coputa: When Princess Diana and her lover Dodi Fayed Died in a car crash in paris in 1997, France did not happen to her and her Lover.
When Kobe Bryant and his daughter died in Helicopter crash in California in January 2020, America did not happen to him and his daughter.
When Herbert Wigwe, his Wife, his Son and his friend died in a helicopter crash in California in February 2024, America did not happen to them.
When Liverpool Football star Diogo Jota and his brother Andre Silver lost their lives in a car crash in July this year in Spain, Spain did not happen to them.
But when accident happens in Nigeria, that's when some Nigerians will start denigrating Nigeria.
Ehenn! Nigeria has happened to them yen yen yen...
The accident involving Anthony Joshua in which he lost 2 of his friends in very unfortunate, I wish him quick recovery and may God rest the souls of those that lost their lives and give their families the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss.
The Bottomline is, accident can happen anywhere and anytime.
It has Nothing to do with Nigeria or the location.
Oyinbogyal: I’m mixed and living abroad. My mother is European and my father is Nigerian. My parents separated over 10 years ago, but they never officially divorced — they were legally separated.
The separation happened because my father did something very serious to my mother. In Europe, you cannot be removed from the family home simply because of marital problems. A married person is only forced out by the courts if something very severe happens. That is all I can say for privacy reasons, but it’s important context.
About a year after they separated, my father started begging my mother to take him back. This wasn’t occasional — it went on for years. At the same time, he was involved with a Nigerian woman from his own tribe. Behind that Nigerian woman’s back, he was still pressuring my mother to reconcile. My mum refused, but he never stopped trying.
Fast-forward to December 2025. Even this year, my father again went to my mother and asked her to get back together with him.
Then on Christmas Day, he finally admitted — not to me, not to my mother, not to all of us directly — but to my youngest sister, that he has a 9-year-old son he has been hiding from everyone. He then made my sister pass the message on to the rest of us. He could not say it to our faces himself.
What shocked me most is that this child was born about a two years after my parents separated — meaning that all the years my father was begging my mother to reconcile, he already knew he had a child elsewhere. He deliberately never told her… bear in mind this child lives in the same country as us in Europe but he is just been hidden.
When I called him to confront him, he confirmed everything. He also said something that disturbed me deeply: that he feels no real affection for the child and that the boy will never replace his “real family,” meaning us. Hearing a man speak that way about his own biological child was horrifying.
This is a fully Nigerian boy, same tribe as my father. Knowing my father’s own childhood — where he suffered badly under a cruel stepmother — I would have thought he might see himself in that child. But instead, he has completely compartmentalised him.
Meanwhile, the child’s mother still wants to marry my father. From what I can see, he continues to keep her hopeful without fully committing, while still fantasising about getting back with his legal “European wife” who doesn’t want him. He seems to keep multiple realities open at once.
What made everything click for my mother — and for me — is this: If my mother had agreed to reconcile, my father could have moved back into the house legally as her husband. Because he would not repeat physical violence, she would have had no immediate way to remove him again via legal system/court. Only after securing his place back in the home could he then reveal that he had a child all along — effectively trapping her in a marriage built on deception.
That realisation is terrifying.
I also feel deep cultural dissonance. I told my father plainly: my mother is European. This kind of secrecy is not culturally acceptable where we live. It’s not “family affairs” or something to be normalised. Trust matters differently. Consent matters differently. So he cannot assume my mother will want him after hearing the news, she is not like the Nigerian ex you had a child with - in Nigeria it is normal for a woman to beg or wait for a man to marry you, in Europe it is shameful so he needs to stop thinking my mom will accept this.
This entire situation has destroyed my respect for him. I don’t feel anger as much as disgust and shame. I’m embarrassed to even explain this to my European friends. I feel like I’ve lost faith not just in him, but in my ability to trust what I thought were shared values.
I’m now engaged to marry a loving European man, and if I’m honest, this experience has made me afraid. Afraid of repeating cycles if I marry a Nigerian man. Afraid of normalising things I don’t believe in. I don’t reject my Nigerian heritage — I love the food, the music, the culture — but when it comes to marriage, honesty, and responsibility, I feel completely disconnected from what I’ve seen modeled.
Right now, I don’t even want to be around my father. I feel like something fundamental has collapsed, and I don’t know how to rebuild respect where trust no longer exists.
I’m sharing this here because I genuinely don’t know how to process it alone, and I want perspectives — especially from people who understand Nigerian family dynamics — without judgement.
Yeah, cultural dissonance...give the man a break, he isn't the first to have a kid out of wedlock or to keep secrets
What he's done is on him, not on his heritage; yes tribal cultures are polygamous in Africa but we don't skulk around while doing it, it's notbanything to hide.
And don't think you're safe from such psychopathic behavior because you're with a European, is my main point...wait till you're fully in it with your own partner before you find out the things he's actually capable of doing to you
While I do not support physical assault, Oba Oba Ewuare has the power to banish him from our great Bini kingdom. He could have done that instead of this barbaric action of his supporters. Alternatively, Ayelala could have been used to invoke curses on the man.
