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Many people (especially non virgin girls) have been advocating that only a virgin man should marry a virgin woman.
They are of the opinion that body- count has the same importance for women as it is for men. They are wrong!
A man is the one who gives during sex. The semen leaves his body into a woman's body. That is to say that a woman collects the semen which is housed in her body.

Have you wondered why a wife starts to look like her husband after many years in marriage? That's because she has been absorbing the man's genetic material into her body. This will somehow (however minute mix with her blood and inturn, her DNA). This traits in her system will also be passed down to her children (as we all know that fetus feeds from the mother's system (that is, they take from everything inside the mother's blood).

Now, if a woman sleep with a man who has some kinda of disorder (biological or spiritual disorder), the man deposits this disorder in to her system. Her system will keep some of these disorder ( through a genetic process called "duplication " of blue print - this is how DNA multiply in the body of animals)
If this same woman sleeps with other men, her body keeps a copy of all the men's DNA in her system ( she may not even know that this is happening). Therefore, if she slept with 5 guys, she would house five traits from these men.

Now, if this same woman marries a man. The man impregnates her. The baby will feed from the mother's body system (which is now a hub of the genetic material of 5 men). This baby will absorb the traits of these 5 men (now 6, including the husband) and develop into a full grown body.
Here is the danger of this super- hybrid.
If the traits in these five men is womanizing, stealing, assassination, gluttony and depression, this innocent baby will "inherit" these traits even when it is not found in the family of the original father.

One day, you will see your child exhibiting characters that your father and grand great father's did not exhibit and you would wonder who is the father of this boy.

This is why our fore father's used to pick wife for their children from a notable family not from a family with bad tract records.


As for wether body count means anything to a man, The man gives the semen. It leaves his body into a woman's body.
Take for example; you have a big cup. You pour orange juice in it. Then you pour wine in it. Then coke. Then mango juice. Then urine. Then tomato paste. Then saliva. Then pap. Then sea water. Then goat blood. Then engine oil and many assorted juice.
Which do you think will be conterminated?
The juice containers or the big cup?


Marry a virgin. If you did not, then I am sorry to tell you that one or Two of your children is not your own.
Most likely, your wife pinned her ex pregnancy on you.
You want to spend your life training someone else's child?
Make a choice today. Fvck any girl you want but settle down with a virgin.

Non virgins are good for sex but not for family (except you want your daughters too to open their legs for men before they marry).


Check what the bible has to say:

Deuteronomy 22:13-21
13 “If any man takes a wife and goes in to her and then hates her 14 and accuses her of misconduct and brings a bad name upon her, saying, ‘I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her evidence of virginity,’ 15 then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate. 16 And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; 17 and behold, he has accused her of misconduct, saying, “I did not find in your daughter evidence of virginity.” And yet this is the evidence of my daughter's virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloak before the elders of the city. 18 Then the elders of that city shall take the man and whip[a] him, 19 and they shall fine him a hundred shekels[b] of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought a bad name upon a virgin[c] of Israel. And she shall be his wife. He may not divorce her all his days. 20 But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, 21 then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

Sunshyne007:
I was. I still am. Why does a man have no body count?

He gives the semen. It leaves his body into a woman's body.
Take for example; you have a big cup. You pour orange juice in it. Then you pour wine in it. Then coke. Then mango juice. Then urine. Then tomato paste. Then saliva. Then pap. Then sea water. Then goat blood. Then engine oil and many assorted juice.
Which do you think will be conterminated?
The juice containers or the big cup?

Fafesot:
let me tell you,I will abide with anything that comes after it but cheating on me ..
aside that, I will try to cope with anything that may erupt after everything.
A woman who could keep her virginity till marriage is a rare gem,the temptation is almost irresistible but she comes over all.
I will reward her for it and I will never cheat on her.
which man wants to marry borehole

Correct guy.
You tried replying the Op. I didn't bother replying her because she's just looking for justification for her loss of virginity. She knew she's not whole again and that pains her. She knew someone has cheated her by stealing her glory so she's looking for ways to console herself so that an idiotic man will settle with a used pvssy which is likely to smell of rotten eggs and dead sperm deposited overtime.

No justification for using an old product over new one. We men are ready to go any length for a true beauty and useful woman like virgin.

