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Not all Nigerian guys abroad date for papers. I’ve seen cases here in the US that guys with papers still don't want to end up with Nigerian-born girls based on past painful experiences. I prefer marrying a Nigerian or at least a Nigerian - American but many Nigerian girls that I’ve come across abroad are usually arrogant, condescending, childish, and impatient. Many of them will look down on you when you are struggling to find your feet in the abroad and once you get better - financially and socially - they will suddenly expect you to roll with them when they kicked you on the face when you were down.

One of my friends in Washington, D.C. was mocked, and treated like a piece of shit by Naija girls when he first arrived in the US - because they felt he had a thick accent, his dressing was not yet American and he was not that social. They even called him ”fresh off the boat”(imagine immigrants deriding a fellow immigrant).
This my guy was almost depressed but the good thing is - he found genuine friendship in his friends from other countries - who helped him to settle down and made sure he found his feet. When my guy finished his grad school program and he got a 6-figure job, the same Naija girls that looked down on him now wanted to be his friends. He just laughed them off and when they saw that he was dating a white girl(who supported him through the thick and thin when he first arrived), these girls got mad and started saying it's self-hate leaving your fellow Nigerian girls to marry a white girl(mind you, he does not need papers. His company filed for him already). My question to those girls was, when you were treating him like a piece of shit, you didn't see it as self-hate then abi?

Many of the Nigerian girls don't want to believe that life is a process. A guy maybe struggling today - things can change tomorrow. But no, they are looking for perfect ready-made products - tall like Lebron James, handsome like Chris Brown and rich like Anthony Joshua. Them go wait tire!


Cc TimiRume

You just said my mind especially most of our ladies out there

OkCornel:
Hi bro, drop me your number, and I'll call/whatsapp you.

TrippleEEE:
My ex helped me a lot without humiliating me afterwards. Stop following slay queens you wee not hear. Genotype ended it all.

When a sane gal truly loves you, shell lay down her life for you.

Just the way mine does for me...she gives me even without me asking. I always thank God for such a gem. And what surprises me that she is very humble and well trained. So it matters on who such men date, most of them date slay queens

DPricey1:
This is very surprising to me

My 1st salary ever was used to buy laptop for my ex.
I never mentioned it again till we broke up.

On the contrary, my husband nags about everything he does for me whenever we have a misunderstanding.

So you see, I don't think it's about a gender but Personalities.

You are really a gem

OkCornel:
This “cyber cafe” and where “I’m begging for sub” must really be good.

Never assume everyone is struggling for daily alms as you do. Bad energy...stay far away

You are so humble sir....I really appreciate. I hope you will give me an attention if I dm you

She never ready sha