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simiolu1:
Our break-up wasn't caused by health related issues. I was the one that messed up! To be candid, I have decided that when pepper rest; I'd do something small to show her that I appreciate all she did for me.

There was a time she wanted to come spend a week with me in school because I had an episode. Another time, I had an accident in school that left me unconscious for over 8 hours. The friend with me told me anytime I regained some level of consciousness, I would tell him to inform her that I had an accident before passing out. The guy teased me die!!! Those episodes made me see the how illnesses affect the people close to us-our family, friends and loved ones.

That is why I believe nobody has the right to keep any health-related challenge from someone they want to marry because of fear of rejection. That is not love; it is blackmail.

Topics like these should make front page but the mods would rather us read about gossip and entertainment.

awwhhhh!!!!!!! She sounds like a keeper.

See ya round head like coconut. Why you go and mess up something good?

Lolz.....

You have valid points though.

crackhaus:
You already begun having sex with him from the beginning.
I honestly don't know how reducing the number of times you have sex to the barest minimum will get you closer to God, it's obvious you're deceiving yourself.

You either quit the relationship and remain celibate till marriage or you continue having sex. It really doesn't matter if it's just once a week or once a month. God cannot be mocked.

Pastor in Training...

lowkey0147:
my dear, i only have one word for you "KOLEWERK"
you are looking for a guy around 29yrs upward, that means ur sister is going into her thirties and you are looking for an unfortunate fellow to come and buy ur family's product that is already outdated, let her sit in ur father's parlour... I say again "KOLEWERK"

TueMack:
Nigerian paypal account only allows you to pay, it does not allow you to withdraw. So, looking at that, it's possible that Zemandi might be able to pay into your paypal account, but you won't be able to withdraw it. You can withdraw by using some of the alternatives I mentioned. Or you may just leave you earnings on your Zemandi account until you travel to America very, very soon.

Make sure you put your best into your eval assignment because it will determine whether or not you can continue working with Zemandi.

simiolu1:
Op, I admire your strength; these type of questions are not easy for people to answer as it makes you see life and marriage from another point of view.

I am SC (a rare mutation of the SS genotype) and I used to have episodes a lot. Got addicted to pain killers at some point but stopped because I had ulcer (I no wan die as a small boy na). I used to be secretive about my condition but I told the girl I was dating then in school. I remember one night; I couldn't sleep because my spine was aching. She called me because of Xtracool but ended up singing to me for close to one hour (she had a damned good voice). That is the only time in my adult life that I ever cried to a gf. The pain, the songs and the love just made me loose it. She woke up her mum to pray for me too. Interesting thing is my elder brother left the mattress for me to sleep on the floor because I was just writhing in pain and disturbing his sleep.

After that episode, I made up my mind never to tell or call her during another episode. It wasn't just fair mehn. So right now before things get serious between any lady and I; I ask for their genotype and talk about my medical history too. Most don't know about the existence of SC or even AC so I just go ahead and give them the lecture.

However, I can't marry someone with a terminal illness or HIV; but if the illness starts after we get married, we'll face it together (though I pray this doesn't happen). I also can't marry someone who is not AA. I'm not going to inflict the pain of being SC on any of my offspring.

Touching story.

So, you let that babe go cuz she wasn't AA right? hmmm.... that's a tough one. The babe must have really cared about you for her to wake her ma up to pray for you.

Interestingly, I didn't know about the existence of AC genotype till i met my ex. It's really not that common so, people don'e get to talk about it. AS and AC is a bad combo too..

May you get your heart's desires.

TueMack:
Someone sent me this very question by email. I don't know if you are in Nigeria, because withdrawal is not possible on Nigerian PayPal accounts. See my reply to the person below:

Hi,


Unfortuntely paypal is not availble for withdrawal of funds in Nigeria yet. If you have
someone in a country where paypal is availale, you may want to ask the
person to set up a paypal account for you. You will fill in the
paypal address on your profile, and payment will be made into it. Then
you will ask the person to send it into your local bank account.


But if you do not have someone in a country where paypal is available,
there are several companies/agents that specialize in doing this job.
They will give you their paypal address and you will fill it on your
profile. Then payment will be made into it. Then the company/agent
will send you your payment at a rate you both have agreed on. There
are several of these companies on Nairaland in the Business section.
The only disadvantage here is that these agents have their own
interest.


However, you do not need to get a paypal account before you start
working for Zemandi. If you do not have a paypal account, you just
have to ignore that space on your profile. Your earning will remain on
your Zemandi account and it is very safe there. Anytime you get a
paypal account in the future, you can fill in the address on your
profile and request for payment. When I started working with them, I
had no paypal account. I had earned close to $100 before one of my
friends in the US gave me his paypal address. And that was when I
filled it on my profile and requested for payment.


Hope this helps!

TueMack:
Good one! Welcome on board! I hope you enjoy every bit of it and make cool cash!

ozoebuka1:
it takes. gay to spot another gay.

YoungBlackRico:
[color=#CC6600]He sure as hell looks gay in the first pic. [/color]

[color=#848b79]©YBR[/color]

exactly. You see it too.

CarlosTheJackal:
Going where just stick with me till 2300 lets have banters

odiegwu.

Oya na

Let's roll

CarlosTheJackal:
It's only you

temmyo:
Just for future purposes, Hawaii is not a country but a state in the US.

Taiye4Christ:
Lol... It is well.

Be optimistic and expect a positive feedback, okay?

Taiye4Christ:
Hi,

How did it go?

dorothy0324:
I got it too... 4 hours for a test tho

obyrich:
Thanks for accepted my humble request of convivialitational bonding via Facebook.

Taiye4Christ:
How is you?
I post vacancies I come across. I don't really know where their office is located in the first place. That said, which area is the address sent to you? We can start from there.



Oh, I wish you the very best.

Taiye4Christ:
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colossus91:
this states gives me the creeps!!