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Obaaderemi2:
Women and men reading this specimen's posts here should be careful. She/He is either confused or is saying nonsense all for the sake of argument.

So your forefathers didn't suffer from mental health challenges brought about by bad marriages? You must think divorce is a new invention. 😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Maybe he's high in the realm of cocoa caning.
or
Maybe he's just being sarcastic.

Are you tired of hiding as a female online to advise Women to stay put in a Marriage that's not favorable to them?. That's what you always do, I have been seeing it, remember you gave me mentions on other threads but I just ignored them. But today I want to let you know that you can't push your opinion down into everyone's throat.

Beverlyjean:
You are really naive and lost... usa is not the benchmark.... go and check Asia, Eastern Europe and South America... they still practise the traditional marriage...divorce is very low in those places ... what they are doing in the United States and western Europe is nothing but Evil powered by the devil...

I'm not talking about traditional marriage ,I'm taking about people wanting traditional spouses [especially Men yet most can't meet the standards. And may abuse it ].



Was happiness the only thing I put down in the previous conversation?

only a selfish person will leave a marriage because he or she isn't happy... its best u avoid marriage, its not for u ... u have allowed western social construct to deceive u

Please do read @bolded when you are down from ur cocoa powder.


abeg, rest. This conv is getting boring.

Marriage no be by force,its not for everyone!!!.

TheSuperX:
Na only u dey post and like ur posts with your alternate accounts, omoh low self-esteem no go kill una for here. 😂😂

I don't understand, are you this jealous?
You really have alot of time monitoring my comments and likes.

Beverlyjean:
Most marriages are not crashing ...that's not true ... go read ur bible on divorce...

You make me laff. So a person shouldn't divorce if abuse, violence, not getting what you want, lack of peace,happiness,trust e. t. c are going on in the marriage apart from sexually immorals. No wonder religion do kill gullible peeps.


New update
A new divorce just came in, Joe Jonas and Sophie Turner are divorcing.
Those shouting Money this, Money that ,it gives and save relationship. "when money dy love sweet ". 😂


Are those two not rich?..Why can't the money save the ship?.

You are a Man again, that is what they do if things aren't working out the way they wanted. They will pick up a quote in Bible to rub the fools.

I don't even know what to believe again.

IconicR:
What can you say about this one

Loss of something. Can be the end or starting of a new thing.

IconicR:
Do you know about dreams too?

Yeah, but not all dreams.

Maynman:
Even jesus was devastated about death he kept begging his father .

But Jesus, was not hard and wicked nah 😔 . And every living has it own expiry date, we can't escape it. Our Mango or Guava trees that produce fruit and serves as shed can't escape it. Even our Christmas chickens can't escape it.

Hmmmmm!

Hard man and redpill dy fear 💀 . What else will I not see and hear inside this World?.

Beverlyjean:
As usual... delusion... when u can't defend urself ...u attack .... don't worry, u will still learn the hard way.

Why do most marriages in your time are still crashing? are most of them not 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s? why getting out of it now when they are in their old age and need company to avoid loneliness ? . Not everyone can bear and tolerant like you are doing .



Sorry, I'm not attacking you OK, traditional royal wife if you happen to be a female.
I'm just stating my opinions same as you did.
And you can't force everyone to buy yours based on what people around them ,life and experiences taught them while some are learning from others by seeing what's going on around.

Remember everyone has it own length, size and shape of nose as goes to opinions.

Different nonsense everyday.

Those shows that

Beverlyjean:
I am married and I don't feel single.... there is no how u will not have a regret of ur choices today ... I have seen women in their 40s and 50s that regret the choices and mindset they have in their 20s ...unfortunately, most of these women are not been given the chance to correct modern women like u... u think its easy to be lonely at 40 ... those friends that u are doing ladies night with today will disperse in the next 15yrs ... you will end up having a cat as a companion.... better go watch justpearlythings, Roma Army, candence Owen..... maybe they are also men... when a women like me tries to correct the mistake women make in the society, women like u attack us .... they don't tell a deaf man that war has started

You are Man.


Your profile gave you out. Try to hide properly next time .


End of discussion.

tundebasic:
Your last statement is sooo true.

Can you explain what you mean by men pay for sex through career, life and destiny?

I can't.
Experience is the best teacher. I believe you have someone close to you who passed through one of those phase if you haven't unless you want to act blind or argue.

You see yourself.
Because you are astray and loss, that's why you are counting everyone the same as you.

Believe /don't believe, it's left for you.

2Radii:
I would rather belive petrol price will crash to 100naira per liter than to believe no one has ever digged you....we know the game na, it might not be ur wishes, it might be under illusion or exuberance, it might be under teenage innocence but dig na dig...



And secondly, na una eey pay for sex with destiny, no be me...if to say na so dem dey pay with destiny people like Ronaldo, ramos, Bob Nesta marley, king Solomon, king David, and a host of others no suppose attain the greater heights they attained na...oya defend that

Do you know when, how or what they sacrifices do get away from the punishment? . Your wise and famous well known polygamous King Solomon, bend down to the truth at last.

