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BuddhaPalm:
Jaybee my man, you can only speak for yourself.

Most times, when guys give gifts to chics, implicit expectations dey dey there.

Even though it's a losing strategy, you won't say there aren't many when it works - especially in these climes.

Some of the hottest women in the world are escorts and covert pro.stitures for a reason.

I get your point bro but it's a losing strategy that offers no guarantee in the long run like you've admitted

I mean the question these goons need to be asking themselves is if the coochie is worth the gift they are willing to let go off.
coochie is meant to be free and not exchanged as a commodity.

chimkaire:
with what, exactly

Na back pain ooooo my sista. you know see as their bobby just full like kilode!

I go like help the dancers

Stooopid qweshion

naijababe:
GBP is bullish like heck, my limit order on GJ was not picked for the second time

You've got mail!

Iyalasisi:
you got the second Like from me bae


He got her the phone because he can afford it so u all should give d girl a break please!

Thanks boo

BuddhaPalm:
Yeah right!

He bought all the females he knows iPhones. Such a generous guy.

No implied conditions at all.

Not all men reason the way you do Sir. I have no problem buying such for my female friends because i can afford it and there is a genuine reason for them to have it as well as me not expecting anything in return.

It's only an insecure man that lacks confidence that thinks the only way to a woman's heart is by buying her love. That will almost certainly lead to disaster since expectation and taste are expected to grow in tandem whereas disposable income will reduce as the demand grows higher

So long as the phone gift didn't come along with a condition of her agreeing to his proposal then she has every right to accept the gift.

The guy is a doofus trying to buy love with expensive toy that will soon go outdated by yet another release from apple.

Aren't they meant to wait for the lord's guidance?

No story to tell

ko kan aiye

I'd rather they get permanently buried in the lagoon

Ekaka1:
Where? Or you just wan show say you sabi broke British slang small Abi ?

run along

That's a hawt bird right there

It's safe to conclude Oba Akiolu's venom was as a direct result of Jimi Agbaje stupidly promising to elevate the royal status of lagos Eze's.
Phew

You just dey enjoy Aminatu

oyb:
If we could even get you to eat in a train, it would be in the first class coach, and fettuccine Alfredo or how them dey call am. Complete with waiter, butler etal

See as you just dey wash me this morning

Choi choi fear godoooooo

oyb:
Ahah

Jaybee is too posh to be behaving like an uncivilised animal.

Posh kwa

Lool

Jarus:


Oya confirm joor

I be original omo Ibadan so chances of you catching me murdering poundo yam is pretty slim.

Jarus:
Looks like jaybee3


****runs out of thread***

Heheheheheh

no one likes entering the office only to stare at an uninspiring weakling

BlackTechnology:
For now he is right

What of when he is wrong

He is never going to be right all the time but he will be right MOST of the time making the few mistakes inconsequential.

20% of your income is not excessive

Each member of your family literally spends 5% (25k) every month which isn't a lot when compared to what you would have spent by eating outside.

You are ignoring the fact that there is some sort of net savings on your income by her being a stay at home mum. if you were to factor that in then surely your household expenditures will increase

Having said all that though, it doesn't help that you feel you are being stretched so the best way tomgo about this is by empowering madam so she can reduce the dependency on you going forward

Good luck

keppyy:
Thanks for your words...

"It's obvious sex is the single most important factor in all the relationships you've had thus far and it ought not to be like that."

This is totally not true, I must admit that I do scream my opinion on pre-marital sex (Same as my Genotype) on a week of knowing me...

How can I be sure he just wanted me for sex because I think it's more about the lie and the pretence for so long...I was truly cunny (I must admit).

I can recall his position about I lie I said some days back and he was truly not pleased.

That's kinda strange that you have 'em kinda convos within a week of meeting someone. It's like you naively believe every man you meet has genuine intention that matches your ambition which then allows you to open up like a running tap.

I'm not asking you to be secretive as i strongly believe in openness but the first few weeks of meeting someone you want something serious with should be spent getting to know them

It's obvious sex is the single most important factor in all the relationships you've had thus far and it ought not to be like that.
No one likes being lied to and you have the right to stay celibate.

It appears to me that he probably only wanted you for sex hence the reason he can't bring himself to forgive you

Going forward, you need to make yourself attractive in other ways by refining your character and ensure you stimulate discussions that doesn't have sexual undertone

Good luck

UjSizzle:
Good eyes darling.

Good nose sugar

cdamsel:
when will jaybee3 campaign for me.

You own the crown for the domain that matters

Any relationship defined by sex is built on a fault line. It simply won't work !

If all you want is a sexual relationship then it's best to state one's claim from the onset so expectations can be clear and in turn mutually agreed before the journey begins

There are obvious benefits to derive from being in a relationship other than sex. You both have to decide on what's important then see how it plays out.

isalegan2:
I just never knew your ashewo reach this level nah. Oga moderator OAM4allWomenOfTheWorldJ - him, I been knowing is, I mean, was, a notorious skirtchaser of the highest order. Must be somfin in the moderators' pledge.

Buy the car for the lady ooo. That's how awon big big boys dey do am. I will dance at your traditional wedding.

Choi see as you don see me finish
I've always been kind/friendly to the ladies but i guess you never noticed since you hardly ever visited the romance section.

We just spreading the love kinda thing

Aminat508:
just kind of confused, don't even know who to support...

Support her now

I'm thinking of packaging her smile as a commodity that we can then be used as a financial derivative by way of SWAP for would be models

OBJ na smart crook