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Jokes Etc / Re: A Man Stealing In Church{Picx} by JameyMaxwell(m): 10:02am On Oct 06, 2013 |
badoolee: wat ix diz wan saying Sunday tins shaaYep. Itz sunday xo bii a gewd girl. |
Celebrities / Re: Photo: Tiwa Savage Shows Off Sexy & Hawt Bikini Body In The Pool by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:52am On Oct 06, 2013 |
She wear pant diz tyme |
Religion / Re: David Did Not Kill Goliath! by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:47am On Oct 06, 2013 |
NIV In another battle with the Philistines at Gob, Elhanan son of Jaare-Oregim the Bethlehemite killed Goliath the Gittite, who had a spear with a shaft like a weaver's rod. |
Jokes Etc / Re: A Man Stealing In Church{Picx} by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:43am On Oct 06, 2013 |
badoolee: Mtcheeeeeewwwwwww,jagajaga threadNa wa 4 yhu ooo. Must yhu nw Hiss like a Snake ¿ |
Nairaland / General / Re: MAKE FRONT PAGE ON NAIRALAND WITH THIS SURE TIPS by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:39am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Xo who hz mde frnt pge recently? |
Fashion / Re: Meet The Man With The TALLEST Mohawk by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:22am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Birds wud luv to set their nest on his head. |
Religion / Re: Water Calls Me To Jump In by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:21am On Oct 06, 2013 |
All those pipo sayin I shud jump in.... Una dey craze¤ Jamey maxwell doesn't want to die yet. |
Religion / Re: David Did Not Kill Goliath! by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:12am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Frnt page tinz |
Celebrities / Re: She’s SEXY & She Knows IT! Actress, Yvonne Nelson Flaunts New Dresses [photo] by JameyMaxwell(m): 9:06am On Oct 06, 2013 |
∫ξΛ®l:But wait ooo As she no get hips & curves, wetin she go kon do nah? |
Nairaland / General / Re: See This Sexy Babe Smoking Shisha by JameyMaxwell(m): 8:59am On Oct 06, 2013 |
I call her “The Dragon Lady”. LoL |
Jokes Etc / A Man Stealing In Church{Picx} by JameyMaxwell(m): 8:46am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Can yhu Imagine diz? 1 Like
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Romance / Re: She Has A Blackberry And Her Boyfriend Does Not... by JameyMaxwell(m): 8:36am On Oct 06, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: i wasnt going to be banned... It is very funny |
Nairaland / General / How To Create Yhur Own Destiny by JameyMaxwell(m): 8:29am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Some are of the opinion that your destiny is out of your control. That your destiny has been pre-determined and you have no choice in the matter. Arnold Schwarzenegger wished to become the best bodybuilder who ever lived. His parents and his peers in his small Austrian town thought bodybuilding was a ticket to nowhere and that he was wasting his time. But young Arnold had an iron will and unbreakable determination and he went on to become the greatest bodybuilder of all time. After he found bodybuilding success, Arnold Schwarzenegger wished to become a movie star, not an actor, a star. Agents laughed at his bulky muscles and his funny accent. Arnold was not deterred, he knew his path, his destiny, and he went on to become the most famous movie star the world has ever seen. Young Arnold could have listened to his parents in his small Austrian town of Graz, he could have given up his bodybuilding dreams and followed in the footsteps of his Police Chief father. Becoming Chief of Police is certainly not a bad living, but Arnold certainly would have wondered “what if….” until his dying day. When asked the question “What Do You Want?” Arnold answered “I want to become the greatest bodybuilder of all time, move to America, become a movie star and then become a world leader“. Knowing what you want is the most important part of determining and fulfilling your destiny. Having a plan is of utmost importance. Being able to answer the question “What do you want?” with complete certainty IS your plan. If you cannot answer the question or if you answer with vague uncertainties then that is what you are surely to become: nothing but a vague uncertainty. ———————————————- Q: What do you want? A: Oh, I don’t know. A good job I guess. Maybe some travel. You know, just be happy. That’s exactly what this person will get. A job that pays him money and steals what is left of his soul. ———————————————- Q: What do you want? A: I want to set up a drop-shipping business selling blue widgets to overweight single moms. This business will be set up so that it can be run from anywhere in the globe. This will give me a chance to have positive cash flow while I do a little traveling. The blue widget business will not last forever so I will invest money from that venture into real estate. I would bet money that this person will be able to follow through with this plan, this destiny, because he knows exactly what he wants. ———————————————- How to Answer the Question “What Do You Want?” The first step to answering this questions is to BE HONEST. When answering the question “What do you want?” it is ok to be selfish. It is imperative to be selfish when answering the question. You likely already know what you want. For some, the ones who can answer completely, the thoughts are at the forefront of their mind. For others, those who are scared to answer with sincerity and honesty, the thoughts are what keep them awake at night. What keeps you awake at night? Dread for your job? Money worries? Debt? Wishing you had a lovely young lady to hold? Excitement for the day ahead? Wishing you had something to be excited about? Depression? What you are thinking about is likely what you have waiting for you in the future. Night time is the greatest indicator of whether or not you are following what should be your destiny. There are two options at night when you lay awake: 1. You are visualizing your plan of attack, you are going over your plans, you are preparing, you are excited for the day ahead and you fall asleep content. Or… 2. The demons come for you. All your mistakes and missteps come to eat you up because you are not on the path you should be on. What To Do Get a paper and pen and write down the most important things in your life. Read this repeatedly until you have narrowed down exactly what is most important. Then say it out loud. Don’t mumble and don’t stutter. Say it loud with confidence. Never say “I don’t know“. When someone says “What do you want for dinner?” you must answer