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tiffanyfan:
Am a 200l student, I met this guy here on NL, though when we started I didn't tell him am 18, I told him am 24, I cooked up different lies for him, so that he won't see me as a teenager, but with time, I felt deeply in love with him and I think he felt the same way, though we have never slept together.

I decided to confess all my lies to him....which I did on Saturday, though he was angry initially but he later calm down and said I should come to his place today so that we can talk about the issue....av never been to his place b4, we only meet at public places. The problem now is he is threatening to call it quit if I did come to his house today, though I really love him but am not ready to go his house now. PLEASE NO INSULT

Go and read ur books n forget abt love he will soon get u pregnant. ASUU strike is over. He wants to Bleep and dump u go to his place @ ur peril.
He jst want mark register n move on to another sweet 16

Queenlovely:
I must confess I dont know the section to post this. But I have a serious question I must ask.
Is it necessary to have a house in the village when you spend most of your life outside the village? My uncles hardly visit their mansions in the village. Other people are just occupying the property. They only come back once in a blue moon. They can just breeze in and breeze out tomorrow.
My question now is, is it not better to have that mansion in the city, than rent an apartment in the city. You are a tenant in the city in one poor make-shift house, but own a duplex in the village that is empty. Is it even economically wise? It baffles logic and common sense. Dont give me that shity excuse about Home town and burial.

Many ppl are like dt it's financial illiteracy

alphonsus:
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Beverly1:
Hi fellow Nlanders

I was born into Catholic faith and practice till I was 12 and I enjoyed it. My parent became deeper life member while we were living apart and now a pastor in that church. I re-united with them when I was 12 and since then I've been attending the church with them and still attend Catholic occasionally....I love the preaching from the founder of deeper life as he preaches the bitter truth but I believe most other young pastor see d church "doctrine" as commandment and so must be kept 100%.....the founder of the church addressed this issue several times but NO.

18 years on since we re-united, I'm a graduate, married and living abroad but my father still forcing his believe and doctrine on me. I considered myself spiritual but not so religious. I connect with my God easily but not a 3G church guy.

He made me and my siblings antisocial and introverted simply because he believed we shouldn't be involved in any social activities even sports. I still remember being beaten for playing soccer, he believes we would be influenced badly. Watching TV was a crime especially movies.

Fast forward to yesterday he rang my wife to check on us but the first question he asked was if we attend to church. I told him it's been raining and temperature was really low....then he started lamenting asking if I won't go to work if it wasn't Sunday,complaining about the country where I can't worship God...then to get me more exasperated he asked and insisted I tell him how many time I've been to church lately and how many times I've read d bible....I told him we've been attending but he insisted on a number.

This got me so mad that I stood up for myself under a heavy breathe as I do not want to disrespect him or hangup on him.I told him I do not appreciate being asked questions like a 10 yrs old boy and at my age I should know how to live my life and what's best for me.....he got angry and said goodbye and I guess he was still on d phone but I didn't know...I just hang up.....Now I've block him from reaching me ... planning to change my numbers.....but not any financial support. Only cutting all communication with him but not with my siblings as they mean more to me and I wanna see them through as much as God help me...

Please is this not an over reaction because I loved him as he's a very responsible man who puts the family first and strived to make us who we are. But we do not av a close relationship because of his believe even though he's been forcing it.

u cut ties with ur father bc he want you to go to heaven, bro u need serious spiritual deliverance. The old man has not done enough to waranty this treatment

BrotherJesu:
My mum is very beautiful, and successful yoruba woman but dosent regard her husband a bit,
Trouble got out hands when she got her first car and her husband who is an engineer doesnt have one yet,she then became pompous and over protective of the car that even those around; church and family knew that popxy doesnt own the car. Mumc is an established fashion designer and holds several positions in Nigerian Union ofTailors, as a result of this she comes home very late not givin any excus. As time goes by she stopped cooking him as she is always busy with work or travelling on state sponsored trips she does not bother to notify her husband whenever she is travelling.
There was a day i was so angry kus even my friends have started to take note and it becoming embarrasing, so i spoke with her, while talking she broke down in tears, she said she is the one responsible for 80 percent of the house expenses that popcy recieves 400k monthly bt always complaining of bin broke, she said other things i cant really type here.
This went own for a long time, they soon became enemies in the same house everyone going there way doing things differently, admist all these popsy has never rised his voice on her even when mumcy somethings did very annoing stuffs.
In the heat of this, popsy impregnated another babe although i have never seen the woman nor the child since birth which is close to two years. He apologised and promised to never bring them to interfere in our lives.
However this literary set our house on fire. While mumc was gettin over the haertbraek, she promised to get back at him which i didnt undesrand then.
Early this year, mumc bought 2 cars at ones, i was very surprised as she normally tell me her moves, she gave me one while she uses the other one. What broke myy hear was that she kept the one she was using before under cover when i asked her why she didnt allow popxy have that one she said she he should go buy his own and warned me that the day she will see him use my car na problem .
For sometime now she has been joking about moving us out of the country without his knowlege.
Popxy right now has facilitated his tramsfer to delta state.
Now they dont even see neida do they communicate again
the whole thing is driving me insane as i dont see popman coming to the house again pls guys help a brother what do i do
excuse my typo and coherence.

