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Which kind toto be this so disgusting

Chai I will forgive her bad English she is only a poly graduate if she is a uni graduate I for flog her

Biafrans love Fayose n will get 40 million votes of Igbos

majekdom2:
the hustle you created for them ba

Go to construction site n mix cement n sand or stone u will make 3k daily n over 80k monthly is dt nt better than idleness

Lol villages are ruled by traditional rulers no need for senseless Ward government, hw useful has local government been self? We shld make councillors, local government chairmen more effective.

Wealth7:
Its pretty much easy to talk in such manner when you finally achieve or perhaps beat the odds.. If u still find urself in d op's shoes, u wouldn't be talking like this.

Trust me, have met brilliant and bright peeps yet, they find it hard to feed. Life at times is actually a game of gamble where the lucky ones win and d hardworking ones lose

That some people made it through hard work dosent mean others Are lazy... Cheers

anyone dt is completely idle in nigeria is lazy and proud. do i blame some of them when mama thank ma is assured. graduates esp males shld go and hustle

goldenceo1:
worse still your neighbours get to see you as jobless

My routine... keep changing location to visit others even of its in the same city, at least your compound neighbours nor go see you around to gossip about.

lol hw old are u, u cant run away from your problem u only deal with it

Aeker:
Life as an unemployed graduate isn't always easy. Sometimes, things get so tough that you begin to wonder if you wronged the gods, somehow.

Most times, your life can be summed up in one word: frustrating.

Your ability to achieve a mental balance gets challenged each day.

As soon as you get a moment to forget the struggles of life, that friend with whom it seemed like you had become partners in the labour market calls in to tell you how he's managed to secure a well-paying job.

"Ahhh. So my own case is the handiwork of my village people, as feared?!"

"But I thought my destiny and EMX's are tied together nah!"

Then you remember, that other members of your clique like Emeka, Roland, Wale, Aliyu, Emike, and Daniella have all secured jobs since the turn of the year.

Immediately, you look up to the sky (or ceiling in most cases; sometimes stepping outside the house may seem like a privilege) and question God in a Balotelli-esque fashion: "why always me?!"

You begin to feel alienated by success. Emotions begin to pour. But regardless of your reaction, that's not an easy question to answer.

Life gets you to suffer humiliation and hardships of being considered not good enough for any job at all. All the questions that went unanswered, the advances that were met with a stern, unwelcoming attitude at different offices... or is it the people debating issues of whether to turn you to an errand boy so you could earn some 200 bucks for recharge card or just leave you be (to suffer in silence). "Imagine! People wey no reach to even lace my shoes before."

On the home front, some of your siblings' chores become your duty. Why? Because you are not much use in the house. For every meal you eat, every time you go to bed, each time you sit idly, parents want you tasked.

Your value continues to drop on a per-second basis. It feels like nobody cares about you for anything. You grow anxious and frustrated with life. Your happiness is about to be taken away from you by unseen forces.

"But this no be the plan we been plan from the start!" Soon after that thought, you see an advert on TV reminding you that life doesn't always go according to plan. Or is it the pastor in Church reminding you that everything in life is God's design? How then am I supposed to relate to God not wanting me to succeed? You begin to question your belief in God. "Is there even a god?!"

But all of that is not you. It's frustration playing out. So many times, you feel like a lost soul in a human body. Trapped and without help. You're not sure when redemption will come, or if it will come at all.

Carefully redesigning a CV that never gets more than a glance. Your life is no longer filled with fun an excitement. Grief, self-pity, and anger are gradually taking over.

"What a sorry soul!" No money for business, no means to learn a skill or two, and no jobs to keep you busy. Life can't get any worse.

But what can you do in all of these?

You continue to reinvent, hoping that someday, your salvation will come. All that 2.1 from a reputable university doesn't feel so important anymore. Set all of that aside, believing that only grace can rescue you now.

This is my life. I am Aeker.

Things are HARD!

Please help a broke soul.

anybody that is completely idle after graduation is lazy, non creative and proud but life is the best teacher.

i also always ask the question to job seekers " what are u doing now" and 95% of them will say nothing but sucking their parents dry can u imagine. i feel like slapping shit out of such ppl esp if they are boys.

there is always something to do if u keep pride aside n humble yourself. go and hustle, stop blaming ur village people

If you say sth against IPOB or Nnamdi Kanu on Facebook, u will be abused, insulted and threatened by Ipob terrorists all over Facebook.


Most of d IPOB members are stark illiterates n jobless only less than 1% of them ve brains.

