₦airaland Forum

nwanna89:
The GDP of anambra state is not the same as france, naura and israel. The system can lead to abuse especially in our country where an imo ot abia indegene can claim to be anambra too. As i said, i feel the couple's plight but govt cannot sustain such an initiative.

This is not just a state issue but the nation as a whole, the man is just one of a thousand people with this same plight. Is Ghana's GDP higher than that of Nigeria or even Rwanda yet these countries provide public health service for its citizens. The system should be made public and accessible from every where even if one is not an indigene of that state.

Freemanan:
So you are saying they didn't know the woman was carrying more than one child?

Before the scan can show how many babies she is carrying in her womb, the pregnancy must have progressed to maybe 13 or 14 weeks...though these scan results sometimes are fake. So even if she knows, what would she have done, abort the babies growing in her womb?

OPCNAIRALAND:
This is Iboland...idyot!
There are baby factories left and right and babies are traded on cash n carry, if he has problem caring for all he should sell one for the other two to live.....afterall this is what Ibos do naturally. You use the womb as a factory for commercial profit.

C'mon.. he need.to find a buyer quick...carry them.go Aba comr back with cash.

You know it would have been better if your mother had dashed you to a beggar on the street for free because it obvious she has one useless son that should have been discarded years ago. What a WASTE.

Freemanan:
Lack of plan for their offsprings. They know they couldn't take care of a baby, and they still went on to bring babies into the world. Sheer irresponsibility.

These people are just average poor Nigerians with little or no educational background to reason to that extent of having plans for their unborn offspring. Me, you and some Nigerians were fortunate to be educated, plan our future including that of your unborn kids, be the best we can be in our career life and all that sophisticated or modern thinking aspirations...some others are not fortunateto have that and we will always have this kind of people in our society, Africa been what it is talk more of Nigeria where poverty is profound. Provisions have to be made for them.

Freemanan:
If they had given birth to just one baby, would they have been able to take care of him / her?

I know its easier taking care of one baby than three babies, but if it happens that they can't take care of just one baby, that's when we can chastise them. Its possible the man has a means of livelihood but may be it is not enough to take care of his babies and the wife at the long run....hence the BEGGING.

Freemanan:
Lady Jane I agree and also think along same line. But this case is rather that of sheer irresponsibility rather than negligence of the government. The couples should carry their cross. Even if the government wants to step in, it is out of their benevolence and not a responsibility.

Its not like he was making demands on the government, he was only soliciting for their help..If he was capable, do you think he would call on the government? please can u explain how irresponsibility on the couple's part caused their predicament?

Freemanan:
I really think it is sheer irresponsibility on the path of the parties involved. Agreed that government have their fault which led to this, But this act is a direct fault of the couple. Instead of government to donate to this, the migrants in Europe should enjoy the funds...

Truth!

How is it their fault that they gave birth to triplets? Is it the woman that made her eggs to be three?. What happened to them was just irony of life where the poor are blessed with more kids than they can provide for while the rich ones don't even have one to start with. What the government should just do is to help men like this by providing free health care services and providing them a means of livelihood to take care of the family.

Sweet

Freemanan:
Nigerians are too emotional and illogical sometimes! Everything should be Done by the government! Soon government will have to take us to the toilet!

Nobody is saying government should do everything but rather the necessary things.Will nigeria be less of a country if it provides free health care, education and jobs for its citizen. It is a shame seriously, nigeria is not even among the countries that offer quality public health care for its citizens while as countries that it is better than such as rwanda, ghana and mauritus are doing such.

nwanna89:
If govt gives money to everyone who does not expect twins or triplets, then govt will be setting a very bad precedent and will get broke over time. I feel bad for the couple but they cannot say what govt gave them is too small. If they cannot take care of all three babies, they can put one or two up for adoption.

If the tables were turned, will you give up one or two of your kids for adoption because you can't take care of them? Besides the government cannot go broke over time because d percentage of people with this kind of problem is low. Apart from that, are there not countries who provide or spend more for their citizens in terms of free education, health care and other amenities such as France, Naura and Israel,have they gone broke?

Youngpo413:
keep deceiving yourself.

Keep minding your business

Valeree:
some of the dogs don't have tails

yea, dos are boerboels

Mary did u know by Mark Lowry...it is a christmas song but its beautiful.

inevitableme:
This b.itch is a wh*re. Same yeebos Ediot. Givin Naija Bad Image since *1845*

Tribal biggotry don use you sew agbada finish ..Go get a life bro and stop exposing your lack of home training and stupidity here. What good name have you given to your family talk less of nigeria...mtschewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

wow..see breed na..d dogs are looking healthy.

danbrowndmf:
cool.haven't seen u here b4,ur new here?