this one strong ooo so popsy earns over 400k and cant afford a car isorrit

bilms:
IS IGBO MARGINALIZED? LET’S DISCUSS
15 Former Presidents of Nigeria, One Prime Minister
1. Tafawa Balewa- (Prime Minister) from Gere Tribe, Bauchi State

2. Nnamdi Azikwe – Igbo Tribe, Anambra State
3. Aguinyi Ironsi - Igbo Tribe, Abia State
4. Yakubu Gowon- Angas Tribe, Jos
5. Murtala Muhammaed-Hausa tribe, Kano State
6. Olusegun Obasanjo- Yoruba Tribe, Ogun State
7. Shehu Shagari- Fulani tribe, Sokoto State
8. Muhammadu Buhari- Fulani Tribe, Katsina State
9. Ibrahim Babangida- Nupe tribe, Niger State
10. Ernest Shonekan- Yoruba tribe, Ogun State
11. Sani Abacha - Kanuri tribe, Borno State
12. Abdulsalam Abubakar- Gwari tribe, Niger State
13. Olusegun Obasanjo- Yoruba tribe, Ogun state
14. Umaru Yaradua- Fulani tribe, Katsina State
15. Goodluck Jonathan- Ijaw tribe, Bayelsa state
16. Muhammadu Buhari- Fulani tribe, Katsina State

We have 16 of them in total.

1 Hausa President, 2 Igbo, 3 Yoruba, 1 Gere tribe, 4 Fulani, 1 Angas, 1 Nupe, 1 Gwari, 1 Kanuri, 1 Ijaw

In practice, Yoruba has only 2, Obasanjo and Shonekan, Igbo has 2, Azikwe and Ironsi, Fulani has 3, Buhari, Yaradua and Shagari, Hausa has only 1, Murtala, and Kanuri, Ijaw, Gere all have 1 each.

Does this justify igbo claim of marginalization?

Source of information: Wikipedia

U r simply a primordial goat

Marginalization on Igbos was BC they were defeated in d civil war and started thereafter ie after ,1970. So ur write up is pure rubbish

Most likely d boy is an only child in d family so his family married for him

U dnt need drivers license to drive in Nigeria but u must nt be stingy to your frnd d police otherwise kasala go bust

They shld feel what ordinary workers feel

yasmina85:
My BF and I have been together fo years (6+). We both have good jobs, we're both well in our 30s, I think we love each other (I sure do) and we get along fine.

3 years ago, he wanted me to move in but I said no, not before marriage.
Since then, it's been the status quo. We spend time together either at his place or mine.
When I bring up going to my father he deflects with something like "don't worry, it's coming"; "I'll go when I'm ready, be patient"...

Last year, I got mad and sort of gave him an ultimatum.He said he would but was still draging his feet.
I became bitter, he felt over pressured and we started fighting and arguing for everything.
We eventually broke up and spent almost a year appart. He came back 6 months ago and things are like when we first met

The problem is, I feel like for him, it's a whole new relationship and we have to let it mature like any new RS.
For me, we just took up where we left so we've been dating long enough. He either commit or leave me alone.

I don't want to lose him but I can't do this anymore. I really don't know why he can't bring himself to at least do the door knocking.

Please what can I do ??

Not every relationship ends in marriage

Prepare for the worst and hope for d best

This may not end well especially given ur age. U are not assertive enough at this stage in ur life you shld be assertive u r not younger anymore. I personally will not marry a woman above 30 yrs, I consider them too old. He can dump u at 35 n marry a 24 yr old in less than 6 months moves on easily leaving u shattered.

D zoo army are cowards I kw they will run for their lives Ipobs n BSS deadly team.

D coward Buhari is next

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mekaboy:
WHY NNAMDI KANU MUST BE REJECTED BY IGBOS

A lot of people believe that Nnamdi kanu is fighting for the good of the igbos, and that something good will come out of this fight . But in my view, Kanu is actually directly or indirectly plotting the downfall of igbos. If Ojukwu was alive today, he would have warned him against such action . Below are some of the key reasons that form my opinion about him .

1, Lack of Administrative Ability : Ojukwu was educated and military governor, he knew what administration and coordination was all about. Nnamdi kanu is the opposite, he lacks the administrative ability. Even to run the agitation successfully . Ojukwu who had all this ability failed, is it now kanu banking on a group of touts and jobless youths that will succeed ? Is the Igbo Marginalization also the reason kanu did not achieve anything in Britain ?

