₦airaland Forum

Addiction is a very bad disease..it can make one do stupid things. Just pray he is out of it for good. There is nothing worse than going back to one's vomit.

HerexG:
That makes the both of them lower animals, why giving birth to a child you can't support, even the hen in my backyard hustles and support her chicks all by herself

so you are advocating abortion?

opeaceo:
I think we pry too much in "celebrities" private lives, most of you don't have a first hand info, only, "a neighbor or a sister or a friend said" , why hasnt the wife issued a blanket statement saying this and this is the reason for me leaving my husband?? Allow them settle their ish privately or publicly.

dats cos she is not a celebrity...what has she got to lose? Emeka ike is the one ranting all over the media because he is a public figure and needs to maintain his public image which is already marred with his wife beating/divorce issues.

[quote author=omolami post=37693006]If a woman packs out of my house at her own volition, I will forbid her for life. That marriage ends the moment she leaves. Reason is that before a married woman could decide on her own to abandon her home especially when kids already exists between the couple, it means she has got alternative for the hubby. There must be a man wooing her already and she cannot wait to pack to the man's abode I will let her go for life no matter what. I advice Emeka to forget a woman whom he has pleaded with severally and still refusing to return. There is a man behind her, and he wants her badly possibly because he has tasted the forbidden fruit and he likes it. She can kill him.(Emeka) if care is not taking[/quote...For a married woman to leave her husband's house out of her own volition should not just be tagged to the reason that she has gotten someone better than her husband. There are several factors that could cause that. This is a woman that became a full house wife because of her husband's busy schedule in order to train her four kids. For her to run away, that means she has seen hell. Is it not better she leaves the house before he kills her from his beating. Do you think this is the first time they are having issues? Life is too short to lead an unhappy life...Am not advocating divorce, but in cases where its not just working..Omo all man need to find im way.

aim5:
I would bury my face in that asss for eternity if I had the chance..

Ewhhh...Gross

dancok:
I sha say I know u,don't ask me how,thank God.*lol*

...how u take know me...lemme guess, u stayed in the boys hostel close to the corpers lodge bah ?

chino11:
UNIZIK is the best, no industrial action, no cultism! Best academic calender, best lecturers, best student!

Great Zikites..Great!

Story for the gods..for their undergraduate programmes, it is true they are fast...but d post graduate programme, even snail fast pass am. person go use 3 years or more than do masters programme 4 UNIZIK, pgd 2 years...PhD..hmmm, till thy kingdom come ...best lecturers ko, best student ni..keep deceiving urself.

GabrielSuswam:
I schooled at ANSU Uli graduated in 2008 Accounting class....Back then we no dey kill eke.. Obodo Okoli and Ubahudara I miss those good days....#Nyben

Yeah..that is true, to the extent it started entering our pots, cupboards, corners and even our rooms too. What we do then is to pour kerosene to chase it away or call an indigene of the place to remove. Though there was this guy den in my lodge, he removes the snake with his bare hands and he is not from uli. Though the snake dey like frequent d guy room die sha.

muscoliscious:
She can only model few product but that will be the ones nollywood actresses n musicians dnt want,she can't compete in professional modeling again,i didn't say she cnt go bk to school,but taking care of a kid n studying with her status, you must be kidding me

U dey planet earth at all ...who says one can't go take care of a kid and still go to school. All she has to do is wean the baby for some months and if she has an understanding mother and sisters. They could her take care of the baby while she is attending lectures and all school stuffs. When the baby gets older, enroll her in a good day care and problem solved. All she needs is a supportive family, finance and a school close to her environs..she could even do part-time if she wish.

melzabull:
He is now a wonderful Nigerian? you are no longer shouting 'Igbo' as usual? anuofia nwuru anwu.

useless, unintelligent yeroba iddiott

Wow...that was harsh..u are better than dis o nwanne mmadu.

katerine7:
lasgidi all d way

I dey tell u babes. Dos nostalgia feelings i get when travelling back to lagos after some months in the east especially during my undergraduate days ..i won't trade it for anything. Once i don see all dos yellow and black danfo with all dos yoruba fuji music blasting loud from speakers and go-slow...i know say i don enter lasgidi.

Funny enough, d senate hall and the office (Council Affairs Division) where i did my NYSC compulsory one year primary assignment in 2011 was in the same building. I sha miss my days in AAUA especially my boss Mrs Akinnawonu

muscoliscious:
You ruined your career,your education we re not sure of it just for a man who might end up marrying someone you are more beautiful than, it's not worth it, thank God am not an illegitimate child my mum n dad would have regret it

That's a big fat lie...she has not ruined anything. How old is she anyway? there is still enough time for her to go to school, achieve what ever she wants if she is focused and still end up marrying a man that will love her even though she had a child out of. Yea thank God u are not, i still thank God for illegitimate children across the globe because some have ended up becoming source of joy and happiness to their parents and the environment they found themselves.Better to be an illegitimate child than an aborted one.

