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LadysLuvSlyfoxx:
There is something fundamentally flawed with your thinking. How do you conclude that every girl who’s lost her virginity is a prostitute or sleeps around? Do you even know the meaning of the word prostitute?

You know how many girls lost their virginity because a guy lied to them, begged and made all sorts of false promises of commitment just to sleep with them? And na guys like you dey do am pass. Then same you turns around and brands them prostitutes, unclean and unworthy of marriage.

Same you that was on this same thread encouraging men to fvck who ever they like but any woman who’s lost her virginity is filthy. There is something fundamentally wrong with your brain if you made that comment seriously without something clicking in head about hypocrisy and double standard. Smh.

Sorry.

SPAMBOX7:
I just don't know why females claim they're not interested in dating you but get jealous when it looks like someone else wants to get in the picture.

The fact that guys especially NL guys forming work don't know @Embolded is a format wome use to make men invest emotionally stiil amazes me. Of course she wants you to keep convincing her to date her so she can do yanga and the radarada, and the moment you start being desperate about it she looses interest and dumps you.

And also the fact you believe everything these bitches say is another wonder. What happens to going for the opposite of a woman's statement? Cos that's where the truth always is

She played a game but I guess you have already won. Now don't do the mistake of leaving your other girls for her cos of her attributes. Maintain your options

Lastly why you go dey swear to God for babe. Who does that

For swearing, I think he is stupid.
Great advice though.

Don't worry about dating her for anything serious, just enjoy your pvssy my friend.
Good luck.

4Humanity4All:
Well,if the foreskin of the penis wasn't important,God wouldn't have put it there in the first place.
If the mucus in the nose wasn't important, God wouldn't have put it there in the first place
If the fingernails weren't important,God wouldn't have put them there in the first place
If the wax in your ears weren't important, God wouldn't have put them there in the first place.
If the Appendix wasn't important, God wouldn't have put it there in the first place

How about these?

It seems you have forgotten that these things you mentioned are in both genders while virginity is in women alone.
You know what? Since you want a non virgin, I pray you get one.


But read this if you're a Christian or not ( the words are true in both religions).


Deuteronomy 22:13-21
13 “If any man takes a wife and goes in to her and then hates her 14 and accuses her of misconduct and brings a bad name upon her, saying, ‘I took this woman, and when I came near her, I did not find in her evidence of virginity,’ 15 then the father of the young woman and her mother shall take and bring out the evidence of her virginity to the elders of the city in the gate. 16 And the father of the young woman shall say to the elders, ‘I gave my daughter to this man to marry, and he hates her; 17 and behold, he has accused her of misconduct, saying, “I did not find in your daughter evidence of virginity.” And yet this is the evidence of my daughter's virginity.’ And they shall spread the cloak before the elders of the city. 18 Then the elders of that city shall take the man and whip[a] him, 19 and they shall fine him a hundred shekels[b] of silver and give them to the father of the young woman, because he has brought a bad name upon a virgin[c] of Israel. And she shall be his wife. He may not divorce her all his days. 20 But if the thing is true, that evidence of virginity was not found in the young woman, 21 then they shall bring out the young woman to the door of her father's house, and the men of her city shall stone her to death with stones, because she has done an outrageous thing in Israel by whoring in her father's house. So you shall purge the evil from your midst.

LadysLuvSlyfoxx:
Just because a woman is not a virgin doesn’t mean she sleeps around. How do Nigerians think bayi? I have met a girl who’s a proper Christian girl, born again, from a good and well to do home, well educated and intelligent with a good paying job, amazing character but has had sex with one or two ex boyfriends back when she was “in the world”.

Are you telling me I should overlook all her positives because of a mistake she made out of youthful exuberance and curiosity in her college days? Should she be condemned to a life of misery and singlehood because of that?

I don’t know what bible you people are reading but even Christ himself will not say that. All you fake Christians that think you are more holy than Christ himself. Dumbasses all of you. Keep thinking this way, na your type no dey ever marry last last.

Leviticus 21:13-14 ESV
"And he shall take a wife in her virginity. A widow, or a divorced woman, or a woman who has been defiled, or a prostitute, these he shall not marry. But he shall take as his wife a virgin of his own people..."

Uchesis:
So what you are saying now is that there is no marriage with a virgin that has broken up in Nigeria.

Bros wake up from your slumber and face reality.