2,Kanu is building a Nation on Hatred: Kanu started his crusade on hate speech, which is a very wrong foundation . A nation built on hatred will be destroyed by hate. Hatred becomes the culture of that nation . If they people do not see any external people to hate, they start to hate and destroy themselves. If you eventually get the Biafran Nation, how will you relate with other nations that you have taught your people to hate? Can Biafra survive alone without other ethnic groups ? Hatred is more destructive than productive .


3, Disrespect for elders : Nnamdi Kanu in several occasions have shown total disrespect for elders and OHANAEZE NDIGBO. He might claim they have sold out and do not have interest of the Igbos. But he is a role model to his followers, which means the biafran nation will be one without respect for elders.


4, Destruction of the Igbo economy : It is easier to destroy than to build. It takes a day to bring down a building, but takes months or years to build one. Nnamdi Kanu has never successfully created anything, therefore its easy for him to want to destroy the investment of others. He has never built a successful business or company, which is why he cares less of what happens to the investment of others outside Igbo land .Preaching a message of hate for the North, where a lot of igbos have investments and successful businesses is counter productive .

Even their confrontation with the Nigerian Army in Aba, will result in a state of emergency. It is the igbo businesses that will be affected and not the Northerners. It's easy for him to ask Igbos to leave the north and move down to the east because he has no investment anywhere. He has no investment in UK or Nigeria, so he can easily park his bags and leave UK for Nigeria and move back to UK. He has no investment, company or workers who depend on him for livelihood. So he assumes every igbo person can pack their bags and leave anytime like he does . The Igbos have come a long way, after the war, we lost our money in the banks and were given just 20 pounds, today we have risen to enviable heights . Kanu wants to set igbos back economically . When an Igbo man loses his investment outside Igbo land, the igbo economy is being negatively affected. Someone without an investment won't understand it .


5,Political Setback : Kanu does not understand that there is nothing he can achieve in Nigeria without the politicians and the constitution . Asking his followers not to participate in elections, burn their voters card etc, will negatively affect Igbo's politically . even the referendum they seek, will still need voters card to be conducted . By 2019, the population of igbo voters will be reduced, those who have cards will not vote, and Igbo's will be sidelined once again . This is aimed at destabilizing igbos politically, and will have negative consequences in the long run .


6,Victim Mentality : Nnamdi Kanu has never distinguished himself in any area in life. He has not built a successful carrier or business, therefore unfit to be a role model for igbo youths . Alot of prominent sucesful igbo people have become something from Nothing . The hausas and yorubas, you will always trace the source of their wealth to family . But for igbos, most of the wealthy made it without help . Now the stories of people like innoson, coscharis and alot of other igbo business men should be the motivation for upcoming igbo youths. Rather Nnamdi kanu is making them lazy, believing that someone in the north is the reason for their failure and they can't succeed in Nigeria unless Biafra comes. Fine, igbos are marginalized , but that should be a challenge for the igbos to work hard to succeed in every area they choose. Since we do not have the level of support or advantage of the North and SW who continued to enjoy Nigeria and occupy positions during and after the civil war, igbo youths should not engage in idleness.

There is no time to waste sitting around, pointing fingers at the North . The stories of the successful igbo sons and daughters should be a motivation and not the victim mentality preached by kanu . The new breed of igbos kanu is raising are not the hardworking "go getter" type. But those who will sit idle, not improve on their lives, waiting for biafra to come before the succeed . that is not the message we need in Igbo land. Its only someone like Kanu who did not achieve anything in Nigeria and even in UK with lots of opportunities , that can be preaching such a message laziness and blame games.

7,Wasting Igbo lives : The greatest investment anyone can make is in human beings . Those countries we called developed today, did not become developed because of natural resources. They became developed because they invested in people. Today igbo youths are dying for something that will not happen . Igbos are losing potentials that would have been harnessed to be more productive .

8, Inconsistency : Kanu is not consistent, he is a politician. He is looking for a reward in all this and will eventually sell to the highest bidder. The same kanu that preached hate for the yorubas, asked igbos not to attend yoruba churches, began to dine and wine with FFK and Fayose. Saying the Yoruba's have changed. What exactly changed ?

He spoke with so much hate about the hausas, and later said he does not hate them, he loves yaraudua etc. So if he loved yaradua and hates buhari, then why preach hatred against the entire north. Why not tell igbos buhari is their enemy and not the north ? If he loves yaradua and hates buhari, then his agitation is political and against buhari as a person . With this level of inconsistency, its clear it won't be hard for him to change his stand when he gets the right offer .