Velvet worm.
They have been around before the dinosaurs and they are harmless.
Op, eat it. No problem. Delicious delicacy.

ABANGWABOI:
Lol.. my Gee.. that madam welldone na d best answer to greetings from insolent and arrogantly rude women..
I love your style, one bad encounter = Ignore + move on ��

No time.. as for that lady.. she never wanted you to have her in her blooming stage but want you at her lowest ebb now.. those fools feels they are entitled to a man whenever they want him, thank God you snubbed the cunt... good riddance to Bad rubbish..

Yes o!
If a girl can not give herself to you in her best stage in life (while she's a virgin), then you shouldn't take her in her worst.

Jovialjune1:
Ask your mother.

You did be proud to say yes if you're a virgin. Right?
That's the shame that's on you.
Listen girl, that shame that kept you from answer is a sign that something is dead inside you and you knew it.
You're currently looking for a man to appreciate you even with the mistakes you have made.
But guess what, a man will come. He will sleep with you again and again. And when he is tired or as soon as he discovers you're not worth the effort ( which you can never Worth because you have lost the glory God gave you to make men faithful to you) , he will leave.
And another man will come and go. The cycle will continue until you're completely wasted!
Some mistakes can not be reversed! It is curse!

ABANGWABOI:
You know them, Sex Objects.. arrogant,rude and proud..
And they are empty deep inside too..
I remember when I was on two months leave from work.. and I travelled to the east, and usually relax with my old buddies when not occupied.. there was this particular girl that usually comes to one of my old buddies Big Unisex hair saloon..
You know all these typical naija girls nah, when Dem grow come add breast and Yansh.. Dem no dey see you at all..
She feels big to greet me,for her mind I be small boy cos of my youthful looks and stuff..
Me wey no send, unfortunately for her, another of my old time buddy that has a large exam preparatory center has been bugging me to come over and see what and how he is doing cos we haven't connected for over a decade..
One of the days..I decided to go over to his center, got their.. it was close to a major road.. had no were to park my car,had to drive across the other end of the road,I saw this same lady walking across the street but she never saw me cos I wind up my glasses.. and it was tinted as well..
Naso I clear enter my guy place.. was happy on what I saw cos he was doing well for himself too, after sitting in his mini office and discussing he urged me to show him that I still got it in me, we laughed and I said ok.. let me go do that.. (I no go lie Sha.. the students are hot young fresh chaps..) I went and took them on Lit-In-English..
It was a waec class,and it was the last for the day before they dismiss and the jambites would come in, I was washing my hands on a bowel adjacent my pal's office, and then the waec students were leaving then, I heard a startled and mocking voice say from behind "Hmmmmm you dey teach for here ??" (In Surprising tune as well) I looked up and saw the proud big girl that I saw earlier whilst coming that usually comes to my other friends saloon..
I told her NO.. I am a student and I was copying notes in the board.. she said.. "Ehee.. I for say"...

Went back to my guys office.. we continued chatting and he ordered for refreshments for me..
Whilst doing that, the Jamb students has settled in, after relaxing, I decided to teach the jamb students "Government" before I leave..
Guess what, that so called Big Girl happen to be an Art Jamb Student..
Lol.. I stood and taught them comprehensively for two hours without taking a look at the text book, they wrote over two pages notes..
Dude, you need to see the shock and awe in her face all through..

Another time I went over to my guy that has the saloon, he told me what the big girl told him that I taught her at the jamb center that she was shocked.. bla bla bla..
My guy now gave her a snippet about me, and how I graduated from Uni when she was still in primary school, the kind of job I do and stuff..
She was dumbfounded..
On a couple of occasions that I went over to his saloon before I travelled back, when she sees me, Na Good afternoon Sir she dey greet me.. my response would always be.. Madam welldone and focus on what I am doing..

This is just one out of many examples and encounters..

You see Nigerian girls.. a vast majority are empty and proud..
Absolutely nothing in them..

I love this response. That's how I answer some uni dumb girls too.
There was a girl like that too in my neighborhood. She was about 22 or so. I approached this girl with a sincere heart. I drop all the flows I have but this girl didn't respond positively. One time, I heard her tell her friend that I am a low life guy. She said " that guy na wash. He's not on my level. He's level is low abegi". It was dark that day so she couldn't see that I was around them.

