscene pics of one another that may extinguished you. True true, fear women! Women na your mate? 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by InvertedHammer: 5:26pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
/ Leave your wife alone. Just confront her and let it be. My guess is she will be more discrete after. It is important that you eat together with her thereafter because we don't know what's killing all these men---might not be heart attack after all. You have extracted the last juice from your marriage. Make sure your primary beneficiaries are your children in case you follow Sam Okposo. Meanwhile, continue to be in good terms with your offsprings. The primary reason to get married these days is to procreate. Love does not exist as before. / |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by naijknight: 5:27pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
I suppose swear for you..AJE...you give your wife porn...he send am give drug addict wet dry back her wotoporously , you catch dem , you get mind come here con dem yan nonsense ...I pity person wey go advice this simp that live in Simpson street  bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by BABANGBALI: 5:29pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
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| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Octobertwentysix(f): 5:29pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post
I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.
So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.
This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.
They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.
The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).
So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.
I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.
Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.
I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?
This your story get as e be, after more than twenty two years of marriage, you come carry your case come nairaland for small small boy's wey still dey their mama house dey eat eba to come advise you, the only answer they will give you here is that your wife is a LovePeddler and already cheating on you, oga if you had been married that long I believe you must be at least 40+, you don't know how to handle things like this? Or you no get family, you want small children here to kuku help you scatter your marriage that is if this your tales by moonlight is true. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by dapsoneh: 5:31pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
You have been married for 25 years and nairaland is the best place to seek for axdn advise? Na wa for you oo
You should be in your late 50s if not 60s sef |
| Re: My Wife Is Flirting With Childhood Friend Online by Buffalo2(m): 5:32pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
I hope they have not organised school reunion o. Reunion is an avenue where old teenage "lusters" meet and reignite their old school lust life without barriers 2 Likes |