In this current generation, a lot of so called virgins don spoil pass even the runs girls. If you don't know na you sabi

Which would you prefer; marriage with a virgin or with a woman who has slept with other men?

harmony75:
So sorry for person wer born this mumu here smh �‍♂️

A virgin will thank God for my post. Those who have made terrible mistakes in giving themselves out for cheap earthly things will insult me.
Hmmmm. The truth hurts.

Brunicekid:
Bad advice. If you advise guys should do anything they want to girls, then why will you still say that they should marry a virgin? It's unclear.

To know if a girl is morally feet for marriage, check her virginity. She must have passed through different temptations and if she endured until you met her, then she's a woman who can keep a home.
Something must test them - men!
Besides, virginity doesn't mean Same thing for women as it does to me. Check my profile and find your answer.

Uchesis:
The way you carry this virgin matter for head, i dey suspect you oh. Make you no go rape one small girl wey never reach 14 yrs.

Any man that is waiting to marry a virgin go get white bear bear, because the percentage of virgins in Nigeria above 20yrs is less than 5%

This is why only few people are enjoying their marriages. A whole lot are just enduring the marriage.

Sand is cheap because it is everywhere. Diamond is expensive because it is only 5% (your stats) of the world who has it.

Find the rear girls and be free from marital problems. Do otherwise and keep enduring your marriage until you regret the union!

And talking about marrying 14 year old. I am not interested in children because they have not been tested yet. Everything good must be tested. A girl of 20 must have been tested. If she passed, then I will marry her.

Enumerator:
Everythinf you said make sense except for the virgin part, virgin or no virgin doesn't matter, infact not in this present age and time, you can hardly find virgin,
buttom line is pray to meet a good woman is all thar matters

Good things are hard to find. Find it and have a lasting home. Settle for easy things that's everywhere (easy to find) and regret getting married. Choose your destiny.

Edusouls:
Continue deceiving yourself Blackman, ask ur sister if she is still a virgin? You would marry overused pussies just as u guys Bleep and dump other girls, then when time comes u would start looking for a virgin, u think una pass God get sense..

No.
Everything good must be tested. Sleeping with girls before marrying them is a test for them. Whoever failed or has failed this test should not end up in a noble man's house.

Anuoluwa12345:
Lmao , if only you understand that beign a virgin is not a criteria to good and happy home! If only you understand that a devil reincarnate can also be a virgin! If only you understand that beign a virgin is synonymous to nothing just some peices of hymen covering the virginal way.

So how does a peice of hymen determines the quality of a good woman and also guarantees the happiness, sanity, and longevity of one's marriage?

Hope your mum was a virgin when your dad married her? And hope you sisters are? Or will be? Hope later in future when you marry, your daughter will be a virgin to her husband too? And if they are not, does that mean they are bad for marriage?

When you understand fully all I typed there, then you will understand.. happiness and goodness of things comes naturally.. it's not most times attached to things.

You are free to call me whatever you like, infact call me a LovePeddler, it's a faceless forum you don't even know me in person, talk more of knowing my sexual status. You must have been some small boy graced with internet availability. Grow up boy.

If a woman is so good then she won't sleep around.
If virginity means nothing, then God wouldn't have covered the vaginal way.
If virginity has nothing to do with a woman's character then a woman in marriage should sleep with men she's not married to.
If virginity is not important as you have said, then the hymen shouldn't have been there in the first place or it should be replaceable or it should even be unbreakable (maybe it should have been like a valve then).
My mom and sisters married as a virgin and my dad and in-laws are very proud till date.

Blessedmercy8:
I wonder at the people that go about engaging someone in a relationship when they know theyre not interested in that person. Isn't that madness?

I never see that person that will try it with me.

If I'm courting you and you blank me more than three hours a day, even if it's for genuine reason, I'll send you a painful and unbelievable text and end it. No time to waste.

If you're a virgin ( if you're intact) then you deserve this kinda attention. But if you have been used (damaged and contaminated with another man's sperm) , then you should be happy a man even collected your number and called once in a month.

youngstrow:
was your mother a virgin before getting married to your pap?

Yes and so were my sister before the all got married.
Their husbands still brag about it till date.

Lagosanambra:
Growing up, I tried to concentrate in school even while at the university, to avoid distractions.

I had just few girls around.

I have since the past 3 years--- after relative success in my field--- had few flings, wooed and slept with a few girls too from all tribes; had like 3 living with me for weeks at some point.

Now in early 30s I feel like I should seek something serious.
I find myself picking phone numbers from girls but then I come home, initiate a chat introducing myself but I have no zeal to take it further than that.

I just get tired of the whole thing.

Again, some of them seem uninterested.

