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Oyedey4u:
Before you misbehave, i know you are as young as I am, think of the worst possible thing that could happen if you yield to that temptation...



I know she must be as young as your junior sister, what will happen to you if somone did that to your sister...



Think of the school you graduated from, the girls or ladies, matured ones that you sat together to receive lectures together,



think of the wonderful dream of who your wife or your future home should be....



put this girl into the picture and how she will shatter every of this things......

(even if she didn't shatter anything)



Think of some days later in life when your son will be telling you how girls were making advances to her.

Think of what you will tell him from your experience of how you didn't yield... Or will you be proud to tell him that you yielded to that temptation....




Look above and below this post you will see the most POPULAR ADVICE of people is that you should yield....

I will liken that to COWARDICE, following the popular...
The unpopular opinion like the ones I post avove is the Best and COURAGEous for a young man like you and me...

Besides, before you say the devil push you, never have a meeting with her in private, warn her publicly in the midst of her class and friends,

deliberately punish her on account of any slight mistake or non comportment by her.... teACH her SENSE.

Humiliate her for what she has decided to do... Dont you Be a WEAKLING

you can speak to a school counsellor who can take her up but if the advise is like the popular ones, Be prepared to battle her and the non-sense in her head.

And finally, i believe no religion teaches yielding to temptation or commiting fornication with a teenager (i suppose).... Infact, it's against the #LAW to do so.....

So as a Christian (that I am, and a young man also, I will) made life and school difficult for her for any of her antics, I will Punish her sore.... For looking at me anyhow (seductively), disturbing my phone line and so on....

Punishment Idea..... Report her as disturbing you (whenever she calls), report to your immediate bosses, and inform them of your decisions to punish her, just purchase a 60 leaves notebook and a pen, write neatly on one line a sentence, that I will not disturb the phoneline of my teacher for whatever reason again, then give her 24hrs to duplicate that on all lines of the book from A-Z (cover to cover)... Take permission from the right authority for her to be excused from all classed of the day, nd give her exactly 24 hrs to return the book...

That will erase a bit of the nonsense she has learnt from those Ghanian movies...

NOTE: This is my opinion, You can follow it if you feel it is worth it.

God bless you

Haba! Guy 4 dis long epistle,the best is 2 ignore the girl,which i did my self in this kind of situation.

jenyfah:

Why dis 1 dey laff...goat!

Paulscholari:
seriously i face this challenge every school i teach, and the last one so happened that when i was just playing around with them in the class during leisure time she has me to close my eyes which i foolishly did and before i knew it her lips is on mine...the whole class went wild, and i thought my job has finished if the management should hear what just happened, i quitted the job not long afterwards since then have been reluctant to take up a teaching job...and here is another teaching job beckoning at me in lekki, i just dont understand how things like this happens.

You see,dat girl did it deliberately...all these might have been planned most especially among the female students.

And dont be surprise that the school management might be aware that the girls like ur company...cos in some schools,some student are very close to the school management,they even know when you teachers will collect salaries & how much you even take home.

huh! The truth is,many people dont know that in some of these private & even public secondary schools,some students are codedly eyeiny/dating their teachers & viceversa...just like you have in the work places where oga dey codedly dating the staffs/workers,staffs dating/eyeing each others viceversa.

Xiadnat:
Report this behavior before it gets too far. Follow the chain of commands; starting from the person above you first. Do not keep this quiet nor quit your job. I would not bother the dean or president of the school with this. Start with the head of your department/ and your ombudsman- especially you are junior faculty/staff.

Good luck. Thread carefully.

Huh! Some schools of now adays ehh! If u see the way some girls dress during holiday coaching or on some normal time when schools allow student to come to school in mufty,you will be shock.

Wow! Same thing happen to me in one secondary school.i noticed when am in this girl class,she always stare at me very disturbingly that i will try to avoid eye contact with her.so,one day she ask where i am leaving & i asked her why she wants to come to my house,did you know her response to me(which shock me to the bone marrow) was,uncle; i want to come & do biology with you(coded sex).But i told her am not her biology teacher,she said & what

I thought that was just a play/joke untill one friday b4 closing hour,i went to their class to give them english language assisgnment.after i finished writing their work,i promise that i would reward the person wit the highest mark.then,this girl said; i should give her 'a baby' as a reward if she got the highest mark.i was like in my mind 'a baby',her female classmates also support her too.but what surprised me most was when one of the female teachers came to the classroom & heard about this issue,she reply with...uncle; if she want 'a baby',give her 'a baby'
When i heard this i nearly faint...and this girl in question is the head girl.

Nina4u:
Omfg i cant eaven see a spider or cockroach with out screaming and freakin out !!!

See this one

hmmm! If only snakes arent poisonous,they would have been kept as pet after dogs & cats cos some of them are beautiful

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Why do women always fall for these lies. What deliverance are u doing in a hotel room? Yet some people will still come here and tell us they were defrauded by fake prophets. What's wrong with people?

That is the effect of black magic,it work on some & fail on others.

Jeromejnr:
Would you really love to know?

Arh!arh!! Why not

Jeromejnr:
There is nothing to day dream about.
It's there in the ancient manuscripts, bold texts.
Be free my friend!

ok! Who wrote those manuscript Are they muslims

Jeromejnr:
Yes Sire!

Keep on day dreaming!

