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funkmrflexx:
I just got married and both me and my wife are both AS. We plan on doing pre genetic testing or IVF. I already contacted Nordica Clinic for the whole procedure. So If you have the money to do IVF and genetic testing. You can go ahead and marry. Being AS shouldn't deprive you from happiness

U get mind o

akinade28:
Op, I have been in this kind of scenerio twice now, though I never dated them but I really liked them. The first one happened 6 years ago, we are both not married till now. He will tell me " why are all the good girls I meet AS, and the crazy ones are AA?. AA girls have broken his heart several times.
This choice of marriage partner can be hard for some people. Those that got compatible spouses ( medical, physical, behavioral, spiritual, mental) easily don't know how lucky they are.
Imagine someone on this thread saying that he doesn't want to marry an AS, because they are all AA in his family and he wants to keep his family bloodline, as if AS individual chose the sickle cell genes. What a sickening mentality!

Honestly most AA girls will show you peper when they know you are AS as a guy

But science could have find something to end this AS issues start from the costly IvF and other methods

folake4u:
Hmm fair enough.

This genotype wahala has really cost me some good people sha.

Not only you. She cried for a whole week, strong guy like me could not hold my tears too. We both cried like babies. I pray I see someone like her again.

jogsman01:
She gave you an answer or you got the answer here

Lol. No answer and I answered by myself Bry throwing her blocking

This is an update about my previous post. And thanks to those that gave me some advice. Its been three days now after I ended everything with her, no call, message or anything from. It is now I realize you guys are telling me the truth.
https://www.nairaland.com/7021014/think-made-best-decision

E choke

Claire104:
I'm AS and my husband used to be AA so we thought.. our 2yr old became sick last month and we had to do genotype and we discovered that he is SS. We have 2 kids already and we decided to genotype for everyone again...
I'm AS,my husband is AS, first child is SS and second child is AS.
Try and do your genotype in different places o before you get married.

Funny enough those yeye girls will start using it against you when you know you are AS and they are AAA

She cried for a whole week and I cried too. The love us just too much. Now I am left with moving from one girls to another because of deceit from the part if girls. Being an AS is very bad but we can't kill ourselves.

Iyaebe:
Another one is about to be initiated into their occultic group .Just know you are about to stop been truly happy

What is your definition of happiness. Spending on girls?

Like seriously Naija girls go soon turn every guy to hard guy

Well, she is gone finally. I summoned courage, wrote some heart touching messages, then block her. Now seems my strength is returning. If she is meant for me she would find a means to apologise and if not we meuve. Sometimes it is very necessary as a man to uphold our ego

Vagin a people giving men issues up and down

Update! She messaged on what'sapp some minutes ago and I picked she was requesting I tell her how to on flashlight on video call. She doesn't want and she does not want to let go. Girls can be dubious. I kept my answers with her very short and blunt

ITbomb:
That's why I define my stand after max 3 weeks, if you say no, I move. If you still insist on coming close to me after saying no, then touching will start, if you are not comfortable, you move

Lol. That is true though

I have already made my decision.Evrb if she accept, it is a trap, there is no going back

ITbomb:
I still don't understand why I should make money and then be begging a girl to come and spend it and she will tell me to wait for a month before giving me answer.

Mind you, I believe in relationship but it should be about two mature adults who understand, like and respect each other and it should start as friendship

Well, I understand you, but one needs to be careful of being "friendzoned" or you have never r heard from a girl that would at the end tell you that we can never be in relationship I prefer keeping you as a good friend while you will always be at the losing end.

Karleb:
Good.

Stop telling the enemy your next move, it makes you predictable.

Lol. She is not an enemy now

Karleb:
Don't waste your time with her.

Go for other girls, a girl will decline or accept immediately, if she doesn't want to seem cheap. She might accept the next day or maximum a week's time.

But declining is always instant when they don't want you.
Thank you boss
Best thing to do is to stop talking to her about it, don't fight her but reduce the attention. She's a time waster, go for other girls!

Thank you boss, I have already told her that yesterday would be the last day I would discuss that with her

9japride:
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No need, please don't force love on anyone it's not worth it. Be true to yourself, there are more pretty and comparable girls for you out there.

Thank you boss

9japride:
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I see most of these stories as fake just to make people argue unnecessarily. For example in religious gathering or anywhere that both sexes are gathered there are more beautiful ladies there. I just wonder how one will keep focusing on just one person that is having fun somewhere, thereby missing better connect closeby. This is the reason most guys commit suicide because of just one mere mortal. Guys should grow up or better still people should stop posting all these annoying trolling posts.