You notice this lack of interest from the way they respond with monosyllables, respond after several hours or days or even abandoning the chats outright.


This is more pronounced if you come off too as gentle, without bragging, showing off etc.

I have no difficulty giving girls things occasionally but I hate to feel used or feel a woman is interested in only what she can gain in the short term- immediate gratification.


Going on dates would have been a good option as many girls would hardly reject free food, drinks etc but I don't have the time or energy hence deem it otiose, that's beyond the financial implications as many of the girls are coming to the dates to access you, not necessarily to know you.

And I hate showing off.


How do you guys navigate around this conundrum please especially if you are looking for something serious and not just sex?


See the thread I created.

https://www.nairaland.com/7297185/how-engage-these-girls-beyond

Find a virgin and walk through fire for her. Tear down any wall between you two and marry her.
No woman worth this effort except a virgin.

H0didon:
Seems you don't even know women . They can hide, pretend do anything as long as it makes them do what they wanna do without notice.
Once you find a Nigerian woman that is transparent, gives you peace of mind, respect and gives you her time, she supports and make you her priority and she come get fear of God. Nobody needs to tell you to keep her.

Sex, Cooking skills and other minor things can be easily learnt but you see those virtues i mentioned up, that's the key gee.


As our Ancestors would say "A virtues woman is transparent in nature".

Those things you mentioned only come to them when they're very old and when they're done wh0ring.

Find a young virgin woman who is ready to learn and teach her. Most times, virgins response to how you treat them. Hold her and never let her go.
If a wh0ring girl wants to go, don't stop her. But if a virgin woman wants to go , don't let her go.

Once she's not a virgin, then her heart will always be with the man who disvirgined her.
If you marry a who who has been fvcked by another man, you married yourself because the moment her ex shows up, she will fvck him again and one of your children may not be yours.

If you're dating a girl you didn't disvirgin, you're dating yourself because her heart is still with the man who disvirgined her even if she lied about it. Some girls still keep contact with the man who disvirgined them, others stalk their main ex on social media waiting for when he will hit a major fit to chat him up.

If a girl did not give you her best days (when she's a virgin), you shouldn't pay to keep her worst (when she has lost her virginity - glory to another man).
How will you pay huge money, do wedding celebration, take care of her siblings and relatives just to have what another man fvcked wit just eggs and indomie?
No be foolishness be that?

Finally, fvck any girl you want but for the peace of your home and the betterment of your children, Marry a virgin.

This is how non virgins should be treated. They're have given their best to another man, you don't keep their worst.

guobe:
No if you really like her you can marry her.You don't expect a girl that is not happy in a relationship to stay put

And with your bank of foolishness, you think it's your responsibility to make a girl happy ?

Islam will still take over the world since Christians have decided not to participate in politics.
Mok una sidon dey mumu for there. Waitin concern atheist like me.

We know you only strip to producers and directors behind the scene.

guobe:
There is a code guys should use in getting a girl he really likes even though she tells you she has a boyfriend already.When she tells you she has a boyfriend already ,just tell her the guy is doing his own or tell her that you want to take her from the boyfriend.90 percent of the time this code is successful especially if you come with your A game where the current boyfriend is still battling with a D.On her closet she will always say wow this new guy is the real deal .

Yes I agree. It works.
But, you see, the girl you got with this method should not be taken serious. Just fvck her and dump her when you're tired. Let another guy continue the race.
Never marry such a girl.
Person wey love you no go put you for competition.

Tinubu will win 2023 election.

InfinityFabric:
A wealthy man and a wealthy woman are NOT the same.
How many men are lining up to marry Linda Ikeji... exactly. While the `8 yo virgin girl will be getting 600 DMs per minutes.
Also a guy of the same wealth and age as Linda has more options with girls. Linda's only options is 2nd, 3rd or 6th wife or marry a brokey.

A virgin woman is more valuable in the Sexual Market Place than a man.
In fact women doesn't care about it on the men side. So, the market decides.

Your wisdom is limitless. Carry on my comrade.
Three bottles of COVID-22 for you.

Don sabi manage these children.

This one come finish the challenge pata pata.

Incoming.

Marriage is retirement program for women.
Do not let a wh0ring girl retire into your home; marry a virgin.

A woman who didn't give you her best years (18 - 23) should not give you her worst years (25 and above).

Only a fool marries a woman who another man has slept with before him.

Their motive is to scam you.

Scammer.
La click, la bend.

Play the song of that idiot wey sing say "las las na everybody go chop breakfast"

Datti means business.