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BadBradley:
A woman talking about freedom in marriage is a hoe and a potential paternity fraud.

You're either a kid or a recycled hole

Proudly written on my forehead.
I didn't come to this world to be a slave, no slave have no freedom.

YourGFsnatcher:
You are not married and you are allowing married people to stop you from growing. When u were going to school did they not tell you school was hard? Why did u still go? Was it not really hard? Did u regret going to school? The fact that it is hard will u advice younger not to go to school because school can be hard?

Marriage is different from school OK.
School is very easy, you can tell your success and failure in a minute by what you are , can you do that in Marriage even if you are the most sinless person ? do you know who your is?.
We graduate from school, do you graduate from Marriage?

tachia406:
Marriage is not only for black race. Polygamy among the blacks especially among Africans is cultural. It was motivated by the agrarian nature of our continent along with other factors. To an African man, the more wives you have, the more children and hence more hands to help on the farm.

No lie was fed to anyone. It is your perverted knowledge of Western culture that makes you feel you are woke. The notion of one man, one wife is part of Western culture. And this was primarily done to check population explosion. In some advanced societies like China, it is even legal. You must marry one wife with one child (I stand to be corrected).

I want to tell you that you can't put fuel in a car that is meant to drive on diesel and get to your destination. Feminism is a Western thing. Forcing it on African man will always end in regrets.

And the end of this summary is Black is only created for Marriage and procreation. No wonder we sleep and wake up in poverty.

AllDModsAreMaad:
Good for you.
I think that is your true nature.

Exactly.

tachia406:
The bitter truth the so called "modern women" hate to face is that men are created to accommodate multiple women at a time and that's not called cheating anywhere on earth except in the dictionary of "modern women".

From Abraham to Solomon, all great men of the scriptures. If the scriptures permit polygamy as demonstrated by Abraham and Solomon, who invalidate it to call it cheating?

No man disrespects a responsible woman. In fact, they not only adore them but respect and fear them. Forget the arrogance on the streets. Every responsible man do not wish his virtuous wife and children see him misbehaving. A submissive wife carries with her a magic wand that controls men. Fact check me. This is what most women don't know.

On the contrary, no man takes any half clad women serious except to bleep and move to the next already willing one on the streets. These are the types complaining everywhere now. They lead a wayward life all their youth. Sample different dicks in sizes and length for money and eventually want to marry a faultless man that should not patronize half clad women on the streets. How can you eat your cake and still have it? This is the confusion women have created for themselves. They forget the saying that as you make your bed so you will sleep on it.

In summary, you have to accept the painful reality that men are created polygamous. Should one choose to go by one and you are lucky to have such, adore him and keep him.

Yahuah does not frown at polygamy but adultery. Polygamy may have been permitted by Yah due to the biological make up of women. During these periods, a man may fall into adultery. So plan B is permitted for a man. But a woman has no excuse to give except our "modern women" who think with the poohsie.

Trash upon trash.
this is when we get to see African Men contributing.

Church is like a business center. This is no of my concerns.

Now this is my concerns :

But I wonder why can't humans concur the same devil that has been disturbing since heavenly days. The more we claimed to have religious leaders, the more it powers increase.

rolams:
I hope you will come back and tell me this same story after 10 years. I pray you will come back to tell us exactly the same thing. I pray for you ooo. Pls, stay off marriage abeg. I will love to see you remain single with this body shape, reason, believe, idea, point of view and argument in ten years time.

Say amen and let's move on.

Don't you have more bullshits to brainwashed with? .


Amen.

tachia406:
Only a woman that has low self esteem will retaliate cheating with her poohsi. A virtuous woman poohsi is like gold

Are those virtuous woman valued. that is my question?.

You see men saying this but still cheats on her with a pig as long hole is available.


So why would a well to do women take men seriously? .

spits on Men

Same over loaded bs.
You men trying so hard to convince shows that Marriage benefits Men a lot
.

Pity yourself.

rolams:
I pity you

Same thing they passed through, Those single mothers or divorcees were brave enough to come out from the bshits.
A divorcee and single women are viewed as failures, while those women that stayed in Marriage are heroes like sinachi,well no one is talking about her again why?.