Not really..registered 2013 but started being active last month.

hulega:
HMM...LIES

u are entitled to your opinion sir

danbrowndmf:
Janefracisa that's ur real name?

yeah

danbrowndmf:
your mind fit don change b4 then

How do you mean?

danbrowndmf:
correct. Which category are u?

When am ready to date, i will date for companionship.

Omotayor123:

hahaha..na true na...olodo moneybag is on a long thing o

thelish:
In most cases, the money is d number one thing for babes. Na d way u spend for dem pass, love dey later enter. Some might be working, but they still feel the guy is entitled to caring for their needs. U see babes managing a cheating n useless boyfriend the guy is spending on them. The most painful part is dat some are from well to do families. When I was dating my hubby in school, I know how many stroking I take from friends cos I was helping out with cash. they said I was a disgrace to womanhood. And I ask them if boyfriend don turn automatically to my dad, to cater for me. Babes will always listen to a guy driving range rover evoque, weda Na him get am or not, than listen to a guy dat is trekking. Abeg I don tire to type. anybody doubting, should go out there n do d survey.

That a gal stopped to listen to a guy driving range rover does not mean she will later end up dating him except she likes him or wants something else from him. I could rememba there was a day i was coming back from school during my undergraduate days and this jeep pulled up next to me, only for one onistha nwa nna to come out and started murdering english in d name of toasting. there and there i told him am not interested, he had the money but was so full of himself and an olodo. This is just one out of many but all am trying to say is that women are enticed by what they see and will want to answer the one with range rover dan a guy trekking but answering is different from actually dating d person. Please people should stop stereotyping.

danbrowndmf:
what's your point exactly?

its clear...some gals date for money but definitely not 90% while some date for other reasons.

danbrowndmf:
so all those Nigerian actress who say dy can't date poor man ,u are more mature than them?





E ye ma so I so Ku so mir

U should know maturity is not about age. Those actress, some of them are just high class ashis using the industry to showcase themselves. While some are so use to living above their means and so they need a money bag that will also foot their bills. Some still date rich men because others are dating rich dudes too. There are some career ladies that are earning big but still av so many rich boyfriends...so sometimes its not all about age,status etc but the issue of materialism,greed and trends that is in the system.

Emilyhills:
Make I check your picshure godu.

wetin u wan use pikshur do?

Omotayor123:
But most ladies tend to see money first before any other things..

Its not like they see money first. Everybody wants to be comfortable and so a gal would always want to go a man that can satisfy her emotionally, financially, socially and mentally. There is a big difference between a normal gal and runs gal/oloshos. Runs gals tend to see money first. For me ..I see intelligence and smartness. Intelligent guys dey trip me die.

otunsman:
It goes in both ways.It's just that girls form to be loyal while they are not.

There are still loyal gals out there...though the percentage may be on the low side and i tell you, its reducing by the second due to some factors ranging from tagging having many boyfriends as being a hot chick, materialism, trends etc. God help our generation.

awhh..who knows what they have been through as lovers...its worth it when u finally end up with your better half.Wish them a married life full of bliss, happiness and joy and also strength through their trying times...same goes for all the married couples in nairaland and for the single ones like me and us ..may we meet our better half at God's destined time and for those who are going to be tying the knots very soon...may God be with you and see u through it all to the end.

otunsman:
Ladies love catching fun with different guyz.Don't expect a lady to be loyal to you alone.

wow..hmm, so men hate catching fun with different gals right and they are loyal to just one gal? pfftt wot a big joke. You know you can't eat your cake and have it, if u are not a loyal partner, then you have no right to expect loyalty from your partner.

FatIjeomaOkolie:
Igbos are born criminals

You are born a criminal and not Igbos..can u imagine such a dumb generalization. I am proudly Igbo and am not a criminal, so also for many of us out there working our ass out to put food on our table.

2/10...Being too muscular is a turn off for me. I prefer guys with normal body, not fat o.

Poseidon000:
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Lol..I really had to laugh on the embolded. Anybody who knows me, know that I am a realist.


There is no difference btwn Op's wife and this woman>>www.nairaland.com/2583131/prince-james-uche-sick-bed


Betrayal is not all about finance,but finance instigate the other form of betrayal. Any money centered person, is very dangerous to be with.


I can't be with such person,even he/she happen to be my brda or sis.
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Hmm so you advised him to leave his wife and what next?? move on to another woman who may b another gold digger? (shebi na una say all nigerians gal na money dem need from una)...so who is kidding who They should try and work things out first, before considering quitting. So if ur sister or brother like money, u go ''de-sibling'' am, it is wa o.