Guy you're draining me with your unintelligent conv.

2Radii:
Pay with what??

In wat way??

See you, I laf In yoruba

Soo all the one wey don dig you paid for it??

If wishes were horses again.

make I follow you laff small.




Men do pay for sex in many ways.
1, Money .
2, Career.
3, Life.
4, Destiny.




No one don dig me, so stop using the wom3n you met to satisfy yourself in my discussion.


And do you want to know why relationships is hard again?

It's because most people can't respect their private parts. After hoeing around they wanna settle down with someone that secured the temple of GOD and denied himself /herself the explore.

Meaning say " Nah you want better thing because the other person not get sense ".

omooba969:
@bolded,

Everybody needs somebody. The new generation of Black people need to realise that we're not built/wired to be separate entities and economic independence shouldn't distract us from our primary roles in the natural order of creation.

It would be patronising & insensitive of me to say I understand or feel the plight of women but I think a woman's economic independence should help build, maintain, preserve...and not destroy.

What are you saying.
The old generations were not happy in some of the relationship, but have no choice then to stay .

And guess what!!, they're the ones with the most divorce rate in this new generation.

You Men, should forcing yourself on us.
And this thing is also affecting other races, not only Black people.

izonborn098:
Young lady you have some valid points here'' i can relate..

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Beverlyjean:
What you fail to understand is that its women this will affect the most... a man can decide to get married at 50 and you will see a flock of women in their 20s willing to take the ring as long as he can take care of them...women don't have that luxury due to the biological factor .... this is one reason why I condem modern ways of women ... they think its a competition but they are only ruining their future and chance ... whether we like it or not, men hold the ace ... no matter how society tries to throw deception

Sorry,
1,you are a Man.

2, Speak for yourself.

3, Nobody wants to be traditional in the this new World.


4, Many people ain't mature enough to deal with their own personal issues not to mention someone's issue.

5, Some need a person that can sacrifice, but won't and will never do that.


6, Many can't take their responsibilities and accountability for their mistakes.


7,Some people need their personal space.

8, Marriage is not everybody plan and happiness.

9,Do and engage in whatever gives you happiness.



10, Some are married, but still feel single. So what is the need to be in Marriage?

abba190:
the heart of evening newspaper is evil

It's not easy to be an evening newspaper dear, Some of the morning newspaper couldn't see the breathe immediately they came out from their mother's womb.


So I respect old age!!!

2Radii:
See you. Beggers don dey ride teytey

Ewweeeee. They always pay for it.

ThatCEO:
Retirement plan or not, it's a free market. Are you not also choosing your own retirement plan when u choose Dele the banker instead of Sodiq d Keke driver?

There is really no end to this double standards

See who is talking about manipulation, d average Naija guy needs d magomago brain of a seasoned yahoo boy to cope with your manipulative age group. Was it d boys who are so manipulative that d girls needs to catch up or was vice versa. I just know it's a mess.

For an average girl to date her fellow average guy, she will say she is settling . Two average people o. Whoever told you all you deserve d top 1% really sold you'll snake oil

I said what I said.

Women don't need Men apart from their Money right from day one ,but have no choice because they're not wise and are dependent. Some are sold out by their family for the goodies, some are forced into early marriage cutting short her dreams.


Women do face alot in Marriage, bearing cheating, abuse, over worked, sacrificing time, freedom,life, social life, career and putting up with someone's issues just to be a good woman .And at the pay day they will be left with no pennies,love or appreciation.





Do you think our foremothers, will even take Marriage if there were freedom? making their own Money? being independent? the way it is today?.

ThatCEO:
Looks more like someone angry that men are now skipping are age group for someone younger.

It's a free world, men can choose younger girls the same way you are free to choose odogwu spender. Good Behaviour has no age limitation.

Men are looking for retirement plan, that's why they're going after them. And can't manipulate the Women within their age group. Lolz and those days girls my age don't settle down for less.
Thanks Generation Z .

2Radii:
But na single mum like u we dey fvck around

If wishes were horses, beggars would ride.

Very funny.
So many excuses.



What pinned your bumbum down in the relationship when she was disrespecting and insult you during the rainy days ?.
Because you know that you won't be accepted by others .



Staying with someone during the rainy days doesn't guarantee loyalty and faithfulness, even though you're more than Angel Michael.



But Op, are you sure you're not talking about yourself?.

Your choice.


And if it is joint properties, ensure your husband's name and your name should /must be there before thinking about where to position the surname, to avoid unwanted touching stories.
E. g

Surname = Jerry
Husband's name =favor
Wife's name = Anita
The result should be =Favor and Anita Jerry. ✅


Not

Mr and Mrs Jerry ❌ .
Because the Mrs can be replace at anytime.

Wahala, Wahala.
kaiii, na Men dy cry for marriage those days, why you go cry for wetin no dy give u benefit? .











This is not you Op, please come and bash us!!!..

This happens if you refused to get married in your generation, hoping that the next generation will produces fresh, young, submissive , good and naive girls....


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