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rahjan:
While we were still just friends she met a married friend of mine thru me.
Our friendship progressed slowly due to d fact that i had once gone out with her close friend but eventually our mutual likeness for each other got us into a relationship.

@Poster, If i may understand you clearly,you said it was thru YOU she got to know your married friend and yet she went ahead secretly and have ses with him, Do you ever asked her these question----why she did that(why she had ses with your married friend) and when was it  was it when you guys were just friend or after when your mutual likeness for each other got both of you into a relationship)these questions will help you to know who you're dealing with,and you need to ask yourself this question will you ever feel comfortable starting your future with someone you introduce to your friend and later have ses with him regardless of any situation(she may have excuses or probably say it was the work of devil)

Do you really think she will say NO,even if her ex contact her secretly and you don't know,it's a gradual process that may lead to ses(mind you ex issues has caused problems in lots of relationship/marriage)to be sincere with you,a discipline lady with integrity will never do such a thing(having ses with a friend you introduce to her how much more a married man)do you really think you can trust her?

Don't be blind by LOVE, when we cry we also see.

I wish you best of luck in your decision.

Obviously something else is attached to your text and calling your ex,according to Yoruba saying "where you say good night,you don't go back again for pleasantries" Will it be a sin or tag you as a bad person if you stop communicating with your ex?If there is nothing attach to your calling and texting,

After finish praying in the morning with husband,you picked up your phone and called your ex(i'm very sure you don't call him only on his birthday but you guys call each other sometimes)Prove me wrong if i'm wrong, I imagine the sensation and joy you will feel inside of you,calling and txting him which will remind you of those nice time you guys have spent together,it's a matter of time if care is not talking gradually it will lead to something else.I pray you will not use your carelessness to destroy your marriage,

Stop calling or texting him,the worse thing you have done to him is not getting married to him, So if you stop calling him or texting i don't think it's a big deal,the nice time and daily activities you engage yourself doing,with your husband is enough for you to have forgotten him, But if you always still feel like oh let me even call my ex and say Hi,then you want something else which you will get it,

A word is enough for a wise.

ONILA has pointed out one of the characteristics MONEY MONEY MONEY, Why F-ucking around for money?Sometimes i wonder who likes money pass among Nigeria girls and Nigeria Police,  The love of money to Nigeria girls has led them to lots of problems,
@Poster you are right jawe,

@Poster, Don't waste your time seeking for what is not lost, Curiosity kills the cat,obvious your girl friend is a parol girl(i'm not insulting)but i just want you to be wise and open your,a honest partner in a relationship have nothing to hide not even a facebook name, I wonder what will happen if you ask for her facebook password,shine your eyes bro,

Ujujoan:
Poster, you made a mistake by sleeping with someone else. It’s not just about loosing your virginity. It’s about cheating on someone you claim to love. My advise, tell him. It’s difficult but it’s the best thing to do, considering you’ve bleeped up already. Who knows, he might buy your ‘Devil’s’ story. 

Don’t listen to all these pple talking trash about washing you ‘thing’ with alum, and pretending to be a virgin. That’s deceit and it’s wrong. If you love this guy and want to marry him, then don’t even try lying about something as terrible as that.

Thats different, she wasnt violated, she cheated. But she shd still tell him and if he's a good guy, he'll appreciate her honesty.

@Ujujoan  You said if he is a good guy he'll appreciate her honesty,and if he is a bad guy he'll not appreciate her honesty, What honesty? After having a hot fork ? if she really want to prove her honesty she should have called the guy when she is about having the hot fork (Darling there is a guy who have been disturbing me and we are about to have a hot fork should i proceed?)How about that?

@Poster don't let anyone deceive you, the guy is not going to accept you again, But be wise because he can pretend just as if he has forgiven you and give you a hot fork that you will never forget in return and later cast you out like an evil spirit out of his life,

@Rhino, I like your comment,you have said it all,
@prophetwis   that is a good advice and i also doubt if the guy will accept her back,

@Poster why do you have to blame the devil?spare the devil out of this and Just admit that you know what you're doing before spreading your legs wide open for Mr.Disvirgin, Or does Mr.Disvirgin charmed you? before doing it i'm sure your conscience is not dead,and you know you're having the sex with a wrong guy,but your desire for sex did not let you listen to your conscience.
I don't have to ask you,obviously i can tell you're in a LDR and there is no doubt that,the love you have for this guy is gradually fading off, in other word you really don't love him anymore, 

@Poster i will advice you to tell him about it and let him make decision,that will save you from humiliation in future,  if you man get to know after marriage,the trust won't be there anymore and you'll also create a big issue for him to think about for the rest of his life,

Tell him and know your stand, It's not the end of the world.I WISH YOU BEST OF LUCK.

staflex:
@james2man, yes we do fix kitchen cabinets, wardrobes, do office tables, sell kitchen appliances etc. our appliances are from Ariston, the best worldwide. we have one of the best fitted kitchens and our workers have many years of experience in the business.
awaiting your reply

Thank you for your quick respond,i will call your phone line next week and may need your email address so i can send you the picture of the Kitchen and the wardrobes or i will get the size from the engineer, God bless you.

@Staflex do you fix kitchen cabinet and wardrobes?Please get back to me and let me know how we can communicate better,

@Am alone you have got a nice house,I pray that God will give you long life to enjoy your works, Please i want you to recommend to me a good furniture that can make a Good Kitchen cabinet and walldrobes works , God bless you.

otooro:
^^^ mstchewwww

is that an explanation?

try harder! no put yeye comment on my thread or. . . .

@Tooro-Morgbe, If i put comment for your thread unko waiting go happen?In fact i don dex i will give comment that suit your joke,

@Tooro-Morgbe, You ask why i have to post the same comment, i have grade for comment remark on each Joke threads, I give comment regard according to their poor work, Just because i didn't post comment on your Joke thread about psychiatric patients poking your eyes,doesn't mean you've xcape my comment, But you try shall.