Chelsea fan for dt matter

Which one is 2002 is this nt Honda hala 1996

Congrats sha

whysquare4real:
Pls as an insider,can someone run another degree after bagging a degree previously from another school? thanks and looking forward to ur response

Yes of course

Ppl read English b a and thereafter go for law

Or biology Bsc and thereafter go for medicine

D problem is running them at d same time on full time

Jst 33 n u r worried already, what do u want girls at ur age to do

Anyway with 60k income focus on getting married to a woman working n earning up to 50k and it shld work.

Worry more abt ur finances n sorting ur life out. Get ur own apartment n furnish it n start living on ur own than living with ur parents @ 33

A man shld not be living with his parents after 28 years, such man shld be chased out to go n hustle wat rubbish lazy man is dt

Even if there is no limit to tenure it can't happen in Nigeria. Togo too dull anyway they are smaller than most local government in Nigeria

A wife shld be a blessing nt a curse

allenroundabout:
Today is my wedding anniversary. I got married in 2010. I actually don't know if my marriage is a curse or there are other forces affecting my life.

I went into my marriage with 6 trucks and they were all working within southwest. All the trucks are gone!

I am a 37year old man from Enugu state. I got married at the age of 31 to a beautiful lady from Edo state.

I started my logistic company when I left my salary job in 2007. I started with 3 trucks and I was able to grow and acquired 3 more trucks before 2010.

I met my wife when she was serving in Enugu. I visited my parent in enugu that very year. We got talking and one thing led to the other. She got pregnant towards the end of her service year and moved in with me immediately after her service.

We had our traditional wedding, though her mum (father is late) wasn't at the wedding. She didn't inform her, she said she doesn't have a relationship with her and that they are not in talking terms. Though her aunt (her mum sister) was actively involved and present. She made up with her mum years later and they are both fine now.

I lost my 6 trucks in 3years with debts that I had to settle by selling my uncompleted buildings in Enugu and Lagos. I have not paid some debts till now. Note that I acquired those properties before my wedding.

I lost 2 trucks in 2010 December, lost 1 in 2011, then lost remaining 3 trucks to accident in 2013.

It usually happened whenever we quarreled and she got really angry. That very night, I would see myself being locked up by a man in a room with an iron gate in my dream. The next trip for any of my trucks would be an accident or there would be a major problem on the road.

I was out of business in 2014 to mid 2015 when I decided to travel out of Nigeria for some hustling. I told my wife about my plan but she said she is sure my plan is to marry another woman when I get to Europe. I made some promises to her before I left.
On getting to the airport in holland, I was put into the next flight to Lagos from Schipol airport in Holland.

I became very broke after the failed trip and I had to open up to friends and family who still thought I was a big man. I was able to secure a 35k salary job through a friend. My wife came to my place of work, told my boss that I beat her. She lied! (I have never done that before and I didn't do it). I lost the job.

In all this, I have always struggled to pay our rent, we pay our son school fee together while she handles 75% of food stuff in the house. She works and earns around 65k. She has been supportive.

I have prayed and she has prayed too, but nothing has changed in my finance. It is getting worse everyday. One night, I prayed and begged God to reveal to me the source of my problem, I had a dream that night. In the dream, my wife told me she is married to the prince of their kingdom and that the prince is always with us sometimes on the bed when we are sleeping. She said his boys are the one I always see fighting me in my dreams. My wife told me all this in my dream. I am scared of discussing this dream with my wife because she is a prayerful woman and it will sound like I am saying she is the cause of my problem. I am confused.

I also consulted a pastor, the pastor said witches are seriously dealing with me. He also said my wife has a spiritual husband that is very powerful. He warned me never to discuss any of my plans with my wife again. That I should always tell her after the execution of such plans (plans that has to do with my business). I find it strange and hard to believe, what is the essence of having a wife if we can have 100% openness. I continue to discuss my business plans with wifey and they are always failing. Sometimes I will be too happy to hide it from her. (Lol)

We have a small car that is strictly for taking my son to school. My rent expired in May and there is no hope of money for me. Landlord is already on me. If I sell this last only car to pay this rent, what are we going to sell to pay the next rent? I think maybe we should separate for a while and when things change for better again, we can come together. I have not discussed this with my wife. Is this a right step? Her mum and her mum sis (they are both widows) has a big house here in Lagos, she can move to the house while I get a driving job with an accommodation package. This way, I can support and pay my son's school fee.

Please people advice me.

This is a serious spiritual issue, ur wife is d one with d issue n she may not even kw abt it n she has transferred it to u. Both of u need serious deliverance d earlier d better.

If u listen to ppl here probably kids telling u it's nt spiritual then ur health and probably life is what u will pay with. Edo state is d capital of witches and wizards u go Carry Edo babe whose mother n aunt are widows, u may be next to die if u delay abt this, can't u see it runs in d family.