sameolg616:
its religion and western education,quest for material tins killing our tradition and marriage....see the way pple just jump in and out of marriages nowadays wit lil or no regard....i heard trying to divorce ur wife through the court procedure is even the worse...
i swear,if couples were subjected to swearing at okija shrines...marriages would last....just imagine swearing by the shrine say "make i die if i leave my wife"...or a wife swearing "may i die if i cheat on him" then marrriages wld last cuz the gods aint smiling and u would drop dead immediately..
nowadays,pple dont read or know the terms and conditions to wat they do...
besides,catholic knight...shd the church approve of dissolution of marriages....me self,i wan know "prof"

The catholic church does not approve of divorce, rather annulment. this annulment can only happen when cases such as adultery, incest, mental incapacity of any of the partners, forceful marriages arises. Even if couples swear at okija shrine, it will never make a difference. Haven't u seen people eating sacrifices meant for all these ''powerful gods'' and at the end of the day nothing happens to them. its a thing of the mindset.

sameolg616:
i guess ur one of those bitter single ibo ladies already clocking 40..going by ur debate wit kevinberry(the dude was on point)ask tonto herself,she doesnt even know what those 3 weddings mean besides EFIZZY!
its obvious u av a low i.Q...let me ask u a simple question...wats worse than an "olodo"...guess u cant figure it out....DEAD MUGUN!
if she maintains her on-screen personality,they wld av problems...as it wld be subject to rumors,trials....was wat i meant.
prove me wrong abt the bride price....but first state ur state and local govt so it can be open debate wen u lie...

wow 40...dts 15 years to my age..hmmm. As for bin bitter of course am not, am 25 and enjoying every bit of it...av u asked tonto to conclude that she doesn't what dos wedding means? pfff..a low IQ..wow...dead mugun ...no big deal. Allow them plan their lives...if at the end of the day it doesn't work out, den fine. it is not the first neither separation will it be the last. about the bride price, the list u gave was outdated, the one with porsche, bentley, range rovers and mansions at high brow areas is the current list

ABIOLAXYZ:
Y do ladies spread their legs when they know they are not ready?

Why do guys get ladies pregnant when they know they will not be responsible for such pregnancy?

Sixteen2012:
The power of make up....... Later they will say it's not good for men and women to sleep in same room until marriage. See advanced scam. She must compensate that man.

Are you trying to justify living together before marriage? compensate fire... is he that dumb that he cannot tell d diff between an ugly and fine gal, even with 10 shades of make up.

mummydirect:
Tonto dear, dis ur hubby wey do face Like asari dokunbo junior brother wey no dey smile, na waoooo. Any way congrats to both of una, please, tell ur husband mak him laugh small because bible say person wey see wife wey him go marry, c better tin and find favour from baba God but dis ur husband no do face like person wey find better thing. Abeg, beg ham make him smile small.

(Likes)

marriage na serious matter..dats why d guy no dey laff

kevinberry:
Yeah,am an olodo,you a genius forgot that each type of marriage has specific rules attached to it,church marriage should be built on christ words and the bible,why courts marriage have its own rules,so is traditional marriage...so educate me...miss genius....to folks like you,if you don't do all the marriage plus going to okija shrine to endorse your marriage,the marriage has not complete,you can ass well tell me that any woman can put on a white dress on her wedding day(virgin or not).....

Am listening,educate me...proff

Well for your information, going to Okija shrine to endorse my marriage will never be an option for me because am a strong catholic chistain well grounded in my faith. Secondly, the only difference between tonto dikeh's marriage and that of an average nigerian gal is the court marriage which some gals are even doing right now. Are you now saying that because these type of marriages has rules, that one should just pick one?..don't see how possible that is. As for the white dress issue for non-virgins, back den it was an issue but in this era, nobody cares about those. Finally i apologize for calling u an olodo, am not a genius but i hope to be some day.

sameolg616:
my boss said the yorubas living in lagos and abroad live oyinbo lives....is the same reason most ibo gals now marry yoruba guys...our culture aint as difficult as them ibos...
i wonder ow much those ibo community wld have made a brother pay?i hear it cost millions and even keke marwa,phones must be involved..(jesu)
well i hope he enjoys it while it lasts....tonto dikeh doesnt really strike me as a "property" that can be "owned".....its best "leased" or "rented"..i trust the smart gal to find her way after having a child to regain her freedom..take a look at all the sexiest/daring actresses before her (eucharia anobi,barbara odoh)and wonder how all the leases expired...there was no true acquisition!
not that she is really a good actress like that,her sexuality drives her acting roles...and that is where the couple may start having problems...she wld have to reduce or forfeit that style of acting except her husband doesnt mind...
better yet,it may end up as another dakore story and she would finally give up acting if he provides better options...
i wish her good luck...

and you are God to say the marriage will not last. People forget that their comment on forum reveal the kind of people they really are. Will it take anything from you if u wish her good in her marriage? Must you compare her marriage to that of eucharia and barbara? If they have problems they will fix it , after all their union will not be first to have experienced problems or even the last. And for the bride price, we not only collect keke marwa and phones, u must also bring 20 jets,30 porsches, 100 range rovers amongst all other things. Shallow minded being.

