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Hello guys I don't want to bore you with long stories. I need advice and solution. I do erect when I am with my partner but release everything in minutes even before entering the place. She has been complaining about this recently I do my best to ensure long erection. I have done some medical test which comes clean.
I will be in the comment session for solution, advice and recommendations

Lmao

kyber:
He recently left to be independent
We are all Christian but he changed his religion from Christian to Muslim

He said He didn’t like going to church
So does he like going to mosque

Is it the prayer affecting him or what

His he possessed..

Please what do you suggest we do cause his parents Nd family are worried over this

Learn to mind your business. Whatever path he chooses to go is his business not yours.

trutharena:
He claimed one of the reason for big corruption in the civil service is that the system is rigged against integrity because how do we expect a civil servant/Private workers earning like 100k to afford a house/car that is 8million by paying cash at once.

He said we can’t have a system that allow corruption while on the other hand have EFCC to curb the corruption.

He advised the best way to curb this is to set up mortgage system such that the people can pay in installment with FG working alongside the lenders to see that people can have access to such loans. With this, a civil servant don’t need to steal to afford cars and etc.

In Lagos, this is in practice with Lagos HOMS. The FG just need to back the banks with some security that can help them mitigate against defaulters that may arise.

To the Obituary people that invaded this thread, you’ve been asking for Tinubu stance on things like this, now he spoke brilliantly, you’re still bitter.

Whether you hit your head on stone or not, Tinubu will be your president in 2023.

Trust me, if Tinubu gets elected, he will build a long lasting mortgage structure in Nigeria that will outlive his government. This man understand how to build structure and he is a goal getter.

By using bullion van. To pack money I think

Following

She is practising the skill.

zionmde:
Marry her and send her to a poly or college of education. If she is less than 23yrs then better

Let me tell you something, partners are very difficult to find and u can scarcely find one that can tick all ur boxes. Things have gone so bad now that if u find a decent girl, hold her tight

Best advice so far. Educational qualification shouldn't be a yardstick to determine your future partner. Peace of mind is the most important thing. Mind you there are educated ladies that are still illiterate out there. Choose wisely

BoredBerry:
I'm disappointed in her...

The boyfriend probably has another girl... And even if he doesn't, don't humiliate yourself while trying to win a useless Nigerian man back... Apologise if you must but never beg! He's not even her husband... Not even her dad... Probably wouldn't pay her bride price in a million years... Smh

And I would definitely sue him for recording the video and posting it online... Sue him of his generational poverty... Smh again...

They are easily spotted. Reason paternal fraud is in high rates now. A bitch cheating when dating will definitely continue cheating even after marriage

I want a tall muscular guy with 6 packs. �

Having similar issue. NYSC certificate won't just load

That is how most of them will be forming hard to get and be crying every Saturday in their closet when their younger one are getting married. Yeye people

jackals:
Why do y'all sounds to make me unhappy. I'm not happy with how things turn out with him not getting back to me as I had hoped. And now you guys are compounding my issue.

Thanks anyways

Yeah! Exactly what you have been doing all over the years till you are now 33. Continue do the same thing for the next coming guy. After all you ladies believe marriage is not compulsory

dontrulee:
Lol.... Op you don turn simp.
You have become back up nigga.
I am not against you giving the girl money, but that's what she uses against you. If you want to give and you're comfortable with it, give but me no dey give any girl money after wetin I don see girls do (story for another day).

An average lady has many toasters, many guys will be trying to catch her attention on WhatsApp, so she wouldn't even have time to read and respond to your message if you're not her priority. 99% of my chats on Whatsapp are with ladies and they respond immediately I send a message even though I reply 30 or 1hour late. And when they complain, I tell them (I am in a meeting, and I am even sacrificing my attention for you and you're not grateful?? Goodnight. If you want to chat, go and chat with your other friends. I am not like other people that come online on Whatsapp to chat or waste time) and they compose. I have turned the table around and made it feel that chatting with me is a great privilege. This feat can only be achieved when you've many ladies at your beck and call. It's the signature of an Alpha King!!!

Oil dey your head, blocking her isn't the best. Just don't give her money again, and give her less or zero attention, if she really want you she will find her way around

Well, u don't need to block her, just move on your lane, if she message you message reply her messages, but be careful not to ever give her money or pay her bill again. It is not necessary we make enemy of ourselves. With time she might get into you

haslaw:
Yes it matter a lot. Please don't mind all those saying otherwise, they have no hope of marrying a virgin girl.

There is nothing like being the one and only that has ever slept with your wife.

For the records, most virgins have the best characters as they are mostly very disciplined, loving, humble, very understanding and are not easily moved by worldly things. Non virgins on the other hand are mostly yahoo boys left overs.