She is not in talking terms with her mother for sooo long dt she didn't attend her wedding why? Na big market u go Carry ooo but MFM got ur back no worry jst go to MFM u will be delivered

Goddys:
I am really befuddled that a fool like you can't distinguish between a crime and a civil offence. Should i lecture you a bit Olodo
?

You should go refine yourself academically before you can fit into my shoes. Are you sure you even passed through the four walls of university?

Is dt all u got to say Mr two first degrees with outstanding stupidity, ppl like u shld be in jail for not keeping to rules and established procedures though I can bet my right hand dt u r a motor park tout who claims to be Prof only on social media. We ve gone pass dt level ur reasoning gave u away. Headless goat

OrestesDante:
Igbo language in 2weeks? What do I need Igbo language for?

In preparation of when Biafra will come BC it shall become National language

Goddys:
You are below my standard in all ramifications and not to be given further attention.

Only if u kw who u r talking to if u see me in real life u will lie down to greet me.

Running two full time first degree programs at d same time in Nigeria uni is illegal and unacceptable if u did dt u r a common criminal for breaking Jamb admission rules so go and hide cheap ignoramus with outstanding stupidity. I ve dignified u enough with my replies u won't get dt anymore fool.

napoleon77:
Are you saying it is unacceptable, illegal or both?

Don't say what you do not know!

Quote the section of any law that says you can't run two programmes at the same time. While doing that also quote the legal punishment if an individual runs 2 concurrent academic programmes.

I am saying both and I am sure of it

U can't run two first degree programs at d same time on full time, even if u do n u r nt caught employers won't accept it n if caught it's illegal d uni dt caught u will expel u via d uni Senate bc it offends JAMB admission guidelines. I am an insider.

It can be done but it's unacceptable and illegal. Dt someone has done or is doing it doesn't change anything jst like armed robbery.

Refer to JAMB admission guidelines and stay away from ignorance

Yhelay:
Do you know what is second degree at all??

Dnt be too hard on him he meant another first degree n nt pg degree

napoleon77:
It is not illegal to run two programmes simultaneously. What crime would you be committing?

You can put as many degrees on your CV at the same time.

However, I do not see the value to be gained in running two programmes simultaneously.

It's not acceptable to run two full time degree programs at d same time, it's like working full time in two places at d same time dts moon lighting.

It's illegal BC d first uni admitted u full time on d ground u r nt running another program elsewhere on full time or even working full time. So b guided

Goddys:
You must be a slowpoke. I ran my full time undergraduate programmes simultaneously in Lasu and Unilag respectively and was well presented in my CV that got me a good job.

Now tell us the justification for the lies you are perpetrating here. I'm not suprised a mediocre like you could hardly exercise good judgment or think outside the box.

When right thinking persons are reasoning beyond societal conventions, imbeciles like you should stay off

Mumu any prove to ur assertion for all we care u may be a motor park tout dt never finished primary sch.

Goddys:
say what you know and stop perpetrating lies

A dumb skull like u shld shut up when sensible ppl are talking

It's illegal even if u graduate in both u can only use one at a time in ur CV n never both.

Except may be u run one as full time and d other as part time

Wow this is very clean and shld be 3 rows ie 2005 highlander given the 3.3l engine

OrdercityWeb:
In as much everything he said about his wife is wrong.
I find it very disturbing that someone could share private chat, to the extent of screenshotting pples conversation. I mean where is our humanity? Where is confidentiality for goodness sake?
I'm really disappointed. Personally anyone who shares his/her private chat with the public is very STUPID. He didn't threaten your life did he?
Why share his secret out? WHAT IS WRONG WITH NIGERIAN WOMEN AND THE CRAVE FOR ATTENTION ON SOCIAL MEDIA?
This is why i will drop dead the day i DM a lady on social media..

Now i have a message for idiots called guys who still DM/PM ladies. You idiots are the problem, you make this cretins feel on top of the world. This is why i always say every guy should become an ALPHAMALE. All this nonsense will stop. There are too much asslickers called guys that make ladies feel ultra-special.

Everyone knows ladies want attention, they crave it. That's what an Alphamale knows and uses to his advantage. Starve them of attention,
Like the way you give a dog food in the morning then wait for it to be very hungry before giving another meal. This way its the dog that will be calling for you. WHICH MAKES YOU IN CONTROL. Imagine if every Nigerian guy can do this, you would see that Nigerian ladies will borrow sense quickly but NO we still have some idiots called guys who still lick asses.
There is no lady living or dead who can try rubbish like this with me. I starve them of attention. I only give them bits.
FOR GOODNESS SAKE YOU DUMBOS SHLD STOP MAKING LADIES FEEL SPECIAL!!

U sound like a stupid teenager n a complete learner, u will learn when u grow up surely.

I can bet my right hand dt the man loves his marriage but only wants to turn his ex to side chic for occasional knacking. Only a wise person will notice dt