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hot-angel:
Is it just me or is this topic funny?

It's not you, the topic is funny.
i can imagine myself coming back as a falcon, unicon or better still a flying pig. how funny.
Seun, tell me, you have a very wild imagination. i would love to get into your mind for 1 day and see what happens there.

kazey:
The feminist society would hang you. Its preety simple and straight forward. What a man can do a woman can do better. My wife would just do the work for the fun of it, otherwise she should stay home with me and enjoy. I hope she can keep up with the boredom the life would present.

By the way, Why can't a man babysit? Does that mean he is the houseboy? But when its the case of the woman as the housewife what do we say? its her task, common thats ridiculous.

i'm not saying that he can't babysit or help out with household chores, infact i love men who help out and would love to be married to a man like that. what I'm sayiny is that that should not be his primary assignment. It's a woman's place to handle the affairs of the home, even when he has to help out, it must be noted that he is the head of the home.

it's easy to say that one sin is worse than the other especially when one has more effect on both the sinner and society at large.
the truth is sin is sin, homosexuality or fornication.
some may be more morally aceptable than the others but in God's eye, it's all sin.
in this case, both honosexuality and fornication are sins against one's body.
it's like defiling our bodies, God's temple.
is just like saying, it's okay for a man to cheat on his wife but a woman shouldn't cheat on her husband.
the nigerian society finds it more permissive for a man to cheat but not a woman, yet in God's eye both are equally sins..

I don't believe that God brings evil to any man, but he allows these things happen.
everything that happens has it's cause and effect.
now remember the lords prayer which says, '' though i walk through the valley of the shadow of death''?
this means that we would face difficulties in life, some will treaten our lifes but then it also says ''i'll fear no evil for thou art with me''.
the truth is, God knows best and he does what he knows is best. we cannot question him nor fully understand his ways, but he keeps speaking to us in different ways.

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Re: What Do Ladies Hate in Men?
« #8 on: September 13, 2005, 04:44 PM »

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I don't like guys that are too smooth. When i mean too smooth, i mean
- too neat
-too handsome
-too clever
-too worldlywise
-too rich
-too sexy
-dresses too well
-too romantic
-too understanding

I knew this guy that was too handsome, too neat, he dressed too well, and his lips were too pink, he drove a very hot car , he was too sexy, too exposed, and i was like you remind me of Lucifer! get behind me i need something real !

That means AngelK won't like me because i have some but not all what you listed here.

i think what angel k mean is that guys should be real and natural.
too much of everything could drive anyone crazy.
i personally can't stand a guy who pretends and is so concious about himself.
i can't stand a guy who lies and feels he's always right.
i'm totally turned off by a guys who is insensitive to my feelings and needs.
i must not see dollar signs when i look at him but he has to willing to spend( he must not be stingy)
above all, i can't stand a guy who has no respect for women.

I once read that sex is 97% in the mind.
so though kissing and all that might not be or lead to fornication, the big question is what is your motive?
most times it's our intention and motives that matter not our action.
the truth is no matter how we try to twist the situation, we cannot run from the truth.
For you, kissing may not lead to physical sex but the motive in your mind is actually to gain sexual gratification.
ask yourself, what is my motive?

Baby, he's your boyfriend and not your husband.
look at you fingers, do you see any Gold or siver ring with a diamond stud? NO!
so you know what? tell him to 'HIT THE ROAD' and never take him back, cos a broken relationship is alot better than a broken marriage. You know what, there are a thousand guys out there waiting to treat you like the queen that you are.
salvage the situation while you can.

A persons who is on crack is addicted.. addiction iiself is to be abnormally tolerant to or dependent on something that is psychologically or phsically habit forming. since crack is narcotic in nature, one would naturally get an abnormal strong craving for it.
but love is different. though the feelings are equally strong and run very deep, it is not an abnormal addiction that becomes a bad habit. it's free. it's more of a feeling than an addiction.
i would say crack is more powerful in a negative waycos weather or not you want it, you have to do it cos you're hooked but love is a thing of choice, you give it and sometimes can take it at will.
but love is more bearing and with love there are no impossibilities.........

marriage, marriage, marriage..
marriage is actually the coming together of a man and woman to become one.
now to become one is to be joined together.
which i believe is sex(everyone is entitled to their own opinion)
so when you have sex with a person you are joint with the person(your souls)
so you are married. believe it or not.
thats why sex was created for a man and his woman after they have been joined...
so if you can stay without sex, then don't get married but its better to be married than to be burning with desires...........
so soothe yourself...

my peeps.... na wa ooo
well what i think is this (it's just my own opinion). a man should be allowed to be a man.
it doesn't matter if he earns less than his wife, babysits, cooks and does all the odd household chores.
he is head and i don't think he should stay home and babysit while his madam (as it were) goesto work in another country.
he can help with the kids when needed but that is not his primary assignment..
he'll feel odd and outta place. what will he even tell people especially if he stays in nigeria where people have this notion on how things should be

Well, I've this friend who reads people's writings n he claims he learnt that there'r 3 main bad habits ple have..drinkin,smokin n womanizin.
U may not be doin any now due to moral n religious restrictions but these things lie within n could manifest when u lift those restrictions n step out of d boundaries we've created for ourselves. I dont do any now but i believe I've d tendency to smoke, i.e all things being equal.It's easy to say i dont do this n i cant do that...
Why not pause n search deep, u'll realise there's only a thin line between wot u can do n wot u cant.