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Crime / Dr. Akunyili, Husband Of Ex-nafdac Boss Shot Dead Yesterday. by Jcemmyu: 8:18am On Sep 29, 2021
The Husband of Late Dora Akunyili was shot dead yesterday night in Onitsha. It is suspected that the trio(Dr. Akunyili, his driver and police guard) were attacked and but he is the only one as at now confirmed dead from a close source.

He is the MD of ST. Leo Hospital Trans-Ekulu Enugu.
Crime / Incessant Harassment Of Authorized Tinted Glass Users In Enugu by Jcemmyu: 5:30am On Jun 21, 2021
The past week have been traumatic for tinted glass users in Enugu as the Police have beamed their lights on them even after the further explanation from the IG.

Extortion rates range from 10,000 to 50,000 naira and also harassment and intimidation.


I started suffering ASTIMATISM as early as 10 years ago when I was still in the university and my medical records are there. Over the years the condition worsened and lead to me having multiple dark shades in my car until i got the necessary approval papers for the tints.

Pets / Re: Meet Trump My Pet Tortoise by Jcemmyu: 12:53pm On Feb 03, 2021
I got one prior to Trump but it wasn't as active as Trump so I had to return and got a more active specie. They are cute creatures though. Might be getting a chameleon soon after that maybe a monkey. We see.
Jcemmyu:
I actually grew up in an animal farm and can say I didn't spend my early childhood with a few domesticated animals like cattle, horses etc. I am a dog lover too but recently I wanted to add a lil bit of weird to the occasion...enters TRUMP my tortoise.

Got him a month ago and it's been fun, we spend my free time together although bae is becoming worried. We hang out too most times.

Issue is that animal hardly eats and it bothers me. I do vegetable salads and fruits too but I see same quantity whenever i come home.

So I am asking if there are other tortoise/turtle lovers...how to you feed them.

Done some research over the internet too.

Pets / Meet Trump My Pet Tortoise by Jcemmyu: 12:42pm On Feb 03, 2021
I actually grew up in an animal farm and can say I didn't spend my early childhood with a few domesticated animals like cattle, horses etc. I am a dog lover too but recently I wanted to add a lil bit of weird to the occasion...enters TRUMP my tortoise.

Got him a month ago and it's been fun, we spend my free time together although bae is becoming worried. We hang out too most times.

Issue is that animal hardly eats and it bothers me. I do vegetable salads and fruits too but I see same quantity whenever i come home.

So I am asking if there are other tortoise/turtle lovers...how to you feed them.

Done some research over the internet too.

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Politics / Re: Nigerian Army, Police, DSS Why? IPOB Members Killing In Pictures by Jcemmyu: 2:26pm On Aug 23, 2020
This is just bad. People that are unarmed.

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Crime / Re: Jailed Nigerian Freed, Gets $10m Compensation by Jcemmyu: 9:19am On May 28, 2020
Lemme leave this here

Crime / Re: Tony Ugochukwu A Nigerian Based In The USA He Was Arrested For Murder by Jcemmyu: 9:10am On May 28, 2020
Lemme leave this here

Politics / Re: Senator Dino Melaye Writes On F-Virus. Shows Off His Power Bike by Jcemmyu: 11:31pm On Mar 29, 2020
MSesan:
Wait fess!
Is he still a senator?? cheesy

once a senator, always a senator

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Politics / Re: Ugwuanyi: Redefining Governance At 56 by Jcemmyu: 8:54am On Mar 21, 2020
Since 1999, this is the worst governor Enugu has ever had. I am not from Enugu, i work in the private sector so I have nothing to gain or lose. Enugu is grounded. Roads...look at Agbani rd, TransEkulu even the metropolis..filled with pot holes with no maintenance. No traffic light is working...was surprised when i passed Liberty estate and saw that 1 working yesterday. All he does is pay chalatans monthly salaries and give them the Hon. tag. Enugu is over taxed. The only thin working in Enugu is the new MOT cadets, revamped after the citizens protested....if Gburus after his political life walks alone on the streets of Nsukka...he ll b mobbed because if I were in his shoes, a newcomer ll always ask if Nsukka is the capital but he isnt that wise.
Career / Re: Ike Eweama Promoted To Colonel In US Army (Photos) by Jcemmyu: 3:10pm On Mar 20, 2020
He is from Umuofor Amaimo in Ikeduru LGA of Imo state
Family / Re: What's The Biggest Gift Your Abroad Relative Has Ever Given To You? by Jcemmyu: 11:07am On Mar 09, 2020
Cecilia Uzor. Kai I don suffer.

