@Kitaun. @Afeni. I guess we are not too far in ideas. All the same the old soldiers should go and rest. OBJ might not be bad comparatively but when you are too stubborn to listen to the voice of the people that they say is the voice of God you will definitely fail and you will not record much success. Baba never listens and if you don't listen to him he will distroy you! That is not a fair play! We need to try other people, we need to put the right people there in position and get to a stage where the vote of Nigerians will become important in deciding who rules the country. For the fact that we have SELECTION in Nigeria and not ELECTION does not mean that we should continue putting the likes of Baba, IBB, Buhari, Maruwa and the other self centred military people in power. THEY JUST CAN'T DO IT RIGHT!

kitaun:

Majority of you guys think its all about having brains or about appearing flawless but the issue we have not been able to really adress is the issue of the one who can successful hold the country together as one compact unit, i hate to think of it but to me i still feel that because of the nascence of our democracy and the fact that we as Nigerians are so indisciplined we still need someone with a military background, at least until the debris of the past corrupt regimes have been cleared.

Do you really think if Olu Falae had been declared winner of the 1999 elections we would not have had a coup ?
So many questions have been left unanswered especially about our polity,God Save Naija

It's not about Military might, it's about people coming up with one voice and standing by it. See what happen during the 3rd term agenda! Nigerians said no! The national assembly interpreted the voice of the people rightly! That was democracy at work! That is the beauty of democracy! Dictatorship is never the solution, you make too many enemies and your enemy will come back at you and the trend continues without end. Don't forget that to end a war you still have to come to the round table because you can never completely eliminate your enemy. Let Nigerians learn to be honest & stand by what they believe in then democracy can root itself without the military!

All the ex-military leader posing again, when they were there what did they do? Stealing emptying Nigeria's treasury & denying Nigeria the chance of moving on each time the opportunity appears at the horizon. Baba almost turned down democracy again with his 3rd term agenda. If you believe in democracy, then you will know that Military just don't have the brain.

@pharlar. I thought you said it's cool!  Why are you now advicing someone against special consultation from an expert?

Scatter:

As for me i will vote for okonjo -iweale a million times because she got what it takes to save nigeria. Nigeria needs a saviour now. Forget the ibbs atikus and buharis and the other thieves and psycophants as far as they are concerned the presidency is a place to replenish their dwindling foreing accounts in the billions. May God forgive them in advance and give nigerians the forseight to choose the right person! (that is if rigging is arrested)

AMEN!!!!!!!!!!!

Abuja U fine oooooooooo!

Dutse


Next B

Dominican republic


Next is B

diddy4:

@jay o jay

watch your mouth boy.

Sorry no vex! I can see have personal problems! You are generally rude in your postings. I guess I should eliminate you not to ever appear on my page, you are too barbaric and mannerless!

Vieira:

LOL!

ofcourse!

men are wired differently.

First of all men do not see Sex and Love as the same thing and to them it is two separate things.

Secondly when men cheat, they never do so thinking the girlfriend/wife will find out. So to them she will never be hurt because she'll never know.

Thirdly most of the men who have truly not cheated have done so for the following reasons: Fear of being caught, lack of oppourtunity, Religious fear.

Fourthly (is that a word??) Men by nature are polygamous and that is a FACT, not an excuse. Men have to fight against their nature to remain faithful. Civilization is what has turned men into monogamous creatures but we still have to fight against milllions of years of biological instinct.

I mean women produce very few eggs a month and once one is fertilised that is it.
Men produce millions of sperms EVERY single day!
We are meant to go out there and impregnant as many as possible. You will never see a farm with equal number of hens and cocks now.

all this talk of TRUE love and bullshit is just wishful thinking but if it helps you to sleep better at night then good luck to you all.

More oil to your elbows!  People should learn to call spade a spade and stop pretending!

kellorah:

@ topic: depends

Pls expantiate if you can your reasons may be useful to someone.

diddy4:

my man is family matter disturbing you? this is the 3rd topic on parents. anyhow, both of them are the best.

@diddy4. There is no need been rude. Because you are faceless on the forum does not mean you shouldn't know how to talk in public. We can all do that but it will defy the purpose of the forum. Nairalanders let's pretend to be all matured Just make your contribution without insult!

diddy4:

what do u mean by freedom? person tie your legs?
home is home. aint no place like home.

LoverBwoy:

and what is "freedom" in this topic? ?

Please! There is nothing personal about this topic, so don't direct it at me or at anyone in particular. Freedom in this case is very psychological and it means freeing yourselves from self enslavement for the sake of searching for better life rather than putting your bits into the motherland and make it come out like those places you think are paradise.  This topic is to let those who think otherwise do some re-think or air their views to convince us.  If you have ever been abroad then you probably will understand the reason for this topic.  Let us just air our views and put sentiments or insults away.

Regards to all!

We wish we could love them both equally, yet we find ourselves loving one more than the other.

What is your own position?

We wish we could love them both equally, but most of the time we find ourselves loving one more than the other.