Malakh:
continue drinking the kool-aid of CNN and the likes

I dont listen 2 western media,okey! I av my own remote source of info.my analyses are base on probability cos we dont really know what is happening on ground in those countries.but if what i read on the net are true,then my analyses are 100% on point

Malakh:
you are right.....and what do they call themselves? Christians! and we do know who fund all these islamic militants its dem dem...hegelian dialectic comes to mind

that is correct...hmmm! Isis attacks libya,iraq,syria & yemen(these are islamic countries) but didnt touch israhell or attack any major american base in the middle east,then definately they are anti-islam & we know those who are waging war on islam.

But their days are numbered cos Allah will expose them

huh! Lets start from here by mentioning all the evil doers one by one
1) roman empire(waged wars & kills lots of people)
2)british empire(also did the same as above)
3)zionist usa/israhell(presently have killed millions of innocent people all over the world) & are behind/in control of isis,alqaida,taliban,bokoharam etc.

Now,those countries above are the evil forces in these world,they are zionist jews & christians...they are anti-religion.

huh! Religion of hatred a.k.a christianity

I remember working with one pure water factory,where it contain 99% christian(most especially deeper life).they alway do their christian worshipping song every morning in which they alway by force the 1% muslim among them to participate.

But the most annoying thing is they refuse to allow me to go to mosque to pray,which makes me angry &i decided leave those venumus christian hater for good.

No wonder they use to pray for forgiveness all the time cos their heart is fill with hatred for anybody that didnt follow their religion & doings.
Hypocrites...

coldsummer:
Lol.


They truly hate western education because what they just aid made no formal sense


I think they are talking about our army trying to reclaim the places the terrorists have claimed in the interior part of Nigeria. Maybe they are saying reclaiming them won't stop them from attacking hence they have attacked Russia and France for trying to fight them.

Are u day dreaming do you think it was isis that attack russian airline.
Zionist usa/israhell/france/uk are behind terrorism all over the world via their proxies

bmos:
BH may have captured the gun from OPC

Wow! That is interesting...i think the military has a lot of explanation to make to us,on how the gun get to as far as the north on the front line of a so-called battle in sambisa

huh! Who are this propagandist decieving I wonder why most commenters didnt spot the odd inscription on the 2nd pics(the gun on the floor) with 'OPC'.

Does it means the OPC are bokoharam Or maybe its just a propaganda show by nigerian army,cos i dont think those pics are related to the so-called bokoharam insurgent

endtime pastor....mtcheeewww

this is a false flag propaganda

Trustworthiness:
I think you are misinterpreting what the op said. The op did not say you should take the opposite sex as enemies, but creating that close friendship people do today is wrong and not accepted in Islam.

Allah knows us better than we know ourselves. Allah knows what could go wrong when a boy or man and a girl or woman more to close, there is possibility you allow shaytan to deceive you into committing what Allah has forbidden.

Why will you what to make a woman an intimate friend? Except if you want shaytan to slip you to committing zina.

ok! Tell me,what is the definition of friendship to you
And let me tell you,it is not everybody that have dirty mind of zina that speaks with opposite sex.

You see,its logical....infact,Almighty Allah has given us the guide & manuel of how to relate with the opposite sex & not to disdain them...just study the quran properly.

hmmm! The quran is a very fascinating great book,when i study the verses & tafsir about the creation of adam & eve,a question always comes to my mind,why did Almighty Allah created eve(an opposite sex) after adam,why not another adam?

What i know is whatever Allah does,it is for a purpose.

huh! Op,you see it is the society that is corrupt that makes it look bad with a 'dirty mind' that when a girl & a boy are friend then it is mean to be 'sex relationship'

So,does it mean that the opposite sex should see themselve as enemies? No...we must understand that friendship is what brings people together with good intention.

Good intention is what matters...@op,do not get the message wrong that islam forbid friendship with opposite sex...no,the opposite sex isnt our enemy.just make sure your intention is clean & pure for Allah's sake

Wa Allahu a'lam (Allah knows best)

oh well! If they want to go,let them...cos we know that the zionist usa & britain(uk) are covertly behind this sudden uprising,just like how they created the so-called arab spring.

I know that there are agent provocator still waiting for their order above to cause trouble just as they did in syria & libya by shoting at both security personnel & protesters & from there things get out of hand.

The real enemies of nigeria are not only the useless idiot protesters,but the evil zionist western globalist imperialist that want this country to be balkanize just like sudan,libya,korea,syria(presently),iraq,congo etc

guyz,i think dat cup is not the original one cos it look fade & old compare to the last one

jamst2:
S. Koita (G) 84' (assist by: M. Diarra) 3 - 1

Full time Mali 3 vs bel 1

Imagine1:
These malians are good ooo, dey can carry d cup oooo

I dey fear dem ooo cos they are naturally tall & fit

Vig86:
Mali 3-bel 1

S. Koita (G) 84' (assist by: M. Diarra) 3 - 1

mali 2 vs bel 1
Goals scorers
0 - 1 16' D. Rigo (G) (assist by: J. Van
Camp)

B. Traore (G) 22' (assist by: A. Malle) 1 - 1 S. Maiga (G) 55' (assist by: M. Diakite) 2 - 1

wow! Mali 1 vs bel 1

meanwhile,it is mali 0 vs belgium 1 (first half 16mins)
sports.opera.com/?sport=soccer&page=match&id=2037428&localization_id=www