Colourich:
No, I don't. semen is not meant to be swallowed and I cannot compromise my standards to please any man.

you're such a lying bitch. God!

Colourich:
I also believe that guys in universities shouldn't date till they start working. Its pointless.

shut up bitch.

Why and how is it pointless huh?

Colourich:
Thats very disgusting.

no it isn't. Hypocritical bitch.

I do it and you also do it

GODPUNISHUNA:


I tell you. I am the Nairaland prince charming

i bet my life my John is more handsome than you though.
Nairaland hypocritical bitches like amarabae and co will get wet if I upload his pic here I don't wanna cause confusion

GODPUNISHUNA:


You are very correct. On the internet we can be anything we want to be.

the same way you're a handsome man around here

Mizk:
Don't ask him out if you don't wanna end up resenting yourself and loosing your self esteem, the moment you do that, you have anointed him deputy jesus

i understand

BluntBoy:


Jamar is a man, not a girl. Don't be deceived.

as usual, the same ol tactics

Colourich:
Jamariwolf once claimed that she is a working class lady.

shut the f up bitch.

Who doesn't claim what he or she isn't on nairaland huh?

Thank you for this amakababe. I'll do everything you said.

Of course, i never planned on telling him anyhow. I'll keep fantasizing in me

Uwaeromosele:

Please Focus on ur book and be sharp in the exam hall if u know what I mean. Don't dull ur self, 100l is most likely what u will come out with, If u have b parallel, U will be on 4.0( that's if ur School is following 5point Cgpa) so u will be able to flex and do other Things. Trust me,U will see finer boys and also they will be finer Girls too Coming out in 200l and all. So ur book first so u will not be SUFFERING in other levels Rather you will just be MAINTAINING. Cause people don't like even 2'2 talk more of Pass or third class, and most time people have 3rd class Cause to have F is very simple in 100l then STRUGGLE to come out with 2'2
Don't worry, They will always be Finer boys and also finer girls.
And all those he walks like God and smells like dew na lie o,You just like am

I just finished my first semester exams with a 3.83 GPA, my crush is on a 4.7Gpa Though.

But I hope to do better this second semester so as to enter a 4.3cgpa at least for 200 level

NairaMaster1:


So, you were sent to school to go and crush at men?

I advice you to crush at your books.

I know your parents adviced you on that.

Please crush at your books. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?

yes i understand

YhungPablo:
his name is John righht?

yes
Why u asked?

harrwix:


do you still have intention of finishing with a first class....if yes...then kill those feelings. speaking from experience

pls why do you say so? I read my books and attend all lectures, can a simple crush still stop this goal?

OneSentence:
this is hard reality but age won't make you accept it easily. this crush u feel will fade, then you'll crush on another and another and...I just hope u don't spread as the crushes keep coming. you must learn to suppress and kill it. find something of hire desire than a guy...ask a lot of the ladies here they'll tell u that's how it starts. take the last sentence of the poster above as your best advice

all right. Thanks

Onyiridike:
@OP You may end up losing him to a serious girl who is more courageous than you. Every man respects a woman who behaves like a woman but thinks like a man.
In-as-much as you don't intend to have sex with him, you will not lose anything eventually.
1. You can find a way of establishing the closeness with him by discussing a difficult course with him. Please don't argue with him, talk less and listen more but ask intelligent questions.
2. In the course of the discussion ask him personal questions so that you can get to know him better. All that glitters is not gold. He may be ungodly, in a relationship or have questionable character.
This is all I can say for now. And I pray his goodlooking has not beclouded your sense of reasoning?
All the qualities you mentioned are not enough to consider starting a relationship with someone. Unless you just want to brag before your friends that you are dating the most handsome guy in your class.
You should start thinking of getting a man that could be your husband eventually.
Meanwhile, your studies should be giving priority now.

well noted. Thank you

amaniro:

firstly, wanna say I feel you sis.

and am currently dealing with the same problem, thus, we're in a delema, not ready to let go and not ready to form a "relationship"


instead, my Ernest advice is that you guys become friends, lower your ego become close friends eventually
.... couples one day.

you know how guys can behave. If I try forming friends, my crush can surface easily

MariaLavina:
Focus on your books!

so books 247 right?
In your uni days, u didn't flex a little? You didn't enter a relationship? Just books?

