Jeon:
Wahala, Wahala.
kaiii, na Men dy cry for marriage those days, why you go cry for wetin no dy give u benefit? .











This is not you Op, please come and bash us!!!..

This happens if you refused to get married in your generation, hoping that the next generation will produces fresh, young, submissive , good and naive girls....


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DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

poweredcom:


You are finished , u are unemployed , no kobo and you think a girl loves you , na small pikin mentality de worry u

When she change an for you in the marriage , no come de post long stories for us here o

Hmmm! Before marriage people are so deceitful true colors comes out most times after wedding when the real heat start

When u wake up and no food for house , ur eye go clear

athaliya:


That's not just unfaithfulness. A man cheating to your face and telling you to use the door if you don't like it, it doesn't stop at cheating to her face.

Men who see it as a taboo to wash the plate they ate with or do the laundry because they're men. And they'll rather marry a second wife than do things they believe must only be done by women.

Men believing their wives are commodities because they paid brideprice to another man (something the woman had no say in).

Men believing their wives must not earn more than them or the same with then and her aspiring to earn more could be seen as an attack on his masculinity.

The list is endless. Many women aren't buying it in 2023.

Jeon:


Men are looking for retirement plan, that's why they're going after them. And can't manipulate the Women within their age group. Lolz and those days girls my age don't settle down for less.
Thanks Generation Z .

Stephen2324:
Relationships are now more difficult than ever. Everyone is being wary and careful of the other person. Men don't trust ladies and ladies don't trust men. Everyone is on the edge, suspicious of the words and actions of other person. Distrust everywhere.

Voluntary unions are now built on falsehood and distrust. No one wants to be the fool. No one wants to be the "mugu". Everyone wants to be the smart one.

The winner of this unfortunate battlefield is he who has the least emotions and who cares less. It is more sad when one realises that these are two species that are meant to work together in a physical and spiritual upbuilding but this is where we are today.

More sad is that, it will get worse as time passes because even these wrong values are being passed on to the younger generation who cling to it more firmly and build on it. Building on the wrong values with so much energy and talent, directed in the wrong direction. And when one seeks to find the root cause of this pain and scar we all bear, we end up going round in circles and plunging ourselves into the very entities that birthed these false attitudes. A vicious cycle.

We are like a legion of lost souls in a dark enclosed tunnel, getting in eachother's way just to find a way out but without a genuine desire to change from within.

Trendylove:
Honestly to find a good man is very hard now infact I am tired of trying to find one. Anyone ready to give love a try I am ready.

ednut1:
Blame social media. Men are using relationships as a cover for free sex and babe to do house chores. While ladies are also using relationship as poverty alleviation scheme while on the look out for a richer man.

ThatCEO:


Retirement plan or not, it's a free market. Are you not also choosing your own retirement plan when u choose Dele the banker instead of Sodiq d Keke driver?

There is really no end to this double standards

See who is talking about manipulation, d average Naija guy needs d magomago brain of a seasoned yahoo boy to cope with your manipulative age group. Was it d boys who are so manipulative that d girls needs to catch up or was vice versa. I just know it's a mess.

For an average girl to date her fellow average guy, she will say she is settling . Two average people o. Whoever told you all you deserve d top 1% really sold you'll snake oil

DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

talented321:
We just have few mannered woman and such women can't be found in the club or bar..
Becare and look at the kind of women you are dealing with again..
Relationship/marriage is not that hard as you people are making it look like it can't be achieved...
Marrying a good woman is like having another mother..

2Radii:

See you. Beggers don dey ride teytey

shoboy9:
if a bad or evil man marries an evil woman, their marriage will be full of evil.
If a good but not perfect man marries an imperfect woman, there ought to be problems every hour, everyday until likely both end in crisis and most likely hellfire.
If a perfect man marries a perfect woman, there should be perfection in their union and blessings - the "happily ever after" that many want.
Because the man and woman are not perfect, it is to be expected that any union between a man and woman will be beset by problems. We call this "facing reality". Unfortunately, two imperfect people managing each other provides the perfect basis for both to end up miserable and in hellfire.
But imperfection is not the reality of the gospel of JESUS. He took our sins and gave His perfection.
Having been forgiven our sins, we work out our perfection till we are like Him.
If you want happily ever after, go for perfection that comes through the blood of our salvation - JESUS.
Let the man receive the perfection of Christ. Let him strive for, and remain in His righteousness. Let him strive for perfection not just before God, but also for his wife and family. Let the woman also strive to be perfect before God and her man. Then let them come together in union, both having this commitment to perfection before God and each other.
However, most of us refuse this path and prefer to hold onto our "imperfections" even into marriage. yet we wonder at the outcome!
May God save us.

abba190:
the heart of evening newspaper is evil

Beverlyjean:


What you fail to understand is that its women this will affect the most... a man can decide to get married at 50 and you will see a flock of women in their 20s willing to take the ring as long as he can take care of them...women don't have that luxury due to the biological factor .... this is one reason why I condem modern ways of women ... they think its a competition but they are only ruining their future and chance ... whether we like it or not, men hold the ace ... no matter how society tries to throw deception

Orderabove:
all relationships now is based on sex and money

izonborn098:
All i know is marriage sweet but with the right person..
Don't play with red flags and don't go after oloshos who are good in packaging..
Before relationship work perfect' there are alot of understanding and maturity between the two people in question..
Many girls are after material things so one man can't satisfy their needs, so they look for other options making her to lack loyalty and understanding.
Another reason is' women now also have trust issue against men so many of them date more than one person incase any of them break their heart they will flow with the your deputy.. Even men don't trust women again because majority of men and women has taste the bitter side of love.. Nobody want to be preyed on..

Justbeingreal:
People pretend mehn. It takes the grace of God sometimes to see some red flags..

DonBenny77:

It's scary man.
Some of us may not get married

kaludestiny10:
Your points are spot on.

A man that cheats on his wife either in her presence or at her back is inhumane to his wife.

A man that can't assist his wife in domestic chores is not a husband.

A man that treats his wife as a trash just because he paid a huge bride price on her head is not good.

A wife can earn more than her husband. But the only problem most time on this particular issue is that most women that earn more income than their husband now see themselves as equal to the husband or even the head of the family which is bad.