I decided to count my losses, dusted my shoes and move on in shame.
A year Later, I met this girl on the way. My God! I couldn't believe my eyes. She has become like a spider. She was even shaking as she walked pass me. She has become very ugly and irritable. God! I almost vomited when I saw her.

She called my name and I responded " well done madam" and left.
A week later, she came to my house and started acting funny. I gave her one excuse and sent her out of my house in style.
After that day, I started pretending not to see when we cross paths.
She's still in my neighborhood but I pass her without answering her greeting.

My friend who didn't know anything said he wants to have her. I gave him sense straight. Guy quickly avoided her.
She's begging guys to date her now but nobody wants anything with her because she looks like someone who is battling stroke. (She's actually HIV positive, really).
She's a walking dead now.

Emoc:
Forgive? Yes
Forget? No

Forgiveness doesn't mean memory loss.

Lol.

Jovialjune1:
As far as she is a black woman, she fits in your category.

Babe, calm down. Answer me this. Are you a virgin?

NewSoul:
You are so illogical and offpoint did he say virgins don't have exes? And did he say virgins don't date? They date but don't open their legs wide to be pumped and dumped by touts and either end up as single mothers or give a bastard child to their husbands to cater for.

The likelihood of a virgin being toxic is very minimal (ask our fathers that were lucky to marry virgins in time past) but you daughters of Jezebel of nowadays that open their legs for every Tom, dick and Harry you all have a higher propensity to be toxic. Because you will end up comparing the eventual unfortunate husband that will be stupid enough to wife you up to all your multiple exes in the past. The spiritual aspect of it is that all the bad habit of these exes you tend to acquire them all as a result of acquiring demons from them. If they were alcoholic, smokers, night crawlers or partiers, serial fornicators, lazy you also tend to fallow that pathway. All of a sudden a hardworking, respectful girl that everyone loved is now a smoker, addicted to drugs, lazy, disrespectful and mouthy, bitter, dresses like a LovePeddler all because she slept with a heavily demonised person. We have seen plenty of cases and you expect these type of girls to submit to brother James the good man after demonising herself with all these cult boys and bad boys. Sorry o

May your wisdom flow to your friends.
I support this post with seven bags of beans

NewSoul:
Jeromestarks na your matter be this, I hand over to you..

Hahaha. No wahala bro. I will handle it.
Those who regret losing their virginity are the once attacking me. The knew they have left a good man who was ready to spend his entire life with them for a bad boy who deceived them. Now they wish they can find the good guy and dump their expired pvssies on him.
Virgins on this forum are glad I opened their eyes.
Cooperate ashaw0s are pained.

wis3:
Yes it is relative. What's beauty to you is ugly to another, ugly to you beauty to another. And besides, op said it's a child. Children as we all know are "still learning".

They are learning. The more reason you should make sure they learn a good and "beautiful" thing.
Whatever she learns now will never depart from her.
Op, try to make sure your daughter learn a beautiful handwriting and her siblings will learn from her.

Jovialjune1:
Not everyone is like your mother

Know this and know peace.

My mum married in the 50s. All girls in that era are decent girls. Go and ask around.

ABANGWABOI:
Na me make I ban one of my pal then from using any cup in my house.. the fool was sucking Nigerian girls pussy..

Naija girls wey dirty like no man's business..
Guy. If you see how neat a white girl's cunt is, you would be the one begging to Suck it.. not the smelly ones we have in nigeria..
You are on point.

Blood of Hezekiah!
Is he stupid or what?
You don't need that kinda mumu around you please.
Something (nija girl) he should fvck her and wash his d!ck.

wis3:
Beauty is relative.

Do you find anyone ugly?
If beauty is relative then ugly is also relative.
If we go by your idea of relativity, then the girl's handwriting isn't bad. She should continue like that.
God forbid!

Jovialjune1:
The shame is on you, because you are bereft of reasoning,

You were quick to support the op willing to submit and be faithful to a white woman, that is why I brought out the crassness of your postulations, because it doesn't make sense, at all.

For losing your virginity because of eggs and indomie, shame on you.
For thinking any man deserves to be under your torture, shame on you.
For trying to justify why you allowed a man who is not going marry you mounted you and fvck you, shame on you.
For committing abortion, shame you.
Once again. Shame on you.

wis3:
Hoarding it doesn't exactly do anything for you but... What do I know?

