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Pierocash:
aren't you getting it? How is that my business if she says all sorts of things about me to his new boyfriend, how does that stop me from still going into another relationship? Who cares? Let her go ahead and say anything that consoles her ,it is non of my business.

Only dummies take everything been told him by a woman about her ex as truth

Shut up and listen.

Say she has dated two guys. A and B.

You're B.
If she says shitty things about A, since you're meeting her after she had met A, don't commit to her because she's not a wife material.

That's what we are saying here.

Pierocash:
Then who cares. She can tell her new boyfriend all the hell she wants ,who cares. How does that stop me from moving into another relationship

Use you head man. Use your head.

Op says once she talks bad about her ex, abort marriage or any form of commitment because she's gonna talk bad about you on the slightest disagreement you had.

Again, use your head.

Gadafii:
I hope the husband was wise enough to run dna?

Because how can you be comfortable with a woman you snatched from another man, or you think other men can be snatching her cookies jar, behind your back while she’s your wife

You're smart.

No be to snatch be de problem.
The problem na waiting u dey snatch na original abi second new.

Tokskob2008:
Na brave babe she be jare...... She no be like all those ones with 200k wig covering empty skull.

Those ones na human beings?
Na only toto be dia weapon.

Check well. Check very well. The mother of this lady married as a virgin.

Only a virgin woman can give birth to a daughter with such grace.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Imagine that!

Many men are married to a coded olosho.

If you fvck her and she gets pregnant, she has a foolish man to pin the child on. Hmmmmmm. Shame on her husband.

Marry a virgin and have a peaceful home.

tungamaje:
That's how they want to operate freely in Igboland. When they resist them, they manipulate and deceive other tribes also suffering the same menace to call out Igbos as trouble makers. Igbos are killing northerners and they would agree

Please carry on. Kill them!
We are fully behind Igbos protecting their ancestral land.

Kill any one that threatened the lives of your wives and children.

May Allah punish Fulani and any northerner that supports these herdsmen.

EdiskyHarry:
hmmm.
Better say don't marry at all.

You think in your tiny head that there are no virgins right?

Read this and stop being a fool who wish to settle for second hand.

https://www.nairaland.com/7466644/3-young-women-virgins-initiated


If you want to marry a used woman, that's your choice. If you want to be unfortunate in life, thats your choice. If you also want a woman who sleeps around with her exs, that's also your choice.
But please, do not breed with such a woman because you daughters will do the same. Girls are a copy of their mothers.

Nice one.


If you plan to have a beautiful home you can return to after work, marry a young virgin woman.
Do otherwise and regret ever getting married.

If you're not the one who disvirgined your wife, then I one or two of your children aren't yours.

Don't train another man's child with your hard earned money.
Do not die and leave your inheritance for a child fathered by another man.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, take the pain to find a virgin woman.

Do not sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of inlaws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was in her best state by a man who only gave her two eggs and indomie. Only a fool would do that. Are you a fool?

Better to suffer to find a virgin and have a peaceful lasting home than to marry one of the readily available girls and regret your marriage.

CheedyJ:
Safe to say you married her for your 'selfish' reasons '. So, imagine, you stop getting those contracts and business takes a bad turn(God forbid) hope you will still stay married to her sha

All marriages on this planet is for selfish reason.
All marriages are based on manipulation. You must have a reason before you manipulate someone.

Get that.

Once she's not a virgin when you met her, just know that she has lost her grace.
She's now empty. You will struggle to keep yourself on the level you are, lest you descend.

You father didn't mention virgins because most girls in his time are virtuous women in waiting. If not, he would have advised you to marry a virgin.

Things have changed now. Girls don't have respect for their body anymore.

Be wise, fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

I said the marriage will not last, some people were saying rubbish.

If you didn't marry a virgin woman, your marriage must fail. Even after 10, it must surely fail.
You can never grow old with a woman who has fvcked another man before you because she must unconsciously compare you with her ex(s) and this will make her misbehave.


Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, find a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Repeat after me.
Say God punish Islam and its followers.

ibechris:
A girl u have damaged just like what u have said here can do anything to destroy u.

U need to apologise to her having acknowledged that u contributed in damaging her.

I was deeply touched when u mentioned on how u squeeze her body to further cause her pain.

Just like i said,u need to apologise to that lady seriously.

Accept that u messed her up and find a way to beg her.

Oh please! Shut up!
Just shut the fvck up!

GOFRONT:
From the look of things, based on who she is from a Holy family, a popular pastor's daughter and from Benue idoma, I hope that she has safely kept and retained the Golden egg unfried until the night of her Traditional?

Make nobody ask me which one be golden egg of golden boot abeg........make una ask jeromestarks!!!

Hahahaha
Comrade, I'm sure they all understand.
This "golden egg" makes me laugh seriously

Farfalla:
Script for Nollywood.

When a girl rejects you, most times it's because you do not appeal to her, same way not all women appeal to you. People reject and get rejected all the time but move on to find other people who they feel more drawn to, or with whom they share a higher level of compatibility. Men leave women all the time. Women leave men all the time. C'est la vie.

A girl who rejects you will not try to come back, you hear? She will not regret her actions and try to reconcile with you. It ain't happening. Leave that Tyler Perry script for the silver screen.

You talk about moving on yet secretly hoping for her to get dumped and come back to beg you? The biggest lie young men tell themselves is that a girl who never wanted them will regret her actions. Please get over yourselves.

I know you have regretted rejecting a particular guy.
It's the truth. Guys always regret rejecting a good guy because he doesn't seem appealing at first (since he didn't come to impress her with what he doesn't have).
When she gets fvcked and dumped by the flashy guy she chose over the husband material, she will regret and tried to get back to him.

Sweetheart, there are about three girls on my WhatsApp DM right now who said no to me 3 years ago but are trying to date me now.

I will fvck them one after the other and dump their stupid pvssies.

A Twitter user shared screenshots of his chat with a girl who rejected him two years ago and how she tried to offer him her number now.

The stupid girl saw that he has made it and even suggested a hang out.
We read it here on NL.

Talk to your female friends and you will see that they regret rejecting a good guy. You have serious regrets about a guy you rejected too.

Many women are not even happy with the men they married. They married because they had no more choice and time is up for them. Their happiness is gone because they have rejected the good guys.

Sorry for your pains but you have missed the best man in your life. Trouble awaits you in the coming years.

tayo60:
Let her be for now, don't lose your self-esteem because of a girl. She may later change her mind.

So he should hang around until she 'maybe' change her mind.

He must be stupid to do that.
Like, other girls don't exist or what?

Nonsense!

Franzinni:
Hehe guy I know how you feel but to be honest you messed up big time, you know a woman loves to be chased but e get when she need to rest from all the running, alot of young men don't know and they keep chasing who nor dey run. ... You had her but now you have lost her forever becasue even if she takes you back and forgives you, you would not have the masculine frame and trust me in little or no time she will dump you patapata.

My advice is give her space ... Let her breath small, you can't choke another person and be asking them why they are choking goddammit!

You even went as far as calling her boss ...Omo you dey love puppy love ...wake up ! Wake your self the f up!! If you love her, you would be mature and apologize, then respect her decisions and give her space... Guy nah woman she be, if you play it right she will come back to you but if you think you can beg your way to her heart back you will only become repulsive and simply cheap.

Man up and shift your focus to your hustle even if your mind go her place ... Endure, resist and persist. After some days you will adjust and then you would be able to see clearly .

I have been in your shoes ... When I was in secondary school, I loved a girl so much ( I thought I did ) that I would wake up write a love letter, then walk like 30 miles to her school before she gets to school and wait to give her the letter, in my mind, that was the price to pay for love but in reality I was only being a pest, and a repulsive creature.

Let her breath... Your perception of love might not be her reality.

How are you so confident in saying stupid things?
You irritate me.

Mino1000:
Hi everyone, so I met this beautiful babe June this year and we started dating three months later. We genuinely loved each other and we had a relationship that people envied.