Nairaland / General / Ukraine Plane Crashes In Iran by Jcemmyu: 6:42am On Jan 08, 2020
A passenger plane has crashed in Iran just after take off.

This might be seen as suspicious with the recent issues in the middle east.

Foreign Affairs / Re: Rockets Fall Near US Embassy In Baghdad Injuring Five As World War 3 Fears Mount by Jcemmyu: 7:45am On Jan 05, 2020
StrongandMighty:
Which kini world War?? Small Iran no fit ignite another world War abeg. Had it been its between USA and Russia, China or even France small fear for dey, but Iran?? Nah they no fit can


But shaa I know our jobless religious extremist brothers from the North go begin nonsense protest/riot upon wetin no concern them.
they can when religious sentiments are triggered
Career / Re: Folake Adebola, Muslim Who Wore Hijab To Work In US Sent Home by Jcemmyu: 3:12am On Jan 05, 2020
They just made the girl rich if she wish to be. American can be sympathetic to some issues. Sue their a**.
Sports / Re: Throwback Picture Of Super Eagles Team by Jcemmyu: 2:11pm On Nov 27, 2019
Davabhz:
See throwback picture of the super eagles of Nigeria during their training session.

source: http://nigeriainfo247.com/2019/11/26/throwback-picture-of-nigeria-super-eagles-team/20/01/40/148/categorized/admin/#more-148

When men were men
Politics / Re: Nigerian Army Distances Itself From ‘operation Positive Identification’ by Jcemmyu: 5:29am On Nov 04, 2019
Ok
Family / Re: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by Jcemmyu: 7:36am On Aug 04, 2019
Anonymus010:
I Need The Advice Of Experienced Married Men

NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.

Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.

Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.

Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school.

Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her).

After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry.

Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.

Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid.

Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......

THE PROBLEM:

2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking.

After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.

The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).

I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.

Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.

Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.

Bro, your story is your advice. That woman should not leave Nigeria with you. I repeat, should not. Try and limit her influence over your kids else you loose them too.

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Politics / DSTV: The Footprints Of Fraud. by Jcemmyu: 5:41pm On Aug 03, 2019
Barely two months ago, my DSTV decorder developed a fault and I instructed my folks to take it to DSTV office in town. Weeks later, I was called that the viewing rights have expired, so I recharged. My folks called to say it didn't pull through. After i did some investigations I found out the decorder was swapped and the IUC changed to a new one. Invariably, i recharged the old IUC, I contacted DSTV and all they could say was they couldn't access the old IUC because it has been decommissioned. I presented all necessary documents to validate my claim of payment and more than two weeks later, they are yet to either refund or credit my IUC.

I am seriously disappointed at their services and blame it on the fact that they have more or less monopolized the market.

Kindly assist send to the frontpage.

Religion / Re: "My 2-Year-Old Son Killed This Black Snake" - Mum Says, Thanks God by Jcemmyu: 3:13pm On Jul 27, 2019
Linus Mba.
Lion King

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Religion / Re: "My 2-Year-Old Son Killed This Black Snake" - Mum Says, Thanks God by Jcemmyu: 3:12pm On Jul 27, 2019
UKordietrying:
24 months old baby, which kin lie be this
i wonder ooh
Crime / Re: Tella Adedapo Commits Suicide: Soldier Hangs Himself Inside Abuja Barracks by Jcemmyu: 1:35pm On Jul 27, 2019
Forget Rose and his work.

Keyword here is.....Army Head office, Budget and Planning and remember the missing 400 million.

Do the maths.
Politics / Re: #BiafraRemembranceDay: Enugu, Asaba, Anambra Completely Locked Down (Photos) by Jcemmyu: 1:43pm On May 30, 2019
I am proud of IGBOS

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Politics / Re: Please Help Broadcast. FG Is Owing My Family A House. by Jcemmyu: 11:44am On May 24, 2019
cc mynd
ishilove
lala

is this piece not front page worthy?
Crime / Re: Detained Vulture In Adamawa Eats N30,000 In 6 Days – Police by Jcemmyu: 11:37am On May 24, 2019
AngelicBeing:
What, is he dead shocked

yes...may his soul RIP
Crime / Re: Detained Vulture In Adamawa Eats N30,000 In 6 Days – Police by Jcemmyu: 11:37am On May 24, 2019
Where is EFCC when you want them......

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