My advice to Igbo Youths, most positions in cooperate organizations and government are occupied by the north and the SW because of the civil war. We have managed to catch-up without government support. Dont sit idle and listen to Kanus hate message and victim mentality. Work hard legitimately, if you can't afford university education, find a skill and master it immediately . Invest in your future, read, learn and work hard, the sky will be your starting point.

Spot on u r cerebral

Kanu is a failure in his life can u imagine a man of his age still living in his father's house. Igbo youths shld embrace their entrepreneurship and make something out of their lives. Igbos are economically ahead of any tribe in Nigeria when looked at wholistically we are not lazy n begging is outlawed.

FG is stupid too y molest innocent ppl when he can arrest kanu and lock forever so than peace can reign

The tension in Aba is high

SarkinYarki:
What did you see in Buhari's CVS before you voted him in

Buhari was a former Army General
Former president of Nigeria under military regime he is a proven man in his career.

A young man shld first prove himself in a career or business b4 seeking political office otherwise he is motivated by hunger n joblessness. When a man is good his antecedents n track record will speak for him.

A 32 yr old looking to be Governor must ve proven himself in a career or business with super solid education nt some jobless as.s. Experience matters

Lol

He is 32 but the Constitution requires him to be 35 @ least to run until amended.

His CV is quite empty for someone who has lived 32 yrs on the surface of the earth. I expected to see a high profile well educated chap with at least a post graduate degree n abt 7 yrs working experience n has served at top managerial level where he worked. Not some never do well jobless chap

smoby:
Pls i want 2knw about physics....

Basically teaching, make sure u make 2.1 anything less than dt u r finished

thanta:
Someone should please say something good about Mcb..what about jobs in food,beverages and co...why arent they employing

The market is over saturated with millions of graduates of MCB n bch so no more space besides no new company coming up.

thanta:
Guys..im going to my final year in Microbiology,IM CURRENTLY FINDING IT HARD TO GET IT PLACEMENT NOW..SO,NO HOPE FOR ME AFTER SCHOOL?..OR I SHOULD GO DO MASTERS AFTER?..AND AGE ISNT ON MY SIDE TOO

Dnt worry concentrate and come out with 2.1 first u might even work in d bank or turn sec school teacher

horpeyemmi66:
Must you work with your first degree? Studying Anatomy, Physiology or Biochemistry is only a means to an end.

In the US, they are a prerequisite for the study of medicine or Dentistry. There isn't a physician who didn't get drilled in the basic Med sciences.

Mr man this is Nigeria, u dnt need a degree in basic medical science to student medicine or dentistry. So shut up already

What of zoology and Botany

Lordmykel:
As far as there is MEDICAL LABORATORY SCIENCE

biochemistry and microbiology cannot go anywhere..

Exactly MLS has made nonsense of esp microbiology

emmasege:
This may also help you.

There are many microbiologists but fewer biochemists. That could also tell you that the Labour market may have been more saturated with one than the other. M.Sc. Biochemistry could also make you become a hotcake if you are thinking of the industry. You would have counted about 5 M.Sc. Microbiology before counting one in Biochemistry, if you by chance see one.

Lol no qualification is few now even PhDs jst a simple advert n 100s of thousands will flood ur office with application.

Apart from law, medicine, MLS, nursing, pharmacy n may be teaching subjects almost every other course in Nigerian universities are saturated in the nigerian labour market

Tascom236:
What of those that are biw studying chemistry, physics and stufss like dhat.

Na confirm teaching subjects so they will easily secure jobs ofcourse as teachers in sec schools

Join IPOB or BSS to restore Biafra I heard kanu pays them well

Join BSS army to restore Biafra if u r jobless

It's getting hotter in Aba

pocohantas:
I really don't think the guy wants to fukc her at her place. The guy's problem is, he has met too many gold digging oloshos of this generation, so...it has affected his perception of the female folks.

When guys like that chyke you, you go just weak...

She sef get her own for body, she indulged him for far too long.

U nailed it

D guy has slept with alot of ladies jst buy flashing his money, car, apartment dt he now believes every girl must be a runs girl u lay on d first meeting in ur houz by dropping jst 5 to 10k. Guys like him dnt ve time for relationship only fuckmates n gets angry when a girl is different.

They priced them 50k a night each n they fly enter kidnapper den idi.ots

They ve nw disgraced their entire family, a member of the family will soon come out to say they are not kidnappers

Cardozzo:
It shall not be well with you IJN....... ......Click Like if you think its Worth celebrating or share if not

Headless goats like u dnt deserve a reply

First class Only in theory

Wake me up when Nigerians start making inventions and scientific discoveries, solving real life problems n building super big businesses

ihedioramma:
Now tell me how much did you keep there to make 23k per month ?

Simple mathematics

He has slightly below1.6m to be making 23k Monthly @ 18% per annum