This Joke sweet oooo,Just because you're a female i will pretend as if i'm laughing, But can you give me 5 reasons why i need to laugh to this sweet Joke, No offence

Are you High?Why should i laugh to your Joke?Please give me 5 reasons why i should Laugh,

Joke or Comedy the fact still remain that we laugh after getting the message,

Just because you're a female according to your profile,I will pretend that i'm laffing,

Rubbish Joke, Imagine he even said the conductor fainted,what is the shocking part of the joke that could've make the conductor fainted, If you drink please don't open a thread and if you open a thread please don't drink,

You have achieved your aim you post don reach 1000 so what else?You must have other target, Funny

A young girl about to go on a 1st date with her boyfrnd was been tutored by her grandma.

"He will try to kiss you, allow him.

He will try to cuddle you, allow him.
, ,
He will try to lay u down and get on top of you, don't allow him".

The girl asked, "grandma, why?".

Grandma said, "because if you do that, you have allowed him to disgrace you and all your family".

Girl said "okay" and left on her date.

Several hours later she returned and grandma asked "how did it go?".

Girl said "exactly as you said except when he laid me down and tried to disgrace our family, I turned him over, got on top of him and disgraced his family instead".



[font=Lucida Sans Unicode]The second Joke, [/font]

:::::Husband nd wife agreed dat anytime dey want 2 a've sex,dey wil call it a PHONECALL!1 day,d husband sent his son 2 tell his mother "dat he wants 2 make a phone call"Mother relies:tell ur fada dat there is no network.HUSBAND:Tell ur moda dat if there's no network @ home,I'll go to a "public phone,WIFE sent back,tel ur fada dat if he dare goes to a public phone,den I will open a "CALL CENTRE"@ d front of our house.


Lolz

He was trying to gain access to the SSS office in Kano to wreck havoc in a suicide mission but crack shooters from the sniper unit of the secret police made sure he breathe his last without detonating his bomb laden car!.

Here is the Link to the source.

http://www.247nigerianewsupdate.com/2012/01/24/photo-sss-sniper-crushes-boko-haram-suicide-bomber-before-detonating/

Thanks to you all,

You have done the right thing brother,confronting her does not mean you're being harsh on her,infact that tells her your stand in the relationship and any silly mistake from her trying to create reunion with her ex obviously show that she is looking for something else,

I have once been in your shoes,i took things so calmly and soft with my fiance and talk senses to her, I let her understood that no guy in his normal senses would ever still want to have anything to do with his ex after being separated for years especially if the lady is at the stage of getting married to another guy, If the guy persist disturbing the girl It obviously show that the guy is an instrument satan as designed to steal her joy from her and to destroy the good relationship she has been keeping, A girl in her good senses will actually understand what this actually means regardless of whatever she might have had in the past with her ex,

And i also learn a great lesson from a friend of mine experience, infact it was as d same as yours and he is not with the girl anymore, His girlfriend found her ex profile on face book and one way or the other they create reunionship and they started communicating to each other again,each time they talk her ex always apologize to her just for them to become friends again and gradually secretly they became friend.My friend later knew about this but she continuously reassured my friend that they were just friends .until they started talking on the phone. That led to flirting,and her ex invited her to party ,just to cut the story short,they eventually had sex. she ended up cheating on her boyfriend it was on facebook my friend got to know that they have actually gone far to the stage of having sex,

So bro, you have done the right thing.
@Lashontae you are so right,ladies need lots of attention,

In a Nursery 2 class ,a lil girl ask
Aunty,can my big sis get
pregnant,Aunty: how old is she ?lil
girl ,she is 20,Aunty sure she
can,lil girl: what of me can I get
, pregnant? Teacher: how old are u
dear?lil girl am 5 aunty No, dear
you can't den the lil boy behind
the girl poked her and said ,u see?
I told u we have notin to worry
about,The teacher fainted

theowonder:
@ BBPhone

I indeed apologize for the post. Anyway, i wasn't aware of your business opening and closing hours.

I write to clarify that i have been able to speak with you, appreciate your approach on phone and the professionalism.

Have a nice day at work.

Do you have BB Torch in stock?I need one maybe black or white at a reasonable price, I'm very serious about this.

@Fico i'm interested in buying the blackberry,where is your location precisely in Lagos and what is the last price to give away the blackberry Torch.Urgent

3 drunk guys entered a taxi. D taxi driver knew that dey were drunk so he started d engine & turned it off again. He told them. "We done reach there ooooo". The 1st guy gave him money & 2nd guy said "thank u". D 3rd guy gave the driver a slap. The driver was shocked, thinking the 3rd drunk knew what he did. But he asked "what's that for?". D 3rd guy replied. "CONTROL UR SPEED NEXT TIME, u nearly killed us!!! night tinz enjoy

r231:
your sister

Thanks for your answer,which means your sister will also like money more than her ****

Lemme ask u something and please be honest. Nigerian Girls nd Nigerian Police, who like money pass??

If they do,it may be for security reasons for other people, But they may both have the unlock code to each other phone that shows sincerity.

@cityfones1 i'm interested in the blackberry torch white, do you still have it available?

I appreciate all your advice and contributions,You guys are too great, Thank you so much.

My result is yet to be release,here is my Pin 5654630672047182

Thank you so much for your contributions great guys of nairaland, I know you will always respond @Rokiatu i don't think it's a bad thing for my friend to check his girl friend facebook because he was the one who created the account for her, If he didn't have the password to the account he wouldn't have know something of such is happening and moreover this guy doesn't base in Lagos he is schooling at Abuja,