Tell us your own position and why!

In a broken home the children suffer physically psychologically or otherwise.  They are have to live with either of the parents.  Who should take care of them?

If you ask me I'll say north or south home is the best!  But outside Nigeria I have met Nigerians who say "that stupid useless godforsaken country, I'll never go back there!"  Yet wherever they are that are treated as second citizen or nobody.

What do you think?

Maybe no court of law has established his guilts, his crimes against Nigeria and Nigerians, we know what he has done to the country. How Nigeria has been badly wounded because of his actions when he was the military head of state who called himself president.  I don't know if I'm the only one wondering, why to date he is untouchable, why he can still bring out his head wanting to contest for the No 1 post, why a large number of hypocrite Nigerians are still behind him and he's still having a face in the country, why for once Nigerians can not come out and call a spade a spade.  If Nigerians are bigger than any individual, we need to think straight, act together, decide what we want and do the right thing, shun money politics and play a game of conscience, die for what you believe in for the sake of future generations and tomorrow Nigeria.

Let's chat! It's all about us, it's all about Nigeria!

Eurphoria:

why the shocked face and stupified look? what are you 2yrs? I answered your dumb question, go research mehn, all i can say is the word ''sickness you used is not appropriate. DUH

@Euphoria,  U sound like someone who do drugs. No wonder u picked that name! Just listen to yourself and u will see that there is probably no place for people like u on this forum.   Haba! U are rude!

@mamaput. U are just OK!

Potbelly in men! Nothing but "evidence of bad living" which we graciously call "evidence of good living".  It's no sickness nor disease, nor lack of any vitamins it's just bad habits from drinking & eating that result in accumulation of excess fats at the wrong places which will eventually kill the man if he's not carefull.

Bisanke:

Hmm this topic is a topic that ive been looking for anyways @the topic
Yeah i can date 2 friends. if i broke up wit one there's no big deal as long as i'm not playing them at the same time there's no problem with dating two friends. Hmm have i been in this situation before hmmm

I don't mean to be insultive, but I hope u are not morally bankrupt, cos u seem to see it as fun! If they see u as such all his friends will surely av a taste of u if they can av their ways & u will become a laughing stock and to them a public dog! Sorry for my dry language, nothing personal,

Ask a Nigerian a question he will answer you with a question.

Only Nigerians don't recognize judiciary in a democratic structure, with Mr. President as the No 1 culprit.

Every Nigerian is an Oga!(Boss).

Love and cheat are not compatible yet they co-exist. funny isn't it?

kelvinO:

just because you don't know how to keep your pants-up does not mean all men do that. if you do know what love truely is you would know that sex is the least thing that goes no your mind when you love someone. the fact of cheating is an atribute of irresponsibility. so please do try and go for sex edu. and i'm sorry for you if you believe that(True love probably comes from woman alone) because you would never find one.

The first thing I checked was your age and I discovered that you are old enough to know your left hand from the right, old enough to face the facts of life and tell the truth. This forum is all about being realistic and not fantasizing or being hypocritical just because you want to look like a saint. The only thing they are talking about here is SEX and not LOVE as a whole. Sex is just part of love and it comes with all temptations that makes you pull down your pants. For your information highly responsible men do it everyday and they still love their wives beyond your imagination. Pls stop living in fools world and stop pretending. The simple truth is that it is NOT good but it does happen so help us God!

Common guys! Just face it @reality.com! It happens everyday! A man can really love his woman, ready to die for her and will still steadily cheat on her! (Funny way a man loves!!!!!!!!)

A woman @reality.com knows that & she makes do with his home coming all the time and the show of love he puts on whenever he's home.  She's not a fool, she knows he cheats, but as long as he keeps it out there and he's up to his responsibilities, the the earth can keep going round the sun. (True love probably comes from woman alone!!!!!!!)

You've dated a person, to protect your own dignity you have no business dating anyone in his circle of friends or familyagain, no amount of love he shows you may come out of it injured cos you will only be used by him and dumped. To them you may be nothing but a bed mate (behind you they mock you) and nothing for you. No man would really want to put a former friend's girlfriend in the house. It is shamefull and morally degrading. Even if the man puts you in the house the site of his friend will be bringing a demoralizing memory into his mind & such occasional thought may brake your house in future. So don't do it, if you have for your own good dump all of them & look for a better future elsewhere.

I say to those men that are naive, SHUT THE Bleep UP! Who disvirgined who? Are u not the No 1 culprits?  If u can keep your Jonny at rest, the ladies will equally close their legs because they are in better control than men, who will sometimes go all the way raping them! Everybody is guilty of the moral decadence, it's all about CHANGE!

Let the men go to rest, we need to try the more peaceful women at the top. IBB & co should go to hell! They av nothing to offer. Nigeria is not their property!

Who cares about how ugly a man is? It's all about women that are the light of the world!

Wives should ask Omotola Ekehinde what's her secret after 4 & husbands will face off the 18's!

Thanks guys. u guys r just wonderful.I'm glad I found out about nairaland.