2RUTHHURTS: They are correct , note that they used the small letter "j" (Lexus jeep) and not (Lexus Jeep)
jeep" (lowercase) and "Jeep" (uppercase) is capitalization, but in context, "Jeep" refers to the brand, while "jeep" often describes any similar off-road vehicle (a generic term for a 4x4), though Jeep is the company that popularized the term, offering various models like the Wrangler (rugged) vs. Grand Cherokee (luxury/family
pocohantas: Most definitely a case of wrong overtaking. My guess is he already wanted to overtake from afar. He must have been approaching the slow vehicle on the speed lane. Then at the last minute switched to the other lane. Realising the truck wasn't moving, he swerved and landed on the median. He/they were definitely on high speed. That wasn't a case of bad road.
It is a very sad one. I doubt AJ would recover from this. What would he tell their loved ones?
In the UK they overtake from the extreme right lane, that was the mistake he made that cost them two lives including his own
The Forest Guard scheme is just a backdoor to legitimize the presence of Fulani kidnappers in southern Nigeria forests and establish by extension the 'Ruga' template for absolute Fula domination of Nigeria
Until Nigerians understand that they are currently dealing with the worst set of degenerate criminals alive on earth today, these 'Lagos' dudes will continue feeding fat off the national and state treasuries
melechpilusof: What about his first three baby mamas, aren't they decent women? You don't understand what is happening. Tuface married annie at a time when Nigerians were criticizing him about his irresponsible lifestyle of having different women pregnant so he decided to go back to his first love; Annie. Annie doesn't take drugs, she only started because of the situation in her marriage, she used it to take her mind off the reality she was living with. Contrary to popular belief, 2face is not all that wealthy and rich, his fame doesn't match his financial status. Look at Donjazzy, you can tell his fame matches his financial status. Annie was covering alot of shame and making us believe that 2face is a big man. But being an immature man( like 98% of men) he got fed up, not with Annie or her drug habits(because he himself is a drug addict) but because Annie wasn't doing enough in terms of generating money for him to maintain a certain lifestyle. So he left her and decided to aim for a rich woman and because of the love charm he did(something akin to touch and follow) , the woman fell for him only to realize herself later on. Tell me why a man in his 50s is still changing women at this age ? Is it because of sexual pleasure or because of the curse of eternal immaturity? There are many men out there that are richer and more handsome than 2face yet they don't live the lifestyle of baby mamas. I am way younger than 2face, my Last relationship lasted 15yrs. I am single today because she passed on during child birth. I am not moved by childish things, if I had a woman like Annie that was covering for me without complaining, I will be 100% loyal to her and my kids. Sex doesn't move me again.
Dude check it out, all of his baby mamas are wild women, the only reason you don't hear about the exploits of Pero and Sumbo is because they aren't celebrities in their own right
Kealmin: "Nairalanders, have you guys heard the latest on the Regina Daniels and Ned Nwoko drama? It seems the rumors of a custody battle are actually true. Reports are flying around that Ned Nwoko has officially taken full custody of their two sons, Munir and Khalifa. There are even claims that Regina is being restricted from seeing them unless she meets certain 'conditions.' People are saying it’s about 'rehab,' others are saying it’s about her mother Rita Daniels. This marriage that we all thought was solid is really hitting the rocks. I found a video that explains the whole hidden story, the court issues, and the truth behind the fired nannies.
We4all: TuFace is having problems with women because it appears he is attracted to women with similar behavioural patterns. They club, drink, smoke and even do drugs.
To worsen things, he is not disciplined enough to stay away from women even for a week. His worst mistake is putting Natasha in the family way. Now, he feels trapped.
You nailed it bro
Tuface likes the type of woman that does not complain about his addiction to marijuana, and also someone who is at home with the celebrity lifestyle of clubbing and staying out all night every other night
Unfortunately such a woman invariably comes with her own addictions and terrible habits too
Kalashnikov49: Tinubu believes he has the south locked down. Bloody Joker.
This is While the North is obviously against him.
E go so shock TINUBU and his gathering of lowlifes....
After it was OBVIOUS that the North didn't even regard the incarceration of Nnamdi Kanu as a means to settle politicial scores.
Bashir Ahmad and @sarki moniker started to insult Nnamdi Kanu's stay in Sokoto prison, and a moderator on Nairaland made it newsworthy. What a Tribe!! ..very low self-esteem.
Anyway..more shocks are coming ...as the Nnamdi Kanu, angle that TINUBU wants to use to play politics has backfired.
It's SW versus everyone...
Just know that after TINUBU...e go bad for SW.
Na time.
Nobody will trust the South West again after Tinubu is done implementing his family financial agenda
Unfortunately this their little stunt with the APC judiciary has only served to boost his credibility among his tribesmen, and it will make it even more difficult to handle him and his violent rhetoric in future
Politics › Re: Nigeria Didn't Happen To Anthony Joshua by Jamie248: 5:00pm On Dec 30, 2025
