₦airaland Forum

KayodeAjani:
Most ladies complain of big dicks they derive no pleasure in it
But i think both of them are Amateur couples making Sex. They r not experienced attall.

making sex? How exactly do u do that?

Xensity:
@bolded, what is this thing that is permanent?

How can a standard turn out to be flawed and imperfect? Say a standard a woman sets for herself is to get married to a man who is more intelligent than she is. If she actually does get married to this man, how can it turn out "flawed?" And what are the chances that being pressured into getting married to someone who is less intelligent than she is, wouldn't turn out more "flawed and imperfect?"

I think threads like this are sort of platitudinous. It's premise is the prevailing mantra in our Nigerian society- That Ladies should look past so called superficialities and high standards they set for themselves and give other men a chance, blah blah blah. Every girl has heard this sort of advice.

Propositions like this aren't entirely bad, but they are predicated on shallow perceptions of relationships, that aren't thoroughly pondered. Too much importance is placed on running against the aging clock, and getting married early, which places too much pressure on the individual, which invariably leads to making wrong choices, while less importance is placed on what the individual wants and how settling for less would affect the relationship in the long run.

u make very valid points. However we cant dispute the fact that the marriage institution itself is about taking chances. For instance its impossible to have every quality you want from just one man, and so there must be some element of compromise. I guess the man is suggesting that you single women need to be a bit more realistic and more accepting in your interactions with potential suitors. Every lady deserves a decent partner, and so does every man. So i believe that rule of thumb is that every lady desiring any sort of guy shld endeavor to be the type of woman who attracts such a man. And I don't support the idea of women lowering their standard just to get married, either. I think that is the most destructive piece of advice given to women.

INTROVERT:
All these hausa fulani boys are so so so handsome. see that heavily bearded guy (faints). i for like to friend one sha but ma mama go kill me. AND I STILL LOVE ERIC.

only you?

rowanMama:
Good.
Follow your dreams/passion and success will chase you pants down.

why the pants down allegory?

ChangeIsCostant:
God don answer ur call

its only a msg.

Lilshorecords:
last pic tho! E be like say e dey tap current down there

yea but at least the current is still his to tap naw..

Sorry abt ur plight big bros but u got married to a very immature woman. And to matters worse u over-indulged her to the point where she started believing u owed her for marrying u. Just go to court like someone said so u can have ur kids back. Sorry abt everything.

arthurshelly:
Bro you are too cold....expect more from this ur wife

too cold or too cool? How do u mean cold?

seizethaBae:
Thanks so much for this; @bolded; i would love it both ways i.e the kind of person that i have feelings for and also have feelings for me. Honestly stories like that of your aunt scares me every single day, and if i said i shld go with someone i dont love now hoping love will grow with time,wat if it doesnt?. The ex of mine i talkd about,i dated him for good 3yrs! wishing/praying to God for me to like him,it dint just happen.

u dated a man for three years yet u never "liked" him? Aunty What are u even saying? What took to him in the first place? Or are u trying to say that he jazzed u or what?
Pls oh, for the avoidance of doubt sis, i am not against ur belief in love, but if the guy is "perfect" and doesnt have issues like u typed initially, then i dont knw what kind of feelings u are waiting to develop again. This is the major bane of todays young ppl trying to settle down. They seem to narrow everything down to feelings. And they forget that they are not going to spend every single day loving even that person they believe they have the best chemistry with. To help ourselves more, we need to understand that marriage is more abt the character of a person and less abt feelings. All d best madam.

INTROVERT:
HE MITE NOT BE DA FATHER.

whose father?

MadCow1:
My only problem is why was God against Mankind having the knowledge of good and evil?



And why has he stayed pissed off with mankind since that time till now over 5000 years ..

And how cam you say he is all forgiving when he has not sent man back to Eden to start all over?

Why did it take his Son coming to die first before he started considering forgiving us?

Pfft...

i think u need to ask God himself

WHOcarex:
But when God created them He said they should go into the world and multiply. How were they supposed to do that without sex??

Maybe by immaculate conception. Some ppl and their reasoning sha

tuale4u:
Buhari is on point.

I actually i find it unrealistic when people say the govt should stop blaming the past.
We are suffering today, because the past never prepared for the future (today).

And also we are very unrealistic in our expectation that things can turn around suddenly.
it will takes us about ten years to diversify the economy. Diversification is not a switch you can just turn on or off.
it is a long painful process. We must understand this and work towards it.