kevinberry:
She did church wedding
Court wedding
And traditional wedding

This is pure ignorance @work you and your hubby,una be olodo,how are you guys going to merge the laws guiding marriage after doing court,church and traditional wedding....na divorce go end am...no doubt about it

i wish u what u wish her..u are the biggest olodo and primitive human being that has ever walked Mother Earth. Since u don't know that people can do all mentioned above iff they so wish. Mean while she never do church wedding, no dey fast forward.

i don't know why some people are too quick to criticize and slander people without giving a hoot. Some of the females ranting rubbish may have done far worse than what tonto dikeh has done even as an actress...d guys are not left out. Some of u too have done crazy things that may make one go deaf but then because nobody sees you...u claim to be a saint. At least she knows she is imperfect, her hubby knows and still loves her despite all. Even if we can deceive people around us, we can't deceive our selves, our conscience and God who sees the heart of all men. Quit the holier than thou attitude plzzz.

Holuwakemmy16:
Now that u r married plz stop taking too much alcohol coz I know is ur second food

and urs is amebo, backbiting and hating.

Dogs are very lovely and friendly companions if u get close to them. just don't let them smell your fear and when being barked at, avoid body movements that may seem like an attack on them. Though sometimes they could be possessive. I remember beating Ella, our female dog for staining my washed clothes with mud while she was playing, her male partner who is my favourite in the house jumped out of nowhere and barked at me ferociously and ended the bark with their squeaky sound when they know they av effed up real bad or locked out of the main house. Would love to have dogs, monkeys, parrots and cats and maybe harmless snakes too :oin my own house with my hubby someday. yeah am an animal lover

hedonistic:
For those who should know, is it lawful to allow your dog roam free in a public space? In my Estate one fool who lives close to my house is in the habit of unleashing his dog late at night to roam all around our avenue. Some of us are night crawlers and on a few occasions, I have encountered the dog and had only managed to pass by without incident. I have vowed that if ever, God forbid, this dog injures somebody one day, I will not only make sure that I butcher it to death, but I will also burn the owners house down. Nothing like sorry will be entertained.

If you like your stupid dog, keep it within your own compound instead of constituting a nuisance with it and endangering the lives of other law abiding citizens!

oga no be fight nah

Death

It can kill. I remember how I almost died when I went 4 months without _sex
If I had stayed a further 1week without it, I'd be dead by now

Thanks to Raq

hmm...exaggeration of the highest order..death ko life ni.

Hahaha....being chased by alsatian dogs was an everyday experience for students of hopebay college, okoko annex living around afromedia estate, mebamu, salami areas using the short cut road by jumping the fence close to the compound where these dogs are . The owner of the dog, Ikey was also a student of my school, a friend and classmate to two of brother's friends, we always come back from school together. So, on that fateful evening, we were coming back from school and the next thing ikey ran to their gate and told us to run because he wants to release the dogs from their chains. We thought he was joking and we told him he cannot. He said okay then, before we could say jack robinson three huge dogs came out and started pursuing all of us. I was the only gal and could not run fast because of my skirt, heels and the fact that the ground was sandy. I was calling my brother's name so he could help me, not knowing he was already 5 miles ahead with his usain bolt legs (oso ndu) including d oda boys with him. I ended up falling down and the dogs jumped over me and continued chasing my brother and his friends. I got the last laugh and we ended up not talking to ikey for some time. #memories#

TOBIeee68:
embezzledment cant end in nigeria cuz we ar born wit it, only God can save us o

point of correction...nobody is born with embezzlement, its a bad habit that can be picked up from one's environment...there are still honest people that will never take bribe or abuse any position giving to them by stealing funds.

MrCork:
...so women shud start usin Pepper spray juss becuz u cant find man...abi?....GO & SIT DOWN SOME WERE JOR!!!! (no oofeinse)

is either u smoked mess or u are suffering from lack of comprehension ni

i think its easier to move on if the parties in the deal don't have a relationship or bond, d woman is her step sister. the lady should just let sleeping dogs lie and look for ways to sustain the family she already have...that is all.

Kachisbarbie:
When you give people your eggs/sperm... you move on, don't go 'bout seeing yourself in the child. The sister is obviously not going to pay, no matter what I type_ so I am focusing on the plaintiff.

The stepsis made a promise: she didn't fulfil it. Life goes on.
If you have an effective debt recovery method, please advise her and lemme be.

law of karma is not all about nigeria or country, its about nature paying u back in your own coin ..so bro it does exist

bettercreature:
You really believe law of Karma is real? i pity you my sister,There is no such in NIGERIA its a lies

insert the eye of a one week old owl

lekjons:
what can i insert in my pot of stew to retrieve the sauce, if it got burnt and turned the contents to charcoal??

reply needed urgently!