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@ toba
a lili busy at work at the moment hence me not being able to reply to your post appropriately.
I will do if and when i get the time though
One thing u aren't weighting very well is the issue of Choice. Because you love someone doesn't mean that love has to be reciprocated. Love is by choice not by force


@mac
I have been silently following the various ramblings on this thread hence my assertion

toba:
Yes its not healthy but Love too is unfair and people get obsessive cos of the unfairness of LOve.

Love is by choice though so nothing unfair about that.
People let themselves to get to the levels that in turn can become harmful to health

Don't ever seek love, let it find you or better still develop naturally

^^^
So long you don't let your obsession get overboard then nothing do you.
Obsession ain't healthy but we all have different reasons to be driven

maclatunji:
Obsession is not healthy in terms of any matter. You need to let the person breathe and live as an individual before they can add value to you in a relationship.

Are you sure you practising what you are preaching bro?

^^^^
dude, why don't u just give it up already.

Sorted?

why u hmmmng homeboi?
Something bit ur lips?

awwww thanks
luv u too

off to play footie.
be back in about 45

Why are u shocked and angry?

bhusayor:
Ok! Here goes the list, tho not excluisve anymore-

A good muslim (very knowledgeable and committed to deen) cos me I be 'upcoming', need someone that wud b an encouragement not d other way round)

Check

bhusayor:
He's got to be intelligent (yeah, everyone wants that, plus I have to consider my children too, not all of them myt take after me in that aspect, so I want a balance.lol)

Hate blowing own trumpets but a def check

bhusayor:
He has to be taller than I am, at least wv two inches. I'm 5'7,n don't wanna give birth to shorties (no offense short peeps), hehehe.

already told u me height. Yet another check

bhusayor:
Good sense of humour-i love laughing a lot,and I don't take things too serious, need a match in that aspect too),

As you can see that i've been displaying ma humorous side on this thread so another check

bhusayor:
Focused and innovative guy, n of course he has to be educated,
No preference for discipline.

This i have in abundance

bhusayor:
Oh, I prefer dark guys, though I could make do with the slightly fair ones too, but yellow guysno!

border line check

bhusayor:
A nigerian for sure, tribe, not specific, but being yoruba is a plus.

bhusayor:
Good dress sense- he doesn't have to be mr handsome, but a cool appearance is ok for me.

I rock 'em all. Just name it. Confidently checked

bhusayor:
Lastly, for now, I admire articulate guys,

Do i need to check on this one again sista b?

^^^
None of the above

olawalebab:
Does that means you are 5'6?,

If anything suggests would fit just a lil better  

jay bee:
I'm 5'9"

sorry to burst your bubble Sir, looks like i'm still pretty much in the running
Besides Sister Bhusayor didn't categorically state that all criteria must be met

I'm 5'9"

^^^
Nice list
Do i qualify ?
Lemme go hide before toba returns

2moro is the 5th of November

Joker

[quote author=Mrs, Chima link=topic=796599.msg9480906#msg9480906 date=1320416310]Did that work for you suga?[/quote]Yes it did
Concentrated on my MSc
Bought me self a new car
Enjoyed me life

Whatever will be will always be so no point crying over spilled milk.
If you guys are meant to get back together you will surely get back to together.
Odds of it happening my by low so wise ones usually go with the more favourable odds.

moving on can be bitter, scary, sorrowful, name it but one thing is for sure, It might be the best decision you will make in your life

Time heals pain so occupying the immediate - medium term period after the breakup with things self identified as having greater priority will surely do the trick.
Pick up a hobby
Go out more
Make new friends

I hail you oh oga Fstranger

Comedy galore
Please keep 'em coming
nuff laughs

hmmmmmmm

Chanting "Rescue her, Rescue her"

Wats a broda gotta do but hope.
Just finished reading the audacity of hope. Prophesy in the making?

fictionally, YES

The original Q before she evolved into something else

I miss the real Q so much

Who is wilshere?

Just basic spring cleaning

Good times Q

memories galore