Bro, this is not a story but reality. If you want to know more I can show you screenshot of chats

Ussycool:
Look, she is in relationship with someone else. I am sure it is either she is considering you for time being or she see it as a big deal to tell you the fact that she isn't interested.
Anyway, I would have love you to keep in touch with her. It take some time to win some ladies heart.

Thanks boss

Palema007:
No you take two steps back, two deep breaths and some sense! If truly you have been in one or two relationships ,then it's obvious you learnt nothing from both.

First red flag was the definite time frame she gave, The lady is obviously placing you on hold while she puts some dots on her "I". She's rounding up some projects (relationship) elsewhere to find a space to squeeze you in.

Secondly her inconsistency, she's yet have a space to squeeze you in but wouldn't let you go either. Yet you are here asking if you made the right decision to move on. Bro please wait a little bit more. Who knows in years to come she might create a distance learning program for you since her school is full already or probably an annex

Why do you assume this is peculiar to all girls what if she is different

Nyascobar1414:
Why do y'all (kings, men)demigods... Keep inflating their ego...
You cant love her..
All you need is her cooch!e..
Stop deceiving yourself...

Ohh I gach it, they power females have ober males is sexual urge... Our libido made us weak to be seen so desperate...

Nigga tryna term down your urges.. And yo will see this ladies powerless AF..

How dare you beg a fellow mortal like you for months, days for a relationship.. GTFOutta lust from your life bro...
I mean she defecate like you, urinate like you, have a foul mouth smell when she wakes up in the morning...
Oops she even m*nstruate and the blood stinks AF. Her cooch!e gad bacteria, it probably smells... Despite all this lust has covered your eyes,,, bro see beyond lust...

I'm really amazed cos a man wrote this shii @OP... Dammn if at all you know who a man(the power and capabilities of a man you wouldn't even beg her for 30minutes...

Dont you have ego and pride...

Damnn bro, go get your selfworth!

Miiind you I have never beg her and will never do that I just think asking her out is the best why should I be begging someone to love me when I am not an idiot

Nyascobar1414:
Why do y'all (kings, men)demigods... Keep inflating their ego...
You cant love her..
All you need is her cooch!e..
Stop deceiving yourself...

Ohh I gach it, they power females have ober males is sexual urge... Our libido made us weak to be seen so desperate...

Nigga tryna term down your urges.. And yo will see this ladies powerless AF..

How dare you beg a fellow mortal like you for months, days for a relationship.. GTFOutta lust from your life bro...
I mean she defecate like you, urinate like you, have a foul mouth smell when she wakes up in the morning...
Oops she even m*nstruate and the blood stinks AF. Her cooch!e gad bacteria, it probably smells... Despite all this lust has covered your eyes,,, bro see beyond lust...

I'm really amazed cos a man wrote this shii @OP... Dammn if at all you know who a man(the power and capabilities of a man you wouldn't even beg her for 30minutes...

Dont you have ego and pride...

Damnn bro, go get your selfworth!

This really hit me hard but have you ever fall in love before?

Palema007:
Who else bursted into laughter at

"I asked her out in November, she said she would give me reply in March" omoh.... With all the redpills una dey take here some of you still dey "await admission"

Wahala dey

Take a deep breath and take some water. Mind you this isn't the first or second relationship I am into

ChiefSosa:
You gats to move on. Let me give you this girl. Oya, call that other girl and tell her to gerrout that you have seen another girl

Lol, I don't need this. I am beginning to get tired of this relationship stuff sef. Just have to cut of relationship with someone that love me last year September because of Genotype wahala and now one girl is tossing me around. Life isn't balance indeed

zyzxx:
Be patient, she might be in a wrong relationship and it still in back and front. Sometimes we just have to be patient.
If you truly love her give her time and keep doing your life.
Moreover it is not do or die. Along the line you might meet the right person for you if she is not. And she never seized your license to approach another person
So why the fuse. Pls let her have her time

Thanka for this insight

Kobojunkie:
She was never that into you to begin with.

Alright. Thank you

ChiefSosa:
You should've known from the beginning. How can you ask someone out since NOVEMBER, she told you she'll give you a reply by MARCH, and you were waiting on her?

Lol. I just think I have to move on even if she says yes now it is a trap

Ussycool:
You are probably one of the 10 guys begging for a date. She will laugh over it and deleted your number. This one of the problem with working class ladies.
We will be glad to see her reply tonight.
I hope she accept.

Might you I am not begging for date, she has been a very close friend of mine since university days

Ussycool:
You are probably one of the 10 guys begging for a date. She will laugh over it and deleted your number. This one of the problem with working class ladies.
We will be glad to see her reply tonight.
I hope she accept.

No reply as usual. But I have told her already that I would never bother her again and she should grab whay that means