Tell those regretting to go out of the marriage and hear their response. Move around those single mothers or divorcees and listen to their comments when they see those who are in marriage or their child misbehaving. You will understand better.

Do married men think the Women that were knocked down with 3 pregnancy will look smart and keep in fit till they die?. Why is there so many complains "ike she lost sexual alluring, I hate her the more, she can't control the fats blah blah blah "from them once their wives risk a life to push out a life?

Concerning your body, do you think you will look smart till you die? Body aging is natural. Look at your boobs, why did it go down at some point without breastfeeding? You will hate the body you cherish now later.

Slaves is what you all need in the first place.
The mentality of a Nigerian man
And as a woman be wise, don't waste your time doing house works, while he used his for a profitable investments. Cus you will later regret it.

As for the house cores, you must be lazy to have mentioned this as an excuse.

gbagyiza:
Did anybody force them into marriage? Moreover, See your sisters praying for husbands which is contrary to your claim.

No one forced them, they were so anxious about it like those women.

The nice, good and faithful ones finished last.

tachia406:
I have taken time to follow you on this thread. You seem stubborn and assertive with your views and insecurities about marriage. You seem to dwell on failed marriage that were obviously built on materialism; worldly fantasies. You failed to take into account, numerous successful marriages even around you to find examples.

Your fears are already outlined in your comments above. I need not interrogate that. But you must understand that as a person, you have to create your comfort. It's daunting to get a faultless man out there. He's broke but handsome and caring. He's rich but lacks respect for his women and cheats. He's Godly but neither rich nor handsome and so on.

A virtuous woman, understands this and choose wisely what she can cope with and moves in. Waiting for a suitably ready-made life partner is a needless and timeless wait.

You have to free yourself from your abstract fantasies and get yourself a man. Even successful marriages are built on patience, understanding and forgiveness. If you say many women regret ever getting married, many are crying behind closed doors for having no man to themselves.

The lies that was fed to the passed women and now some are saying "had I know" .

But is Black race, created for Marriage purposes only?.

AllDModsAreMaad:
If truly you're the one on your DP and you keep hitting on men like some of your fellows here, then you are nothing but a hug ly being.

But if you're different and you have that virtue of a real woman, then you're truly a beautiful lady with a beautiful soul.

I did rather be ugly OK.

You will definitely make the top if you agreed to 🔺 .

Jerry299:
Honesty I think you are pained.

First your claims are not backed by facts just rants

Why are some of us trying so hard to deny the truth when it's right in front of our faces? .

Majesty7:
Go to bed. Nobody that is making sacrifice to keep something they cherish will open her mouth to tell you rubbish. You are obviously a kid.

And when we talk about virtuous women, we are not talking about prostitutes. If you want to give example of wealthy virtuous women, mention, Alakija and the rest and not harlots who married because their partners were rich. Thank you and good night

You have nothing to talk about.
Men of this generation don't deserve no virtuous woman or submissive woman if they're not one themselves/ can't keep such Women/ and they don't value such women.

Who patronize the harlots?,they are dirty as hell themselves .


And Women shouldn't go for love, those before us did way more than the Messiah, and what was their rewards? Getting divorce, dealing with hypertension left and right, fear of diseases, accepting numerous Sidechicks, getting disrespected, kicked out of the the house, abandoned with children in poverty. And they are regretting their mistakes .

komzy589:
I know an unfortunate person when I see one.

Well done Sir Revelation.

daylay7:
Yes. You are right but women are emotional being while the men are logical. A man can decide to have sex without putting any feelings into it. that is , no attachment but it is not the same with a woman.

A man can sleep with a lot of women and still love his wife unapologetically, but a woman cannot do that without getting attached. And once the man gets to know, the marriage is over already. Because it will always be playing in his head.

No wonder the Man, said he cried like a baby.



Pls this is getting boring.
Sin is sin and don't expect much from a partner if you can't give in what you're expecting.


@2, same way we love GOD, and sin against him and still run to mosques /churches every Friday and Sunday, to worship him.