We trusted each other so much that I had access to her google account and all her personal info on my laptop, while she also had mine on her phone to cut the long story short, I have a problem of always getting worried whenever she is not home and I can't reach her for example if she leaves in a bolt and the journey is 30minutes but she is not reachable one hour later I start to worry and call people I feel are at home and even the bolt rider.

On this particular day, she had a meeting with her colleagues which just came into the country, she shared her live location but it was last updated an hour ago, she was not picking her calls and it was 11:45pm mind you she was in Ikeja and lives at lekki so she was still going to Lekki that night in this dangerous December month in Lagos. I called and called but she did not pick then I got so worried and went to her google contacts to get her boss number and called him. He told her I called and that is how trouble started.

She explained that nobody has his number and she is the middle man between him and clients so his number getting into my hands without her permission means his company info is not safe. She said I have destroyed all what she labored to build over the years and blocked me everywhere (phone, whatsapp, snapchat) and left me with only instagram access. I have been begging her since last night when this happened, but she only unblocked me to tell me not to call her again and blocked me back.

I have been trying to explain to her that relationship and marriage is full of challenges so she should not let this one destroy what we had but she has been ignoring me. If I call with a different number she hangs up immediately she hears my voice.

We were already talking about marriage and in fact, I had already started making arrangements for a proposal next year.

I swear I really love this lady with everything that I have and I know for a fact that she loved me too but right now I am confused I am wondering how she was so much in love with me yesterday morning but doesn’t even want to hear my voice today. She went as far as threatening to get me arrested if I come close to her house. I am really confused and need mature advice on what to do to save this relationship because right now I can’t focus on anything. Plus I trust her so I wasn’t calling because I thought she was doing something silly.

There are two kinds Of people on this planet; those who deserve happiness and those who do not.

You're one of those who do not deserve happiness.

You're a fool.
Instead of you to move on and find another girl you're there saying rubbish and wasting your life away.

May you never find peace of mind.

nairalander2020:
u be scam and scam

The op is scam and na thunder go fire the op.

If you date women who are above 23, there's away sadness will crawl into your life because those girls are wasted.

No matter your age as a man, date Young girls. Fvck young girls and avoid single mothers. Those ones are a living carrier of curses.

I have a feeling that this marriage will last if the girls keep religion aside in the bedroom.

If she do otherwise, she will be out of that guy's house before she clocks 45.

If this message is truly from a girl to the Op, I like the girl.
She sabi format. This kinda girl will last in a man's house. She will know how to keep a man.
Unlike the stupid ones who want men to worship them.

Ogun kill una.

All who has tattoo will regret it before 60.

Idonweak:
21 you're still a small boy.

I love this

akwesenana:
Hello.
I'm 21, I supposed to be graduating this year from Architecture but I couldn't finish.
Would you advise me to write JAMB again next year considering the fact that I'll have to wait till 2024 before anything admission?

You're never too old to learn.
Morgan Freeman had a dream to become a pilot but he couldn't get into pilot school when he was young.
Guess what,


After he became famous at almost 60, he enrolled and got admitted into an aviation school.
He graduated and he is now a qualified pilot.

doggedfighter:
Single fathers and baby daddies too.






Girls impregnate themselves these days.

What's happening ?

No they did not.
The chose a fvcker over a husband simply because they thought they have time.
They thought the husbands are boring.
They wanted to enjoy life.

Now they're training their children alone.

They're paying for the choices they made.
Everyone pays eventually.

Kly003:
This is a major call for concern. I engaged 3 ladies today on a facebook chat and they were all single mothers. It seem to that guys has come to the awareness that marriage seem to be a scam. Now the adverse effect of this is; we are raising a generation of bastards and i fear for the next generation. Single mothers everywhere... (i am sure, we would have some on this nairaland comment)

Once a girl is above 23, there's a high possiblity that she's a single mother or has committed abortion once in her lifetime.
Don't marry such girls. They're a copy of their mothers.

If you marry a girl like that, you daughters will follow in her steps.