All we talk about is dollar vs naira rate because we are still focussing on consuming imported tins.

We must look inward in our consumption pattern.

Blaming the past for the current economy woes does not in any way affect the performance of the govt. They can blame past govt while they work. it does not slow down progress in anyway. Actually it helps progress because it makes it easier for Nigerians to persevere and work hard for a better future.

keep blaming, mr.

Try this and thank me later. Step1: Make sure each student has a personal maths textbook. Step2: Give them assignment everyday from the book.

VolTOxic:
I think something is wrong with me because honestly I had a good laugh reading this. Anyway, I always like to believe for men, getting married isn't a problem. I still do. Getting married to the right person is the problem.
Sha. I hope you get to marry someone that loves you.

and what are you laughing at exactly, bruh?

Aaronsrod:
Do you have children of your own? Has she met them?

Act now before it is to late. A dream revelation means blood redemption. The Bible tells us in Exodus 22:18 Thou shalt not suffer a witch to live.

so what are u driving at?

obowunmi:
She almost killed me as a baby.

my friend no touch that woman o! Na so una dey start, before anything una don gang up kill helpless old woman say na ur pastor send u. Bloody Murderers!!

dacovajnr:
if I had DM her without Her permission I probably would've been snubbed or accused of invading her privacy without her permission but the real fact remains that if not for the Story I doubt if she'd reply the "Hey"

are u scared of being snubbed? Guys get snubbed all the time.

dacovajnr:
Would you mind if I DM you?

next time just DM her bro. U need no permission.

chigoizie7:
U know?
Truth is, social media has fetched me more puna than in real life.
I don't know about u.

i hope it makes life better for u bro.

nma24:
[color=#000099][/color] So he proposed on your second meeting... That's sweet. Not all some time wasters stringing a girl on for 12yrs before meaning to do the needful that their grandfather did in their teens.

yea buh do u really have to latch on to a guy for that long? What hapens to moving on?

tosyne2much:
Bro, na loan we I collect from Bank I use buy am oooooh

kul.

Alphafeezay:
31k? Got mine 35,500 from Banex yesterday! Chai.

officially screwed?

tosyne2much:
Bro, I would advise you go for Infinix hot 3.... I just bought mine last week and I can assure you that I'm really enjoying enjoying it... I got it 31, 000

and ppl stil dey shout recession. Weldone bros.

Progressive01:
But bro wait oo... What's the "paparazi" there?? That he shouldn't join a queue or what?? Or he should have prevented some random guy who took the picture from doing so

I nor understand..

chief calm down. No random guy took that damn picture. It was an orchestrated photo shot

Nice tactics. Win the people to their side so that they will sell out their freedom-fighting sons (and maybe daughters) abi? Never going to happen! The army is all abt strategy. But this one is clearly DOA...!

I dont knw if some ppl read but dont comprehend or they simply decide to ignore the points. The man of God says a woman is "a help meet" for the man according to the bible. Therefore she shldnt consider herself "equal" to the husband. If she has an opinion, he says to present it in a wise manner, and not to lord it over the man. Why do some ppl still have problem with this msg?

Twaci:
Is he trying to say we have no right to be opinionated when married?

We should agree to whatever our "masters" say?

This particular sermon is unsettling

i hope u understand what opinionated means and whether it's actually necessary in a godly marriage. I dont knw if he dats what he meant but i do knw dat he says to be humble and obedient to your husband who loves you. A loving husband cannot intend evil for you so i hardly see the place of being opinionated here.

frugal:
Don't mind those people. Get a CCTV to do the monitoring, you don't have to be there.

lol. A friend of mine gave me this suggestion but i thot it was ridiculous.

firstking01:
My brother, dnt be self delusional...love vanish between couples because they fell inlove for a "reason"...if you love with no reasons, then that love will last .

i believe this is actually what the question is about. Can you actually love with no reason?

olatunjithomas:
this is misplaced priority.

ado doesn't need any flyover , because I don't know how flyover will boost ekiti state's economy. let him not make the same mistake gov Amosun made when he built the ijebu ode flyover.

its done. There's no going back on the matter.

IamXenon:
Will probably join him when my house rent expires
Cuz. I have no money anymore, i'm barely getting by


Q: What do dead people worry about
A: Nothing.

lol. Funny guy. May God not allow u join him Ijn. Dnt worry, Our needs are divinely provided for.