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Poseidon000:
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If I am you. I won't give room for such nonesense. She either stop or we end the marriage.

It is really pathetic that you find yourself with such woman.
I don't like divorce but I won't advice you stay with such woman who is so money centered.
It's just like sleeping in same room with a snake.
If you ain't careful. It will harm you one day.
I am 90% certain that your wife will abadon you when things goes awry(God forbid) and she strike me like a person who may cheat or betray you.

You need to seek your inner self and ask your self,if you wanna build your future with such insensitive woman.
If it comes out yes.then talk to her about such attitude and it effect on you. If she continues.

I strongly recommend you leave that woman. Even you don't feel the effect now. you can't escape it when you get past your productive days.(When you turn old man).

Please be careful with that woman. She is a potential snitch.
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jeez Are you for real? if you were to be a marriage counselor, i swear 80% of your clients will be separated in just a week after their wedding. This marriage is not up to a year for Christ's sake, its something that can be fixed.I will advice him to talk to her about how irritated he is about her nagging attitude. 2 stop being broke too often, maybe you should try to cut some unnecessary expenses down. Besides what is she bringing to the table as a woman?...that is why am against full time housewives. She should get a job...its useful in cases like this. at least when her hubby is broke, she should step in and cater for the family and herself. for those saying any unmarried person shouldn't advice, it should not be so. We may not be married but then our parents, siblings or folks are married and we av their experiences and lessons with us, besides some issues require common sense to resolve.

cozy7:
Can u and your "cameleon72" Fed let us hear word, I'm also AA and my blood group is A+, now u can see I'm far better than u 2 combined........yet I'm not bragging.

u just bragged.. and why do u think u are better? ..we are o+..universal donors with strong immune system ...simply the best (stole that line from binatone electronics)

Cameleon72:
Lord thank you for making me unique. Blood group O-; genotype AA...

me too

sonofananimal:
DON'T YOU HAVE A CREATIVE MIND TO FORM A WORD

AND WHY ARE YOU BEHAVING LIKE AN IMBEC1LE
DID I MENTION ANY ONE SISTERS?


NO INSULTS INTENDED, BUT YOU ARE A BIG EEEDIOT


A VERY FOOLISH WOMAN


Fvck off my mention

Use your creative mind that's if u av any for productive and better things instead of forming stupid words son of an animal . Who are the nigerian women..if not our sistas, female cousins and nieces..forgot u are too daft to even think towards that direction...a foolish woman and u still mentioned me...it is either am too important for u to ignore or your overblown foolishness just can't tell u are losing it..

400billionman:
Assuming i ask you to marry me now, can you promise me that you wont demand full traditional and church wedding among other forms of extortion only from my pocket before you pack into my house ?

Now, what will be your own monetary contribution to those ceremonies ? What if i dont have the required N1m to offset the ceremonies ? Reply ASAP.

...Wow..so there is now a fixed price for marrying now (1 million), didn't know of that ...If i have the finance and love the man am intending to marry, i don't see why i can't foot some of the marriage bills...anything worth doing is worth doing well. if u wanna marry a woman, den do all the necessary wahala...as far as u know the value of whom you goin home with..

sonofananimal:
OUR NIGERIA MEN ARE SHYING AWAY FROM OUR NIGERIA WOMEN BECAUSE OUR NIGERIA WOMEN LOVE TAXING OUR NIGERIA MEN BASE ON REASON BEST KNOW TO OUR NIGERIA WOMEN. BUT NOW OUR NIGERIA MEN HAVE OPENS THERE EYES AND SEE THE TRUTH THAT OUR NIGERIA WOMEN ARE NO LONGER DATEABLE OR MARRIAGEBLE. WE OUR NIGERIA MEN HAVE FOUND A BETTER ALTERNATIVE.

So marrying a white is a better alternative bah...like who says that crap ? And please there is no word like "dateable" in the dictionary...No insults intended, Nigerian women including your sisters are not good for marriage ...So poor man no dey marry for naija again bah...mtschewww

mascot87:
Yorubas been pacesetters since 45AD. God bless that guy

Ahaa..see WASH. pace setters ko setting pace ni

kennyddonn:
hehehe, just checked, u are a female am sorry o........but honestly nah this kind children go fine but nothing dey head....

Hahaha..not always true...we are 4 girls in my family and mum made she was making our hair even when it hurts...though we loved the hair making ish...Bottom line we are all pretty and intelligent

CSTR2:
I hope you know the most subservient group of people to colonial rule in southern Nigeria were yorubas.
The most fearful and cowardly.

Please Ilekeh doesn't know the meaning of ''subservient'', can you break it down for him?

loomer:
In summary......

Steal while you can

In summary......

Save for the rainy days...Invest wisely

kennyddonn:
why suffering d little girl
must u show to us u have money to manage d hair
I don't know how some yeye parents think
all in d name of fashion and beauty
u carry this kind thing for d gal head
who dey look d gal sef......abi one shetima don dey eye her ni...



yeye......

Bad belle of the highest order...e b like baldness use u do partner...please free the parents...its their child...their business.

GodblessNig247:
Ur thought is ingrained with trick of the light. What I expected u to say is that God should not allow us to face such dilemma and quandary that is above our carrying capacity in the context to the aforementioned.

For every dilemma or trial we face be it big or small, the power to overcome has already been given to us the day we accepted Christ as our lord and personal saviour. If God doesn't allow you face trials as christains, then how can one say he is a true christian. Gold must pass through furnace for it to come out pure.

EVILFOREST:
Yeaaaa

They should wait for YOYO bitters ULTIMATE SEARCH

or ALAMO bitters ULTIMATE SEARCH.