Lol. You missed it. Keeping ones virginity might be out of fear and pain, ugliness or even bad character too

Character matters though virginity will make the husband to respect and trust her the more. Virginity in the actual sense doesn't keep a home, character does

toujurs:
because 75%, really are useless. They want to reap from where they didn't sow anything. You will see a broke girl, from a financially struggling family, with a masters, instead of her to focus and work towards making money, she would begin to look forward to marrying a very rich man. Who can provide for her all she needs, and you would wonder, whats the essence of her education if she would end up, so eager to marry a rich man rendering her certificate to waste. Most men set up businesses for their wife, buys shop for their wife. It's a shame, i am not saying a lady shouldn't marry a rich man, but it shouldn't be like a motive for her, she can make that money if she works hard for it, and earn respect. What's then the value in her, when the man provides everything for her. If its not to be pounding her vj anytime you want to in the other room, that's like having a sex object o. Most women need to start working legitimately, and stop subjecting themselves as a sexual toy and liability.

Lol, the working ones will still bill you. Wether working or not you can't escape billing from Nigerian girls

Romanoff:
Dating someone for three years and with no direction and you want her to claim she's married, or engaged?

Is having a boyfriend a relationship status?

Have you ever filled a form where they asked about relationship status and you saw "I have a boyfriend/girlfriend there?

You two are just two fornicators.

Rest

A girl that can't wait for a guy for some years will actually not be able to wait when they are married and the guy is broke for three months.

Peebaby93:
Awwwn so sweet,but yours is still hungry and suffering.you should start with them.

Ebot

They are all hard working and doing well, it is yours that need help the most.

Peebaby93:
My dear,when you see someone like this,just know that it's hungry that is catching him..... nothing more

I can feed your whole community for a year

Fairmedia:
There is no beef or competition between men and women, women are not threatened.

I still don't understand what you are trying to proof

Vinnie2000:
No lies, OP! They support demselves alot. Only, it sometimes come back to bite dem in the yanch! I know of a lady who was arguing online dat 'Hardship can make a Girl sleep with a married man'. Unfortunately, her younger sister then fvcked her husband!

I just weak. Why can't guys support each other's too

Threesha:
One of the main reasons a woman might prefer dating an older man is because they know what they want and simply aren't looking for anything unstable. An older man is likely to be more independent financially and have his own place, a car, and a job. “As A Man Grows Older He values the voice of experience more.

Ladies and car, 5 n 6

Peebaby93:
What he couldn't achieve for 4years,another used 6months...

All you can say. Mtcheew. I see why one guy said all Nigerian girls are useless

LisaAnneMia:
Four years relationship?

Yes.

Men will start gaining upper hands when they start supporting themselves. Women will always support each other even if it is ok something bad and this has been pushing them on. Imagine it is guy that did this, daughters of Eve will end up saying all negative things about the guy tagging all male gender bad

iLegenddNoReply:
You idîots keep asking women out. Those of us that are stingy and don't ask women out or even handsome keep banging all the fine girls, Church girls, and university girls for free.

Men of nowadays are really dumb. Smart men don't ask women out. They just act as their boyfriends and get what they want.

These wise men get what others are struggling to get for free and without stress or money but humor and wisdom.

Read the book Mr. Friendzone if you want to learn how and you'll thank me later.

One fine girl is even in my kitchen cooking. Zero cash spent. I have already told her I'm stingy.

She was in my second room praying (since she carry Church for head), but this afternoon, my fingers were deep inside her. Though, I didn't want to knack. I want to return her back to her boyfriend.

Make I go kitchen go see wetin she dey cook self. All these university students can tax, but she knows I ain't spending except it's on in my house or hotel, transport, or condom.

Below is a link to download the free version of the book I talked about above. https://shop.wetclef.com/blog/2019/05/30/download-mr-friendzone/

Bro you will be good for GNLD work

kingscare1:
Again, Niggas, any girl that is feeling untop of the world because of how much guys dey flock around her, ignore her or act normal with her nothing attached. Move on.

If she wants to start her Ashanti button, subtly or jokingly cast her like she is not the matter, that would make her uncomfortable around you or turn nice to you or give you attitudes or even try to be close, act as if nothing happens, be happy, move on and never inflat her ego, rather always deflect it subtly and jokingly.

Na she go use her tongue to count her teeth and adjust towards you. They are like google, garbage in, garbage out. What you give its what you receive.

Never make any girl to feel on top of the world unless you are sampling her cookies very well, then appreciate and protect her cos its yours to on like stand by generator.

When she start misbahaving due to changes, then deflect and repeat. Never trust a biitch! Keep them in checks always to avoid see finishing.

Honestly you are an expert.

MadamVanessa:



My Love Machine does the magic more and I am financially independent. So to me now, relationship is meaningless.

You have belittled yourself to the extent of riding ordinary plastic and battery. Tueee

Jennyclay:
Sir, It happens in reality alot. Maybe you haven't seen any reason you're talking like this.

Some Hardworking ladies get married to broke and jobless men, and these broke men end up being so toxic and full of hatred and jealousy.

I have seen and read many cases here on nairaland how some jobless broke men beat and murder their wife just to claim her hard earned property she worked for.

Late Osinachi (R.I.P) was the bread winner in her marriage, but her evil husband maltreated her.

Just only one person and you have saying you have seen many. Guys don't be deceived by this

mabeni:
And i repeat. Dear, hustlers and Bachelors, if your girlfriend does not have any source of income and or she's stingy or selfish, please, do not marry her.
E get why.
May we not regret our actions!

Jobless or with job just know they will bill you might only be little difference.