Rayhandrinni:
see fine girl is dying for course rep when I can love you for free...save you off all these stress.
Nawa oh

I'm sorry but he's just so hot. I can't forget him ever

GODPUNISHUNA:
Jamariwolff so you are in 100 level?

Chai, see children I have been playing with on Nairaland

children keh. I'm 20, definitely not a child.

post=69053536:
100Level?
Okay, keep to your number 3 for now........

We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

That is the Best I can tell you now. Make your course rep your platonic friend.
Your Books first my dear: Thay is the most important thing for now.
See ya!

thanks. I'll keep this in mind

First, i want to be clear that this isn't a case of forming hard to get.
I've been broken once before by a crush and I had to learn the hard way of keeping it all secret.

So I'm a 100 lvl student in a Nigeria university and my course rep is extremely handsome, friendly, tall, and very dope- he walks like a God, dresses with aĺl prestige, and smells like fresh dew. He has nice smile, what i love most is his skin, which is always glowing and very beautiful to look at. He turns me on like stupid.

But here is a problem I DON'T WANT HIM TO KNOW I HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.

it never ends well, I'll enhance his self esteem at the end and he'll start to avoid me altogether. I also do NOT want to stop crushing on him. Yes, I know 90% that it'll not work out at the end.

Thus, to avoid him knowing I'm crushing. I do the following

1. Avoid looking at him, ever. On the streets, i pretend to look at my phone when passing him.
Although I take a peek with my peripheral side vision sometimes, that's that.

2. I sit faraway in class, where I can focus 100% on myself. I sit in front of him normally and I never look back. Ever.

3. We are just "greeting" friends, we don't talk much, just greet once in a while. And I try to act as uninterested as possible.

4. I once tried getting him a gift (candy)last semester to make him know I exist, and that's how the friendship started, i havent given him any gifts since then. In fact, i simply ignore him.


but he doesn't know I like him and I must be really careful.

I don't know what to do.

PS: don't tell me to confess my crush or give him GREENLIGHTS, because I would rather die than do any of the above options.

Amarabae:
you sound like someone I know. Can't figure out now

you've decided to do a comeback abi. Mrs oriaku. Keep opening stupid threads on nairaland. You think every lady here is as hypocritical and ancient as you are.

Amarabae:
but you don't have vagina,
Which boyfriend are you talking about

the one you couldn't use to keep your cheating hòrny piece of trash you call a husband. Keep claiming saint all over nairaland

Babyforever:
Shameless girl keep opening your legs up and down

I'm monogamous dear. Don't be a hypocrite and claim you've never done anything sexual. Trash

Babyforever:
Sex object

all the females in your family. Ashawo kobo

Does this make any sense?
Aunty mind your business and your marriage.

Whatever way I decide to treat my bf is none of your business madam. How successful is your marriage sef?

Yes, i will cook and open my legs wide. Go hug the nearest transformer. Old menopaused hypocrite

Mac2016:

Do you actually need a First Class?

yes

Olabenjamen22:


Which school?

futminna

Guapismo:

Yeah its Very possible if u can have an average of 4.7 in the remaining semesters but that's not easy

U can make it in life without having a First Class, if u know u can't have that high in the remaining semesters just maintain ur second class upper

thanks

Sorry for derailing but my GPA is giving me sleepless nights.
I had a GPA of 3.82 in 100 lvl first semester, can I still graduate WITH a FIRST class?

Lol @hard earned corn

How can someone crush on that things.

Men are truly scam chai