with certainty. When someone says “What do you want to do tonight?” you must answer with certainty. This will get you used to answering questions with confidence and sincerity. Go somewhere you can be alone. Go for a long drive. Go for a walk in the woods. Leave your phone and ipads and electronic junk behind. Just you and your thoughts. Answer the question “What do you want” and answer with complete honesty. There will be no one around to judge your thoughts, there will be no one around to laugh at you or say it can’t be one. Look at yourself in the mirror. Do not look away. If you cannot look at yourself in the mirror without feeling disgust you cannot accomplish anything. You absolutely must be able to face yourself. When you become comfortable with yourself you will be comfortable exposing yourself and your plan to others. Play To Your Strengths Everyone has something they are good at. Play to the strengths you possess. If you are low IQ you cannot move to Silicone Valley to develop web applications. If you are 5’6 and 28 years old you will not become a professional basketball player. If you live in the middle of nowhere, Kansas you are not going to become a famous actor. Dreams Do Not Have To Be Grand The dream for the entirety of my early adult life has been to be self- employed. This is not a grand dream, there are millions who make money on their own. All it takes to become self- employed is a method and a determination to make it work. Once I made the decision to go my own way and never look back it has been downhill. It has been over 4 years since I have received a paycheck from an employer. If I had simply made the decision earlier and followed through with determination it could have been 10 years ago. The Power Of Visualization You must visualize yourself as you want to be. I did this long before I went into business on my own. I visualized exactly what I would be doing, how I would be acting, and wouldn’t you know it? Two or three years later I was doing exactly what I visualized myself doing. When I want to lift a heavy weight for the first time I visualize it before I lift, sometimes for days. I see myself lifting it in my mind, by the time I get to the gym I have already lifted it a dozen times in my head. My brain already knows I can lift the weight, so I just pick it up and lift it. The barriers we have are mostly psychological. If we can get past them in our mind they are extremely easy to fulfill in real life. Choosing Your Destiny Friends, it is your choice how you wish to live your life. The world is yours for the taking. Your destiny will be what you have built it to be. If you build upon it with a bunch of “I don’t know’s” or a bunch of letting things happen rather than taking action and making them happen then that is the destiny you have to look forward to. If you have made the decision to plan out your life, rather than letting it happen, you can look forward to your plan coming to fruition. Friends, I wish you all the best. I hope you will make a plan and follow through. The world has plenty of worker-bee slaves. Let those motherfuckers have it. Your destiny is yours to choose. The choices you make today will affect your tomorrow. Make the right one. |
Nairaland / General / See This Sexy Babe Smoking Shisha by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:56am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Gurlz dt smoke Shisha are xo HOT
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Religion / Re: How Much Do You Give For Offering In Church by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:50am On Oct 06, 2013 |
ojingbe: I give 50naira o.is that 2 smallNope. Dtz the official rate 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Have You Known Or Seen A Witch/wizard Before? by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:45am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Some vultures gather near an area down the street around 12:00. Am sure they have 1st class degree in witchcraftcy |
Nairaland / General / Re: For Three Years, I Lied To My Mother I Was In UNILAG by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:41am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Lol. If na yhu, wetin yhu go do? |
Religion / Re: Where Is The Garden Of Eden Located In This World by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:40am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Persia { Iran } |
Family / Re: An Elegy To My Dad by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:39am On Oct 06, 2013 |
May the lord continue to be with yhu & yhur family. May his soul rest in peace. |
Religion / Re: Shout Out To All Atheists. Ooman, Logicboy Mazage by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:36am On Oct 06, 2013 |
nwuyag:For atheists to be redeemed. |
Romance / Re: 50 Interesting Fact About Girls You Should Know by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:26am On Oct 06, 2013 |
justplainpaul: The bottom line of this thread is that girls are selfish.Exactly 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: PICTURE: Olamide Dressed In Ankara. by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:16am On Oct 06, 2013 |
There wz a tyme when olamide waz xo Skinny. Naw luk @ him... |
Celebrities / Re: Former Beauty Queen Nike Oshinowo Welcomes Twins At 47 by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:13am On Oct 06, 2013 |
I know who the Father is oooo But I won't tell anybody. |
Celebrities / Re: She’s SEXY & She Knows IT! Actress, Yvonne Nelson Flaunts New Dresses [photo] by JameyMaxwell(m): 7:10am On Oct 06, 2013 |
eddiebruk: See as she straight like RulerDiz one is straighter than ruler. |
Religion / Re: Why Do You Cry During Prayers? by JameyMaxwell(m): 6:53am On Oct 06, 2013 |
This things come and go. I guess that era is gone. |
Religion / Re: Shout Out To All Atheists. Ooman, Logicboy Mazage by JameyMaxwell(m): 6:48am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Hmmm. I believe there is still hope. |
Religion / Re: Do You Like Going To Church Early? by JameyMaxwell(m): 6:46am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Personally, I'll rather slip all day. But God wud nt lyke dat. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Happy Birthday Idowuogbo by JameyMaxwell(m): 1:58am On Oct 06, 2013 |
Dyt:Rilli? See hw yhu jxt borrow borrow everytin. Na wa 4 yhu ooo |
Romance / Re: She Has A Blackberry And Her Boyfriend Does Not... by JameyMaxwell(m): 1:55am On Oct 06, 2013 |
mondi_cheeks: i cant upload my fav gifLol. We don't want yhu to get banned naw. Do we? |
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