Even ORIGIN bitters

or better still let them wait for AGBO ultimate search

cutiedave:
most of dem ar ibo guys....wetin com do yoruba nd hausa guys...

amala/oily ewedu soup and tuwo shinkafa no fit give the kain strength wey akpu and ofe oha or ofe onugbu dey give na.

GodblessNig247:
what abt if that person's husband becomes impotent and can not have sex with her husband. Do u prefer she divorces her husband? u know thats not biblical or you prefer she cheats on her husband? In that kind of precarious situation what do u expect the 23years old christian to do? Pls just be objective and dispassionate in ur reply. Thank u pastor

Well marriage is for better and for worse..she should decide for herself if she loves him as a person or his manhood only. Besides who says an impotent man cannot give his wife pleasure...I will advice her to stay close to God and not give in to temptation but be faithful to her marriage covenant, her husband and Christ.

OgidiOlu3:
Exactly! The guy just couldn't imagine being an idiot's baby daddy.

But he could see himself screwing an idiot and putting his seed inside an idiot bah

Xsenga:
LORD PLS FOR.........

You are forgiven...Go and sin no more.

All these guys wey dey dodge am, una gulity? ...hmm @ op u 4 tell us say u b God P.A for punishment issues. God is a merciful God but that doesn't mean sinners won't get punished. The punishment is just a way of correcting us

Self service is a sin, whether is committed by either the single folks or the married ones. The Bible teaches us in 1 Cor 10 vs 31 that to, whatever we do, be it eating or drinking , we should do it all for the glory of God”. If you cannot give God glory for something, you should not do it. If a person is not fully convinced that an activity is pleasing to God, then it is a sin: “Everything that does not come from faith is sin” (Romans 14:23). Further more, let us remember that our bodies have been redeemed and belong to God. “Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your body” (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). This great truth should have a real bearing on what we do with our bodies. In light of these principles, the conclusion that masturbation is a sin is biblical. Clearly, masturbation is not glorifying to God; it does not avoid the appearance of immorality, nor does it pass the test of God’s having ownership over our bodies. So endure the KONJI, you can. It is a matter of discipline.

Truluvguy:
you all should watch out for Yinks-Links a name coming to dead all these names.

Yink-liks, sounds like a name for a pure water factory

butanep:
It's simple. Two drivers can't drive one bus. One must be a driver and the other a conductor.

That's the logic.

So u think her education is not an edge for her ?

simba1:
Hmmm! Maybe Unizik denied you admission the 4th time.

Actually am running a masters programme in Unizik, so i dunno which admission u talking of..

D food name no be here o...keep learning Mrs Churchill....if u are in charge of his belly den his heart is all yours.

Yoruba actress and Big boobs...seems like a criteria for them to be featured in movies.

Next

Akeelahtunez:
Madam are u an eye witness 4d family??
Av u married or know what being+staying married is
Are u telling mi u wud packout of d house d instance ur hubby makes a flaw
Cus my mum was beaten by my dad even she was hospitalized but never left her matrimonial Home,and d latter end my dad realized he was wrong and he shdnt a beaten her,u need 2c d way I saw my dad cry like a baby cus of what he did,from dat day d beating stopped only dat I still lost my ma 2death cus by sickness...so don't tell mi what is not our mother's av endured worst cased yet dey still av a happy family

..Your parents had a supposed "happy family" because she chose to be the sacrificial lamb. I won't pack out of the house if my hubby commits a flaw, but then there are flaws that would warrant me to leave the house for some time to think things through. But lemme ask u a question...no insults intended and my humble respect to ur dead mother, wot if at that time ur father was beating ur mother, she died in the process..will u still be singing the same tune?. Am not saying she should leave her home but rather he should give her time to think and figure herself out biko.

GENT95:
wetin i know b say marriaqe na beta 4 worse

Remember these words d day u get married

rafeelly:
lmaoooo I thought same ooo... they went there to snap selfies, kiss , smooch and take flight back to Nigeria... virgin ma d*ick

Anything is POSSIBLE

hensben:
You don't even know what happened, you're just been sentimental. I mean, the guy has apologized what else does she want. She is not even remorseful towards her kids.

See, there is something we are not seeing here. This woman has lived with this man for practically 8 years of her life, if she is having a hard reconciling with her husband, then there must be something she is seeing that we are not. Let her take her time and figure out what she wants for herself and her kids and then make a decision. Its not all about apology...is he really sorry and remorseful?

laplace12:
Is she supposed to be begged to go and look after her children?


It is not about Emeka Ike, It is about the kids. How would You feel if your mum left You at That age and ran away with a boyfriend?

Na u b d boyfriend wey she run away with ni? ..If he really wants to reconcile with his wife, den he should do away with getting cheap media attention and deal with his problem like a man. What is the rationale of posting him feeding his children picture online..dat's crap. He should go and talk to his wife and they should work out things if there is still something to save and not all dis online gimmicks.

ifedayoifedapo:
As a matter of fact, no reasonable and real mother will leave her kids under whatsoever circumstance. Not even with a man you are claiming is irresponsible. In short I can't call her mother

Real mothers stay with their kids no matter what.

She sef go get skeleton in her cupboard abeg

Do you know if she tried getting those kids away from him but maybe she was not successful since she is with the other two. And u saying no reasonable and real mother will leave her kids is crap. Wot if she is seeing hell in the marriage and d man won't allow her leave with the kids? Are you saying she should face the worst and what if she dies in the process? the same man will get married to another woman to take care of the kids. My dear, there are scenarios that could make a woman leave her kids, at least a reasonable man will take care of his kids if the wife is not around. The thing is let us (women) always pray not to see the worst because our reactions may be worst. Na person wey wear shoe know where e dey pain am o

[quote author=tpiah01 post=37700737][/quote]that is the fun of literature. i don't think the op meant a real register...