So funny!

Majesty7:
Did you read my comment before you quoted me back? If you can't understand simple submission then you are not worthy to keep as pet not to talk of partner.

How did making sacrifice to protect anything you love relates to Adam Oshiomole? Are you sure you are okay?

You thought I only heard rubbish from ordinary women. So I gave a virtuous woman with wealth and riches and alot of sacrifices as an example.

Majesty7:
Leave such places where you turn around to hear gibberish. Go to places virtuous women are. No family 100% complete. People make sacrifices to keep relationship, business, success and everything good you might think of.

Another bee buzzing.
OK, one of those that made that statement is a HM in a well paid private school and a relative to Adams Oshios.With five kids. If those were enough why is she still saying that? .

Vision101:
Jeon post



@me
Regretting ko, lamentation ne. Don't mind them they don't want you to enjoy what they are enjoying. You know human beings once they enter the house of pleasure they lock door 🚪 permanently.

It's good to be sarcastic. But use it with intelligent.

daylay7:
For a woman to fly with her lover to another country for 7 days, they have been doing it for long until she was caught by the husband. The man is hurt but he will get over it. Just as you said, Divorce is imminent.

Same way he has been doing it not until she saw the text like he did through the call.

Chetas81:
THAT IS REALITY BUT THE NIGERIAN CITIZEN HAVE SUCH ADVICE

😕

daylay7:
True. But now, she broke the carmel's back. There is no coming back from it.

I'm such you can see that Divorce was written on my first post.

daylay7:
facts! They both lost the marriage already, but she lost her home.

What home? So funny. You think she cared about that?. There's no home right from the day cheated.

Yes, I am very selfish. I can't risk my life trying to bring a disrespectful, Bastard Cheater's child.
Do you know how many Women passed away during prego and labour period? If she survived it what happens after that? husband cheating because of stretch marks, belly, change of the body ,and over wide vagina .


Please lets be real for once.

tonytony208:
Responsible women, who are family oriented and not selfish, do not reason like you. If child birth doesn't change your body, old age will.

By the time you are above menopause with no child, your brain will wake up by then, but it will be too late for you. Your only option will be to adopt, but an adopted child can never be like your own child.

You will learn your lesson the hard way!

Abeg, rest... You have nothing to say, just wanted to talk for the sake of talking.

daylay7:
So, u supported divorce? hhmmmm

Yes,Its better than deceiving themselves.

PrinceOfLagos:
stop the consolation and go get married

Stop your suffering and tilling of the ground and kill yourself please, the world is a harsh place. Heaven is a home of enjoyment without @bolded.

PrinceOfLagos:
ah pele o aunty singleston

Thanks oooo

I don't want to age or die prematurely because of someone's extended family stresses,bad bloodlines and generational curs^s OK.

This post was made on Jul 7th, 2022.
⌚ =02:32pm.

Shapeaso:
That's her problem. I have a lot of female crushers at work place, in my neighborhood and on my street. So, ain't looking for online girls.

This is now your problem. 😸😸😸😸


So why bothering and stressing yourself looking for girls online?. Did the other girls payed you dust?.

Empty and fake living everywhere.

Kobojunkie:
Very Typical Nigerian men indeed.

They do that so the Women, can accept them the way they are! those with no choice though . Cuz it favor them more, otherwise those girls won't be sad.


@dogge.dfighter, is also aware of the sad wearing faces.

They're the same.

Kobojunkie:
Thank you! No mind them. They actually pretend they are better than their Northern brothers.

Imagine what a civilized Eastern said

"boyfriend, no girlfriend and you're a SADIST" "

he's indirectly placing relationship/marriage as the only achievement. So he can never be different from the typical Nigerian = Men.

As usual the typical Nigerian, mentally illness.

Shapeaso:
I've found out that, you've got no boyfriend, no girlfriend and you're a SADIST. Well, i pray that the day you wanna commit suicide, i should be around.

May you find your long lost girlfriend /wife.

And stop bothering me. OK.

4KNGOATS:
this bitch is sick

Yeah, cuz hell is my only drugs.