I teach my lesson students. I get paid for doing it.

wis3:
There's no criteria for selectng what the perfect handwriting should look like. What may look beautiful to you may be ugly to another.

Lie. What is beautiful is beautiful except you can see.
Does any of these look ugly to you?

wis3:
or you could just drop it here. Alot of people will benefit from it and be grateful to you, some might even appreciate you for it.

I learnt it too. It took some level of sacrifice before I was given the idea. You don't expect me to drop it for free do you?

LikeAking:
Will a good hand writing makes daughter a billionaire or millionaire.

Pls wise up.

My girlfriend got her dream job because of how nice she wrote the application.
My mother is the secretary of a deputy governor in Nigeria; imagine if she had bad handwriting.
My brother got a job at a big company because he helped a pupil in his class wrote his name on his new books. The father saw how beautiful the writing was and he called my brother and offered him a job.

You never can tell where handwriting will take you to.

wis3:
you learn to swim by swimming same way you learn to write by writing. Tracing on some of these writing books gives them an idea of where and how to place the words when writing. It's a gradual process.

Children can't really process this idea at a tender age and the tend to forget it as the grow older. If care is not taken, her bad handwriting may persist for a lifetime.

Jovialjune1:
You are proving your daftness with every of comment,

It's a simple question, does your previous rant apply to white women? Don't forget you said you can submit to a white woman, her age doesn't matter, and her used up hole doesn't matter, does it apply to white women, yes or no?

That you could not comprehend my reply shows you aren't as smart as you think.
Shame on you.

wis3:
I understand but writings don't always have to look thesame. Writing books gives them a sense of how alphabets should look and helps keeps their writing in check. They'll improve with time.

I have given the Op an idea which I am will to sell. If she adopts it, her daughter will write beautifully.

wis3:
I understand but writings don't always have to look thesame. Writing books gives them a sense of how alphabets should look and helps keeps their writing in check. They'll improve with time.

You don't understand. Identification of alphabets and being able to draw letters is different from handwriting.

Jovialjune1:
All this your rant, does it also apply to white women?

Pls answer, I want to know how dead your IQ is and how low your self esteem is

Being white or black is just a matter of skin color.

rickpat:
get her alphabet writing textbooks...let her try to write the alphabets the way it's written in the textbooks....it might help her improve...but if she doesn't improve,let her be before you dampen her confidence.... provided she writes what people can understand...have you not seen the handwriting of most doctors?..doctors have the worst handwriting in the world...lol... handwriting doesn't determine intelligence...try a little to improve her..but don't pressure the little girl...good luck to your little genius!

Many go through that process but still grow up to have bad writing.

wis3:
Get her writing books , it helps keep their writing in line and with time, there should be some improvements.

It doesn't.
Some children will write well in that book but mess up while writing in a note book or on a plain sheet.

Dada4me:
Good evening nairalanders, my daughter is in basic two with a bad handwriting. I have tried helping her by showing her how to handle Biro but no improvement.

Please recommend what to do.

I have 5 simple steps to correct any handwriting. In 3 days, your child's handwriting will be corrected.
I will sell this idea for 25k
Are you interested?

Marry a virgin else, one of your children may not be yours

Blessing0305:
Bro I'd advise u keep ur mouth out of this. U dont know what this jeromestarks preaches in most of his comments. Dont think its just about this post. He's attracting curses to himself in ways he may not even know, his doctrines would make men question their marriages to their wives, ppl that may be living in peaceful unions may stumble across his posts and start thinking otherwise, and its not just about virgins.
Must he preach about ppl's lives and wat influences it. Why is he judging others based on his own scale, and u are here supporting him and giving him hope to continue.
Live ur own life and keep ur business out of others'.
U are neither feeding the people u are condeming, nor giving them life. And I know that the emptiest drums make the loudest noises.
Virgins are not even making noise the way the guy is sef

Women who didn't marry the men who disvirgined them can not be faithful. They shouldn't be married in the first place.
Men should actually question their union with such women.
Why would she give her best to another man and allow you to pick up the leftovers? Is that not wickedness?
If you didn't marry as a virgin, then you don't deserve to be treated well because your heart can never be with the man you married; he is just a spare tyre!

Men, don't be a spare tyre. You wife could be cheating with her ex and one of your children may not be your.
Get a woman who you're her first.